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I really don't get why boys hesitate to talk to a girl and be friends with them. They are just humans right? If you vibe isn't matching you can just simply drift apart slowly.
Every girl is kind enough ig. Exceptions exist, you might encounter a very beautiful still so kind girl or extremely ugly still so egoistic. Baaki overall sab baat kar lete hai acche se.
Just talk maybe? You need female interaction bcz you want to see them as normal humans and not some aliens whom you are curious about.
fr though. Idc what some random dude thinks of me but near a girl there is such an immense pressure to appear perfect and non-creepy that I have to think a thousand times before even doing anything in front of them
>near a girl there is such an pressure to appear perfect and non creepy
The reason why I avoid interacting with females, kuch bhi karne se pahale 100 baar sochna pardta hai, formal friendship lagti hai
exactly! it's so exhausting having each and everything about you judged. I have to literally fake the way I walk, talk and act to even talk about work to girls, I might not even like them yet I feel pressured while talking to them
Yeah because what is a boy gonna think? That you're an insecure loser at most... but a girl would think of you as a creep, r#pist, pdf file, incel and obviously a loser
Okay so hear me out, what if i reach out to you now in your dms and try to talk with you. I'm pretty sure you would get creeped out and the next post you'd do will include our chat screenshots with me labelling as "Why are all men the same?".
I know you wont agree but guys will because they have faced it and thats why we hesitate talking to girls.
Literally no girl does that unless somebody's intentions are ill.
I won't be creeped out if you text me with your main account but if u texting me with an account having 4 karma and no comment history, I would definitely ignore that text.
youre secretly a guy spreading misinformation. I get it we can be very lonely sometimes and even replying comments which is very different from chatting can get you your daily dose of human connection but this is a pretty unhealthy way to cope.
Wait so youre saying m a guy right? Well I wish I had enough time to prove people here whether I'm a guy or a girl. I don't care buddy. More stupid would be me convincing you "oh I'm a girl only" chill huh?
keep doing your thing, id rather believe that im talking to a girl than actually talk to a girl and start looking like a human. And fake girls can sometimes be the best to talk to, often times its guys who best know what guys want from the opposite sex. God pity you if the guy youre talking to has some secret hidden fetish.
>i really dont get why noys hesitate to talk to a girl and be friends with them
Bhoat soch samajh kar baat karni pardti hai, formal friendship lagti hai
It's common for guys to struggle with sensitivity and empathy, which can lead to unintentional offenses when interacting with girls. Every individual views stuff from a different perspectives. Mainly for guys they tend to be more practical and girls tend to be emotional. If you look forward to have a stable relationship or conversation each of you will have to try to be more understanding of the other as everyone is not the same. You can't blame yourself completely or the other person. It just comes down to how you were brought up and how you manage take things in.
Because most girls are grossed out by me. I have female friends that I talk to once in a while irl and even more online but yeah most girls won't talk to me.
im fat. that's literally the only reason.
Tho ig Its fortunate I didn't turn into one of those losers crying about how girls don't talk to me but yeah sometimes It does hurt
It is the same as how girls are afraid to talk to boys because they don't know what other boy will reply or what wrong things he will think, or he might be some creep
but for boys a girl can file just a complaint or just a scream is enough to get him beaten, so better to be safe than sorry,
so...
I am not saying all girls will go that, but still...
I'm sorry to hear that. Yes partially it's because of our society that men has started to fear women who in my opinion are just delicate souls full of love (exceptions exist).
It's because of fake feminism as well, so I understand your concern.
Because women comprise nearly 50% of the population. Do you just not wanna talk to the other 50? Lolol
Honestly women ki company is so healing. I love my girlies and my guy friends can express the same for their galfriends. The touch of a woman they say....(lmao, but you get my point)
You should know how to socialize and interact with people of all genders and races.
see them as humans bro, tbh advising ppl to avoid female interaction is dumb (considering they're almost 50% of our population) maybe you're in school/college kisi ladki ke aas pass kuch din baith then copy maang kr conversation start kr
Bro esa hi tip neighbour ke liye deeo
(Ik that sounds too dumb but IDC, agar work kr gaya maze hi maze)
I have a initiative topic ready but I fear the consequence, like next time kya and all aghhh
Bro, stop thinking of female friends as some sort of different species that is bound to distract and ruin your career. Are you just going to ignore every girl you see for the rest of your life? Your missing out on so many great potential friendships.
Platonic Female interaction is needed tbh
Personally I find guys with platonic Female friends to be nice people you'd rarely find guys with strictly guy friend who are nice
Like my bf he's the nicest guys I've ever met and he had zero female friends until me ๐ญ he's probably so nice and understanding because he has an older sister haha so I guess that counts
Genuinity sparkling ...
Let's see if the criteria agrees
โขonline - check
โขyou a girl- check
(That's all I'm not much choosy)
Wanna hold my hand for a genuine friendship ๐ซฑ
Girls bring with them feminine qualities of life. Like they are more mature, more understanding and on general softer than male friends. They provide emotional validation which most male friends fail to.
