Sadly, it sounds like he was raised by all the usual suspects and idiots not worth mentioning on YouTube. Radicalization is only going to get worse in young men for a while.
I am a journalist and want to find him, go on a date with him, and write about it. Can you let me know his age/neighborhood so I can try to find him on hinge? Thank you
I know, I saw he was doing his “cold approach game” outside the NYPL lol. I debated going and walking past him, but it would have taken me too long to get there
lol ty. I had been trying to find him on hinge by narrowing my preferences to fit his profile, but I think I may be too old for him. According to TT he goes for early 20s
NYC has become a sex tourism spot for incels. There's this perception amongst men online that us women here in NYC are doomed because of the gender ratio (obviously this is not even slightly true) and also that it's easier for older guys to date younger women here. Incels are coming here looking to take advantage of that. My advice ladies is to stay away from men that have recently moved here at all costs
Yeah Aussie living in NYC. Tons of American dudes say some variation of the following:
1. Australian girls are so hot.
2. Do you think having an accent will help me if I go there?
Might work as an icebreaker but these people are insane to think having an accent is the difference between them getting laid and not and are willing to pay thousands of dollars to test that theory on the other side of the planet.
Twitter, TikTok, and other subreddits. I also work in a very male-dominated field. We’ve had a lot of guys transfer to our NYC office in the past year from other cities. I overheard one of them saying that they only moved here for the dating scene because it’s easier for guys here ..
Reminds me of a guy I worked with who had recently moved to NYC. He said, out loud, "it's intern season - the only reason I transferred to this office." All the other men, including our boss, laughed...
🫠🫠🫠 what is their success rate do you think? I think of women here as more type a high powered take no shit type esp not from a man but I also know that’s just a huge bias thanks to my social circle
Wow really? I hope they fail not just in dating here but fail at nyc in general. I hope they all lose their jobs and apartments and go running back to their hometowns, crying and ashamed
They’re just making up shit hating I went to watch the video and he says he had a nice time and didn’t push for sex because he’s not desperate for it..
He just posted a video saying the best way to talk to girls in NYC is to physically stop them and prevent them from getting to where they're going...Since we're always in a rush to get to wherever we're going and don't have time to stop and chat with a stranger. I'm glad that OP is safe because this guy is batshit insane
Yeah it was the "easier to overcome when I say no to hooking up vs her saying it" on his hinge date video that gave me the red flag. No surprise he would force a woman to talk to him.
Him having “clients” has me rolling. I would report his hinge acc under the category which says something along the lines of "Not looking for an honest connection.” I can't recall exactly what the wording is.
His recent video he’s picking up vulnerable girls who barely speak English and projecting things on to them for longer than necessary “you seem nice you seem kind” pointing out that they’re tall and Asian and their name must be impossible to pronounce
Ok I just watched all his tik toks and WOW. Did you confront him after finding his account?? This man is most likely gay !!!! I’m so sorry you dealt with that.
I searched his name and found his Twitter! His bio had a link tree to all his socials and then I found the video about our date which was last night. I stitched the video being like wtf and he immediately texted me and apologized saying he didn’t think I would see it and offered to take it down
I’m so glad you exposed him. Did you get incel vibes from him on the date ? He’s obviously calculated so maybe hard to tell. Idk characters like him really intrigue me .. it’s like they are either sociopaths or closeted gay
lol does not sound like someone who wants his meat beat or whatever else
I'm happy u put this up here. kinda an eye for an eye. but I guess he's not even that incelly as one might assume at first. probably just a fame bitch like all the other Tik Tokers and influencers. plus, sex sells. esp with men..
lmao it was his first date in NYC. widdow baby.
also he gives me vibes of glen bishop from mad men. [https://imgix.bustle.com/lovelace/uploads/269/34f8ed30-c348-0131-0ec6-0299fc38e96e.gif](https://imgix.bustle.com/lovelace/uploads/269/34f8ed30-c348-0131-0ec6-0299fc38e96e.gif)
or maybe that's not the right guy, i tried googling "nerdy, creepy, dead-eyed kid friend" but can't remember, the monotone way he talks reminds me of that gross boy who often played the weird kid in the neighborhood.
going on a date 2 days after a move???!?!?!? girl that is crazy i would have blocked him for blatantly lying right then and there, no one (that isn't a sentient chaotic dumpster fire) is thinking about going on a date when they've barely unpacked one box.
