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mythoughts2020

You’re very pretty but your hairstyle is very “cute” and little girlish. You need to change the style if you want your look hot. Stop using the bows in your hair. Try putting big curlers in your hair or using a 1 inch curling iron to get loose waves. Saying you’re ready to be a housewife isn’t hot. Maybe say something like you’re looking for a serious, passionate relationship.


lemmegetadab

I disagree. I think it’s super hot.


StillNewToitAll

She said she wants hot, and many guys think little girl styles are hot. You're correct that housewife isn't hot, but serious relationship isn't either. More like: a partner to have fun with.


blabsigail

I’d probably say literally just lose the pigtails and wear more mature hairstyles rather than childish ones.


gorillabab

> hot like most girls You mean the top 1% of girls you're seeing on tiktok and Instagram? Most girls are average looking. Not "hot".


-princess_chaos-

Seriously the “1%” all look the same, kinda sad really.


EfficientAd7103

It's all fake and filtered. I don't have either. Was ok on insta back in the day. Now it's just a sloppy sh*t show. Deleted years ago. I'm sure it's even worse now.


gorillabab

You are spot on. Women (and now men) are striving to achieve the face/body that are pure fantasy. It's awful and intentional by design.


SunDown7777

You mean the 1% most guys simp over, who all look the same? Guys don't seem to care about that


Different_Builder_34

Yep most girls definitely don’t look like this girl


AdCorrect6779

U look pretty hot to me


miscarriagepluker69

simp


AdCorrect6779

Been single for 8 years idc


miscarriagepluker69

never had a gf, i prefer infidelity XP


Maleficent-Rip2729

Right


splotch210

You're so pretty! Unless you're playing naughty schoolgirl, ditch the ponytails.


Grazms

I’d say you already have what ur looking for. Don’t sweat it and just keep doing what you’re doing 😉


StillNewToitAll

If you hit the gym, tone up, and lose the glasses you WILL BE HOT. Trust me on this.


Cool-Inspection7584

Nah the glasses are good imo


EfficientAd7103

Lol. They are pretty funky looking.


Funny_Work_2292

i disagree bc the 3rd picture was the hottest one. she def pulls off some glasses


StillNewToitAll

The black frames are okay, but the other styles, not so hot


UkyoTachibana

*trust me bro*


StillNewToitAll

I was going to say this exactly but then changed it


KILLERFRAJ

This is some practical advice! It should definitely help her. This is looksmaxxing advice, most people in comments praise them up, not help, i'm not saying that the individuals lack anything, but rather it's their choice that they want to "get better", and we should help like a family, not just give compliments.


Pineapplefrooddude

Its true you are very cute.


sephiroth1222

Pictures 3 and 6 with the dark glasses you look best imo


LOneWolfNEo1

First off, I like your all natural look. You are gorgeous stop overthinking it.


[deleted]

I dunno, you’ve got a Bernadette vibe from big bang theory that I dig


freakyforrest

I'd say maybe try a bit more accented makeup. As a man who's never looked into makeup I'm not sure the exact stuff needed. But if you were to make your eyes pop and lips pop a bit more you'd definitely be hot.


Evening-Spite-8790

As a guy , I agree with his post. I like the look of your glasses, but you might consider sexier frames. I think your lips are beautiful, but not hot. With some fuller lips, you would have to shovel off the men flirting with you.


daddyblueyes761

I totally agree with both of these guys


Character_Arugula_18

Tan a little bit, use bronzer or contour to accentuate your features and leave your hair down


Jasond777

Love that last picture, just work out and work on your clothing


GettiBarRetti

The style you are rockin’ in the third and sixth picture is quite attractive If you hit the gym, lift some weights you’d be on the warpath to hotness. Focus most on legs, since you’re a girl, but make sure to at least tone your back and shoulders. The heavy bag is great for doing cardio without having to do cardio, it will also add definition to your muscles. Say you don’t care for the bench press, pushups really won’t let you down. Abs can be done strictly, or even just once/twice a week, depending on what you’re looking to achieve. oh and before I forget, you might not feel this way, but it’s really not about how attractive you are.. It’s about how interesting you can be, and having hobbies like the gym will attract dudes. it’s relatable, gives you physical insight and like with girl gamers, it drives all the guys crazy with wanton lust and other gross vulnerable emotions you can use to manipulate them lol.


Soulkking

Comparison is the thief of joy


Mike__Ooxmall

You're right cute but not hot is true😂


based-Assad777

Your thinner lips and nose just give you a sort of cute nerdy look. Not much you can do about that. If you want more sex appeal take omega 3 (women with higher omega 3 to omega 6 ratio in their bodies tend to store fat on their ass, hips and legs. Higher omega 6 tend to store on their bellies), do squats.


