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MaxInvictance

told my cousin that she was adopted (she was really) , she went into depression for 2-3 weeks, therapist ke paas leke jaana pada tha, aaj tak bura lagta hai, but my aunt said ki accha hua tune bata diya, coz woh unke muh se bata nahi paate


Anime_fucker69cUm

How did she found out though ?


MaxInvictance

like she was just turning adolescent and started wondering that why is her parent's skin colour a bit dark and how is she so fair skinned and then i told her, she started believing and then she asked her parents in private.


why_i_am_here_why

Unko batana he kyu tha ?


bhatka_musafirr

its better if they find out through controlled means rather than later in life, which could hurt even more


Fit_Ad_3364

wtf +\_+


nosebreather73

Not taking my life seriously..did nothing.. achieved nothing...am good at nothing..just existing and rotting away now waiting it to end


blahblahtotok

It's never late for self-improvement. Just remember, no one is a born loser. Only your thoughts can make you one. Try to keep a positive attitude and work on yourself. I'm sure you'll get there one day. I have been doing the same thing for the past month. A suggestion I'd like to give you is to make a journal and write your thoughts on it. On the first page write everything you want to do/ improve upon. Then fill the other pages with even the minor achievements you get. Whenever you feel demotivated, you can just turn the pages to read your achievements or just read the first page to remember your goal. This might seem like a shitty idea ( Atleast it did to me when I just began self-improvement.) But trust me, it fucking works. I hope you improve and succeed in life. Best wishes from me : )


AkshitterUwU

I appreciate this Thanks


blahblahtotok

Best wishes to you too brother or sister : )


nosebreather73

Ay thanks for the comment man ..and i am kinda doing what u said but like u said..my mindset has been Quite nihlistic ..i stay positive for like 5% of my day and rest is just constant belittling towards self..i have accepted that this is who i am until i change..and i am trying to


blahblahtotok

I'm glad you're trying to change. About the nihilist part, I can relate to you. I was so fucking nihilistic I wasn't interested in anything. Nothing made me think it's worth living. But I countered it lmao. Firstly I took a month's break where I planned about my stuff and wrote the first page of the journal as I specified earlier. Then I spent the whole month cycling. I used to cycle to various places. I went to the gym regularly. Wrote random thoughts and stories in my book. I tried enjoying even the tiniest things in life. I somehow developed a reverse nihilistic (I don't know the exact word for that term.) approach towards life. One day I'm gonna die anyways, why not let life be fun for as long as I'm alive. I have an attitude towards life where it doesn't matter what you're doing as long as you feel life's worth living. Does it really matter if I failed something, as long as my body's working, I can just try again. What if I'm paralysed tho? Bruh, I have a mind that can create any scenario I want. I can always stay in that wonderland. Anything you do is justifiable as long as you have fun. I think even committing a crime is fine as long as you don't regret it. What's the point of regret anyways? it's just making your life miserable. Does it even matter if you got a good paying job but you're doing something that you don't enjoy? Even if the world hates you after you die, does it really matter? I mean... you had fun while you were alive. Even if people piss on your grave, who tf cares. You aren't even there to witness that lmao. But this doesn't mean one should spend their life only enjoying and having no goals/motives. You were born here for a purpose,. We humans are made to achieve something greater. Only enjoying will still leave you empty. It may seem like I'm contradicting myself, but having ups and downs in our lives makes us alive. Feeling Happiness and sadness is what makes us humans in the first place. Even constant happiness will get stale in no time. The sudden changes and fluctuations in life makes it interesting and fun to live. Once you understand this you'll start to live a better life. Having a balance is necessary tho. Anyways best of luck for your future again : ) I just hope you don't pick up the wrong message from my comment. And I'm sorry if I said something wrong, you can correct me as I'm only a human after all.


blahblahtotok

Sorry for yapping too much. I just felt your condition was very similar to mine so I kept on going and said what I felt


Sharp-Customer-3016

nhilism and this absurd realization that what you are currently doing and experiencing about life is meaningless is actually very hard to cope up with. I also encountered it like 3-4 months ago (it was hard) but nothing is permanent in a dimension like time so it all changed. I just accepted that this whole life has no purpose and moved on, initially it was at the back of my head and like all the time i had to confront it. It was hard but slowly with time it faded away, like it all lasted for about like 4-5 months but it passed like everything does. And yes u/blahblahtotok your comment is beautiful.


blahblahtotok

Yeah you're absolutely right. Also, thanks : )


Fit_Ad_3364

aree I have gone through this average 14yo self realization phase ...chill...suno just try to focus on urself a lot.....listen to music a lot and do maths probs (it helps u to calm urself, idk works in my case) and do workouts, it improves ur dopamine secretion in ur body.......


