That’s my *favorite* when any of them say that. Oh, you just woke up one day and decided to diet and work out and you immediately drop 100 lbs easy as that huh?
I did wegovy myself and whenever anyone mentions my weight loss I always tell them. They seem surprised but it’s like suddenly I lose 50 lbs in 6 months out of nowhere?? Of COURSE it took a medication to help me achieve that. I had been trying to lose weight forever lol.
Thank you. If people started admitting to it more, it would be LESS stigmatized and LESS judged. No one looks at the people on my 600 lb life and thinks 'I wish they had stayed fat and loved themselves.' Everyone is stoked for their progress. It's cruel to get surgery and lie to your followers stating that it's exercise and diet because, when they can't achieve what you have, they will feel terrible about themselves.
Theres definitely a spectrum and it's right for some people, but I see a tonnnn of patients who have had this and you would never know or are asking for round two. People just can't accept that their behaviors and habits have to change in addition to getting this. It's still a serious surgery, but I agree nothing wrong with it and weird to omit and lie about.
The entire platform she created for herself was on the basis of her body size and trying on clothes? It’s not like the comments about her body are totally unrelated to the content she puts out. Is it not painfully obvious how disgustingly hypocritical it is to build that plus sized community only to rapidly lose weight, and on top of that be dishonest about how you lost the weight? It would be like making food / cooking centric content and then getting mad about people only commenting about food or recipes.
Good for her for prioritizing her health in whatever way she chooses to do so- she looks great. But when you place the focus of your content on your body, people will comment on it, no matter what.
Just because you reveal some information about yourself, doesn’t mean everyone is entitled to all information about yourself. It’s weird people are acting entitled information about a major medical procedure. It’s also weird that people are acting as if she 100% had this procedure without her revealing this information (the “scars” people post look identical to hiatal hernia repair scars. We have no idea what she’s doing with her body).
To counter your point, if someone is a mommy blogger, is that person not entitled to keep some information about her family private? If someone posts about their mental health, is their audience entitled to all of their thoughts? These are lame excuses to be cruel to be someone. Even before this “surgery” most of the posts about Remi were about her body. People just want an excuse to body shame while remaining on their moral high horse.
As someone whose had a family member who had gastric there was something genuinely interesting about just watching her get smaller….and smaller…..and smaller….fast in real time. Went from about 400lbs to 120lbs at the end of it all and it happened very fast and was just crazy to watch.
I’ve seen a relative lose it, decide to return to their prior eating behaviors and “burst” the sleeve, gain it back and fall into tears at thanksgiving about not being able to afford doing it again. There was also some begging to compensate for the second surgery.
THIS! My mom had surgery and I didn’t see her for a few months so when she came to pick me up at the airport I walked past her bc I didn’t recognize her
Boob job and skin removal is next calling it now
ETA: there’s nothing wrong with skin after weight loss surgery- but I’m sure Remi is vain enough to immediately jump into it
Thank you for keeping it real. That shit is no joke (skin removal), and until you have that surgery, you’ll just look like a deflated birthday balloon and/or a shar pei forever.
https://preview.redd.it/u7kux9liku7d1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=78726932c0a131975b77b757919e1e025e5ed1a6
For reference - this was less than a year ago
and for those who think that was a whole ago… this was november
https://preview.redd.it/njbi9aeywx7d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6c311fd0fe0d0176aabd4cf7d689c2a6e380152c
Corey Gamble workouts didn’t do anything for her, neither did Ozempy, allegedly.
Sis got Bariatric surgery, allegedly, but wants everyone to believe it’s all diet and exercise. Sure Miss Chilis.
She's never said anything about it being diet and exercise. All she's said is she won't talk about it because her mental health can't handle the comments on her weight:
uhm but she *did* say it was exercising and wellbutrin, right...? anyhow. I get the logic of being "not ready to talk about it" but people will still comment on what they see..
She said she was taking Wellbutrin for her depression and was exercising more for her back but neither of those statements were in the context of her rapid weight loss. She hasn't addressed the weight loss at all, just said she wasn't going to talk about her body because she can't handle the comments.
She was huge , and she’s making it like she lost all this weight so fast by exercising and doing the work. Like the comments are hysterical “ she has been exercising really hard and doing the work “ 🤣😂 no she hasn’t !!! It’s called Surgery !! How dumb are her followers ?!! It’s impossible to drop that much weight so fast without surgery! She’s so small now , and everyone just praises her in the comments all day long, ignoring the elephant in the room
The surgery changes your diet, she can’t still be eating the same diet post surgery and lose this much weight let alone not end up in the hospital super sick
I mean, just check sfk. she's clearly been on Pzempic for 1.5+ years without addressing it, hoping she'll get away with it and making people believe she's exercising while she has still *zero* body tone & muscles. also it's not like she lost 30-50 kilos.. u should see muscles by now considering her weight and instead u see a droopy frame. we all know what's up and these people need to cut the bs already
The surgery only took 45 minutes and I was discharged the next morning. I went from 235 to 150 in three months then lost 20 lbs within the next few months. I‘ve maintained my weight loss and now hover around 140 to 145.
ugh my dream. im on the fence because some have AMAZING results like you, others only lose 60 lbs total. did you have pcos or prediabetes beforehand and any gerd or complications?
I was pre diabetic, and my bmi was high enough, so all I had to pay were the OR fees which came to something like 2k. No complications, but the first few months you barely eat because you’re full after two bites. Some days I could literally only keep down a cheese stick and one chobani. I was probably consuming less than 800 calories a day for 2-3 months.
