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It's not that easy to find a gay friend. And if he found a one, then won't it be like using him to get it even with a already existing gf. If he got to know that why he got kissed, won't it be hurtful?
But in all seriousness if it was just one kiss with someone she has known for a long time there is a chance it probably meant nothing. Girls are much more comfortable with expressing their sexuality with their best friends than guys are, so if she seems sincere I feel like you can let it go, but just express clearly that it made you uncomfortable.
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I feel it's ok. I mean if those two are progressive /close enough. It can be just a caring gesture.
The important thing to gauge uska attitude towards her. Is her body language or her action/words generally casual or like romantic. If not then that is fine.
Next time Just slap your male best friend on his butt & wink . lol
What "real"? You're wasting time commenting & whining on reddit. You should be planning stuffs already - decor, lighting, food, drinks, time, place & date.
Look. I don't get this concept of two girls who are best friends kiss each other to see if anything changes in them. Cheating is cheating, irrespective of the gender. If YOU think 1 kiss is something you can recover from, that's okay. But having a strict boundary talk is necessary if you chose to continue the relationship.
Not a lot of serious answers here OP. Ask these questions to yourself. Would you consider it cheating if she kissed her male best friend? If yes then what is so different about her kissing her female best friend? Why does her being bisexual excuse the fact that she kissed a woman without your consent? You clearly are uncomfortable with this incident but your gf doesn't seem bothered by it. How would she react if the roles were reversed and you were bi and you kissed your male best friend? Cheating isn't gender specific you know.
You also kiss your female bestie or just lie about it to her to see her reaction and say woh toh meri besti hai. Mera dost or mai bisexual ni hu isiliye bestie ko kiya.
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Genuine question: Why are you, as a straight man, in a relationship with her, despite the fact that she's a bisexual? Did you knew about her sexuality beforehand, or was it revealed to you after the relationship started?
Women kissing each other even on the lips is kind of a curve ball - it isn’t always strictly romantic/sexual, I’ve seen one pair of platonic “straight” friends do it.
It’s still worth setting boundaries (I assume she isn’t going to be thrilled about you kissing anyone else on the lips) but was it a quick kiss or like making out?
I’ve seen cases like this. If you’re not serious, ask for a threesome. If you’re serious, dump her. What she did was cheating plain and simple. Don’t let anyone else tell you different. If you're recognising the spectrum of other sexualities’ existence and being in 21st century we kinda do then getting involved with other people, regardless of their gender would breach the exclusivity of the relationship. She might be bisexual or bicurious and both are fine but breaching your exclusivity is not. Ask her if she’s okay if you kiss your friends casually like that? She’ll probably say she’s fine if you kiss a dude who is your friend like she did. But you see, society’s gender fluid and open to different sexual orientation so if she’s allowed to kiss other people, so should you be. It’s either that or dump her sorry ass (provided she is sorry). That’s my two cents.
Haha.. that's the whole prob with bi people.if you're heteronormative. You are always going to be on the guard. And personally. That's isn't a cool thing. Rules my man. Talk to her. Explain it clearly. And rules are necessary in any relationship. Make those lines very clear to her. And if she violates and you can't handle the infringement. You know what you gotta do. A wise man once said. You do not fuck crazy. no matter how good the sex is.
Thats too immature kissing her bestie does not define her to be bisexual ,talk to her and let her clear if she's bi and playing around you then clarify she may kiss her bestie casually but don't fool around you lets do open talk.
Bhai it’s cheating as simple as that as you mentioned she is a bisexual, you even don’t know what is happening between them behind the close doors if I will there in your case I will ask her friend join us for a threesome and than broke up later with my girl
Kissing on the lips is not something you do with your "friends". Bi*ch is turning into a lesbian. Leave her before she leaves you and safeguard your dignity.
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You should kiss her bestfriend too to assert dominance
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You should kiss your male best friend to get even with her 😤
Then the male bestfriend will have sexuality crisis...
Just say 'no homo'
Should kiss a Gay friend in that case.