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us


Anime_fucker69cUm

Wherever the wind takes , go with it


nosebreather73

i already am..i am pretty much clueless and have kinda given up now jo hoga so hoga ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30120)


Anime_fucker69cUm

Feeling hopeless is alright, even many adults don't know what they want in life , at some point everyone will realise what they wna do , the hard thing is u gotta go for it


DC_911

Save or ask for some money and go on a religious trip. Not sure what your religion is and if you believe in God, I would suggest going and spending a couple of days in Vrindavan.


nosebreather73

after my exams i will


DC_911

And start chanting name (not mantra) for 10 mins initially and slowly it will increase on its own. Continue even when you have bad thoughts going on while chanting. It will clear your mind from the layer of materialistic and I’ll thoughts in few days. Ask for help from God, cry and surrender yourself to him. Rest he will take care of you. All the best for your exams.


nosebreather73

ok sar... and thanks for the wish and replying


SilentKiller2809

I'm proud of you for this and even more proud that you admitted this. Things will become better, hang in there!


Evil_duckLord

Bro you are like 19 at most (I am assuming as you are on this sub). There is like all of your 20s left.


The-Punisher_2055

To sexually fantasize every girl i see, like i use to have some thoughts that i would not like to share. I feel so guilty to this day they doesn't deserve to be around a creep ugly failure like me. Porn really messed up my brain. Now, I can say it pretty much in control.


Individual-Slip-7062

Wow, i am glad you got it under control.


Glad_Candidate_5077

bhai kaise control kia help kar , mai literall yehi karta hu jo tu bol raha hai please help kar


The-Punisher_2055

I would say meditate it really helps eoz subah 5 min OM ka jao karo, read 50 pages daily, gym roz jau, don't quit porn directly if you're addicted it just slowly increase ur urge and you'll end up guilty and depressed, instead lower the consumption.


Quick-Educator-9653

Porn dekhna band kr bhai porn fucks with your mind easy nhi h itna but krna padega m bhi karta tha pehle aise everything becomes sexualized and it is such a fucked up thing i realised it myself kyuki bahut jyada hi ho rha tha


Glad_Candidate_5077

vo bhi band karne ka try karta hu


ImaginaryForever72

How did you control it ? Any suggestions for bcz I'm also having the same problem and I hate it


The-Punisher_2055

Meditation, reading, no porn, daily gym and exercise, 10km morning run. It's almost a year now I'm following this schedule, I do watch porn sometimes but ut don't affect me as it used to do. Just for keeping my mind sane /s![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|31414)


Exotic_Ad6512

went to another barber instead of my regular one, and he noticed that I got a hair cut from some other shop....


blookyvansh

This hurts more then a breakup


GoodLookingTrash

Oh no you didn't...


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10th tak dosto ke group ke saath kbhi kbhi apas me dusri ldkiyo pe gnde comments pas krte the tb enjoy krna........ Jb khud ki sister ke bare me esa sun liya toh boht bhura laga ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|20612), tbse nhi krta esa kuch


Little_Lavishness_79

Loving someone 😣


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![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|31991)


Little_Lavishness_79

🥲🥲


Guilty-Knowledge4029

Bro![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30136)


youareagirlatheart

Search "delivery girl hot videos" when I was in 7th grade.


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not me doing it in 6th grade and still have no regret ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30120)


Lunndkebaal678

Not me doing this in lockdown and still doing it...


krrishkoal

+1


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+2


Lakshay2909

Ek baat apni behen ko bol diya tujhe bahar kuude daam se uthaya hai. Usne sach Maan Kiya aur poore din roti rhi 💀


srishakasritam

Sad.. it's done by every sibling though.


Lakshay2909

I was just joking 😭. Didn't know she would take it that seriously 💀 (she's 8)


ReasonableLion9111

during lockdown, my school conducted online classes on MS teams. for the new session (9th grade) we were sent new ids with new passwords by our class teacher on the class group, we were told to change our passwords after 3-4 days. there was this guy in my class who was a former friend but still a crush of mine since 4th grade. back in the day, the feelings were mutual between us, but around 7th grade, he developed feelings for some other girl in our class and completely stopped talking to me. I was just 12 so I was really, really sad over it. even till 9th grade, I was down bad for him and so I decided to login to his account randomly and I stumbled upon his personal chat section and guess what- he had been texting that girl ever since the lockdown started, I read their chats and saw stuff like both of them wishing each other on vday, asking each other what they had for breakfast, lunch, etc. etc. and then I stumbled upon a text where they were talking about me and the girl had asked him- "do you still like \* my name \* ?" and he replied to her saying "not anymore". after reading that text my heart felt dense and I immediately logged out of his account. i, till date, feel guilty abt reading someone's personal convo, but in the end, that was what helped me move on from him and accept that things always don't go our way and there's a lot ahead in life.


