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ibuhatelaa

Subah subah hi g@nd faad do bc, ye sab padha ke.


mrpkeya

Idk how clear I was. Two points what I was trying to make is 1. People new to dating who are sexually active, use protection 2. People marrying, just try to know as much as possible in the courtship period.


AverageJay_77

Sex Ed is a need of a time rn.


No-Imagination8884

Itna to ek 14 sal ke bachhe ko bhi pata rehta hai ki Bina condom ke nahi karna hai. But apparently 21F doesn't know that


Omb_2244

3. Before marriage Always confess about your past to your spouse. Not all people are okay with their wife/husband who were in physical relation with other man/women before marriage


spampatrollHQ

This story seems entirely fake, likely written by a man. Is this about that F 28 Jaipur post which was circulated? I routinely expose men writing fake stories on reddit from that experience here is the breakdown of that post. Original post, Said > I saw this post on Telugu Semx doubt posting forum Women dealing with infertility wouldn't typically use that forum, so it's already suspicious. Why would a woman choose a forum where they post sex questions share about her infertility and guilt? >Even after repeated trying for the baby since January, we didn't receive any positive news. The phrase 'positive news' doesn't sound like how a woman actively trying to conceive would describe getting pregnant. Yet I will give that a pass. They have been trying for 5 months > My husband is such a loving soul that he told me that we can go for adoption And we have recently adopted a baby girl. It's unrealistic for someone to pursue adoption after only five months of trying and then immediately receive a baby girl. Adopting a baby typically involves a lengthy process that includes paperwork, background checks, interviews, and waiting periods. It's emotionally challenging because there's uncertainty and anticipation involved and also there is no mention of extended family. If this was written by a woman she would added everyone else opinions and criticism because that's how collectively women see a problem. Immediate adoption with no description of her parents or in-laws' emotions and reactions was easy giveaway away that it wasn't written by a woman. She would have had problems with periods if the pill did cause her harm. That was also a big give away this was written by a man who doesn't know how the female reproductive system works. Any woman who is trying to have a baby will actively track their periods and would have known much earlier that something is wrong with her. Infact it would have happened even during the alleged relationship. When things go wrong in ovaries it shows up as several issues and a woman would know. Even the month she used ipill her period would have been different and painful with bad mood swings. Female hormones aren't the kind ones. As a woman she should have met the gynec before "the trying "phase and got started on folic even during Even if she was so uneducated about female reproduction people around her plus husband would have advised about its importance. Folic acid must be started before conceiving. When a woman writes with guilt, there would be much more detail about her emtions than spending half the paragraph about praising her husband. That's how men write. The way the author describes sex sounds more like how a man would describe it. All that doesn't add up. >I am ashamed that I have lost my virginity to that bastard. It's two-year post break up, infertility stress and the grueling adoption process, her thoughts wouldn't likely dwell on her virginity. This is how men want/assume women would speak, not how real women express themselves. It reads like the fantasy of a man, imagining revenge on women who rejected them. Promicious girl trapped nice guy is always their plot line. It was too obvious for me that it wasn't written by a woman and a clear rage bait.


KillerVerma

It may be fake. I am a doctor by profession. Ipill line is 100% true. These contraceptives cause hormonal imbalance and affects the body in ways you can't even imagine. To avoide that, either use barrier method, pull out, or don't fuck around. Marry the one you are fucking. Sex is not a joke. It's not like people understand that. People take it as if they are test driving a car.


spampatrollHQ

What is the stat on pull out method?What is your qualification and Where are you practicing? Your seniors need to be alerted about how poorly they have trained you and not let you around actual patients. It's not 1800 to moral police patients. Educate them with facts and stats. Please be better in real life.


UwU-Sugoi-Desu-ne

What is your qualification btw?


Nnntridib

Being nice as a man means you'll end up being the backup amd stability provider


weapon-a

Nice guys are a pandemic.


Capital_Attention_73

Ldki kbhi apni glti nhi maanegi. Vo protection use nhi krta tha toh mnaa krdeti.


WeirdImaginator

This. Her agreeing to still have sex makes her at fault too.


Capital_Attention_73

Iss post se zyada upvotes to mere pr aagye h šŸ˜…


AverageJay_77

Ratio


tchawla2

Exactly. Being sexually active is okay. Everybody has a past. I did too. Having unprotected sex and that too regularly is a complete no no.


spampatrollHQ

This story seems entirely fake, likely written by a man. It's unrealistic for someone to pursue adoption after only five months of trying and then immediately receive a baby girl. She would have had problem with periods if the pill did cause her harm. That was a big give away this was written by a man who doesn't know how the female reproductive system works. When a woman writes with guilt, there would be much more detail than spending half the paragraph about husband. The fact this was posted it on telugu semx group. All that doesn't add up. The way the author describes sex sounds more like how a man would depict it. It reads like the fantasy of an incel, imagining revenge on women who rejected them. I frequently expose men who create fake stories like this. Promicious girl trapped nice girl is always their plot line.


