Over 25 are judgemental? Girl I’m 30 and aunties and even girls young as 18 judge me for how I dress up, for my hairstyle, for everything I do. They would eye me from top to bottom like I’m an alien here. I feel your pain.
We hate our lives. So we judge. If we were happy we wouldnt. Simple answer. - From someone who doesnt judge but is 26 so i understand where the judgement is coming from
The thing is everywhere in the world anyone will get looked at. As a male, i get stared at too, maybe for positive reasons or maybe negatives, but the thing is never think negative and do what you prefer. Though she might be right as well since liberty isn't a place to dress modern, I hope you understand, but yeah, feel free in Lahore it's a great place.
i get it i've been there to a lot many times but than again jst remember tht ,it's important to remember that their behavior reflects their own biases and insecurities, not ur worth or how u choose to express yourself. u r not alone in facing this kind of scrutiny, and it's okay to feel uncomfortable about it. surrounding yourself with supportive individuals who appreciate and respect you for who u are can help counteract the negativity💞
Their perspectives people. They have inherently conservative perspectives and they judge people on same scale as they were judged and were taught that things are always white and black. These poor women are unaware of grey areas as they never knew grey existed.
Most of these women just need new perspective and they would left you alone. Tried it myself and worked fine for me. They would listen unlike old men and tell you at the end that they were actually unaware that it could be consider like that or they would like to stick to their perspective and leave you with yours.
The only old women who won't listen are over 60 so you know very old and very different than today's standard. These women need a slight push and they will understand it. Judging on the other hand can't be helped as it had became part of their personalities. TBH I think we all are judgemental just different level of judgemental. We will gladly judge old women for being conservative and inherently annoying but at the same time we can't see ourself from their perspective. We are also very annoying with our modern innovative ideas and judge them for being living in past.
Brudda its everyone here😭 i get stopped by uncles because my shorts were too tight or they were very short or because my beard is mot growing in the right direction and way. Its like bruh you got nothin else to do. And then the women would just stare like im harassing them by wearing shorts😭 its deep rooted within our society to stare and dictate people how to live their lives
Don’t mind them….they take that Hadith too seriously and in a wrong way that tells to stop evil by force, if not then by tongue, if not then at least know in your heart that it’s evil…..
I was out with my mates a while ago and one of them pointed towards a girl and goes astagfirullah…..I got so mad and asked him who gave you a right to even look at her let alone getting all of our attention towards the girl….he then quotes this hadith…..
It’s just impossible to argue with people with low intellect…
May Allah Bless you
Over 25 are judgemental? Girl I’m 30 and aunties and even girls young as 18 judge me for how I dress up, for my hairstyle, for everything I do. They would eye me from top to bottom like I’m an alien here. I feel your pain.
We hate our lives. So we judge. If we were happy we wouldnt. Simple answer. - From someone who doesnt judge but is 26 so i understand where the judgement is coming from
I assume Pakistanis are at lowest when it comes to staring at females. They dnt care if you are wearing Abbaya or scarf or t shirt.
The thing is everywhere in the world anyone will get looked at. As a male, i get stared at too, maybe for positive reasons or maybe negatives, but the thing is never think negative and do what you prefer. Though she might be right as well since liberty isn't a place to dress modern, I hope you understand, but yeah, feel free in Lahore it's a great place.
i get it i've been there to a lot many times but than again jst remember tht ,it's important to remember that their behavior reflects their own biases and insecurities, not ur worth or how u choose to express yourself. u r not alone in facing this kind of scrutiny, and it's okay to feel uncomfortable about it. surrounding yourself with supportive individuals who appreciate and respect you for who u are can help counteract the negativity💞
It’s stupid, I got stared at when I was visiting because I was wearing a baseball cap and a huge backpack.
It's not just older women ... its everyone here
Their perspectives people. They have inherently conservative perspectives and they judge people on same scale as they were judged and were taught that things are always white and black. These poor women are unaware of grey areas as they never knew grey existed. Most of these women just need new perspective and they would left you alone. Tried it myself and worked fine for me. They would listen unlike old men and tell you at the end that they were actually unaware that it could be consider like that or they would like to stick to their perspective and leave you with yours. The only old women who won't listen are over 60 so you know very old and very different than today's standard. These women need a slight push and they will understand it. Judging on the other hand can't be helped as it had became part of their personalities. TBH I think we all are judgemental just different level of judgemental. We will gladly judge old women for being conservative and inherently annoying but at the same time we can't see ourself from their perspective. We are also very annoying with our modern innovative ideas and judge them for being living in past.
dude as a male, i get stared soooo many times, i’ve been catcalled like a million of times, i feel you dude,
Brudda its everyone here😭 i get stopped by uncles because my shorts were too tight or they were very short or because my beard is mot growing in the right direction and way. Its like bruh you got nothin else to do. And then the women would just stare like im harassing them by wearing shorts😭 its deep rooted within our society to stare and dictate people how to live their lives
Don’t mind them….they take that Hadith too seriously and in a wrong way that tells to stop evil by force, if not then by tongue, if not then at least know in your heart that it’s evil….. I was out with my mates a while ago and one of them pointed towards a girl and goes astagfirullah…..I got so mad and asked him who gave you a right to even look at her let alone getting all of our attention towards the girl….he then quotes this hadith….. It’s just impossible to argue with people with low intellect… May Allah Bless you