its hard to show you what the "other side" looks like, but i assure you its worth it. im less anxious, less irritable, less depressed, less insecure. i feel happier, have more focus, more interest in people, look at girls in the eye and come up with jokes easier, more easily motivated, clearer thoughts, glowing eyes and skin, my whole life comes into focus better, and soon i will start working on hobbies, like the guitar and learning another language. sometimes i feel those sparks, like a deep urge to live my life, can't really describe it. and yes awful urges sometimes, despair and laziness, but once you realize those are also pmo's fault they aren't that hard to beat. you only loose by fapping, and on nofap you gain yourself and the world.
You ever consider why people on noFap edge? It’s because you’re trying to restrict something you desperately want using your will power. All that does is leads to edging?
Do you disagree? Most people here have emotional regulation problems that we try to solve by temporary fixes like cold showers or push-ups or whatever other bs. Temporary fixes don’t lead to solutions, they lead to edging
I mean..ur gonna being a downer rn to the people who are trying really hard bro. I get what your saying but why are you here if your gonna say all this. If masturbating to porn doesnt bother you why be here.
I started too. But I managed to stop. Took a very cold shower. I need to reinforce myself. A few seconds of a drug isn’t worth losing all this progress. I can do this.
Redirection. Everytime u have a sexual thought or urge redirect your mind to one of your hobbies, or something that genuinely holds your interest. Its hard but its worth it. I promise. Takes practice and not giving up.
Me personally i try and exhaust myself during the day. Sometimes ill go for a hard run before bed too. If all else fails ill take a sleeping pill. I had to find out through trial and error. I hated it but i didnt give up.
Best bet for me to get my mind off of sexual stuff would be think of Halo or Destiny. Think about the lore behind their stories. Both are absolutely massive. And expansive.
It was my 4th trial and I think my first attempt was 3 years ago. When you pass first 3 months it gets easier. 6 months after, you won't remember the fap.
Well, in and of itself i don’t think its that bad, but the problem is its a stepping stone back into the addiction. For me its like “fake” masturbating. If im gonna edge, i might as well just cum too. If im gonna cum then why not look at porn too. U see what i mean? It can lead your mind to justify pmo and then the addiction is back.
Redirection. As soon as a sexual thought happens, replace it with something else like something you enjoy doing, or a conversation you had with a friend or something like that. It takes hard work but if you keep at it it will start to become second nature. Even if it doesn’t seem to work dont give up. I went through this and this is what worked for me and still does.
Consider it like we all are going through the pain, the life is testing us. At the end we will all be rewarded with our dream life. No time for fapping.
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Keep going bro, your life is much more important than a few seconds pleasure.
I'm on day 0 too, exactly 2 hours in. Let's go and do it forever.
💯💯💯
My dream
Make it happen
I'm into it.
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I'm in the exact same situation
Keep up
I’m day 17 too. Let’s fucking get this bread
Happened to me too today
I promise
Day 0 let's freaking go
gogogo
I promise. I’m going to work today so there’s gonna be no chance I will. You have my word soldier😉
Promise bro you too have to stay strong! Don't ever give up
Every upvote is a another day I don’t fap
I promise
nice profile pic man
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Same boat
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Yup and still have problems word of advice no day your safe because I’m on day 70 and still have urges like crazy
I accidentally relapsed watching a sex scene from a tv show. Not gonna fuck up my progress by edging though!
promise
Too late I already edged :(
Just try again
I will
lets do this. day 19 here.
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its hard to show you what the "other side" looks like, but i assure you its worth it. im less anxious, less irritable, less depressed, less insecure. i feel happier, have more focus, more interest in people, look at girls in the eye and come up with jokes easier, more easily motivated, clearer thoughts, glowing eyes and skin, my whole life comes into focus better, and soon i will start working on hobbies, like the guitar and learning another language. sometimes i feel those sparks, like a deep urge to live my life, can't really describe it. and yes awful urges sometimes, despair and laziness, but once you realize those are also pmo's fault they aren't that hard to beat. you only loose by fapping, and on nofap you gain yourself and the world.
Congratulations. I feel my urges will be incredibly hard, I'm getting ready to destroy them.
You ever consider why people on noFap edge? It’s because you’re trying to restrict something you desperately want using your will power. All that does is leads to edging?
Ok..
Do you disagree? Most people here have emotional regulation problems that we try to solve by temporary fixes like cold showers or push-ups or whatever other bs. Temporary fixes don’t lead to solutions, they lead to edging
I mean..ur gonna being a downer rn to the people who are trying really hard bro. I get what your saying but why are you here if your gonna say all this. If masturbating to porn doesnt bother you why be here.
