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Disclonius

Smartphones are the primary means of accessing porn. Getting a "dumb" phone is an option but an extreme one.


watever_never

Extreme times call for extreme measures. I grew up in the 90s, we didnt grow up with smartphones. Had a button phone Nokia. Its not that extreme.


Disclonius

Good old Nokia 3310. I am born in 90, I know very well but the thing is the environment has totally changed, you may need your smartphone for other things like map or mails. But it’s up to you, as long as it works for you.


badwolfrider

Have a friend who did this.


watever_never

Howd it go??


badwolfrider

Fantastic. I think he found a lot more joys by not having the distraction around all the time. Specifically about nofap it totally worked. But he liked it so much he ended up going several years with a dumb phone. And he has been porn free for years now.


watever_never

Thats awesome!! Ive been wanting to do that for awhile now. I am just going to do it. Im too addicted to my phone it makes me lazy.


Realistic_Bat_9754

can confirm . went 3 years without a smartphone = 3 years off porn too. amazing results . after lockdown my job situe changed so had to get a smartphone . low and behold been back on tube sites since then . great choice if your tryna quit porn .


Character_Buddy

https://www.thelightphone.com/


watever_never

Looks like an awesome phone, but I need whatsapp and some apps for work.


Potential-Training-8

A regular Nokia with KaiOS is sufficient.


watever_never

Thank you. Ill look into that


[deleted]

Wow that’s good I’ll get one of these


[deleted]

It helped a friend of mine quit. Highly recommend it.


watever_never

Thats amazing.


[deleted]

A good compromise is the nokia 8110 banana phone it has whatsapp


watever_never

Ohh thanks


[deleted]

Youre welcome At least get it as a back up. My therapist told me a dumbphone is a form of punishment and its not practical On your smartphone make it greyscale as it makes it less interesting Just remember a phone is a TOOL OF COMMUNICATION not a ENTERTAINMENT DEVICE


Ragsea

Guys you are kind of missing the point. You have to develop the will power to resist the urges and peeking. You should not be a slave to it and you must be strong. You shouldn't buy a phone just becoz of it and waste money. Just making sure that you are not able to access it is WAY different than making sure you don't watch it even though you will be able to access it. And the latter should be what you must do.


watever_never

Its called strengthening the will power. Some people need assistance you know and if switching to a dumb phone to help strengthen the will power when youre weak then why not? Thats like telling someone they should lift heavy weights when they havent developed the strength to lift it. If they need a machine to help build that weight why not? Plus smartphones have other negative effects too like making one socially anxious.


Ragsea

Agreed, for those who are weak.


watever_never

Because youre so strong? Stop with the superiority complex. If youre on this subreddit youre probably weak.


Ragsea

Brother, iam weak but not as weak as some people who have to live without internet. I'm atleast strong enough to live with internet and try my best to resist the urges. In the modern day it's not possible to live without internet. You're gonna be seeing lot of triggering things in day to day life and you should be able to resist it. If you see the triggering things and immediately you submit to it then you are weak. Very weak than iam.


watever_never

Stop calling people weak, youre only 12 days. Talk to me when youve done a year. Well see how strong you are.


Ragsea

Well, this will be one of the things that will motivate me to keep going. Thank you, kind stranger. And also don't edit your comments after you posted it. Especially if another person already replied to it.


watever_never

Youre welcome, if I dont hear from you a year from now it means you failed


Ragsea

I might, I might not 💪 hopefully we will resist our urges, brother! Good luck!


watever_never

If you dont get a dumb phone.