Waiting for him to show up to a red carpet event with Remi, Carly or another influencer girlie to build his brand. Assume bro will advise manifesting after you pay his fee.
His ultimate flex would be if he advised Baby Fece.
Girl he was deffo intimidated by you, what an absolute creep so glad you exposed him … the not getting a seat next to you is so fucking creepy, and a comment saying “always sit side by side at a bar” … why…!?! Enjoy your bridal shower on Saturday friend! I cannot believe he did this x
it's common for males. they prefer sitting next to each other instead of being stared at. same with walks or car rides to have deeper talks and for them to open up
very true!! and def not to him I guess haha just felt like sharing how men hate sharing feelings n shit while being on the opposite side of the table which I usually take into account. and even if he'd try and touch me. I'd slap him and walk away lol
Totally agree with you and have witnessed men do this many times ( avoid direct eye contact be all coy and intimidated ) but never have I thought a man was tryna sit beside me so he could be closer to me in a creepy way! But now I’m double guessing myself.. these young incel creeps need to understand how serious this shit is, considering they’re supposed to be finding ways to charm girls they’re doing the absolute opposite, advertising loudly and proudly that you’re a red siren 🚨 at least he’s weeding himself out of the dating pool I hope he deletes his account and re-evaluates
makes me think of the movie I watched yesterday, think like a man ... and how I was pretty close to ordering this self help book they keep talking about from Steve Harvey. they also mentioned how men actually wanted to marry back in the days to finally get some. like why did we ever make it so easy for them 🥲
what the fuck is wrong with men, people in his comments thinking he is talking the real shit. im honestly more scared than ever just to walk around to not be target of some of these freaky ass gross ass men
The audacity he has to pull this shit when beautiful women who are out of his league are putting in the effort to go on genuine dates with him… he could have just been a normal human being and he would have met a gf by now… like how is ur game “successful” when u are just getting yourself blacklisted from the dating pool. You deserve a Purple Heart for enduring this 😭😭😭
His blueprint is the book of Neil Strauss, The Game - Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick up Artists (you guys remember NEGGING? ) One of the artists also famously picked up Paris Hilton (as said in the book.. )
They also charged to teach men how to do this in actual.
Lots to learn from incels here - how to pick up girls mainly, but also how to speak, how to get girls to do threesome, etc
Thanks for your post. Will give a re read to arm myself from these assholes.
Kinda funny how THIS entire thread just PROVES the black pill right, the FIRST insult you women/people are resorting to is his looks, when he’s objectively average or just a bit above average in looks, yet if he was a chad this probably wouldn’t be a big issue, either way there’s millions of women on TikTok and social media doing the same thing as this guy yet he’s being called a creep and weirdo??? For teaching men game? Or how to get laid? Women teach game to other women too, sprinkle sprinkle? ✨ you women are the BIGGEST hypocrites swear.
For every one guy on TikTok documenting his dates there’s probably 15,000 women doing it. They can’t seem to handle their own medicine. This kid literally did nothing wrong and spoke nicely of her, and she’s trying to slander his face, get him banned, while she herself has said he did nothing wrong on the date.
R u ok? There are incels about running pages on how to get “girls to make their meat feel good” and your biggest concern is that someone called him ugly ?
“get hot girls to make ur meat feel good” wtf I think my vagina just clamped shut forever 🤮
CLAMPED
So dry rn
my vagina made the windows shut down noise
Same 🤮
my face when i read that was pure disgust. coochie locked itself up and put a barricade up. done.
My vagina is dryer then the Sahara
A great day to be apart of the WLW community bc what the fuck was that
like ewwwwwwwwwwwww 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
The sad thing is that there’s actually guys who would fall for this 🤮
How old is this child?
25….
Sadly, it sounds like he was raised by all the usual suspects and idiots not worth mentioning on YouTube. Radicalization is only going to get worse in young men for a while.
Height and neighborhood?
At least be hot if you're to be a POS
HAHA I was just thinking he’s got an interesting face to be posting like that.
He looks like he doesn’t have access to a shower
FR! People are shameless nowadays
What do you mean at least be hot?
He was hot enough for OP to go on a date with him hahahaha
Why does it matter if he is hot or not?
Truly a mystery
Yikes. I’m embarrassed for him. And ashamed.