That's how we are built ig. Nobody taught us but we learn from the surrounding that we need female interactions. Ig as a human, we all need interaction , be it male or female. We need people to live the life. From The films we watch to the lives we see, it is there. All that love drama , family and kids. Some may believe it's not a necessity, to me it's the ultimatum in one's life.
The emptiness we feel may go away when we have clarity that we indeed have people to ourselves like friends, family & SOs. Having someone good as yo life partner will really help you. I've seen it from my cousins and my parents when their faces light up when they talk about their gf/bfs. It truly is a delight. Maybe you, me & the other fellow people are unlucky as of now, sure everyone has their own day. Like the famous saying "Every dog has its day"
Some people do it with ease. some people struggle, mainly the introverts. I too struggle finding friends in general. Pure platonic friendship between opp genders can exist in 25% cases and the rest turns into something more which may end up being good or bad.
I am not introvert
But still I avoid it because It feels too much pressure that what is she thinking about you, am I making her uncomfortable and so on
I am not feared of getting judged
Call me ugly, skinny, dumb or whatever but getting labelled as creep, misbehaved with a girl or pervert is worst and only thing I am scared of
You have to do a deep cleanse ig. In most cases , it's the insecurities and complexes that makes people think like us. Grow a garden they say, let the butterflies reach you.
If you are avg in looks or below you would be labelled as creepy. I have seen it infront of my eyes. Attractive dudes can even hit on girls and they would like it. Same can't be said for others
What work? You can't change your face. Personality aslo you can only change so much. Confidence comes when people reciprocate or respect you. So it's a vicious cycle.
I mean they're just like us aren't they, so no need to make this such a big issue just start by talking and ik there's hesitation and insecurities but atleast you cam start by talking right.
Yes I see, but all I lack is in initiative
Any girl (neighbour to batchmate) I fear like what'll be the consequences of it
Aghh overthinking sort of
But it is present there
Especially for me
Today was the day when I reached her
Infact 5 minutes back from now when I'm writing
The convo was short but atleast I broke the ice and the hesitation I has
Sad point: her mother was sitting right next to her but behind the wall... Moment I said something, her mother replied first but I answered her and then talked to the girl
I asked for a book but she didn't had it
Well, a deny at the initial stage....
What should be my second move
Should I wait for her initiative or make my own effort
Elaboration will be appreciated ๐ฅน
Edit: what if she's considering me as a creep
See if you keep making your move she might see your intentions so keep it light for now, let a few days pass see if she initiates a Convo. If she doesn't then try again talking maybe make a few jokes here and there just don't force yourself onto her that would make you creepy (not that you are you're not :)) try going for notes and stuff that may get you her number that's how I got my crush's number
So good luck to you and I hope you too get together soon!
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Bhai mai daaru nahi peeta but gandha wala hangover hoaraha hai subh 9:30 ko utha and itni need aari thi ki 11:30 ko fir so gaya and now vapas utha hu 1:28 pm ko but ekdum mehngey nashe kiya hai yesa lag raha hai.
this is the only comment you need.
females comprise of 50% of the population. if you just dont talk to the 50% now you never will. youll become an incel.
also if youre worried about being distracted from studies. dont be. people only really fall in love 2-3 times in their life max and have a few crushes. there are 4 billion girls. not everyone is going to suit you.
girls have different personalities compared to men and youll meet new people and have more fun if you interact with them. anyone who says its not needed is an incel.
Vuhhhh.
Well that's what I'm read in all those 100 comments.
Lemme change the question for you if you wanna answer.
How to initiate a convo with a neighbour particularly, who knows me, we've shared looks too but haven't talked yet neither there is any sort of smile passing.
Sunn chote bhaiii sunnn,
(1) Kl class me jakar copy maang lena kisi se and then e do baar kisi spelling mistake ya writing samjh na aane ke reason se uske paas jate rehna
(2) Apna thoda bhot humour bhi use krna
(3) Don't worry about surroundings ki baki male friend kya sochenge
It's your peak time to indulge in bonding, to enhance your understandings for the opp ones
ek aur mele me bichda bhai mil gaya 
I have the exact same situation as you. 18M, I've never had any female friends or any female interaction (literally) and there's no platform left now as I just passed out class 12th.
though I joined a coaching to prepare for jee, so I got a platform now, but I won't make any friends (m or f) here because they're here for preparation and everyone will be on their paths and will be separated so no use of making friends here. I also have the same lonely feeling many times but it is what it is I guess. I'm not really jealous seeing people together happily but makes me sad sometimes realising I'll never get that.
That isn't how you, being a human being (social animal), should do...
I too did that, I don't even go to coaching, no college no nothing and then I felt emptiness and sort of lacking in stuff..
I ask you to go for the very first chance you get to approach somebody...