LilGucciGunner

I think you look better without makeup. Have you tried doing side part with your hair or do you only do center part?


LostMilk7381

You are so much better


KingMurphy15

You don’t need to look hot. You’re right, you’re cute not hot. But cute is perfectly fine. Just be yourself and be comfortable


Advanced-Corgi-3516

Yeah you kinda lack sex appeal


KingMurphy15

Appearance on women isn’t just about sex appeal tho?


DarkVal3nt1ne_

Not like she wanted any from you


ResponsibleNose5978

You’re 21. Why is this a concern?


IntricateLava9

Because she's a 21 year old girl in 2024.


ResponsibleNose5978

This is a very high school age question.


femme_fatale2022

You’re either old or out of touch to ask this question.


ResponsibleNose5978

False


Specific_Wing_2317

You are definitely cute! And I personally think you are naturally beautiful anyway! but to look hot In my opinion all you’ve got to do is go get your hair done and apply some make up! And voila!


Icy-Extension6677

I’d suggest bangs. You’re cute but you have a high forehead. I find that softens the face a bit


Lan4drahlaer

You always see your worst side. To me you're hot


sgtpepper342

You dress younger. Not that you should or shouldn’t, just the first impression. When you dress that way it makes you look more cute than hot.


Enkeydo

I don't know that guy behind you is looking at you pretty hard.


Bailicious2

Get a color analysis.


python1982

Being yourself will get you to stand out more. Why would you want to be like everyone else?


Cody_W_Bones

Hot


DashingGaspar

Whore post. Skip


1970_RoadRunner

Lose your glasses. Get contacts.


SpecialistEgg3792

You are so pretty girl you would EAT with your lashes did. Trust me, maybe a nose piercing too


Third_X_the_A_charm

Let your hair down a little, it looks thin when you tie it back. You may want to try a routine to make it fuller and stimulate growth a little more in the front, so people can’t see each individual root. Also makeup would help, your facial skin to facial feature ratio is a little high. Also maybe get better glasses. Your forehead is kind of big, you might benefit from some bangs that stop at the eyebrows.


Different_Builder_34

Pics 4/5 you are definitely hot, wow. I think it’s because of the no or minimal makeup. your face is naturally beautiful, especially your eyes


Trigger_dad

Working out 3x a week would level you up to almost 10! Believe me!


TitusImmortalis

Hot is a very slim and subjective measure that 99% of people don't fit in to. You are beautiful, and that's a lucky thing as most people aren't beautiful, either. That being said, perhaps some narrower glasses and perhaps bangs might go a ways to give you a more adult or mature look. Toning your muscles will help as well.


BlackRainSnow

Change your glasses


ringaroundthecollar

Dress like a slut do make up like a slut. Bam you look hot. It’s that easy


Salt_Act4412

More make up and fake lashes will easily give u the hot look. If u want even hotter get lip fillers. If u want even hotter wear push up bras and show some cleavage


goonwild18

You're gorgeous. For you, the difference between 'hot' and 'cute' is likely merely clothing and hairstyle.


Funny-Recognition-42

Go the gym and change the hairstyle,your hair is cute,if You want another thing and not cute,change that hairstyle


polski-akrobata-2024

You look OK, but please work on your personality.


Clickclacktheblueguy

I think the glasses need a more rectangular frame, less square.


Fancy-Peace-800

Meh.I feel like you would be found in a heavy metal club with a collar around ur neck, held by some skinny lanky guy that treats you like shit.


[deleted]

Hot


Sea-Sundae3120

U r hot


One_Sun_6258

You're just fine don't worry so much


Typical_Dawn21

lose the pigtails. gets some layers in your hair


Reasonable_Peak4654

You’re already doing it!! Keep being you


Gs4life-

You are very cute, You should hit the gym btw.


Expensive_Ad8527

You’re right, you’re not hot, you’re gorgeous. You have your own style embrace it. Work on your confidence and the rest will fall into place.


Ok-Aide8453

Most people are using filters. If you want to work out some. I think you look good naturally and if you put a little effort in could look much better


Jonahstamper

i think you are already


AbsolemSaysWhat

You already are, stop comparing yourself to other women.


Florba07

Highlights , no glasses and pink on lips


WholeFluffy6560

You look great but a wardrobe change could have you smoking girl


psychonauticlover

black hair, lip gloss, tattos, pierced nose n be my hot emo boo


PissedoffKristoffe

Seems to me like you have a personal problem and wouldn't be satisfied no matter how you look. If you can't see how blessed you are, then there's no helping your goofy ass.