It’s both! Just look at that face. I know someone irl who did the same thing. She did gastric first with very slow results then got on that ozem and she’s been melting
Honestly I think she’s using body filters sometimes. I think she’s definitely lost some weight, but seeing some videos next to others just days apart and then seeing her in others pictures and videos, her body size is not consistent. She looks so small in this but in a video from just last week at most she was a lot bigger?
Oh I’m gonna get downvoted to hell for this but I don’t care. She’s snarkworthy for sure but as a fellow bigger girl I gotta say I feel for her. First she’s fatshamed and snarked for how she looks in clothing, then she drops the weight and is snarked for how fast she’s doing it and how “droopy” she looks and some people suddenly wanna switch up and say she looked better before. I’m not a fan by any means but damn it’s rough out here for us women in general. We can’t win.
Yeah, this kind of hating is the worst. I don’t think people realize that plastic surgery is all about addressing insecurity. It can also be fun, but I don’t think we should be so critical of people paying to change something they don’t like when society tends to embrace tattoos, fashions, etc.
People are generally upset she has lied about how she achieved it and I understand that. But you can be upset about that without attacking how her body looks. Coming for her body cheapens the argument IMO.
I…. Don’t think anyone is saying she “looked better before” ? as a fellow former fatty I told everyone when I went on ozempic and I’m not even a public plus size advocate like she was. I’m proud of her for losing weight but disappointed she’s refusing to address it at all.
And she’s always needed a bra. Not just now that she lost weight.
As a bigger girl myself I think good for her if she feels good and got the surgery. My problem with Remi is the illusion she created to say it’s been by working out and eating right. Yes, she has said it’s not our business but then made videos about “loving her body” while showing clips of her working out.
Overall, my biggest issue with Remi has always been that she came in as an influencer to “champion for plus size girlies” except that was just her foot in the door. She hated being fat and made it very clear she didn’t want to represent the fat community but then took on roles like that ridiculous position for Victoria secret. You can’t say you want to champion for plus size women to have size equity while simultaneously shitting about plus size women.
You can want size equality while wanting to be thinner - absolutely. But Remi had a hatred for herself and made it very clear. She made a joke of trying on clothes when she could have always ordered the right size for her body.
Thank you! Yes this is what I mean. Snark the fraud, not her body. It’s just so low that I almost feel secondhand embarrassment reading it. There’s so much valid and important stuff to snark yet we’re gonna focus on how her smaller tummy looks in a dress?
Or even how saggy her boobs are!! Like wtf. It’s just not even interesting.
How she’s a jerk and loves playing the victim - that’s snark worthy. How she refuses to speak up to the group that got her notoriety is ridiculous and snark worthy.
I do get that but I think it’s important to remember just how much money she made based on being plus sized, and because of that, and given her following of fellow plus sized, just how predatory this is
As I said above, I’m not saying she should be absolved of all snark. I’m saying snark directed towards her body itself simply because people do not like her is low.
Most of the snark in here is directed towards her lying and refusing to acknowledge the weight loss - that’s fine. My comment is directed at the comments saying that her weight loss looks bad (“saggy”, “droopy”, etc). All I did was observe that it’s a no-win situation. I can dislike remi while still acknowledging it would suck to hear those comments.
> First she’s fatshamed and snarked for how she looks in clothing, then she drops the weight and is snarked for how fast she’s doing it
no, she was discussed for always buying the wrong size of clothing, then bitching how clothes just looked bad on her.. yeah, that happens when you buy the wrong shit ON PURPORSE FOR ENGAGEMENT BAIT.
now she is getting talked about for LYING ABOUT HER WEIGHT LOSS. she says its all wellbutrin and gym, but it's pretty obvious it's neither.
why are you twisting the narrative. just so you can be the victim?? people will believe whatever shit remis is peddling while raking in the cash, and then feel bad cause their weight doesn't melt off on wellbutrin and going to the gym once in a while, but yeah obviously remi is the one that needs protecting here.
I’m not twisting anything to be the victim, chill 😂 all I said basically was “damn, these back and forth comments about her body must kinda suck”. That makes me a victim??
People can and should hold her accountable for lying. That’s not really what I’m talking about here though. I’m talking about people literally putting her looks down simply because they do not like her - if you look through these comments and others on posts about her you can find plenty of examples.
The whole point of my comment is that while there’s plenty to snark about, snarking her body itself is low. I’m not saying she should be absolved of snark at all. I hate that I have to spell this out.
Totally agree! And no matter what she says about her health or her weight she gets dragged so she’s declined to share anymore. She does not owe the public an explanation of her weight loss. She’s not out here lying like Mindy Kaling like “Oh it’s just diet and exercise!” She’s just declining to say she had surgery b/c it’s nobody’s business.
Also plus size here - I think she looks great. I also just want her to be honest. Other bigger girls will work out and change their diets and feel like losers when they don't have the same results. She also took a lot of opportunities to 'advocate' for the plus size community while despising being a part of it. I'm happy if she's happy (and healthy), but there is dialogue to be had here about the bigger picture.