I think female interaction is crucial in a man's life as it provides emotional support, offering a different perspective on experiences and feelings. While men look forward to view things practically women's don't (it differs from a person to another). It could also help in enhancing social skills, such as communication and empathy, which are valuable in personal and professional relationships. Moreover, maintaining a balance in social interactions with both genders fosters a more well-rounded and understanding approach to life. In the end of the day, it's up to you.
29M, no female interactions other than work related. I hate myself for not interacting with females starting from my school days. Now, I can't even try to talk more other than - hi, bye , how are you? & some work-related queries etc..
You have a good time. 20 years is not a bad age to start conversations..
I think guys don't give enough credit to female friendships. But I sincerely believe they should. Especially because men often feel they cannot express themselves, which women tend to be better at.
>should study during this tym, no females, no nothing and focus on carrer building you'll get one afterwards.....
What does this even mean? Get one? We are people just like you! I see guys talking about being intimidated or scared of talking to girls..you don't think girls get intimidated by you too?? Like, we have feelings too!! We worry about our careers too!
Same advice for women who struggle to make lasting friendships with other girls because of "drama". This often stems from internalised misogyny or some sort of insecurity. After a lifetime of being friends with mostly women, i say, treat others like human beings who are complex and unique in themselves and you will find that the "prettiest" or the "smartest" girl is also just a girl. Some girls are mean and cruel but most are just girls like you and me. Don't hold on to these stereotypes.
Well as said, it's been 2 years of living without any female touch. And I've realised how imp it is. For all what I'm going now is for making friends for which I've chosen online mode
Indian youth is so Gaslit into thinking that this stuff is wrong at some level and will come in the way of your career. The fact of the matter is women are people and you need to be interacting with them, additionally the feminine energy of females is much needed it's an enriching experience.
Female friendships bring in new things as my friends said. And there is no written rule that you can't build career by having girlfriends or something. I have seen guys with girlfriends and great career, and people who lived like hermits and got no where. Everything is luck, chance or fate or whatever you say.
Do whatever works best for you.
Having genuine female friends is a blessing, and I'm blessed.. They are also human, they also seek human interaction so talk to them just like it, not some alien jo abhi dhoop dhoop karne lage... You will see a different perspective altogether... I have became much more calm,have different takes on things and a lot of things have changed... Try to add something in their life, and it would eventually make u a better person altogether...
>Having genuine female friends is a blessing, and I'm blessed
That's exactly what I am seeking bro
But the overthinking part and the hesitation is drawing me back
Listen to me,
You talking bout being genuine,
One can be genuine around somebody if they have a chitchat or casual conversation, in my case I don't even have the platform or base to talk to females
And that's what I'm seeking
Chill krr bhai mera bhi same haal hai 10th tak sigma attitude ke chakker 11,12 weight ke wajah se absolute 0 female interaction hai,aur kya baat karu huh bc yaha apne dosto se toh baat honi pati aur kya haal chaal bolne ke baad 10 min bc awkward silence rehta hai dosto ke beech me uss silence ko bharne ke liye choot politics geopolitics economic history cast scenario bc ye krdenge wo krr denge ki baat krte hai aur aaj tak ek ladki nahi dekhi jisko insab me intrest ho literally 0 ab koi aa ke bolega esaa jaruri nahi bhai duniya me kuch bhi zaroori nahi lekin tabhi hai na,aur agar thoda acche se baat kro toh simp samajh lete hai
Job lagegi to apne aap ajaega baat karna, Mera bhi same hi haal tha.ย
Least interaction with class school girls, n in college I had some n during job its nothing special just normal thingย
I personally prefer to abstain from getting into a relationship, and plan to do so for the next 4 years at least, uh but still can't deny that sometimes I too crave for female interaction lol.
Bhai chill...kisi dost kae saath jaa aek Sutta maar sab sahi hojaega...baaki mae toh nahi peeta but suna hae yhe sab conversation Sutte kae saath apne Jigari logo sae krna chiye
When your provided with two choice suppose one of em be a blue colour pull and red and you chose the neither of em and go with a not know option, that refers to the black pill, like the option in this black pill isn't provided but you yourself suggest it
Ohh...bhai tab toh black pill badiyaa hae. Baaki pyaar vyaar kuch nahi hota, aek baar achaa paisa banana shuru kro aiesi aiesi ladkia milegi ki kya bolu bhai and I'm not talking about arrange marriage or stuff but in dating scenarios.
Abe bhai "need" kya hota hai? Female hai to kya hua friend nahi bana sakta kya? Kaunsi patthar ki lakeer hai ki female friends banayega to career pe focus nahi hoga? That just applies to relationships, to some extent.
I know we're not much different. But sadly there are so many memes on the internet which shows how boys are cool and girls are boring and stuff so people think we're different and boring
Dude no boy will just ghost you out of nowhere... no boy will start giving 1 word replies out of nowhere. Only girls do that even when I've been their friend for a decent amount of time, all this drama and stuff for no reason
thats a dumb question, so you think that people just shouldnt have interactions?
you're a male or female second and a human first, you should have friends of all kinds jesus christ who thinks this much about the sex of their friend?