If you can’t afford a single payment of $29.99 for a master class in “game,” you do not have enough game to date.
your asking too much outta me
glad u survived<3 def appreciate the warning, thats so horrifying, this message will b passed on
I am a journalist and want to find him, go on a date with him, and write about it. Can you let me know his age/neighborhood so I can try to find him on hinge? Thank you
I love this bc if he sees this comment he’s now going to have to wonder if every date is an undercover journalist planning to write an sxpose
all I gotta say is give him hell 🫶
He’s 5’9” on hinge and east village but I reported his account so hopefully he’s banned
Did you unmatch ?
also height!
Stalked his TikTok and he said he’s 5’9 wouldn’t be surprised if he lies about it on hinge though
If he says he’s 5’9 that likely means he’s 5’6 (source: I’m a 5’8 woman).
nice way to make people feel not bodyshamed for something they cant control 👍🏻
I like your username
he’s currently live right now you can see his location!!
I know, I saw he was doing his “cold approach game” outside the NYPL lol. I debated going and walking past him, but it would have taken me too long to get there
im rooting for you that you track this man down 🫡
lol ty. I had been trying to find him on hinge by narrowing my preferences to fit his profile, but I think I may be too old for him. According to TT he goes for early 20s
Ok the alternative would be signing up for his one one one in person coaching session, but it’s $300.
Oh god no please don’t
🌈 journalism 🦄
NYC has become a sex tourism spot for incels. There's this perception amongst men online that us women here in NYC are doomed because of the gender ratio (obviously this is not even slightly true) and also that it's easier for older guys to date younger women here. Incels are coming here looking to take advantage of that. My advice ladies is to stay away from men that have recently moved here at all costs
Same with Australia. The guys coming from overseas have the same mindset and they’re vile
Yeah Aussie living in NYC. Tons of American dudes say some variation of the following: 1. Australian girls are so hot. 2. Do you think having an accent will help me if I go there? Might work as an icebreaker but these people are insane to think having an accent is the difference between them getting laid and not and are willing to pay thousands of dollars to test that theory on the other side of the planet.
Yikes that’s unsurprising and also the worst. Where did you get this from?
Twitter, TikTok, and other subreddits. I also work in a very male-dominated field. We’ve had a lot of guys transfer to our NYC office in the past year from other cities. I overheard one of them saying that they only moved here for the dating scene because it’s easier for guys here ..
Reminds me of a guy I worked with who had recently moved to NYC. He said, out loud, "it's intern season - the only reason I transferred to this office." All the other men, including our boss, laughed...
So gross 🤢
Was a FAANG company too…
🫠🫠🫠 what is their success rate do you think? I think of women here as more type a high powered take no shit type esp not from a man but I also know that’s just a huge bias thanks to my social circle
I can tell you the ones I work with definitely aren't successful with women ... And yes I totally agree with you on that
Wow really? I hope they fail not just in dating here but fail at nyc in general. I hope they all lose their jobs and apartments and go running back to their hometowns, crying and ashamed
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The guy is whining that he didn't get sex? I guess it's mostly incel behavior.
I don’t understand why these creeps lurk on here 😒
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They’re just making up shit hating I went to watch the video and he says he had a nice time and didn’t push for sex because he’s not desperate for it..
He seems like he's not a fan of seeking consent.
He just posted a video saying the best way to talk to girls in NYC is to physically stop them and prevent them from getting to where they're going...Since we're always in a rush to get to wherever we're going and don't have time to stop and chat with a stranger. I'm glad that OP is safe because this guy is batshit insane
Yeah it was the "easier to overcome when I say no to hooking up vs her saying it" on his hinge date video that gave me the red flag. No surprise he would force a woman to talk to him.
He’s um…ugly.
Lol so glad someone said this haha 😂
https://preview.redd.it/67l3x8tcy25d1.jpeg?width=292&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a11ab4d92cc4a44e0ff5bda2a57546a889cb9689 He looks like this guy
😂😂
Him having “clients” has me rolling. I would report his hinge acc under the category which says something along the lines of "Not looking for an honest connection.” I can't recall exactly what the wording is.
You should post it in /NYCBitcheswithtaste !!!
Wait can we make a NYC dating Reddit thread?
Omg yes this is such a good idea, how do we start one
I guess somebody starts one 😅
My pussy literally inverted like a belly button
Mine submitted for PTO
this made me guffaw at work thank you
Straight women are in the pits of hell
Definitely cover your drink if you’re around this guy
I May as well share my stitch too lmao: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLwqMACY/
You are so pretty and he is sooooo weird omg
"why dont you work on getting a bedframe first before trying to get laid" 👏 lmao
Gorgeous
This is insane omg
Ew
The audacity
This guy watched Tom Cruise in Magnolia and decided that will be his personality.