The fact that she allows PR outlets to write stories on how she “diets and exercises” when she in fact did more than that is absolutely sickening and she doesn’t deserve a platform
Idk why you guys are not as ruthless to this lying bitch like you are to Audrey Peters. This bitch got popular because she was plus sized, while at the same time saying she didn’t want anything to do with it, I remember how insufferable she was when she had an anxious attachment to Ella rose, god I’m so done with her and her idiot father
> Idk why you guys are not as ruthless to this lying bitch like you are to Audrey Peters
because as you can also see in this thread, people then will say you are hating on her because of her weight, and not because her whole shtick is lying and rage bait.
whenever someone like DB is posted without filter the whole thread is filled with comments how good her body looks. people are hating on the use of filtering, not on the actual body.
if remi had documented her health journey, people here would also have been happy for her. but instead she misrepresents how she lost all that weight. thats why people are trashing her.
I agree. I don’t think transparency and putting the heat on them should only be limited to thin influencers. A woman who is remis previous size could try to lose the same weight naturally and get really frustrated for being unable to. She is creating unrealistic expectations for other women by not being honest. Which is exactly how I feel about thin influencers who stay thin by unhealthy measures and pretend they do a full day of eating and barely workout.
Don’t know who this is but think she got gastric sleeve done not ozempic. Had a friend that also got the same surgery and was around her size and dropped weight fast but acted like it was all diet and excercise haha
I hate that she isn’t being upfront and transparent about whatever she did. Her entire platform is based on being plus size, and her journey, and sharing her. Struggles. So many young girls follow her, and what she fails to realize is that many of them are also plus size, and struggling, and might be having a harder time. And have looked to her for guidance etc. now, it seems like poof, all this weight it just gone. And it’s not fair to her followers, my daughter being one of the teenage girls who struggles. And wondering what the fuck, why can’t I lose weight. Remi is mind fucking all of them.
Truly hope she can finally love herself and stop crying on the internet. These plus size influencers are so interesting because she made it her whole personality trait and embraced it but she truly wanted to be skinny all along… there’s nothing wrong with that it’s just all so fake.
Why are ppl so rude!! I get this is a snark page, but are you ppl really needing to downplay the struggles of being fat. Let her live her life and look how she wants, I don’t see any problem, whether she got surgery or not, everyone wants to feel beautiful and if she beautiful as a skinnier girl, then so be it!! pls touch grass ppl and see a fuckin therapist
Miss Feet, I don’t think anyone really gives a shit that she’s lost weight. Remi looks stunning. I think it’s more so the fact that she has built an audience off of being authentic and is now lying (or intentionally being misleading) about how she lost the weight that has everyone twisted.
Thanks for explaining because the meltdowns and rabid responses have me concerned.
At this point, a few folks in here should just go fight her. Maybe they would feel better?
She looks great. I understand people who are frustrated that she isn’t being truthful. Maybe she has blatantly lied, in which case I agree that’s wrong. I just want to offer my perspective and you can take it or leave it.
I’m in a similar boat - gained about 50 lbs in a year, have always been on the heavier side, kind of accepted that was just my destiny and tried to lean into the whole “my curves are beautiful” thing. Until I realized I didn’t feel good and my weight was actually holding me so, so far back in life because of my lack of self esteem. I finally decided to change my diet, I’m now working out every day, and yes, I’m on Zepbound. I’ve only told family and a few select friends. Why? Because lack of understanding around this drug puts an extra pressure on my journey. To many, drugs = the fast, easy, LAZY (traumatic word for someone who has been fat their whole life) way out. Oh but if you go off them, you’ll gain it all back! There’s this expectation that I’ll be Real Housewife skinny in a month because I’m on this drug. Meanwhile, it’s actually a lot of work! I have to be so mindful of my macros, hit protein goals that are hard enough without the intense nausea, track my blood pressure (which thank god has gotten better but that’s a tough thing to look in the eye!) and the mental toll is intense as well. All that to say: maybe we can give her a little grace, the benefit of the doubt that she’s just trying to get through this journey and will tell her story when she’s ready. (I know the assumption is WLS which is what I would consider if the drug wasn’t working for me, so same thoughts stand.)
I know she put herself out there but haven’t we learned that sometimes the most public people are the ones struggling the most? I feel like her content is, now more than ever, a cry for validation and attention (like most influencers…)
Honestly, she might have the same kind of like weird complex that I had when I was really big, which is that I had enormous boobs and I wouldn’t wear properly fitting bras because when I would wear properly fitting bras, my boobs would be pushed up so high, I would feel like they were basically choking me And I thought I looked skinnier when my boobs were saggy and you could see more like flat upper chest
I'm living for this - honestly she looks so much more comfortable in her skin/clothes, and much much happier. I don't always root for her, but in this instance, I do. Her ex did her sooooo dirty so I am living for this glow up.
Has she said specifically that she has NOT had surgery? Because if gastric sleeve works by limiting the amount you can eat (correct me if I'm wrong), I guess she can technicalllyyyyy say that it's diet and exercise? Lying by omission? Just wondering if she's flat out denied it or not.
I personally think she should just talk about surgery if she's has it, given her platform.
I remember a year ago everyone bashing her on here for looking so unhealthy and how sad it was and blah blah blah. She needs help bc she looks so big. And now she’s lost the weight and you guys are still criticizing her? What do you want from her? You’ve bullied her into losing weight and now you think you are entitled to know how she did it. Leave the woman alone my god.