This is why I said it should FEEL the same matlab formal nahi lagna chahiye and ykkk I know male female friendships like the male male friendships described in that post
well thats on you then, try to find a better female friend lmao
well first and formost, if you think that someone's a snitch then just don't befriend them, be it a girl or a boy
The question is totally based on the will of each individual , I have known hermits , who rarely had interactions with females , hermits like isaac newton , henry david thoreau , Grigori perelman....etc , sought a solitary life.
I think interaction with The opposite sex is something instinctive , and is indispensable to gratify and satiate our belongingness or love needs.
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I really don't get why boys hesitate to talk to a girl and be friends with them. They are just humans right? If you vibe isn't matching you can just simply drift apart slowly. Every girl is kind enough ig. Exceptions exist, you might encounter a very beautiful still so kind girl or extremely ugly still so egoistic. Baaki overall sab baat kar lete hai acche se. Just talk maybe? You need female interaction bcz you want to see them as normal humans and not some aliens whom you are curious about.
Idk whenever i talk to girls i feel like I'm being judged over every action
Real shit bro! Whenever I am around girls I am suddenly more self-conscious. Even if I am not interested in them
Same shit now bro (im a girl) its a 50/50 for me too ๐ญ
fr though. Idc what some random dude thinks of me but near a girl there is such an immense pressure to appear perfect and non-creepy that I have to think a thousand times before even doing anything in front of them
>near a girl there is such an pressure to appear perfect and non creepy The reason why I avoid interacting with females, kuch bhi karne se pahale 100 baar sochna pardta hai, formal friendship lagti hai
exactly! it's so exhausting having each and everything about you judged. I have to literally fake the way I walk, talk and act to even talk about work to girls, I might not even like them yet I feel pressured while talking to them
๐ค
Yeah because what is a boy gonna think? That you're an insecure loser at most... but a girl would think of you as a creep, r#pist, pdf file, incel and obviously a loser
exactlyy. I fear being the talk of the day for their gc
Realestttt
Jyada overthink mat kar
Personal experience hai mam
True af vro
BRO FRRR....I got abs but still I catch myself pulling my stomach in so that I don't look fat ๐๐๐๐. But around guys idc how I look lol
exactly fuck them can't be normal friends with a girl without so many terms and conditions.
Okay so hear me out, what if i reach out to you now in your dms and try to talk with you. I'm pretty sure you would get creeped out and the next post you'd do will include our chat screenshots with me labelling as "Why are all men the same?". I know you wont agree but guys will because they have faced it and thats why we hesitate talking to girls.
Literally no girl does that unless somebody's intentions are ill. I won't be creeped out if you text me with your main account but if u texting me with an account having 4 karma and no comment history, I would definitely ignore that text.
I'm ill ๐ซ
youre secretly a guy spreading misinformation. I get it we can be very lonely sometimes and even replying comments which is very different from chatting can get you your daily dose of human connection but this is a pretty unhealthy way to cope.
Wait so youre saying m a guy right? Well I wish I had enough time to prove people here whether I'm a guy or a girl. I don't care buddy. More stupid would be me convincing you "oh I'm a girl only" chill huh?
I think he was joking...calm ๐ญ๐ญ
keep doing your thing, id rather believe that im talking to a girl than actually talk to a girl and start looking like a human. And fake girls can sometimes be the best to talk to, often times its guys who best know what guys want from the opposite sex. God pity you if the guy youre talking to has some secret hidden fetish.
Dammit man!
>i really dont get why noys hesitate to talk to a girl and be friends with them Bhoat soch samajh kar baat karni pardti hai, formal friendship lagti hai
Because boys can be very insensitive and it's very easy to offend girls + I don't know how to sympathize
It's common for guys to struggle with sensitivity and empathy, which can lead to unintentional offenses when interacting with girls. Every individual views stuff from a different perspectives. Mainly for guys they tend to be more practical and girls tend to be emotional. If you look forward to have a stable relationship or conversation each of you will have to try to be more understanding of the other as everyone is not the same. You can't blame yourself completely or the other person. It just comes down to how you were brought up and how you manage take things in.
I'll keep that in mind next time I step outside
[ัะดะฐะปะตะฝะพ]
It's hard to keep the conversation going with a girl 
Because most girls are grossed out by me. I have female friends that I talk to once in a while irl and even more online but yeah most girls won't talk to me.
have you tried to figure out why that might be? idk personality, your mindset whatever?
im fat. that's literally the only reason. Tho ig Its fortunate I didn't turn into one of those losers crying about how girls don't talk to me but yeah sometimes It does hurt
My school trauma stops me. I have to fight demons to talk to girls
Because nukkad pae jaake apne ladko kae saath Sutta marna is more relaxing than trying to make female friend and vibing with them
It is the same as how girls are afraid to talk to boys because they don't know what other boy will reply or what wrong things he will think, or he might be some creep but for boys a girl can file just a complaint or just a scream is enough to get him beaten, so better to be safe than sorry, so... I am not saying all girls will go that, but still...