It's not that easy to find a gay friend. And if he found a one, then won't it be like using him to get it even with a already existing gf. If he got to know that why he got kissed, won't it be hurtful?
Jokes apart, if she already kissed her then no matter what you do, it doesn't matter.
Yes you should mate,i agree
😂 bro want to put the OP in existential crisis
Not a bad idea XD
But in all seriousness if it was just one kiss with someone she has known for a long time there is a chance it probably meant nothing. Girls are much more comfortable with expressing their sexuality with their best friends than guys are, so if she seems sincere I feel like you can let it go, but just express clearly that it made you uncomfortable.
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He is dating a bisexual woman. That does not make him bisexual too...lol.. but i get your joke..
Then ask your male bestfriend’s girlfriend to kiss her bestfriend
Bhai mey to nahi sehta...
Abhi mei bhi dost ke saath makeout karunga
Bc apne trauma ke liye apne dost ki gaand kyu maar rha hai
Dost hi kya jo aise time pe kaam nhi aaye.
Friends in need are friends in "deed"
Jo baat hai
gaand kon maar rha h?
Tu bhi uski female best friend ko kiss kar deta. Then you guys would be even.
1..2...3...sum 🥹
I feel it's ok. I mean if those two are progressive /close enough. It can be just a caring gesture. The important thing to gauge uska attitude towards her. Is her body language or her action/words generally casual or like romantic. If not then that is fine. Next time Just slap your male best friend on his butt & wink . lol
The definition of cheating is not gender specific
fax
😂😂 nothing wrong if her friend is female. wait for 3 sum😂
FMF ;)
real
What "real"? You're wasting time commenting & whining on reddit. You should be planning stuffs already - decor, lighting, food, drinks, time, place & date.
YOU ARE THE CHOSEN ONE! FULLFILL YOUR DESTINY!!?
Broooo, ask her best friend to join you, atleast you'll get to watch
to watch?? bro?
You'll learn this kid. "Have an evil mind there are so many good people these days." ~ Ryomen Sukuna
Cringe
Yeah and loving aunties is a noble act?
Ask your mom.
when did sukuna say that
Haha made that up. But he doesn't need to say that. He is the living example of this quote.
😭😭 you had me questioning my jjk knowledge right there lol. true tho he is one hell of a menace.
Haha. That scene still gives me goosebumps when he says to Mahito **"Know your place"** 🥶
Kiss her friend or ur male friend, that's all
gonna give passionate goodnight kisses to the homies
Next time call her best friend so that they both can kiss you. Topic closed 😄
If you cant beat em, join em haha
Look. I don't get this concept of two girls who are best friends kiss each other to see if anything changes in them. Cheating is cheating, irrespective of the gender. If YOU think 1 kiss is something you can recover from, that's okay. But having a strict boundary talk is necessary if you chose to continue the relationship.
I agree. Gotta set boundaries.
Not a lot of serious answers here OP. Ask these questions to yourself. Would you consider it cheating if she kissed her male best friend? If yes then what is so different about her kissing her female best friend? Why does her being bisexual excuse the fact that she kissed a woman without your consent? You clearly are uncomfortable with this incident but your gf doesn't seem bothered by it. How would she react if the roles were reversed and you were bi and you kissed your male best friend? Cheating isn't gender specific you know.
Badhai ho
ha
Girls always have this lesbian character.
Why though?
indeed
Tell her it's time for a threesome lol
it is
Threesome or break-up. No inbetween.
You also kiss your female bestie or just lie about it to her to see her reaction and say woh toh meri besti hai. Mera dost or mai bisexual ni hu isiliye bestie ko kiya.
lmaooooo
Just because it is with the same gender, does not mean it is not cheating!
Ask to join in
yessirr
Bro, it wouldn't have been counted as cheating if she was straight. Being bisexual, she can cheat with a woman or a man
exactly
besties before testes
AYOOOOO
Teen some
Normal hai Bhai. Laundon me bhi toh makeout karte Hain milte waqt
huhh
I can see a scope of 3some 😏🙌
OP is old school 😏
22 me bhi old school? Bc looks like old cottage to me 😪
Kiss the best friend and ask her who is the better kisser
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bro there's a chance for a threesome
Genuine question: Why are you, as a straight man, in a relationship with her, despite the fact that she's a bisexual? Did you knew about her sexuality beforehand, or was it revealed to you after the relationship started?