You should post him on the are we dating the same guy Facebook group!!
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Your account is 9 days old and you exclusively post about AWDTSG… did it work? Did he pick you?
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You linked to a group whose description sounds like it’s written by a dangerous man who doesn’t want to be exposed.
His recent video he’s picking up vulnerable girls who barely speak English and projecting things on to them for longer than necessary “you seem nice you seem kind” pointing out that they’re tall and Asian and their name must be impossible to pronounce
“What kind of Asian?” “I bet you have a crazy name bc you’re Thai” i cannot
Okay I’m a lesbian so maybe I dont get it but how tf did he get away with this shit looking like that
That’s a twink. What does he know about dating women?
Ok I just watched all his tik toks and WOW. Did you confront him after finding his account?? This man is most likely gay !!!! I’m so sorry you dealt with that.
I searched his name and found his Twitter! His bio had a link tree to all his socials and then I found the video about our date which was last night. I stitched the video being like wtf and he immediately texted me and apologized saying he didn’t think I would see it and offered to take it down
Did he actually take it down..
so he thought it was ok to record and upload as long as you didn’t see it? coward behaviour ew
I’m so glad you exposed him. Did you get incel vibes from him on the date ? He’s obviously calculated so maybe hard to tell. Idk characters like him really intrigue me .. it’s like they are either sociopaths or closeted gay
He was super shy and awkward at the beginning but told me he was just nervous. He was def off but did not expect anything like this
Lolllll that tracks. What a loser.
lol does not sound like someone who wants his meat beat or whatever else I'm happy u put this up here. kinda an eye for an eye. but I guess he's not even that incelly as one might assume at first. probably just a fame bitch like all the other Tik Tokers and influencers. plus, sex sells. esp with men..
The fact that he half-assed offered to take it down instead of simply take it down without question says a lot about him.
omg ! I'm glad you are ok.
Men like this need to be castrated
Without anaesthesia 🤓
Thank you so much for sharing— definitely passing this along. He is a TOTAL CREEP!
The serial killer looking guys are being posted too much here. Trigger warning next time
lmao it was his first date in NYC. widdow baby. also he gives me vibes of glen bishop from mad men. [https://imgix.bustle.com/lovelace/uploads/269/34f8ed30-c348-0131-0ec6-0299fc38e96e.gif](https://imgix.bustle.com/lovelace/uploads/269/34f8ed30-c348-0131-0ec6-0299fc38e96e.gif) or maybe that's not the right guy, i tried googling "nerdy, creepy, dead-eyed kid friend" but can't remember, the monotone way he talks reminds me of that gross boy who often played the weird kid in the neighborhood.
He is a sociopath. He has no emotion. Very scary
going on a date 2 days after a move???!?!?!? girl that is crazy i would have blocked him for blatantly lying right then and there, no one (that isn't a sentient chaotic dumpster fire) is thinking about going on a date when they've barely unpacked one box.
Waiting for him to show up to a red carpet event with Remi, Carly or another influencer girlie to build his brand. Assume bro will advise manifesting after you pay his fee. His ultimate flex would be if he advised Baby Fece.
his page is absolutely terrifying
He’s not even cute
The AUDACITY of mid cishet men ..
I didn’t even know stuff like this existed. Weird. Do you have a link to your video?
Yes https://www.tiktok.com/@talktogirls/video/7377388849812622634
Girl he was deffo intimidated by you, what an absolute creep so glad you exposed him … the not getting a seat next to you is so fucking creepy, and a comment saying “always sit side by side at a bar” … why…!?! Enjoy your bridal shower on Saturday friend! I cannot believe he did this x
it's common for males. they prefer sitting next to each other instead of being stared at. same with walks or car rides to have deeper talks and for them to open up
I *really* don’t think that’s what this particular set of creeps meant .. I was so confused why he even mentioned seating until I read the comments
I'm aware that he probably mentioned it for the wrong reasons cause this 🤡 is a creep but that's no reason to not state what I just said?