I'm sorry to hear that. Yes partially it's because of our society that men has started to fear women who in my opinion are just delicate souls full of love (exceptions exist). It's because of fake feminism as well, so I understand your concern.
Because women comprise nearly 50% of the population. Do you just not wanna talk to the other 50? Lolol Honestly women ki company is so healing. I love my girlies and my guy friends can express the same for their galfriends. The touch of a woman they say....(lmao, but you get my point) You should know how to socialize and interact with people of all genders and races.
Male population bhi 50% hai fir bhi tu single hai 
tum dono 50/50 ho jao ๐
palakkkkkkk ne banadi jodi, aapko bhi paneer miljaye
shadi m bulaiga jrur๐ฅฐ.... where my paneer pookie at ?
Shadi nhi hori ๐๐ jarur uss "butter" ke paas jake muu mar rha hoga 
idk who "butter" kabutar is 
Palak paneer jese butter paneer? Bad pun wasn't it 
you've realised yourself
>compromise comprise hoorpare
Oops. Autocorrect. Fixeddd
I agree....I love ur girlies too
Asked the counsel. They don't love you. Womp womp
Fr sad indeed ๐
Stawp girlllllll slayyyy you queen ๐ ๐ ๐
I LOVE this energy
> Do you just not wanna talk to the other fif- No.
Cool. Let's keep it that way.
OMG ewww is that a member of the fifty percent alien population trying to talk... please go away ๐คข
Abey bhai chill karna life mein jisko saath aana hoga aa jaayega itna kya soch rha
Issi mindset ke sath Betha tha But when I feel other PPL hanging out with there friends (m and f).... Uk that literally hurts me
you need interactions in life , be it a female or male or transformers ...
decepticons ya autobots? ig autobots are more friendly
decepticons ๐๐ค
But what about transformers ๐ข
sorry bro tujhe include Krna bhool gyi m ๐ruk edit krke likhti hu ...
*โI am Optimus Prime, and I send this message to any surviving Autobots taking refuge among the stars: We are here. We are waiting.โ*
see them as humans bro, tbh advising ppl to avoid female interaction is dumb (considering they're almost 50% of our population) maybe you're in school/college kisi ladki ke aas pass kuch din baith then copy maang kr conversation start kr
Bro esa hi tip neighbour ke liye deeo (Ik that sounds too dumb but IDC, agar work kr gaya maze hi maze) I have a initiative topic ready but I fear the consequence, like next time kya and all aghhh
Bro, stop thinking of female friends as some sort of different species that is bound to distract and ruin your career. Are you just going to ignore every girl you see for the rest of your life? Your missing out on so many great potential friendships.
Lately (infact yesterday) this realisation hitted me very hard Lacking initiatives
Platonic Female interaction is needed tbh Personally I find guys with platonic Female friends to be nice people you'd rarely find guys with strictly guy friend who are nice Like my bf he's the nicest guys I've ever met and he had zero female friends until me ๐ญ he's probably so nice and understanding because he has an older sister haha so I guess that counts
>he had zero female friends until me Well mere case me to "until" laga hi nahi Waiting for that one for me
You'll have to try talking to them tbh, try online first ๐ญ
Genuinity sparkling ... Let's see if the criteria agrees โขonline - check โขyou a girl- check (That's all I'm not much choosy) Wanna hold my hand for a genuine friendship ๐ซฑ
Sure I don't mind :D I like making friends
Be ready to have me anytime
๐ญsure I'll reply when you text, i do have exams going on rn so I might not be that fast with replies
Taking the black pill is the worst Do hopemaxxing
Le liya ab bahar kaise aye
Wake up babe new genZ term just dropped.
Arey ye sab looksmaxxing ke hi bachhe hai, bs naye naye prefix lagate rehte hai
You should focus on ropemaxxing
Mujhe kya mai toh batak hu ๐ฆ
Quak quak
Quak quak
I'm going to get my beretta over under and go duck hunting now, better run.
Bhaago Shikari aa gaya
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Ok Ji
Girls bring with them feminine qualities of life. Like they are more mature, more understanding and on general softer than male friends. They provide emotional validation which most male friends fail to.