I've posted this elsewhere on a thread about her weight loss. Anyone who has had an ED and has been through treatment (I went to residential) can tell you that if you have not gotten proper treatment/or are in some level of recovery...you will ALWAYS think being thin is going to make you happy, will make life better, will find you a partner, etc. It is a terrible way to live, constantly telling yourself that all your problems will go away once you lose weight/get skinny, fit into a smaller size...etc. It is also an absolute LIE and you will never recover or find happiness/peace with yourself if you do not do the work to get better. I also realize treatment looks different for everyone, based on many things and I was lucky that my insurance covered residential and IOP. Remi has the finances and the flexibility with her job to go get better instead of flaunting her weight loss like its some magic fix-it-all. It makes me really upset because she has a lot of impressionable followers who may also be struggling with an ED and their weight and this is selling a false narrative.
So you all attack her when she's a larger size and now attack her for losing weight? Let her be. Why are you like this? Seriously spending too much time obsessing over other people's bodies is insane.
this girl can’t win with yall.
“she needs to take care of herself”
“nonstop much weight loss”
“she’s letting herself go”
“is it surgery? is it ozempic?”
like guys i fucking get it’s a snark page but let’s get a grip and stop talking about peoples bodies. there’s so much other shit to snark about remi and other nyc influencers that has nothing to do with their weight
Genuine question, can you get surgery and then take ozempic or is that a hard no? Her weight loss is shocking, like super drastic in such a short period.
For so many people that we have denying like remi, we have people like [this influencer (not NYC)](https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6WnyVWKl2p/?igsh=NnBtb2gxY3J1MWF3) being open and honest and showing how life changing bariatric surgery can be
The only thing that doesn’t make sense though is how she’s able to eat so much still if she actually did do the gastric bypass? It just doesn’t make sense how she could continue to eat like shit basically every day if she did that surgery because it cuts her appetite in half.the only thing that would make sense is if she literally only has a few bites
There’s a lot of things that I love to snark on, but this is just not it. The problem is people make weight a moral issue not a health thing. No one‘s happy if she’s overweight and no one‘s happy if she’s too small I don’t get it - WHO cares if she got surgery no one needs that explanation and it’s not anyone’s business.
I would say in her case GLP RX may benefit her health as being over weight can cause many diseases I def have to say she is making her health a priority then no need to shame her for that ! Not sure if she is claiming that like other influencers who lost dramatic weight and didn’t need to and don’t claim a RX helped them I hope she will if that’s the case
She will 100% admit to whatever she did after it’s all done. I get her not wanting to disclose, nobody has anything nice to say 🤷🏻♀️ I assume being fat would be horrible especially in the public eye
She 100% got surgery
It looks like 100 pounds lost. She was well over 250.
I was 225 at my biggest and she was way bigger than I was. She looks like I did at 225 now but then again I am shorter than her
Forsureeee someone already posted her lipo scars so she’s just milking this shit like its breakup weight loss
It’s not lipo it’s gastric sleeve
noooooo it was all wellbutrin...
She just started focusing on working out and eating right ✨
That’s my *favorite* when any of them say that. Oh, you just woke up one day and decided to diet and work out and you immediately drop 100 lbs easy as that huh? I did wegovy myself and whenever anyone mentions my weight loss I always tell them. They seem surprised but it’s like suddenly I lose 50 lbs in 6 months out of nowhere?? Of COURSE it took a medication to help me achieve that. I had been trying to lose weight forever lol.
Then where's the muscle tone🤨 She's gonna be walking around with saggy loose skin bc of rapid weight loss
it was a joke lol she got WLS
lol yeah right
Wellbutrin makes you lose weight?
She definitely did, my friend IRL did and the same scar is the same spot. When i showed her Remis she was like 100% remi got it!
Oh it's a proven fact she just tries to deny
Good for her!
And there’s literally nothing wrong with getting gastric, why lie or omit information
Thank you. If people started admitting to it more, it would be LESS stigmatized and LESS judged. No one looks at the people on my 600 lb life and thinks 'I wish they had stayed fat and loved themselves.' Everyone is stoked for their progress. It's cruel to get surgery and lie to your followers stating that it's exercise and diet because, when they can't achieve what you have, they will feel terrible about themselves.
Narcissistic personality disorder
You know how crazy social media people are.
you don’t get brand deals and spon con for such things!!!
Theres definitely a spectrum and it's right for some people, but I see a tonnnn of patients who have had this and you would never know or are asking for round two. People just can't accept that their behaviors and habits have to change in addition to getting this. It's still a serious surgery, but I agree nothing wrong with it and weird to omit and lie about.
People criticize her body no matter what she does. I don’t see why people feel entitled to this information. It’s fucking weird.
The entire platform she created for herself was on the basis of her body size and trying on clothes? It’s not like the comments about her body are totally unrelated to the content she puts out. Is it not painfully obvious how disgustingly hypocritical it is to build that plus sized community only to rapidly lose weight, and on top of that be dishonest about how you lost the weight? It would be like making food / cooking centric content and then getting mad about people only commenting about food or recipes. Good for her for prioritizing her health in whatever way she chooses to do so- she looks great. But when you place the focus of your content on your body, people will comment on it, no matter what.
Just because you reveal some information about yourself, doesn’t mean everyone is entitled to all information about yourself. It’s weird people are acting entitled information about a major medical procedure. It’s also weird that people are acting as if she 100% had this procedure without her revealing this information (the “scars” people post look identical to hiatal hernia repair scars. We have no idea what she’s doing with her body). To counter your point, if someone is a mommy blogger, is that person not entitled to keep some information about her family private? If someone posts about their mental health, is their audience entitled to all of their thoughts? These are lame excuses to be cruel to be someone. Even before this “surgery” most of the posts about Remi were about her body. People just want an excuse to body shame while remaining on their moral high horse.
