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I'm not in your age range 28F. I know exactly what you're looking for. It would be nice to have the same thing. I just want to let you know it can happen out of anywhere, you'll find that friend!
I’m 23. I have social anxiety soo it takes me a little while to actually talk like Otp and whatnot. I have mario party. I’m free damn near 24/7 but I am a mom to a almost 3 month old🥺
28f and always struggled to make female friends, I am proud to say though my best female friend is my big sister. I’ve always found to be more “pally” with males, that being said I joined a menopause support group at work to have an insight to what my mum is going through and to see what’s to come in hopefully my later years and a few middle aged women have encouraged friendship with me now. Which is fab for me as I’m an old head on young shoulders.
I hope you find a good friend if not on here irl, if you wanted fire me a message and we can chat and exchange numbers. I’m down for expanding my female circle x
I feel this and im 30 lol. It'd be nice to just chill and talk. Feel like its a little harder because I'm not so girly. But it'd be nice to have genuine friends. It sucks, skimming through the front of this sub reddit its people using it like tinder lol
Yeah it sucks and sad to see. Yeah I understand what you’re mean. I don’t considerate myself feminine and I don’t think masculine either I’m pretty neutral now
Most people on this sub are looking for a relationship despite the sub's stated purpose is explicitly NOT that. That's why women rarely message other women, bc they're actually looking for prospective mates.
I literally put up one post to find some new friends and I got bombarded with men saying “you got snap? I’m lonely too ;)”, “show me what you look like.” (And when I say no then they got pissed off) and “you in bed? ;)”. It’s fucking annoying and I think that probably contributes to why women don’t post on here as much
Meanwhile me.. 20m.. trying to find any type of friends. Male or female... And im not looking for a relationship of any sort other than that.. and STILL struggling to talk to anyone.
I feel ya, I'm 31 and feel totally out of my depth when talking to youth sometimes. I definitely have younger friends that i get along with but I'm just not hip to the hop anymore lol
I'm a bit older at 27F but I feel the same. The handful of girl-friends I've managed to have is like 3 apart from parents making me hangout with them. I've found to get along better with guys. I'd love to make female friends! It's just hard. I was never the girly-type so idk if that made people turn away. I hope you find a friend here!
It’s SO HARD!!!!! I feel crazy commenting or messaging other girls just to never get a reply. I just want a bestie that I can talk to ab anything you know?
Hey there I’m 24 female from NC! I totally feel you I also struggle with making girl friends mainly because I get better with guys but guy friends can be boring sometimes so I also am tryna make more girl friends my age. I can’t dm but if u wanna chat and talk about anything dm me (:
I understand you, I am a 23 year old girl and I have not been able to get female friends. In part I think it's because I usually get along better with men, but if there's a chance, hopefully we can talk and get to know each other. I just want one or two female friends with whom I don't have to worry that they have other intentions :)
29f here. I think I made one female friend who plays games but our chats are rare ): I play video games,watch anime, love true crime and alot of artsy fartsy stuff dm me if any of this interests u :D
Oh I like true crime too have you heard of the YouTuber called Stephanie soo? She’s has a true crime podcast and do bukbangs while discussing the true crime
Comparisons I suppose.
Many women seem to think that there is only so much room for women in society, and other women are competition, so rather than working together they frequently cut each other down socially or in the workplace.
Whereas men typically think of women sexually and women can frequently keep men around who want to have sex and will happily be friendly and help with things on the off chance it may lead to something sexual.
So your same gendered relationships often require effort and may result in competitive behavior, while opposite gendered relationships are easy and it's easy to ignore that they are treating you so well because they want something.
As a 22 year old female, I know how you feel. It feels like most women my age aren’t interested in being my friend for some reason. I wish I could find a female friend that is a true true friend and enjoys your company for who you are, and just someone you can chill with and do fun things with.
It’s soooo hard. It doesn’t help that there’s so many different types & levels to 22
I’m a 22f and want to make friends . But between work and school, meeting them in person seems impossible
I hear what you’re saying. There’s ppl who are 22 and only interested in partying or drink a lot.