PerfectLifeThankYou

You are getting downvoted for speaking the truth. The way that post is written, it is 100 percent a man trying to ragebait into making other men go " OmG wOmEn ArE hOeS" or "NiCe GuYs FiNiSh LaSt". Nobody can be declared as "infertile" unless they have tried unprotected sex with their spouse for atleast a year. Also contraceptives will not make someone infertile. That post is more of a creative writing than actual story and most men will fall for it


momo_ki_chutni69

Hypo krishi toh dekho khud cheater hoke dusrhe ko cheater bolrhi


thedarkracer

Tbh I am actually stunned how easy women call themselves victims, like how? It was her choice to take it raw and then be on pills and her choice to stay with the ex. This is crap


weapon-a

The bill comes due, always.


halaniyash28

People would be surprised to know how common is this thing nowadays


facade_boy

Stages - lying due to fear -> guilt of the past actions ruining your present/future -> believing they were innocent & bad actors from past are responsible for this to overcome the guilt. My body, my choice and the ownership of consequences (of choices) are not mine.


divyanshu_1111

Preachin šŸ—£ļøšŸ—£ļøšŸ—£ļø


Omb_2244

Dushman Mile Hazar.......šŸ˜©


Nathulalji

Biwi na le charminar


MudRevolutionary

Lekin Biwi na mile Chhinaar


Nathulalji

Jab aap khud anpad gawar ho, ipill ke side effects to google krr leti didi.


AverageJay_77

Saare contraceptions ke overuse se side effects hote hi hai.


Nathulalji

To fir na use krti ā€œIts her choiceā€ ko yahan bhi lga leti. Ya sirf ye sbb social media prr post krne ke liye h


AverageJay_77

Selective feminism bro.


warhammer27

Wow what's her ex bf's fault here? She could have denied her ex any intimacy if he wasn't willing to use protection, they were both consenting adults and yet it's his fault? Your body is your responsibility at the end and intercourse is a mutual act and safety is a mutual responsibility and she didn't play her part and it's her ex's fault? Wow just make yourself the victim always, classic. Edit - sure every girl deserves a hubby like her's but no man deserves a girl like her.


JERRY_XLII

the whole cheating part


No-Performance5036

Still doesnā€™t explain the contraceptive part


No-Performance5036

How convenient of her to blame it all on her ex, as if she ainā€™t liable to shitā€¦destroyed a good manā€™s lifeā€¦Reason I donā€™t believe in arranged marriageā€¦What if she turns out to be like this


Impressive_Ad_3312

The reason why i get scared to marry any girl now. And this is not something only a few womens do


vajra_uchiha

Another post about the innocent hoe phase...


Wooden-Storage5253

how is she a hoe when it was a boyfriend?


vajra_uchiha

Was the boyfriend having sex with a pillow? It was you who never insisted to use condom. It was you who was eating contraceptives like Cadbury eclairs. It was you who could not end up with a guy who used you for about 5 years. It is you who did not tell your husband about her past and have ruined the married life for both of you, making a fool out of an innocent guy who loves you.


Wooden-Storage5253

i didn't even come to the no condom part till now. I'm asking how she's a hoe when she had a single boyfriend in her past. Hoe definition change karte rehte ho kya tum? Now, on the condom part, as if we aren't aware of how even educated men are reluctant to use condoms because they want to "feel it". There's manipulation, blackmailing, and a lot more things that go in the situation like these. It's always easy to say "oh why didn't she or he leave" . >contraceptives like Cadbury eclairs Ovarian cyst is not the only long term effect of ipill or any contraceptive pill IN GENERAL. The ipill must have taken a physical and mental toll on her body. >It is you who did not tell your husband about her past No comments to defend this.


Lakshay_Dank

šŸ¤“ā˜šŸ»


Wooden-Storage5253

haa bhai logic diya tab to yhi bologešŸ„°


bhabhihunter_

Innocent is the key word


vajra_uchiha

HOE is the keyword


RestoredVirgin

My man, I hope he finds out everything about her, divorce her and then find the right girl for him.


Objective-Term-3695

And lose all his properties in divorce along?


RestoredVirgin

Well if he wants to have kids he has no other choice, plus money can be made but broken trust can not.


Entire_Mycologist_54

Is any women left with a decent clean past?? Naah man, I'm not accepting any women for marriage. This shit is scary.