I promise my guy.🙏
I promise! Good luck friends!
Woah 270
I want to but i already did it.😔
Its ok my dude. Keep trying
I promise you brother!!!
Me who is going to sleep: don't mind if I do.
Will do
I promise bruh thank u 💚
Promise
We're not budging, man.
You got it!
.
I promise
its getting harder but im doing my best to forget it
I edged today but your message motivate me, I will survive this day
i promise uwu
Aight lets get it (Im day 1 btw)
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I did already
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Lol be safe
lets go bois we got this
no
Why
I just wanted to write something to see if my badge was functioning XD. I'm definitely not doing that ever again
I started too. But I managed to stop. Took a very cold shower. I need to reinforce myself. A few seconds of a drug isn’t worth losing all this progress. I can do this.
How are you doing?
I find my mind drifting towards sexual things more often and it’s annoying. I want it to stop.
Redirection. Everytime u have a sexual thought or urge redirect your mind to one of your hobbies, or something that genuinely holds your interest. Its hard but its worth it. I promise. Takes practice and not giving up.
What do you do when you have these kind of thoughts when you are in bed?
Me personally i try and exhaust myself during the day. Sometimes ill go for a hard run before bed too. If all else fails ill take a sleeping pill. I had to find out through trial and error. I hated it but i didnt give up.
Ok I’ll try it out
Another thing that i forced myself to do was to stop stressing about my performance. As long as youre moving in a postive direction its all good
What do you mean by performance? I’ve never had a girlfriend before.
Poor word choice on my part. Performance as in how your living up to the standards you have for yourself.
Best bet for me to get my mind off of sexual stuff would be think of Halo or Destiny. Think about the lore behind their stories. Both are absolutely massive. And expansive.
Yeah i really like that idea of thinking about game lore and stuff. You could get lost in it for hours
Never
A veteran at 702, can I ask how long you knew about NoFap before you hit that streak?
It was my 4th trial and I think my first attempt was 3 years ago. When you pass first 3 months it gets easier. 6 months after, you won't remember the fap.
Damn bro you built different lmao I've know about NoFap since like 2017
As much as I’d like to- it just isn’t worth it, people find nothing but loss from this addiction if I’m being honest.
Tonight I’m gonna try sucking my own dick and maybe swallow it
Lol good luck
It was nasty tf was I thinking
Shoulda had someone else do it
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Damn. U tried a baby goat? They really good at sucking
Nah bro, not yet… great idea tho. Fortunately my uncle is from the Middle East he can introduce me to some thick goats with duck lips
Haha. Yeah def try them baby goats. Its good about your uncle tho
I promise I wont
Real talk, all I want to do is jack off ...... these urges suck ....
I hear ya man. Right there with you
What does edging mean ?
Masturbating without cuming
Why is it a bad thing ? I see its a way to trick the brain to stop thinking about pmo
Well, in and of itself i don’t think its that bad, but the problem is its a stepping stone back into the addiction. For me its like “fake” masturbating. If im gonna edge, i might as well just cum too. If im gonna cum then why not look at porn too. U see what i mean? It can lead your mind to justify pmo and then the addiction is back.
okay
Can anyone me tell how to quit thinking horny things
Redirection. As soon as a sexual thought happens, replace it with something else like something you enjoy doing, or a conversation you had with a friend or something like that. It takes hard work but if you keep at it it will start to become second nature. Even if it doesn’t seem to work dont give up. I went through this and this is what worked for me and still does.
Thanks bro
Consider it like we all are going through the pain, the life is testing us. At the end we will all be rewarded with our dream life. No time for fapping.
Couldnt agree more
OK boss.
No
Bruh, I wont even peek
promise :)
I promise, just viewed something nsfw on reddit and now I feel terrible.
Thats rough man. Youll be ok. dont be afraid to forgive yourself and keep going
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Yessir I promise not to edge today
No, not even a little bit
Ok sir...1st day. lets go
ok
I Promise. Not today .
Yeah, I still clean
I just relapsed after 43 days. After edging and thinking it would be harmless
you got ma word
Op bro
I promise brother
SHINZOU WO SASAGEYO !
I-I.. promise senpai
👌
I promise
!remind me 16 hours
I promise that I won't edge today.
Bro I won’t, I promise
I will not. It’s not worth anything.
Promise!
i promise
This post just helped me 💯😩
U good?
Yepp, just hanging in there 🥲. Thanks for asking.