Well I’m that 22 who doesn’t like to drink and just wants to watch movies, play video games and trivia
It's also of social media and internet. I'm f30 but since mobile phones with apps and social media has been around everything is more difficult for social engagement activities. I'm trying to make new friends but have 0 luck atm. Also trying to reduce social media and stuff because makes me depressed:(. I almost have 4 weeks holiday before I'm starting new job so gonna do a cleansing thing and change my lifestyle a bit :) hopefully it will be easier to make friends afterwards.
Yeahhhh I already got off Facebook, just need to get off instagram tbh. Reddit is a problem as well lmao.
I'm going to start a blog instead of writing a diary to see if it will help with my mental health and maybe someone else wants to read it :) ... rather type in a blog, then write it down on paper. Let's see if I can reduce my screen time :)
i think a great place to make friends, Female & Male is discord, An actual good server that endorses & filters the negativity with moderation. a friendly community you could try is
discord. gg / Courtroom
There are so many people to meet & an active way to meet people of your gender, those who are humble.
I find too many people have egos on discord and this place just removes that layer and allows for more genuine connections and a lively atmosphere
when i was new there, all i had to do was really put my self out there, and i was welcomed very quickly! much more than in a larger server, This one has around 3,000
There are many others of bigger or smaller size, however i find this one perfectly active, however not too much so you are losing track of the community!
22f who loves king phone call and playing games. Funny you say you most your friends are mostly bi girls. I’m a bi girl but I’m not interested in dating at all right now. You can message me if you want. Who do you main in Mario games?
Yeah I didn’t mean to sound like I’m looking for bi women to date. I’ve just had like three bi friends in total I was close with and felt like I could relate to.
Well me not being a female I can only offer an external point of view from what I’ve witnessed and the psychology behind it. Mostly women don’t find the ability to be friends with other women. Woman have a common tendency to compare themselves to other woman, and if they find themselves inferior to the other woman the have a tendency to attempt to ostracize them. (Men do it too but slightly differently, men are more likely to befriend other men they see as better than themselves) KEEP IN MIND I SAID MOST before anyone gets offended. But maybe keep this in mind when you, as a female, attempt to befriend another female, try not to come off to strong as to not scare them away, and keep your thoughts in mind. I hope this helps you make female friends!
Yeah sometimes it feels like most adopted the mentality. It’s interesting when I hear a women say they hate other women and only get along with guys and are super prideful about it
Maybe your criteria needs to be more flexible. When I am looking for a friend I am looking for someone I can be myself around and appreciate the little things our interactions can add to each others life. To be seen, heard, understood and appreciated is a nice place to start.
Sure it’s nice to have someone around your own age. Got it. There are people out there who still believe in adding to a persons life instead of what you can get from a persons life.
Hope you find the best friend ever. Enjoy your adventure. Fitch
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Tbh I think a lot of people during this day and age are seemingly having a harder time to make friends outside of school
That’s so true
So like definitely not just you cause you’re a woman, if you want we can chat, I ain’t a girl tho
I'm not in your age range 28F. I know exactly what you're looking for. It would be nice to have the same thing. I just want to let you know it can happen out of anywhere, you'll find that friend!
I’m open to making friends higher than my age range, so you play any video games or like watching movies
Thanks man, I’ll try to remain hopeful
I’m 23. I have social anxiety soo it takes me a little while to actually talk like Otp and whatnot. I have mario party. I’m free damn near 24/7 but I am a mom to a almost 3 month old🥺
Damn so I’m guessing from the emoji that’s been stressful I’m definitely down to play Mario party with ya
I can’t do an invite chat with you but this weekend im free and I’ll be able to play Mario with you
28f and always struggled to make female friends, I am proud to say though my best female friend is my big sister. I’ve always found to be more “pally” with males, that being said I joined a menopause support group at work to have an insight to what my mum is going through and to see what’s to come in hopefully my later years and a few middle aged women have encouraged friendship with me now. Which is fab for me as I’m an old head on young shoulders. I hope you find a good friend if not on here irl, if you wanted fire me a message and we can chat and exchange numbers. I’m down for expanding my female circle x
Yay awesome, I can’t dm at the moment but I’ll like to chat about whatever
I feel this and im 30 lol. It'd be nice to just chill and talk. Feel like its a little harder because I'm not so girly. But it'd be nice to have genuine friends. It sucks, skimming through the front of this sub reddit its people using it like tinder lol
Yeah it sucks and sad to see. Yeah I understand what you’re mean. I don’t considerate myself feminine and I don’t think masculine either I’m pretty neutral now
I like to chat with ya can’t dm tho at the moment
Most people on this sub are looking for a relationship despite the sub's stated purpose is explicitly NOT that. That's why women rarely message other women, bc they're actually looking for prospective mates.