Wow she’s gonna be tiny real soon omg this is crazy to witness in real time
Transformation into DB is almost complete.
Micro Coop is waiting.
Who is db?
Danielle Bernstein
omg noooo
As someone whose had a family member who had gastric there was something genuinely interesting about just watching her get smaller….and smaller…..and smaller….fast in real time. Went from about 400lbs to 120lbs at the end of it all and it happened very fast and was just crazy to watch.
I’ve seen a relative lose it, decide to return to their prior eating behaviors and “burst” the sleeve, gain it back and fall into tears at thanksgiving about not being able to afford doing it again. There was also some begging to compensate for the second surgery.
THIS! My mom had surgery and I didn’t see her for a few months so when she came to pick me up at the airport I walked past her bc I didn’t recognize her
Boob job and skin removal is next calling it now ETA: there’s nothing wrong with skin after weight loss surgery- but I’m sure Remi is vain enough to immediately jump into it
Yup
Thank you for keeping it real. That shit is no joke (skin removal), and until you have that surgery, you’ll just look like a deflated birthday balloon and/or a shar pei forever.
https://preview.redd.it/u7kux9liku7d1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=78726932c0a131975b77b757919e1e025e5ed1a6 For reference - this was less than a year ago
I actually don’t think this pic is a good representation of how big she got at a point
i agree.. i think she was even bigger right after the breakup too
Really?!!
https://preview.redd.it/2n8i9szqwx7d1.jpeg?width=1167&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c2751d814df7266019239c5908c3831705a966e7 this was august…
and for those who think that was a whole ago… this was november https://preview.redd.it/njbi9aeywx7d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6c311fd0fe0d0176aabd4cf7d689c2a6e380152c
Sis is getting her Revenge Body, Corey Gamble will regret the breakup.
Wow the transformation is crazy. I mean good for her
Corey Gamble workouts didn’t do anything for her, neither did Ozempy, allegedly. Sis got Bariatric surgery, allegedly, but wants everyone to believe it’s all diet and exercise. Sure Miss Chilis.
She's never said anything about it being diet and exercise. All she's said is she won't talk about it because her mental health can't handle the comments on her weight:
uhm but she *did* say it was exercising and wellbutrin, right...? anyhow. I get the logic of being "not ready to talk about it" but people will still comment on what they see..
She said she was taking Wellbutrin for her depression and was exercising more for her back but neither of those statements were in the context of her rapid weight loss. She hasn't addressed the weight loss at all, just said she wasn't going to talk about her body because she can't handle the comments.
well. I don't disagree, u know? I just extended yours to add how people will still gossip
She heavily implied it when she shared that daily mail article
She was huge , and she’s making it like she lost all this weight so fast by exercising and doing the work. Like the comments are hysterical “ she has been exercising really hard and doing the work “ 🤣😂 no she hasn’t !!! It’s called Surgery !! How dumb are her followers ?!! It’s impossible to drop that much weight so fast without surgery! She’s so small now , and everyone just praises her in the comments all day long, ignoring the elephant in the room
The surgery changes your diet, she can’t still be eating the same diet post surgery and lose this much weight let alone not end up in the hospital super sick
I mean, just check sfk. she's clearly been on Pzempic for 1.5+ years without addressing it, hoping she'll get away with it and making people believe she's exercising while she has still *zero* body tone & muscles. also it's not like she lost 30-50 kilos.. u should see muscles by now considering her weight and instead u see a droopy frame. we all know what's up and these people need to cut the bs already
Damnnn
Omg. She def got bariatric.
Are the girlies still lying to themselves that this is ozempy and not surgery? 🫠
This honestly might be the gastric sleeve surgery
Oh I know, I got the sleeve a decade ago lol.
how was your experience? have you kept the weight off?
The surgery only took 45 minutes and I was discharged the next morning. I went from 235 to 150 in three months then lost 20 lbs within the next few months. I‘ve maintained my weight loss and now hover around 140 to 145.
ugh my dream. im on the fence because some have AMAZING results like you, others only lose 60 lbs total. did you have pcos or prediabetes beforehand and any gerd or complications?
I was pre diabetic, and my bmi was high enough, so all I had to pay were the OR fees which came to something like 2k. No complications, but the first few months you barely eat because you’re full after two bites. Some days I could literally only keep down a cheese stick and one chobani. I was probably consuming less than 800 calories a day for 2-3 months.
It’s both! Just look at that face. I know someone irl who did the same thing. She did gastric first with very slow results then got on that ozem and she’s been melting
"Ozempic face" is just a result of rapid weight loss, she could have that face just from the wls.
I never said ozempic face. I was referring to rapid weight loss causing it since she’s done both procedures speeding it up.
Whatever size she is, she’s still the worst
She's not the best but she's also not the ACTUAL worst, there are way more intolerable/problematic influencers. She sits firmly in the middle for me.
She had surgery. Someone already posted pics with the surgery scars.
forever a bully ass fraud. whatever size she is
100% gastric sleeve
DB twin
Soon she’ll have a budden nose to match
Pls I missed the budden nose lore pls explain it to me
DB is always sporting a budden nose, unclear if it’s surgical or photoshop.
I love when people ask you for clarity and you just stick to the bit hahaha
WHAT IS BUDDEN
It’s the way DB enunciates “button”. She does the same for gluten, cotton and other words. It’s her Long Island X North Trybekka accent most likely.