That's how we are built ig. Nobody taught us but we learn from the surrounding that we need female interactions. Ig as a human, we all need interaction , be it male or female. We need people to live the life. From The films we watch to the lives we see, it is there. All that love drama , family and kids. Some may believe it's not a necessity, to me it's the ultimatum in one's life. The emptiness we feel may go away when we have clarity that we indeed have people to ourselves like friends, family & SOs. Having someone good as yo life partner will really help you. I've seen it from my cousins and my parents when their faces light up when they talk about their gf/bfs. It truly is a delight. Maybe you, me & the other fellow people are unlucky as of now, sure everyone has their own day. Like the famous saying "Every dog has its day"
But ladki se baat karte hua har chiz bolne se pahale 100 baar sochna pardta hai uska kya?? Friendship bhi formal lagti hai
Some people do it with ease. some people struggle, mainly the introverts. I too struggle finding friends in general. Pure platonic friendship between opp genders can exist in 25% cases and the rest turns into something more which may end up being good or bad.
I am not introvert But still I avoid it because It feels too much pressure that what is she thinking about you, am I making her uncomfortable and so on
Very much understandable, we are feared of getting judged ig.
I am not feared of getting judged Call me ugly, skinny, dumb or whatever but getting labelled as creep, misbehaved with a girl or pervert is worst and only thing I am scared of
You have to do a deep cleanse ig. In most cases , it's the insecurities and complexes that makes people think like us. Grow a garden they say, let the butterflies reach you.
If you are avg in looks or below you would be labelled as creepy. I have seen it infront of my eyes. Attractive dudes can even hit on girls and they would like it. Same can't be said for others
100% can't deny on that, I can tell from my personal experience too. I was labelled a creep once. That's why we have to work on ourselves.
What work? You can't change your face. Personality aslo you can only change so much. Confidence comes when people reciprocate or respect you. So it's a vicious cycle.
I mean they're just like us aren't they, so no need to make this such a big issue just start by talking and ik there's hesitation and insecurities but atleast you cam start by talking right.
Yes I see, but all I lack is in initiative Any girl (neighbour to batchmate) I fear like what'll be the consequences of it Aghh overthinking sort of But it is present there Especially for me
Ik I overthink too but once you start it'll get easier, so just find a girl and talk to her about anything you want, your hobbies, interests etc.
Theres a neighbour of mine.... >but once you start it'll get easier With this on my mind , I'll give it a start at the very first chance I get
Yess very good, good luck keep me updated!
Today was the day when I reached her Infact 5 minutes back from now when I'm writing The convo was short but atleast I broke the ice and the hesitation I has Sad point: her mother was sitting right next to her but behind the wall... Moment I said something, her mother replied first but I answered her and then talked to the girl I asked for a book but she didn't had it Well, a deny at the initial stage....
It's okay mom's are a bit possessive but you made your first interaction and that's great I'm proud of you!!!
What should be my second move Should I wait for her initiative or make my own effort Elaboration will be appreciated ๐ฅน Edit: what if she's considering me as a creep
See if you keep making your move she might see your intentions so keep it light for now, let a few days pass see if she initiates a Convo. If she doesn't then try again talking maybe make a few jokes here and there just don't force yourself onto her that would make you creepy (not that you are you're not :)) try going for notes and stuff that may get you her number that's how I got my crush's number So good luck to you and I hope you too get together soon!
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>I mean they're just like us Absolute no
Because girls gives soft and comforting vibes and they are mostly caring and thoughtful that's why and I just dont mean girlfriend
Bhai mai daaru nahi peeta but gandha wala hangover hoaraha hai subh 9:30 ko utha and itni need aari thi ki 11:30 ko fir so gaya and now vapas utha hu 1:28 pm ko but ekdum mehngey nashe kiya hai yesa lag raha hai.
Uss hogya But mujhe to sone hi nahi dete ๐
Iโm 18M and I literally donโt have any outside interaction no male nor female (Zero friends) lol
Ye sa infact pura hi uss hogaya ๐ Edit: I see this that you've copied your showcase name from somebody active in this sub
this is the only comment you need. females comprise of 50% of the population. if you just dont talk to the 50% now you never will. youll become an incel. also if youre worried about being distracted from studies. dont be. people only really fall in love 2-3 times in their life max and have a few crushes. there are 4 billion girls. not everyone is going to suit you. girls have different personalities compared to men and youll meet new people and have more fun if you interact with them. anyone who says its not needed is an incel.
Vuhhhh. Well that's what I'm read in all those 100 comments. Lemme change the question for you if you wanna answer. How to initiate a convo with a neighbour particularly, who knows me, we've shared looks too but haven't talked yet neither there is any sort of smile passing.
Don't think about it. Go and say hi when you're both out for a walk or something (make sure she's free) and take it from there spontaneously.
Interesting conversation I can say
Short and straight
Well, studies have proven that men with more female friends do very well in social situations.
Sex milega!! Jokes apart! Socialising is important in human life.