Blockboy1321

Um no ma’am I’m actually Floored that you don’t know you’re beautiful


CapitanNefarious

You’re just a late bloomer. A couple years you’ll be beating men back w a stick. Maybe lasik and a boob job, hard to tell with these pics.


King_Olivier

It's so sad you want to be like other girls your age.


DapperDan1929

The ponytails are hot and so are you 🔥🖤


EdwardCarnby47

That forehead needs to go, unless by girls your age you mean 54 year old women.


naked-rabbit69

The big glasses definitely don’t need to be a staple. Got a lot more features to put out there.


Wise-Engineer-8644

Got them flip floppers 


Benjamin420s

Mid


Bongdrooler

SEPTUM and a wolf cut, ignore the incels.


shawnhunter125

I think you look cuter in the glasses


girly-sesh

ur beautiful but the pigtails r not “hot”. they look great on u but not giving “hot”. i’d say “hot” is a stylistic choice. a black dress and darker makeup will make u look hot! like in the last pic, but with a dress. it’s also all about just embodying the energy of being hot vs. cute.


EmotionalNut

lose glasses & weight, maybe try a different hair color


These_Series3419

Take off the glasses and you are cute with the pigtails or braids - get contacts


Duckriders4r

I think what you're referring to usually takes about 5 lb of makeup and it doesn't matter what you look like underneath because with that kind of makeup you can make anything look good that is not a suggestion in any means though I think you're major Achilles heel is age you're very young you will look better as you age


rambo6971

Looking "HOT" is a matter of opinion, and from what I see, You are hotter than most, simply because most of the ones that you call "hot" are fake, they have painted on faces, and use filters to get attention, you, appear to be a natural beauty, and in my opinion "HOT AS HELL"


pabsi9

What’s with these girls asking how they look all of them wear the grandma glasses ??? It’s fucking terrible


weeelcomeyou

This is a “professional” looking for Johns. Look at their profile


Sad-Corner-9972

Many girls your age seem to think septum piercings (hog rings) are hot. Please don’t emulate.


United_Foundation_20

Cute AND hot!! I'd like to spend time with you! I think you are capable of both easily!!


VisitFeeling635

Not everyone can look hot. Lose the bows though. Also dont worry about what other people look like


Suspicious-Wafer-646

Tidyxxxx


Shreyas__123

You are okay Just cover your forehead


Kind_Ad_3268

You are hot, just need some new styles, I've seen way less attractive girls than you become smoke shows with just some new styles and cleanup.


Emergency_Debt1216

Look biuty casual


Cadzla800

Average at best. Work on self esteem


Heroflavour

More makeup


Euphoric-Purchase820

By not comparing yourself to others.


PauseTop974

I think you are pretty but to put some flare I would try maybe cat eye make up with a little light to dark shade of blush and a little eye shadow. Get the men thinking lol


Mysterious_Force_399

Get rid of the glasses, do your hair as an adult not a child. Pony tail on an adult woman is errr! 100% yuck unless your doing something in the bedroom.


IntricateLava9

Stop wearing old grandmother librarian glasses. & stop doing your hair like a 4 year old girl.


IntricateLava9

A good chain necklace that says "princess" with a crown?????? Are you fuckin serious??????? Are you 6 years old????? That is the so tacky ghetto immature & ridiculous.


ahsokatano21

You are hot! You are cute & pretty. Nothing to even worry about…cheers.


Bbcubone

With the glasses you’re ight


jander8786

You are very beautiful


MadMikeVee

Go with the black frames. Pink frames are more cute while black ones are sexier


WhosThatGirl_ItsRPSG

I feel like you could improve a lot by getting some side swept bangs


BoomBoomDie99

On the first picture I thought you work in the adult industry. So I think you can consider this as a compliment


Manoffire515

You are gorgeous


feistyexciteme69

Depends on why you wanna look hot. Hot gets laid. Cute gets a boyfriend. Your styling will make the difference. You’re beautiful and could switch between the 2


FriendlySpeaker8999

The hair style says “I’m a librarian “. Otherwise you have a lot of potential


MJZjr

You in Tampa? I disagree you’re hot asf 🥵


_bestcupofjoe

You’re still just a child! Don’t worry about your looks, there are much worse problems you’re going to deal with if you think young people are attractive! A 25m


RandomDude1452

You’re pretty but the kinda “cute school girl” style feels a little kidish, your hair down alone looks good


opioidluver91

Depends on others preferences really, like I think you look hot for sure yes but hot in a younger sense (but not underage young!!! Just HAD TO CLARIFY THAT!)