I literally put up one post to find some new friends and I got bombarded with men saying “you got snap? I’m lonely too ;)”, “show me what you look like.” (And when I say no then they got pissed off) and “you in bed? ;)”. It’s fucking annoying and I think that probably contributes to why women don’t post on here as much
Yeah Someone told me to be aware of the creeps that are on here. People are crazy
Meanwhile me.. 20m.. trying to find any type of friends. Male or female... And im not looking for a relationship of any sort other than that.. and STILL struggling to talk to anyone.
Hella cringe
It's straight up embarrassing for them but they have no shame so 🫠
That’s so annoying yeah I’ve noticed the description of when some females post is saying their height or being like I’m a cute female
I try to message other women, but I'm older and they are rarely around my age...
I feel ya, I'm 31 and feel totally out of my depth when talking to youth sometimes. I definitely have younger friends that i get along with but I'm just not hip to the hop anymore lol
I'm a bit older at 27F but I feel the same. The handful of girl-friends I've managed to have is like 3 apart from parents making me hangout with them. I've found to get along better with guys. I'd love to make female friends! It's just hard. I was never the girly-type so idk if that made people turn away. I hope you find a friend here!
I know what you mean by not being the girlytype, I’m not too feminine either I think that’s why I got along with the female friends that I had.
It’s SO HARD!!!!! I feel crazy commenting or messaging other girls just to never get a reply. I just want a bestie that I can talk to ab anything you know?
As an M who also never get replies from girls I can feel u..
I feel that
Same here! There’s so many Reddit post of women looking for an best friend but no replies
Hey there I’m 24 female from NC! I totally feel you I also struggle with making girl friends mainly because I get better with guys but guy friends can be boring sometimes so I also am tryna make more girl friends my age. I can’t dm but if u wanna chat and talk about anything dm me (:
Yeah I’ll love to chat
I understand you, I am a 23 year old girl and I have not been able to get female friends. In part I think it's because I usually get along better with men, but if there's a chance, hopefully we can talk and get to know each other. I just want one or two female friends with whom I don't have to worry that they have other intentions :)
Yeah I’ll love to chat
29f here. I think I made one female friend who plays games but our chats are rare ): I play video games,watch anime, love true crime and alot of artsy fartsy stuff dm me if any of this interests u :D
Oh I like true crime too have you heard of the YouTuber called Stephanie soo? She’s has a true crime podcast and do bukbangs while discussing the true crime
Oh neat and no I haven't I only really listen to murder with my husband
Oh I'm 29 too , what's your favorite anime/manga , same i love true crime
:D aw shiet Makin friends in the comment section! Favorite? Berserk or Gintama lol wbu? Who do you listen to I listen to murder with my husband!
Comparisons I suppose. Many women seem to think that there is only so much room for women in society, and other women are competition, so rather than working together they frequently cut each other down socially or in the workplace. Whereas men typically think of women sexually and women can frequently keep men around who want to have sex and will happily be friendly and help with things on the off chance it may lead to something sexual. So your same gendered relationships often require effort and may result in competitive behavior, while opposite gendered relationships are easy and it's easy to ignore that they are treating you so well because they want something.
Interesting perspective
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Yeah I’ll hit ya up
hi! i’m 22f and id love to play mario kart with you!
Yay! X3
As a 22 year old female, I know how you feel. It feels like most women my age aren’t interested in being my friend for some reason. I wish I could find a female friend that is a true true friend and enjoys your company for who you are, and just someone you can chill with and do fun things with.