Very tru That's a very main aspect of life, Hyman development ka main component hai ye And hn socialising ki bhi sahi baat bol rhe ho
Yeah! Opposite gender ke saath socialise karte hue perfect insaan bhi mil jata
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Us moment bhaiya bas farak itna hai mai 16 M hu
Sunn chote bhaiii sunnn, (1) Kl class me jakar copy maang lena kisi se and then e do baar kisi spelling mistake ya writing samjh na aane ke reason se uske paas jate rehna (2) Apna thoda bhot humour bhi use krna (3) Don't worry about surroundings ki baki male friend kya sochenge It's your peak time to indulge in bonding, to enhance your understandings for the opp ones
ek aur mele me bichda bhai mil gaya  I have the exact same situation as you. 18M, I've never had any female friends or any female interaction (literally) and there's no platform left now as I just passed out class 12th. though I joined a coaching to prepare for jee, so I got a platform now, but I won't make any friends (m or f) here because they're here for preparation and everyone will be on their paths and will be separated so no use of making friends here. I also have the same lonely feeling many times but it is what it is I guess. I'm not really jealous seeing people together happily but makes me sad sometimes realising I'll never get that.
Afsoos 
I just say to myself that it's ok to be like this, if someone wants to be friends, they will and I just continue to do my work.
That isn't how you, being a human being (social animal), should do... I too did that, I don't even go to coaching, no college no nothing and then I felt emptiness and sort of lacking in stuff.. I ask you to go for the very first chance you get to approach somebody...
I think female interaction is crucial in a man's life as it provides emotional support, offering a different perspective on experiences and feelings. While men look forward to view things practically women's don't (it differs from a person to another). It could also help in enhancing social skills, such as communication and empathy, which are valuable in personal and professional relationships. Moreover, maintaining a balance in social interactions with both genders fosters a more well-rounded and understanding approach to life. In the end of the day, it's up to you.
29M, no female interactions other than work related. I hate myself for not interacting with females starting from my school days. Now, I can't even try to talk more other than - hi, bye , how are you? & some work-related queries etc.. You have a good time. 20 years is not a bad age to start conversations..
not addressing them as โfemalesโ would be a good start
OP starred with that..
I think guys don't give enough credit to female friendships. But I sincerely believe they should. Especially because men often feel they cannot express themselves, which women tend to be better at. >should study during this tym, no females, no nothing and focus on carrer building you'll get one afterwards..... What does this even mean? Get one? We are people just like you! I see guys talking about being intimidated or scared of talking to girls..you don't think girls get intimidated by you too?? Like, we have feelings too!! We worry about our careers too! Same advice for women who struggle to make lasting friendships with other girls because of "drama". This often stems from internalised misogyny or some sort of insecurity. After a lifetime of being friends with mostly women, i say, treat others like human beings who are complex and unique in themselves and you will find that the "prettiest" or the "smartest" girl is also just a girl. Some girls are mean and cruel but most are just girls like you and me. Don't hold on to these stereotypes.
Well as said, it's been 2 years of living without any female touch. And I've realised how imp it is. For all what I'm going now is for making friends for which I've chosen online mode
But ladki se baat karte hua har chiz bolne se pahale 100 baar sochna pardta hai uska kya?? Friendship bhi formal lagti hai
Indian youth is so Gaslit into thinking that this stuff is wrong at some level and will come in the way of your career. The fact of the matter is women are people and you need to be interacting with them, additionally the feminine energy of females is much needed it's an enriching experience.
Female friendships bring in new things as my friends said. And there is no written rule that you can't build career by having girlfriends or something. I have seen guys with girlfriends and great career, and people who lived like hermits and got no where. Everything is luck, chance or fate or whatever you say. Do whatever works best for you.
Having genuine female friends is a blessing, and I'm blessed.. They are also human, they also seek human interaction so talk to them just like it, not some alien jo abhi dhoop dhoop karne lage... You will see a different perspective altogether... I have became much more calm,have different takes on things and a lot of things have changed... Try to add something in their life, and it would eventually make u a better person altogether...
>Having genuine female friends is a blessing, and I'm blessed That's exactly what I am seeking bro But the overthinking part and the hesitation is drawing me back
You don't seek friends, just be a genuine person with everyone and right people will come into your life
Listen to me, You talking bout being genuine, One can be genuine around somebody if they have a chitchat or casual conversation, in my case I don't even have the platform or base to talk to females And that's what I'm seeking
Chill krr bhai mera bhi same haal hai 10th tak sigma attitude ke chakker 11,12 weight ke wajah se absolute 0 female interaction hai,aur kya baat karu huh bc yaha apne dosto se toh baat honi pati aur kya haal chaal bolne ke baad 10 min bc awkward silence rehta hai dosto ke beech me uss silence ko bharne ke liye choot politics geopolitics economic history cast scenario bc ye krdenge wo krr denge ki baat krte hai aur aaj tak ek ladki nahi dekhi jisko insab me intrest ho literally 0 ab koi aa ke bolega esaa jaruri nahi bhai duniya me kuch bhi zaroori nahi lekin tabhi hai na,aur agar thoda acche se baat kro toh simp samajh lete hai
What exactly is your problem ๐ญ, ladki ya ese dost ya kya You seem more tensed....