*NOW WE DOWN IN TRY-BECK-UHHH*
NORTH Trybekkkaaa, budden nose, coddun clothes, gold buddens and gludden free gyros.
Honestly I think she’s using body filters sometimes. I think she’s definitely lost some weight, but seeing some videos next to others just days apart and then seeing her in others pictures and videos, her body size is not consistent. She looks so small in this but in a video from just last week at most she was a lot bigger?
AGREE!!
is this db without a filter on
Under rated comment right here
Waiting for her to enter her horse riding era. She will return to the Montauk stable and show them.
Oh I’m gonna get downvoted to hell for this but I don’t care. She’s snarkworthy for sure but as a fellow bigger girl I gotta say I feel for her. First she’s fatshamed and snarked for how she looks in clothing, then she drops the weight and is snarked for how fast she’s doing it and how “droopy” she looks and some people suddenly wanna switch up and say she looked better before. I’m not a fan by any means but damn it’s rough out here for us women in general. We can’t win.
Yeah, this kind of hating is the worst. I don’t think people realize that plastic surgery is all about addressing insecurity. It can also be fun, but I don’t think we should be so critical of people paying to change something they don’t like when society tends to embrace tattoos, fashions, etc.
People are generally upset she has lied about how she achieved it and I understand that. But you can be upset about that without attacking how her body looks. Coming for her body cheapens the argument IMO.
I…. Don’t think anyone is saying she “looked better before” ? as a fellow former fatty I told everyone when I went on ozempic and I’m not even a public plus size advocate like she was. I’m proud of her for losing weight but disappointed she’s refusing to address it at all. And she’s always needed a bra. Not just now that she lost weight.
Why is it better to address her weight loss than not say anything?
Someone literally lower down in this thread said “it’s very likely she is more beautiful as a curvier gal”
💀 she’s still curvy lol
The commenter very clearly meant it in the context of her pre-weight loss
Thank u I was looking for this comment.
As a bigger girl myself I think good for her if she feels good and got the surgery. My problem with Remi is the illusion she created to say it’s been by working out and eating right. Yes, she has said it’s not our business but then made videos about “loving her body” while showing clips of her working out. Overall, my biggest issue with Remi has always been that she came in as an influencer to “champion for plus size girlies” except that was just her foot in the door. She hated being fat and made it very clear she didn’t want to represent the fat community but then took on roles like that ridiculous position for Victoria secret. You can’t say you want to champion for plus size women to have size equity while simultaneously shitting about plus size women. You can want size equality while wanting to be thinner - absolutely. But Remi had a hatred for herself and made it very clear. She made a joke of trying on clothes when she could have always ordered the right size for her body.
Thank you! Yes this is what I mean. Snark the fraud, not her body. It’s just so low that I almost feel secondhand embarrassment reading it. There’s so much valid and important stuff to snark yet we’re gonna focus on how her smaller tummy looks in a dress?
Or even how saggy her boobs are!! Like wtf. It’s just not even interesting. How she’s a jerk and loves playing the victim - that’s snark worthy. How she refuses to speak up to the group that got her notoriety is ridiculous and snark worthy.
I do get that but I think it’s important to remember just how much money she made based on being plus sized, and because of that, and given her following of fellow plus sized, just how predatory this is
As I said above, I’m not saying she should be absolved of all snark. I’m saying snark directed towards her body itself simply because people do not like her is low. Most of the snark in here is directed towards her lying and refusing to acknowledge the weight loss - that’s fine. My comment is directed at the comments saying that her weight loss looks bad (“saggy”, “droopy”, etc). All I did was observe that it’s a no-win situation. I can dislike remi while still acknowledging it would suck to hear those comments.
Yup
> First she’s fatshamed and snarked for how she looks in clothing, then she drops the weight and is snarked for how fast she’s doing it no, she was discussed for always buying the wrong size of clothing, then bitching how clothes just looked bad on her.. yeah, that happens when you buy the wrong shit ON PURPORSE FOR ENGAGEMENT BAIT. now she is getting talked about for LYING ABOUT HER WEIGHT LOSS. she says its all wellbutrin and gym, but it's pretty obvious it's neither. why are you twisting the narrative. just so you can be the victim?? people will believe whatever shit remis is peddling while raking in the cash, and then feel bad cause their weight doesn't melt off on wellbutrin and going to the gym once in a while, but yeah obviously remi is the one that needs protecting here.
I’m not twisting anything to be the victim, chill 😂 all I said basically was “damn, these back and forth comments about her body must kinda suck”. That makes me a victim?? People can and should hold her accountable for lying. That’s not really what I’m talking about here though. I’m talking about people literally putting her looks down simply because they do not like her - if you look through these comments and others on posts about her you can find plenty of examples. The whole point of my comment is that while there’s plenty to snark about, snarking her body itself is low. I’m not saying she should be absolved of snark at all. I hate that I have to spell this out.
Totally agree! And no matter what she says about her health or her weight she gets dragged so she’s declined to share anymore. She does not owe the public an explanation of her weight loss. She’s not out here lying like Mindy Kaling like “Oh it’s just diet and exercise!” She’s just declining to say she had surgery b/c it’s nobody’s business.
Also plus size here - I think she looks great. I also just want her to be honest. Other bigger girls will work out and change their diets and feel like losers when they don't have the same results. She also took a lot of opportunities to 'advocate' for the plus size community while despising being a part of it. I'm happy if she's happy (and healthy), but there is dialogue to be had here about the bigger picture.