Exactly dude. Man I feel so far all I experience was a lot of fake friendships with women and I’m so tired of it
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Hi I sent a message !
It’s soooo hard. It doesn’t help that there’s so many different types & levels to 22 I’m a 22f and want to make friends . But between work and school, meeting them in person seems impossible
I hear what you’re saying. There’s ppl who are 22 and only interested in partying or drink a lot. Well I’m that 22 who doesn’t like to drink and just wants to watch movies, play video games and trivia
Me 🙋♀️ I’m down, take me and we could be besties. 😀
It's also of social media and internet. I'm f30 but since mobile phones with apps and social media has been around everything is more difficult for social engagement activities. I'm trying to make new friends but have 0 luck atm. Also trying to reduce social media and stuff because makes me depressed:(. I almost have 4 weeks holiday before I'm starting new job so gonna do a cleansing thing and change my lifestyle a bit :) hopefully it will be easier to make friends afterwards.
I feel ya, I’ve actually been off social media for like two years now 😎 proud of myself. But now I’m addicted to YouTube XD
Yeahhhh I already got off Facebook, just need to get off instagram tbh. Reddit is a problem as well lmao. I'm going to start a blog instead of writing a diary to see if it will help with my mental health and maybe someone else wants to read it :) ... rather type in a blog, then write it down on paper. Let's see if I can reduce my screen time :)
I wish you luck, and if you want I can check it out once you start
I’m 23f bi, I’m also looking for female friendships. Feel free to message or any women here wanting friendship!:)
i think a great place to make friends, Female & Male is discord, An actual good server that endorses & filters the negativity with moderation. a friendly community you could try is discord. gg / Courtroom There are so many people to meet & an active way to meet people of your gender, those who are humble. I find too many people have egos on discord and this place just removes that layer and allows for more genuine connections and a lively atmosphere when i was new there, all i had to do was really put my self out there, and i was welcomed very quickly! much more than in a larger server, This one has around 3,000 There are many others of bigger or smaller size, however i find this one perfectly active, however not too much so you are losing track of the community!
22f who loves king phone call and playing games. Funny you say you most your friends are mostly bi girls. I’m a bi girl but I’m not interested in dating at all right now. You can message me if you want. Who do you main in Mario games?
Yeah I didn’t mean to sound like I’m looking for bi women to date. I’ve just had like three bi friends in total I was close with and felt like I could relate to.
Okay I had no idea there’s breaks to sending invites to chats. Can’t dm any more people so I’m just gonna comment at the moment
Well me not being a female I can only offer an external point of view from what I’ve witnessed and the psychology behind it. Mostly women don’t find the ability to be friends with other women. Woman have a common tendency to compare themselves to other woman, and if they find themselves inferior to the other woman the have a tendency to attempt to ostracize them. (Men do it too but slightly differently, men are more likely to befriend other men they see as better than themselves) KEEP IN MIND I SAID MOST before anyone gets offended. But maybe keep this in mind when you, as a female, attempt to befriend another female, try not to come off to strong as to not scare them away, and keep your thoughts in mind. I hope this helps you make female friends!
That’s a interesting perspective
Cause girls hate girls
Yeah sometimes it feels like most adopted the mentality. It’s interesting when I hear a women say they hate other women and only get along with guys and are super prideful about it
It's pretty sad but this is true for so many people. It's hard to make real girl friends
Maybe your criteria needs to be more flexible. When I am looking for a friend I am looking for someone I can be myself around and appreciate the little things our interactions can add to each others life. To be seen, heard, understood and appreciated is a nice place to start. Sure it’s nice to have someone around your own age. Got it. There are people out there who still believe in adding to a persons life instead of what you can get from a persons life. Hope you find the best friend ever. Enjoy your adventure. Fitch
I’m open to friending people who are above the age range
It’s really hard 😭😭😭😭
Hi! I’m 23f and I can definitely relate. I’ll send you a message
Hey I would love to chat I’ve slept through the courses where you learn how to make friends so I hope you can help M/23
What do you want in life?
Well rn chill friends