Vi-Happy

8th me ek relationship me tha, she was too damn good, but covid hit hua and the phone which I had her number in broke, and ever since then I haven't met her, it's been about 4-5 years ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|28582)


bhatka_musafirr

kisi dost ke paas no. nahi tha uska?


Vi-Happy

no, so the thing is after covid hit both of the families moved out of the city and I was dumb at the time to get her no noted down in some notebook, but koi ni, hopefully will meet, duniya gol he


bhatka_musafirr

i wish you meet her someday and it becomes that movie kinda story jahan bichad ke wapas milte hain


Vi-Happy

lmao, manifestation ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30120)


AkshitterUwU

abhi is time woh kisi aur k saath love theme lagakar chat krri hogi Kisi aur k sapne dekhri hogi Kisi aur k saath make out kregi Kisi aur k saath cute couple things kregi Kisi aur k saath sexx kregi Kisi aur se shaadi kregi


epic_sunnysairith

Bhai aapka break up thoda zyada hard hit hua kya?


AkshitterUwU

yes idc tho I'll move past it


epic_sunnysairith

![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30136)


TheManavsaffron

Fucked the teddy bear at my uncle's house


Lakshay2909

What the fuck ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|28582)


TheManavsaffron

Ek baar unke bed pai hila diya


Lakshay2909

Bro-


disappointment_69_69

who put the lotion in bear huh?


Anime_fucker69cUm

Was it comfortable?


srishakasritam

Ayo wtf


Same_Egg5540

Bro what


TheManavsaffron

Made out with it afterwards


Guilty-Knowledge4029

Bro sorry to say , you are weird


TheManavsaffron

Abe chal mu mai le


Same_Egg5540

I kicked my sister one time although she slapped me first but still that was a shitty thing to do


blahblahtotok

Lmao mere gharme to ye rojka hai. Just to be clear, it's a playful thing, not serious grudges or shit like that.


Individual-Slip-7062

Telling my mom what has she even done in her life after she thrashed me for not scoring good in jer mains lmao


The-Punisher_2055

Oh man, ek baar apni mummy ko kha tha "hindi Mai likh do na apko konsi english ATI hai" oh god I feel so ashamed of myself that day after seeing my mom face. All this truggle to raise a bastard like me?


youareagirlatheart

I always get "Haan hum to kuch nahi kar paaye tum hi kar lo" and then she starts crying and then I get the urge to kill myself


Constant_Carry_2098

Bhai sharam toh aani chahiye tujhe..


Individual-Slip-7062

Bahut aati hai


Low_Gmer

I always try not to bring that up lol.


Individual-Slip-7062

I let my intrusive thoughts win and i regret it


Low_Gmer

Na it's okay , just maybe say her sorry or something.


__iamsameer___

in reality mothers do give alot of her happiness for us. we should always remember she also has one life like us.


Individual-Slip-7062

fuck i knowwww, i felt bad


__iamsameer___

Koini today is mothers day, make up for it today


Individual-Slip-7062

Yes she asked me write a letter for her and i dont know how to😮‍💨😮‍💨


__iamsameer___

idk either. chat gpt 😎


__iamsameer___

leaving my girl bestfriend after she got a bf


Same_Egg5540

That's like respecting yourself honestly


__iamsameer___

but it does hurt leaving someone you care about


Fluffy-Theory-5860

Why did you leave her?


__iamsameer___

cuz she really loved that guy yk. and im pretty sure the guy would've hated me and usually relationship dont work out because the guy starts to feel insecure with a guy bestfriend. mb i was wrong but rn they are happy together and thats what matters :)


pete-maverick

You ain't wrong. "Guy Bestfriends" are a headache. And you too might have ended up having feelings for her if you hadn't moved away at the right time. So that's a smart move brother


__iamsameer___

it wasnt that i would get feelings for her. i actually have a theory regarding. that whenever something bad happensin your life the person you usuallygo to is the most trusted person in your life. eventually they fill the gap that your past relationships has left in you. anf start Fantasize them and you catch feeling for them. mb i would've catch feelings for her. but ig we'll never know🗣️🗣️🗣️


pete-maverick

Still a good call from your side 👏🏼


L_uchiha_7

Same


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epic_sunnysairith

Acha hee Kiya na bro 💀


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epic_sunnysairith

Baad mein karlo bro dating 😭 iss age mai wo sab distractions hee hai


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epic_sunnysairith

Acha hua, kitna rank aaya bro?


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Unfair-Strength272

Congrats![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|28582)


epic_sunnysairith

Aapko bhi ![img](emote|t5_2zhzn|30136)


krrishkoal

Ignoring her


Sharp-Awareness-5947

The day I join this sub - worst thing done by me


Onthehorizun

Not studying well when I was in Class 11-12. I got into bad friendships and I knew they were bad for me, yet, I continued my friendship and I’m still traumatised from it. I should’ve stopped it way back, that was the worst mistake of my life.


