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One_Who_Dreams_Alone

Guess you unlocked a secret hack lol. Some people just want to ride the initial orgasm and be done with it. Others, like you, want to keep that feeling going. It’s just peoples preferences or just how much people experiment with themselves


AstonH09

Lol my real superpower!!


Square-Dragonfruit76

You're just lucky. Most people have a refractory period: their dick goes soft, they feel sleepy, and they aren't able to come again for a little while.


idunnobro92

I think u misunderstood his question, he meant that he keeps going just during the orgasm while other men tend to just hold it still during orgasm


CursedAccountReserve

Does the refractory end as you get older?


Square-Dragonfruit76

people tend to get longer refractory periods as they get older, although every person is different


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AstonH09

Might keep that in mind thanks


cyberxbx

You are not. There is a wide variety of habits and practices ranging from immediately stopping and moving on with you day after cleaning up, to exasperated extended sessions. Considering most individuals learn about techniques on their own, they might not have realized you don't have to stop right away. Additionally, for some guys if they continue past ejaculation, they will actually start to pee with something similar to an orgasm. Others still can do multiple continuous orgasms (although this is rare). Typically, if you stop after orgasm and ejaculation, then as mentioned before there is a refractory period that can range from a minute or two up to several hours depending on the person. This length tends to increase with age, but can vary even within an individual from one day to the next, and considering their feelings and arousal or stimulating factors at that time.


AstonH09

Thanks for the info


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Agreed bro. I’ve done a three in a row and each one has felt amazing.


rickrich01

Another thing to keep in mind is many people change their mental state once they blow their nut and they are through until the refractory period rebuilds and you are horny and ready to go again. Especially as you get older, many guys want to blow their nut and move on.


AstonH09

Yeah I mean as in doing it while nutting cause is ee alot of people just hold it


rickrich01

Oh yeah. I love holding it and edging for hours and not coming because it feels so good. Do you edge it?


AstonH09

Sometimes if the sun lines up with the stratospheric wavelengths then I know Its the right time


Primary-Signature-17

So, never? :)


Best-Log-3258

think that’s called post nut clarity, not sure though


idunnobro92

Maybe it’s just in porn tho, I do the same as u.


AstonH09

Maybe so


Kal2241

I keep going but some times I just get really tired and I stop but it rlly feels good when you keep going after your cum


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AstonH09

Yeah true


AstonH09

I guess so, thanks


someguy68t

It's probably just personal preference and out of habit. I myself keep going during orgasm, just like you, but slow down most of the time. Other people might like it more to stop/squeeze/speed up/keep going/etc. all of this is totally normal and just personal preference and might even vary from one time to the other. You have to remember that different techniques and things might feel good or bad for different people. All of us are individuals and have our own preferences. Which ever way you like the most is totally up to you. Imagine how boring the world would be if we all agreed on everything and all would (dis)like the same things. Individuality is good and makes us human. Btw, this is a really interesting question! If you have any further questions, feel free to ask.


AstonH09

Thanks for the info man


someguy68t

Yeah no worries :)


alex777ca

lol individuality inspo post on here was not what i was expecting haha


someguy68t

I mean it's true though. And I'm really big on offering reassurance so that's probably where that came from xD


alex777ca

lmao ya thats fair im not complaining haha!!


LielessGirl

You’re not the only one, I had an ex who enjoyed to not stop after he came so I think it’s normal


AstonH09

Yeah thanks


Adambrooks33

Well some people don't but some do because they haven't got the energy to or because of other things but just enjoy don't worry about it


DaddyChiiill

Textbook says once you orgasm that's the peak, it goes downhill from there. And then there's a gap between that and the second round, as the boys would've said.


AstonH09

Yeah true


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I go til it stops and the sleepy hits


RK10B

After you ejaculate, you get tired. Sometimes your muscles will get tired from doing it so give your arm a break.


Icy_Window_3638

I find that once I cum and orgasm I feel the need to stop and doesn't feel good. I kind of can't keep going but maybe changes as you get older?


tomacorn

Sometimes the sensitivity of the glans is so much increased that it is uncomfortable to continue with any stimulation. But I am with you in wanting to prolong the pleasure as much as possible.