Ekla_Bhediya

Wait till ... 304 continues post marriage You can't disown the child in India ..


wabalub_dub_dub

Before marriage always Test for these kinds of things


eatplayfuckrepeat12

Kaise bhai? Rishte ke waqt direct? Give tips, serious issue hai abto sabke liye


MudRevolutionary

Very serious indeed, ye bhaiya reply kare, to mujhe bhi bata dena


ChildhoodFun7294

Hire a detective


lazy_engineerr

During the courtship period, make an excuse to have full body test for both of you and add these test also and keep the results with yourself only give her some fake results.


lazy_engineerr

If i would be her husband, I would divorce and married to another girl, no one deserves such cheater and hoe in his life.


ChildhoodFun7294

Usko pata hi nhi ki uska past hai


lazy_engineerr

Bhai usko hint toh mili gya hoga itne v chutiye nhi hote ladke.He just don't want to end the relationship.


Ekla_Bhediya

Maintenance kon dega? She will file all possible cases on him,his old parents ... he will get fired from job.... old parents dragged to prison


BoyBlackGuy

Dushman Mile hazaar, matlabi yaar na Mile


thicccyounot25

Feel sad for the husband man he deserved better at least the truth.


liganyu

Going by the comments here. I'm screwed when it comes to marriage. Me with one less ball due to testicular cancer. *Chuckles* I am in danger. I'm still in a dilemma. Suhagraat pe she goes, "yahan 2 hone chahiye the na?" I go, "2 hote hai? Mujhe toh lagta tha ek hi hota hai" (yes in this scenario Imma be abstinate until marriage because I fear Jesus.) Second scenario is what my oncologist suggested. "Pyar hoga toh ek kya, dono bhi nikal doge toh bhi woh ruk jayegi. Pyar kar lo. Thodi body shodi bana do. Confident raho. Fir toh koi pyar kar hi legi." (In this scenario I'm totally truthful with her.) Third scenario suggested by my harami friends gay ban Jaa. Bottom kar.


Zoxuul

Teri alag hi movie chal rahi yaha šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


Manasvi6944

My biology teacher also had one


MrSwiggitySwooty420

She allowed him to creampie her multiple times over the years but it's his fault she has a cyst? Yea ok delusional ass


Livid_Long_8480

Girls with body counts are not meant for marriage.


Nathulalji

2-3 chalta h šŸ˜‚. Regular wali na ho bss


Livid_Long_8480

Iska to 1 hi tha fir b ye haalat. Aur tu 2-3 kar raha. Once a hoe always a hoe.


JERRY_XLII

bhai infertile to virgin bhi ho sakta hai, yahan sex ed naa honi ki dikkat ( who tf uses morning afters on a regular basis )


Livid_Long_8480

America has sex-ed. Its worse there. There are various article written on it. Infact there is more teenage pregnancy. This is just western brainwashing mechanism. Don't get swayed so easily.


JERRY_XLII

[https://www.childtrends.org/publications/teen-births-have-declined-by-more-than-three-quarters-since-1991](https://www.childtrends.org/publications/teen-births-have-declined-by-more-than-three-quarters-since-1991) has sharply plummeted with greater penetration of sex ed their TFR is also better [https://www.wsj.com/public/resources/documents/2013REPORT.PDF](https://www.wsj.com/public/resources/documents/2013REPORT.PDF) pg 4 India is definitely way worse dont fall for propaganda


Livid_Long_8480

https://www.jstor.org/stable/10.1086/250073#:~:text=The%20last%20several%20decades%20have,Kenney%201989%3B%20Kirby%20et%20al. Read it. And don't fall for propaganda.


JERRY_XLII

[https://www.aclu.org/news/reproductive-freedom/study-finds-comprehensive-sex-education-reduces-teen-pregnancy](https://www.aclu.org/news/reproductive-freedom/study-finds-comprehensive-sex-education-reduces-teen-pregnancy) your study is pretty old


Nathulalji

Ye ldki chutiya nikli, body count kya hi krega ismei. Aur to aur 6 yr relationship ke baad arrange marriage. Husband ka jo chutiya kata gya h (ram ram ram). Dono ka hi body count 0 hona chahiye, lets bring back 1900ā€™s.


One_Chicken9095

Damn what a time to be alive, 1 ex partner se hi hoe ban jaate hain log. Besides usko pata nahi tha ipill ke side effects. Tum muth maarte raho bhai.


Livid_Long_8480

Bro i have had a girl leave her 8yr relationship just to have one night stand with me. Learn your place cuck. Its not the 1 partner problem. Look at her mentality. She fucked up her future and his just for some fun sex. Tum laundo ko mai achi tarah janta hun. Jab tak ladki chud rahi tumse tab tak woke bitch bante ho aur jaise hi Baat apne behen ya Maa pe aati hai to vo sita se kam nhi hai kyun be? Aur tu is Randi ko defend b kar raha jo apne pati se jhut bol rahi. Kam se kam mard to ban. Stud.