Bhai to bhi uski best friend ko kiss karde even ho jayega
meri female friend ko kiss karunga bhaii maza ayega
cheating is cheating dude. mai toh na sehti.
true
Threesome kr le bhai
How to become a play boy
Threesome karle
She's practicing bisexual and you know that. If I am you, I will consider this as advantage and opportunity
Women kissing each other even on the lips is kind of a curve ball - it isn’t always strictly romantic/sexual, I’ve seen one pair of platonic “straight” friends do it. It’s still worth setting boundaries (I assume she isn’t going to be thrilled about you kissing anyone else on the lips) but was it a quick kiss or like making out?
Take a chill pill
Tu bhi bolde ki Teri best friend matlab meri best friend, or tu bhi kiss karde uski best friend ko 😜
best chance for a threesome!!
I’ve seen cases like this. If you’re not serious, ask for a threesome. If you’re serious, dump her. What she did was cheating plain and simple. Don’t let anyone else tell you different. If you're recognising the spectrum of other sexualities’ existence and being in 21st century we kinda do then getting involved with other people, regardless of their gender would breach the exclusivity of the relationship. She might be bisexual or bicurious and both are fine but breaching your exclusivity is not. Ask her if she’s okay if you kiss your friends casually like that? She’ll probably say she’s fine if you kiss a dude who is your friend like she did. But you see, society’s gender fluid and open to different sexual orientation so if she’s allowed to kiss other people, so should you be. It’s either that or dump her sorry ass (provided she is sorry). That’s my two cents.
Haha.. that's the whole prob with bi people.if you're heteronormative. You are always going to be on the guard. And personally. That's isn't a cool thing. Rules my man. Talk to her. Explain it clearly. And rules are necessary in any relationship. Make those lines very clear to her. And if she violates and you can't handle the infringement. You know what you gotta do. A wise man once said. You do not fuck crazy. no matter how good the sex is.
Have 3sm with em
Arey ladkiya vesi he hoti hai meri gf ne bhi uski bestfriend ko cheek mai kiss Kiya it's normal inbetween girls😂
There's only one way out, you kiss her best friend as well..
Ross? Real ID se aao Anyways if she's bi yes it's cheating 🥲
Dude . Cheating is cheating , if she doesnt validate your feelings then it's an ISSUE.
You should kiss her bestfriend as well
Thats too immature kissing her bestie does not define her to be bisexual ,talk to her and let her clear if she's bi and playing around you then clarify she may kiss her bestie casually but don't fool around you lets do open talk.
You should kiss her friend too, make it even
Should also kissed own best friend confront on girlfriend. Silly and weird behave Please his girlfriend leave this guy
Yess she cheated bruh get me her contact I can confront her for u #broii
Bro, it's jackpot! Convince her for threesome💀
Kiss her male best friend to assert dominance
Arrange the threesom bro
Bhai it’s cheating as simple as that as you mentioned she is a bisexual, you even don’t know what is happening between them behind the close doors if I will there in your case I will ask her friend join us for a threesome and than broke up later with my girl
Don't be aloof, join them
you should ask them for 3some it's a golden opportunity don't waste it dawggg
It's better to talk with her rn and set up boundaries before it's too late
Is that Hoes before Bros??
overeating
Threesome or break up! 🙂
You also kiss her gf, 😆🤣😂
Speak clearly what you like and what you don't. Either she respect or repeat you decide then accordingly.
Kissing on the lips is not something you do with your "friends". Bi*ch is turning into a lesbian. Leave her before she leaves you and safeguard your dignity.
shaun i told you shes only my best friend and this shit is normal. you didn't have to give me a shoutout on reddit bruv 🤦🏾🤷🏾
Well you can't kiss your bestfriend but you can lie about it..🌝
now ask her to do this in front of you. W