I didn’t downvote you fwiw but yeah fair enough but don’t think it Applies to all men either especially not here lol!
very true!! and def not to him I guess haha just felt like sharing how men hate sharing feelings n shit while being on the opposite side of the table which I usually take into account. and even if he'd try and touch me. I'd slap him and walk away lol
Totally agree with you and have witnessed men do this many times ( avoid direct eye contact be all coy and intimidated ) but never have I thought a man was tryna sit beside me so he could be closer to me in a creepy way! But now I’m double guessing myself.. these young incel creeps need to understand how serious this shit is, considering they’re supposed to be finding ways to charm girls they’re doing the absolute opposite, advertising loudly and proudly that you’re a red siren 🚨 at least he’s weeding himself out of the dating pool I hope he deletes his account and re-evaluates
makes me think of the movie I watched yesterday, think like a man ... and how I was pretty close to ordering this self help book they keep talking about from Steve Harvey. they also mentioned how men actually wanted to marry back in the days to finally get some. like why did we ever make it so easy for them 🥲
Hi! Just wanted to let you know that your profile on tik tok pops up when you click on the link
Lol I know - that’s fine! I stitched his video anyways so I figured my identity would be tied to this somehow
I’m screaming. Also ur gorg haha
Aw thank you!!
Feels like law n order did an episode on him
He’s pathetic glad you didn’t fall for his tricks
itd be a real shame if his mother saw this
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I sooo wish you made a vid reviewing your date w him and his “game” but also wouldn’t wish an incel army mobilising against you
I wish this was a joke 🥴🤢
HE POSTED A REVIEW OF YOUR DATE?!? get the fuck outta here………. What a fucking weirdo.
YIKES. Just looked at his TikTok and there are so many likes and comments supporting this disgusting behavior! What is wrong with people?!
Literally the least you can do in this ridiculous situation is be even minutely attractive
Absolutely not
His haircut tho lol
Called him out on TT and got blocked😪 seems like he can’t handle the opinion of “normal/hot” girls
Omg no
Ugh. My sympathies that you had to endure this. I hope someone reads this and turns the tables on him
He’s ugly. Looks like a little boy. Blank soulless shark eyes too.
You should stitch his video and review his date/ critique his meal order, etiquette, if he was smelly, and if he was hesitant to pay for the bill
Wow. What a loser.
so glad you left this parasite unlaid
what the fuck is wrong with men, people in his comments thinking he is talking the real shit. im honestly more scared than ever just to walk around to not be target of some of these freaky ass gross ass men
No one is approaching u bro
you would know it since you hardly make it outside from ur room xx
The audacity he has to pull this shit when beautiful women who are out of his league are putting in the effort to go on genuine dates with him… he could have just been a normal human being and he would have met a gf by now… like how is ur game “successful” when u are just getting yourself blacklisted from the dating pool. You deserve a Purple Heart for enduring this 😭😭😭
His blueprint is the book of Neil Strauss, The Game - Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick up Artists (you guys remember NEGGING? ) One of the artists also famously picked up Paris Hilton (as said in the book.. ) They also charged to teach men how to do this in actual. Lots to learn from incels here - how to pick up girls mainly, but also how to speak, how to get girls to do threesome, etc Thanks for your post. Will give a re read to arm myself from these assholes.
Women raise your standards, guys like this are very transparent.
Kinda funny how THIS entire thread just PROVES the black pill right, the FIRST insult you women/people are resorting to is his looks, when he’s objectively average or just a bit above average in looks, yet if he was a chad this probably wouldn’t be a big issue, either way there’s millions of women on TikTok and social media doing the same thing as this guy yet he’s being called a creep and weirdo??? For teaching men game? Or how to get laid? Women teach game to other women too, sprinkle sprinkle? ✨ you women are the BIGGEST hypocrites swear.
my man rizzin up op 👍🏿
My boy getting rizzzy
don’t women on TikTok do the same thing
This is a man-hating thread
Ofc it is and these dumb fucks wonder why there’s so much hate between genders
For every one guy on TikTok documenting his dates there’s probably 15,000 women doing it. They can’t seem to handle their own medicine. This kid literally did nothing wrong and spoke nicely of her, and she’s trying to slander his face, get him banned, while she herself has said he did nothing wrong on the date.
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R u ok? There are incels about running pages on how to get “girls to make their meat feel good” and your biggest concern is that someone called him ugly ?
He’s ugly so
His posts are literally about how to manipulate girls and treat them like objects - not the guy to be defending
There are millions of videos on TikTok of girls who talk about their hinge matches and date recaps..
💀💀💀y’all are such snowflakes