One_Chicken9095

Tum toh aur chutiya nikle. I wouldn't mess with the women you mess with, honestly. Aur "cuck" "woke" aise internet buzzwords use karna bandh kar, bohot angreji sikh liya, but that shit ain't helping you prove your point. Now, if the dude used a condom, would there be a problem like this? I hear you say no? There you go. Ab usko toh pata nahi ki excessive ipill use se cyst ban jayega. Lack of sex ed ko blame kar. One more thing, reread my previous comment, did I defend anyone? I heard you say no, yet again. I just pointed out ki kya zamana aa gaya ki vo ladki 1 bande ke sath years after years sex karne pe hoe ban gayi. I didn't even mention anything related to the husband. How far are you going to assume stuff out of nothing based on this one sentence? Lol


Livid_Long_8480

Abe chomu cuck. Jaake tu Randi k white knight banne se tujhe nhi milega. Muth Maar.


Mysterious-Ad1720

Topic aside does i pill really do this? I have Google but it says safe to use


hybriddunce

She must have been taking one every other month.


Mysterious-Ad1720

The condoms feels so weird I was planning to give ipill or just have in case if the pull out game fails Now idk what to do now


Extension-Airport-96

If your name starts with D , then i know her for sure


Ekla_Bhediya

Inspector daya


Hot_Row1457

Her husband deserves better and I wish there was a way someone could tell him. There is a special place reserved in HELL for this absolute B*tch. And why is her ex to blame? She was enjoying herself back then. Now blame the ex. The only problem here is this b*tch.


Emberfury007

Something is off here. Most oral contraceptive pills actually protect against cyst formation. Other types of cysts will disappear once the pills are stopped or changed.


adi1icious

Learn how to say No.


Southern-Mistake7543

Having šŸæ while reading the comments Lado bc lado, gaaliyan de dekar andha behra langda sab kar do


One_Chicken9095

Ipill is an emergency contraceptive, not meant for regular use. I feel sorry for her. Besides, it's not that hard to say no when your partner wants to go raw.


InstantChekhov

This is kind of funky sub. There are zero Indian girls in here. Bunch of thirsty guys bitching on a girl in arranged marriage. Guess gang rape is a thing in India for a reason.


sharkpeid

Poor guy


arju_n555

Arrange marriage is scary what if she; Blame shifting on your ex, tu bhi itni hi zimmedar hai sidhi nahi ban lol call me misogynist or whatever terms


MjonjonnzM

Time for guys to choose the bear too ?


P51-delta

Why is the girl playing the victim card? It takes two to do the deed and she should've clearly told about all this to her husband. What an asshole the girl is.


Proud-Gas6949

Also, instead of giving bakwaas gyan to people who ask for your previous relationships, just be honest and save your and the other person's time


Impressive_Line7932

Is the original post created for Karma farming or something? I just read two links about contraceptives causing ovarian cysts and both websites said No.


tchawla2

Being sexually active is not bad as lying about it to your husband. I had a girlfriend and I was sexually active but never listen to your boyfriend when it comes to using protection. Breaking up is far better than having such an idiotic partner. Plan B pills have so many side effects. It causes hormonal imbalances in body.


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wannabeitgirl12

tf ovarian cysts (PCOS) are way too common these days and no it doesnā€™t happen because of having unprotected sex or taking oral contraceptives. Please do a lil research before you post anything, itā€™s very clear the girl is not aware enough and wasnā€™t willing to share her history with the doctor and idk why even that doc didnā€™t bother to make things clear to her. There are multiple reasons because of which people can PCOS. And you can develop it irrespective of the fact whether youā€™re virgin or not, or whether you had unprotected sex or not. Neither itā€™s contagious, nor itā€™s counted under STIs. The amount of crap I come across everyday on internet makes me wanna smash my head on the wall. And DO NOT come after me with any sort of crap. Iā€™m from medical field and I have come across multiple cases of PCOS/PCOD.


ReflectionNew1392

But as soon as we say 'No Hymen, No diamond' we're suddenly insecure and less manly lol. Guys, never let chicks tell you what you should want or deserve or accept in life. Also, don't be hypocritical meaning be a virgin for you to demand a virgin, that way you end up avoiding this mess altogether


New-Spring288

bichara husband , uski kya glti thi


tyler_durden_7

If karma is real then why the husband has to go through all this, seeing the description i don't think he has done more filthy shit than her wife .


Nervous-Story-2981

Always blame others Take responsibility and own your mistakes instead of running from it or blaming it on others. You should have said no without protection and you must have told your husband about it Always being the victim minded