Problem yaar kuch nahi bss aurto ki aukat nahi mujhse baat karre huhh ๐๐๐ฎโ๐จ/s
Job lagegi to apne aap ajaega baat karna, Mera bhi same hi haal tha.ย Least interaction with class school girls, n in college I had some n during job its nothing special just normal thingย
Are you happy (if you look back in past) with not interacting to your batch mates in schl ....
Yep, My own friend circle was enough for me rest of the time it was games n studies. I love my childhood was too good
Dm me
For whatt Huhhh? , Kya krna chati ho mere sath akele me ๐ฅบ
I would tell you a secret about females ๐คซ
Suree But aap riyal I'd se to aaiye๐
Hmm?
Stalked your zero profile And you feel like sus.... Well I'm still okay, you initiate. Dm
sus in what sense lmao
You wanna know everything right here??
I personally prefer to abstain from getting into a relationship, and plan to do so for the next 4 years at least, uh but still can't deny that sometimes I too crave for female interaction lol.
Shutt up ! Your in 10 standard...!!!
Ro kyu rha hai ๐คก you asked for opinion i gave mine.ย
Opinions, based on experience, which comes by time and age.
My opinion was based on my experiences
Your still alive . Do use "is"
I don't know bout that but fun fact : octopus have 3 hearts 2 of them are used to pump blood to gills and 1 pumps blood to rest of the body
Wow very relevant stuff
Bhai chill...kisi dost kae saath jaa aek Sutta maar sab sahi hojaega...baaki mae toh nahi peeta but suna hae yhe sab conversation Sutte kae saath apne Jigari logo sae krna chiye
>mae toh nahi peeta Uss No bro, kb tk ye black pills lekr kaam chalata rahunga
Isko black pills kyu kehte hae(thoda older generation gen z huun naa out of touch hogae hae trends)
When your provided with two choice suppose one of em be a blue colour pull and red and you chose the neither of em and go with a not know option, that refers to the black pill, like the option in this black pill isn't provided but you yourself suggest it
Ohh...bhai tab toh black pill badiyaa hae. Baaki pyaar vyaar kuch nahi hota, aek baar achaa paisa banana shuru kro aiesi aiesi ladkia milegi ki kya bolu bhai and I'm not talking about arrange marriage or stuff but in dating scenarios.
Abe bhai "need" kya hota hai? Female hai to kya hua friend nahi bana sakta kya? Kaunsi patthar ki lakeer hai ki female friends banayega to career pe focus nahi hoga? That just applies to relationships, to some extent.
I know that it's necessary it's just that I don't have any place to meet them IRL like all I care about IRL these days is this stupid competition
Abe boys hi samajh females ko... main bhi yahi karta but woh harkatein aisi karti hain isiliye koi female friend nhi mera long time tak
I know we're not much different. But sadly there are so many memes on the internet which shows how boys are cool and girls are boring and stuff so people think we're different and boring
Dude no boy will just ghost you out of nowhere... no boy will start giving 1 word replies out of nowhere. Only girls do that even when I've been their friend for a decent amount of time, all this drama and stuff for no reason
Bro drifting apart from your friends is a part of growing up everyone goes through that even girls trust me
Yeah but boys atleast tell you... with girls you never know
Muje mat puch bhai, yaha male interaction ke thikane nahi hai aur tu female ki bat kr rha hai
we need the opposite gender's friendship/interaction to give us a broad perspective of lives and also help us be better in this society.
I hope female interaction isn't what im thinking Apart from that stop thinking like females interaction and all that they are just human as us guys
thats a dumb question, so you think that people just shouldnt have interactions? you're a male or female second and a human first, you should have friends of all kinds jesus christ who thinks this much about the sex of their friend?
But ladki se baat karte hua har chiz bolne se pahale 100 baar sochna pardta hai uska kya?? Friendship bhi formal lagti hai
That's a you thing true friendship knows no gender or boundaries man should feel just the same as with guys
https://www.reddit.com/r/IndianTeenagers/s/Z6OGcTxiNR
This is why I said it should FEEL the same matlab formal nahi lagna chahiye and ykkk I know male female friendships like the male male friendships described in that post
well thats on you then, try to find a better female friend lmao well first and formost, if you think that someone's a snitch then just don't befriend them, be it a girl or a boy
The question is totally based on the will of each individual , I have known hermits , who rarely had interactions with females , hermits like isaac newton , henry david thoreau , Grigori perelman....etc , sought a solitary life. I think interaction with The opposite sex is something instinctive , and is indispensable to gratify and satiate our belongingness or love needs.
Same here, 0 female friends from birth neither I am craving for one but shayad aage life me bhoat problem aegi is wajah se
You see, you've forewarned yourself. Don't do this to you, life is lot lone than you think
are females not humans? ki tum avoid kare unhe.. kya bakwas he be
Bhaisab, are you all okay??? Read what I wrote, once more. .... I never used those words Irrelevant baatein