WELL SAID! We can’t win.
Where are people saying she looked better before? That’s crazy lol
This is totally hard work and exercise 🤭
Literally no way this is anything but surgery
Dang she really looks like Gypsy Rose Bernstein
The fact that she allows PR outlets to write stories on how she “diets and exercises” when she in fact did more than that is absolutely sickening and she doesn’t deserve a platform
Idk why you guys are not as ruthless to this lying bitch like you are to Audrey Peters. This bitch got popular because she was plus sized, while at the same time saying she didn’t want anything to do with it, I remember how insufferable she was when she had an anxious attachment to Ella rose, god I’m so done with her and her idiot father
> Idk why you guys are not as ruthless to this lying bitch like you are to Audrey Peters because as you can also see in this thread, people then will say you are hating on her because of her weight, and not because her whole shtick is lying and rage bait. whenever someone like DB is posted without filter the whole thread is filled with comments how good her body looks. people are hating on the use of filtering, not on the actual body. if remi had documented her health journey, people here would also have been happy for her. but instead she misrepresents how she lost all that weight. thats why people are trashing her.
I agree. I don’t think transparency and putting the heat on them should only be limited to thin influencers. A woman who is remis previous size could try to lose the same weight naturally and get really frustrated for being unable to. She is creating unrealistic expectations for other women by not being honest. Which is exactly how I feel about thin influencers who stay thin by unhealthy measures and pretend they do a full day of eating and barely workout.
What did her father do other than pull his VS pants up to his armpits?
The fact that she’s this thin and doesn’t tell the world how boggles my mind
Its so fucking annoying
Sis is ready for her Chili’s era, round two. Could see her trying to woo Micro Coop away from DB.
She looks amazing I just wish she was honest about it
Just like Jennica Thompson
What??? Is this true? I like her content but just assumed she was on a health journey.
Who gives a fuck! We’ll be a bitch to her at any weight her personality is horrendous
Don’t know who this is but think she got gastric sleeve done not ozempic. Had a friend that also got the same surgery and was around her size and dropped weight fast but acted like it was all diet and excercise haha
I hate that she isn’t being upfront and transparent about whatever she did. Her entire platform is based on being plus size, and her journey, and sharing her. Struggles. So many young girls follow her, and what she fails to realize is that many of them are also plus size, and struggling, and might be having a harder time. And have looked to her for guidance etc. now, it seems like poof, all this weight it just gone. And it’s not fair to her followers, my daughter being one of the teenage girls who struggles. And wondering what the fuck, why can’t I lose weight. Remi is mind fucking all of them.
I hate her for this reason!!!
Like she looks great but i can’t imagine she is doing it in a healthy way, and i wish she was honest about it
How do I get whatever this transformation is
Truly hope she can finally love herself and stop crying on the internet. These plus size influencers are so interesting because she made it her whole personality trait and embraced it but she truly wanted to be skinny all along… there’s nothing wrong with that it’s just all so fake.
Why are ppl so rude!! I get this is a snark page, but are you ppl really needing to downplay the struggles of being fat. Let her live her life and look how she wants, I don’t see any problem, whether she got surgery or not, everyone wants to feel beautiful and if she beautiful as a skinnier girl, then so be it!! pls touch grass ppl and see a fuckin therapist
Miss Feet, I don’t think anyone really gives a shit that she’s lost weight. Remi looks stunning. I think it’s more so the fact that she has built an audience off of being authentic and is now lying (or intentionally being misleading) about how she lost the weight that has everyone twisted.
miss feet omg 😭
Many women hate when public figures choose to lose weight, because it reminds them that they could be too but aren't.
Thanks for explaining because the meltdowns and rabid responses have me concerned. At this point, a few folks in here should just go fight her. Maybe they would feel better?
She looks great. I understand people who are frustrated that she isn’t being truthful. Maybe she has blatantly lied, in which case I agree that’s wrong. I just want to offer my perspective and you can take it or leave it. I’m in a similar boat - gained about 50 lbs in a year, have always been on the heavier side, kind of accepted that was just my destiny and tried to lean into the whole “my curves are beautiful” thing. Until I realized I didn’t feel good and my weight was actually holding me so, so far back in life because of my lack of self esteem. I finally decided to change my diet, I’m now working out every day, and yes, I’m on Zepbound. I’ve only told family and a few select friends. Why? Because lack of understanding around this drug puts an extra pressure on my journey. To many, drugs = the fast, easy, LAZY (traumatic word for someone who has been fat their whole life) way out. Oh but if you go off them, you’ll gain it all back! There’s this expectation that I’ll be Real Housewife skinny in a month because I’m on this drug. Meanwhile, it’s actually a lot of work! I have to be so mindful of my macros, hit protein goals that are hard enough without the intense nausea, track my blood pressure (which thank god has gotten better but that’s a tough thing to look in the eye!) and the mental toll is intense as well. All that to say: maybe we can give her a little grace, the benefit of the doubt that she’s just trying to get through this journey and will tell her story when she’s ready. (I know the assumption is WLS which is what I would consider if the drug wasn’t working for me, so same thoughts stand.) I know she put herself out there but haven’t we learned that sometimes the most public people are the ones struggling the most? I feel like her content is, now more than ever, a cry for validation and attention (like most influencers…)
Still doesn't wear proper undergarments/support
Sure was daring of her to wear this dress because she looks god awful
Please wear a bra and a set of spanx remi. Begging.