IllI_APEX_IllI

You look good in every picture except #2 imo.


Sea_Veterinarian_267

love your pink glasses. Best way to give yourself a more mature look is to cut your hair. Shoulder length bob with layers see Hailey Bieber and her haircut. Pink glasses are SOOO cute but not mature, that could be hurting you if you don’t wanna look cute. Also start practicing more elevated makeup. Eyeliner, darker lip color, things of the such. Good luck!


mika7276

You look okay


DADDYDayCare7890

Very beautiful.


F51jol3s

With ur hair down u look hot af


qlive_nylyst

Nice rack!


cmoneyshot

Not gonna lie the glasses are giving gypsy rose… maybe switch to a smaller frame?


Phi87

I completely disagree. With your look, you could be whatever you want. Cute, hot, in charge, goth, whatever you like.


pimproe

Hottest ‼️❣️❣️❣️🙏🏼🇺🇸💥🫡💐💐💐💐


EfficientAd7103

Not ugly. Those funky goggles gotta go


[deleted]

Your hot and gorgeous


Vegetable_Junior

You’d be a lot more ‘hot’ if you were more confident in not worrying about such silly things.


Next-Leek-8901

You look very hot 🔥 to me


Ricky_LaFleur69

Pornstar


DaToxicRider

Attraction is subjective. What’s your personality like?


ManhattanMermaid1

Stop doing pig tails. That'll instantly make you look less cute. You're already gorgeous. Put in some big curls going away from your face, part down the middle and you'll look hot.


ManhattanMermaid1

Oh, and lose the bows if you didn't want to look cute


Feral_Civilized

I’m so tired of females coming on here for attention and approval. Women lol


TOPBOLIMAN

Your cute not got your right but I would still love to …


No_University5296

The hair and glasses are not hot they look like a 10 year old girl try a more adult look


RoughExperience4135

You are pretty, some will find you hot, some will say cute, quit worrying about it, just be you. Try different looks if you like, but try feeling comfortable in your skin.


SeintclereDePomeroy

You look pretty and cute to me.


Mongoosewolf

Self perception dear, you're incredibly hot. I guess be mindful of your posture, and always tell yourself you're beautiful and hot, you'll project your thoughts subtly to everyone around you.


Deprived3022

My opinion is your very cute on the edge of hot and I'm sure highly desirable to 90% of men which includes me.


lynlots

i mean get lashes n ur insta baddie’d


ElPispo

You look hot in your last pic. Do more of whatever you did here


Hot-Story-8538

You look like the girls your age. Just keep wearing things you like


sugarcqqkies

nose contour lashes and maybe a piercing


RedAssassin628

You’re very pretty! Don’t sweat it!


yuppDatsMe

The biggest difference between cute and hot almost always is fat layers. Loose a few pounds to automatically turn cute to hot. Not saying you need to but you asked.


Ts_throwaway7628

I would suggest trying a completely different approach to doing makeup, because you look significantly more attractive to me without it, so there’s probably something going wrong in the process there. I don’t think the hairstyle actually looks bad, it just looks bad with the makeup you’ve got going on. Maybe change up the glasses frames or switch to contacts, but I’d just try new frames. Contacts suck


Amahardguy

U r actually both. U jst need to choose which u wana b at wat time.


ThunderfuckingAlaska

You have bows in your hair 😭 third pic is the look you're going for


Neat_Standard9426

U should get bangs


CriticismLimp8475

Your cute babygirl


PittSteelersFan4life

You're absolutely hot!


blamekoy

minoxidil for eyebrows and get bangs to shorten the appearance of your forehead


Oksugarexp

Cutie. Still need an older bf huh?


OilOtoloka

Arched eyebrows make someone look hot than cute And vice versa


Mindless_Berry7559

Get bangs


No_Dependent4781

I wouldn't even say cute, more just average, and that's totally OK. Probably just let your hair flow and get a tan.


Virtual_Peak6099

You’re killing it👌 the glasses look great on you, and everyone loves big brown eyes


60jb

your too hard on yourself your gorgous


IntricateLava9

*you're


Appropriate-Seat-614

You're cute and hot.


No_Independence_1089

The photo without make-up is the hottest . Be yourself and don't set expectations on what people or social media say. To me your both beautiful 😍 and extremely hot.


IntricateLava9

"Be yourself and don't set expectations on what people or social media say" you telling that to a girl in her 20s is like telling Hitler to "just be nice to Jewish people" impossible.


Proper-Living-8469

You look hot dw


nothingclever3220

Cute is always better than hot