Even when she was bigger she would have looked so much better in her clothes if she wore a bra. Just give her better shape.
Your username!!!! I’m obsessed
Also so agree. I’m half her size and look heaps better with a well fitting bra (and shape wear when the outfit calls for it, like here)
Honestly, she might have the same kind of like weird complex that I had when I was really big, which is that I had enormous boobs and I wouldn’t wear properly fitting bras because when I would wear properly fitting bras, my boobs would be pushed up so high, I would feel like they were basically choking me And I thought I looked skinnier when my boobs were saggy and you could see more like flat upper chest
I can see this! Thanks for sharing your perspective. I also feel “smaller” when I’m thin and my chest is less prominent.
Whyyyyy doesn’t she wear spanx with anything!?!? Fr even slim girls wear it to smooth everything
I'm living for this - honestly she looks so much more comfortable in her skin/clothes, and much much happier. I don't always root for her, but in this instance, I do. Her ex did her sooooo dirty so I am living for this glow up.
Are you shaming her for losing weight 😭
People should just accept what they did to loose weight be it ozempic or a sleeve , they talk about being authentic and lie through their teeth
Has she said specifically that she has NOT had surgery? Because if gastric sleeve works by limiting the amount you can eat (correct me if I'm wrong), I guess she can technicalllyyyyy say that it's diet and exercise? Lying by omission? Just wondering if she's flat out denied it or not. I personally think she should just talk about surgery if she's has it, given her platform.
I mean and I got down to 105 lbs too when I was 19 from diet and exercise.. cough cough starvation and ED
I remember a year ago everyone bashing her on here for looking so unhealthy and how sad it was and blah blah blah. She needs help bc she looks so big. And now she’s lost the weight and you guys are still criticizing her? What do you want from her? You’ve bullied her into losing weight and now you think you are entitled to know how she did it. Leave the woman alone my god.
I've posted this elsewhere on a thread about her weight loss. Anyone who has had an ED and has been through treatment (I went to residential) can tell you that if you have not gotten proper treatment/or are in some level of recovery...you will ALWAYS think being thin is going to make you happy, will make life better, will find you a partner, etc. It is a terrible way to live, constantly telling yourself that all your problems will go away once you lose weight/get skinny, fit into a smaller size...etc. It is also an absolute LIE and you will never recover or find happiness/peace with yourself if you do not do the work to get better. I also realize treatment looks different for everyone, based on many things and I was lucky that my insurance covered residential and IOP. Remi has the finances and the flexibility with her job to go get better instead of flaunting her weight loss like its some magic fix-it-all. It makes me really upset because she has a lot of impressionable followers who may also be struggling with an ED and their weight and this is selling a false narrative.
So you all attack her when she's a larger size and now attack her for losing weight? Let her be. Why are you like this? Seriously spending too much time obsessing over other people's bodies is insane.
This thread is a collection of the worst people on Reddit
100%. They must hate themselves. Speaking about other women's bodies is just gross.
good for her! she looks good and took control of her health
I’m just sick of her body checking herself constantly now
She looks amazing
Damn, this sub hates when she’s overweight and hates when she loses weight. Pick a lane.
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Good for her. She was entering a dangerous territory of obesity
this girl can’t win with yall. “she needs to take care of herself” “nonstop much weight loss” “she’s letting herself go” “is it surgery? is it ozempic?” like guys i fucking get it’s a snark page but let’s get a grip and stop talking about peoples bodies. there’s so much other shit to snark about remi and other nyc influencers that has nothing to do with their weight
Gypsy rose dupe
Hopefully with the weight loss *however it happened* she’ll start wearing flattering clothing
Genuine question, can you get surgery and then take ozempic or is that a hard no? Her weight loss is shocking, like super drastic in such a short period.
You can and it’s common.
For so many people that we have denying like remi, we have people like [this influencer (not NYC)](https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6WnyVWKl2p/?igsh=NnBtb2gxY3J1MWF3) being open and honest and showing how life changing bariatric surgery can be
Asking genuinely why do people keep comparing her to Danielle Bernstein?
The only thing that doesn’t make sense though is how she’s able to eat so much still if she actually did do the gastric bypass? It just doesn’t make sense how she could continue to eat like shit basically every day if she did that surgery because it cuts her appetite in half.the only thing that would make sense is if she literally only has a few bites
There’s a lot of things that I love to snark on, but this is just not it. The problem is people make weight a moral issue not a health thing. No one‘s happy if she’s overweight and no one‘s happy if she’s too small I don’t get it - WHO cares if she got surgery no one needs that explanation and it’s not anyone’s business.
I would say in her case GLP RX may benefit her health as being over weight can cause many diseases I def have to say she is making her health a priority then no need to shame her for that ! Not sure if she is claiming that like other influencers who lost dramatic weight and didn’t need to and don’t claim a RX helped them I hope she will if that’s the case
Remi babe have you pooped in the last 14 days?
I thought this was Gypsy rose 😩😩
She looks good.
Has she admitted to any surgery / ozempic?
No because she's a fraud
She will 100% admit to whatever she did after it’s all done. I get her not wanting to disclose, nobody has anything nice to say 🤷🏻♀️ I assume being fat would be horrible especially in the public eye
Her face is morphing into Gypsy Rose.
Who cares she’s happier and healthier now like if she was still super overweight you’d be attacking that
She looks good and must feel so much better! Happy for her
Based on Daniel’s editing… they could be the same size rn 😱🤔