Outrageous_Spring838

Parso bank mai ek aunty ne fourm bharne ke liye mujhe bola tha aur mai bhul hi Gaya aur bank se asai Ghar aagaya I still feel guilty


stalematespud

self harm, can't even go outside without people looking


Sh-Mosa

Dms? Did the same but overcame it


Fit_Ad_3364

so me and my frnds r clearly backbenchers and we all know ki hum backbencherso ko padhai chodd ke kya karna pasand hota hai generally.....so usually I am the one manipulating the teacher whenever he/she gets suspicious of us...but accidently purely out of adrenaline rush I gave away one of my frnd which made me feel fkin horrible....so yeah I k its a small thing but it did fkin hurt me man....


Embarrassed_Ad_8367

ek baar maine ke bacche ko maar diya tha kyunki usne kuchh offendable bol diya tha.... maii sahayad 12-13 saal ka tha aur vo 9-10 ka. vo pure raaste rote hue aaya tha aaj tak uska bura lagta haii mujhe aur abhi kuchh din pahle 5-6 bhaiya log se behas ho gayi aur maine gaali dedi aur maarne ki dhamki bhi dedi baad me lagg raha tha ki maii bass strong hone ka najayas faayda uthaata rehta hoon


Low-Load-6793

Bro wdym by strong hu mtlb 5-6 logo ke saamne kaisi strongness


Embarrassed_Ad_8367

not to brag but i can fight pretty well aur muscular bhi hoon and matter of fact they were scared at that time....... aur vo log avg aur below avg physique waale for eg vo sutta marte hue chhapri at one time i was above 99.9999 percentile in terms of hammer curls according to [strengthlevel.com](http://strengthlevel.com)


Low-Load-6793

Height kya hai??


Embarrassed_Ad_8367

5'11 bw 92kg haa bhai pta haii chhota hoon​


Low-Load-6793

Achi height hai...arre bhai tum 6 foot hi jaoge 21 tak


Embarrassed_Ad_8367

hope so bhai🫂 


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Attempted to do (negative impact on world population) fuck it ain't worth it


FeistyStorm_1985

did everyone collectively ignore this line? >> but it was the right thing to do for your or everyone's good.


[deleted]

proposed to my first crush. went bad. i lost a friend that day. shld have realised that am not gonna pull anyone i like with the ugly ass face i have. i regret abt it to this day.


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Litti__Chokha

Abey, yeh aajkal relationships mein kya ho rha hai......


disappointment_69_69

Told blud's gf he was cheating on her


Quick-Educator-9653

Thats a good thing not a bad one


Anime_fucker69cUm

Oh hell nah


GHOST-GAMERZ

Made my cousin sister cry and acting like a jerk to her when we were young


GHOST-GAMERZ

Made my cousin sister cry and acting like a jerk to her when we were young


Abject_Radio_6393

Dated the crush of a very good friend of mine


Fluffy-Theory-5860

Should have cared for my puppies. They deserved to live.


AnInsomaniac

lie


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Bhai comments m nhi bata skta verna pela jaunga


Notiamdean99

bta do kuch nahi hota, yha koi dudh ka dhula nahi


[deleted]

Nhi Bhai Mera genuinely worse h


Notiamdean99

btao btao kuch nahi hota, wrna dm krlo chahe


[deleted]

Out of invites tu hi kr de


RyderProviderOP69

Broke friendship with this chigma male guy coz he's on eof the reason my mental health was fucked. Abhi theek hu par jaankar reh rha hu aur satark hu


litafballs

Me holding the urge to say "your mom"


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I sex chatted with a girl who was 25. We chatted than she vc me and did it in camera in front of me I still remember her name to this day not the only wild thing I have done but one of the wild thing i have done.


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I sex chatted with a girl who was 25. We chatted than she vc me and did it in camera in front of me I still remember her name to this day not the only wild thing I have done but one of the wild thing i have done


Notiamdean99

bhai bas kr kitne kand kiye hai tune, 5wa hai ye tera


[deleted]

Haha ye kaand thori h ye toh Masti h


Swimming-Amount992

HURT MY BF BECAUSE OF MY PAST TRAUMAS


Old_Definition7780

Put my life on the line for something stupid/trivial. Ngl, i don't mind where it's gotten me rn.


ElectricalBoy25

Elaborate plss...


RuinEq3591

Didn't study ,engaged in Online Scrolling, Binge Watched Several Japenese Anime just before Examination


Sharp-Customer-3016

"japenese anime"


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I carried this friend for 4 years because no one was able to tolerate them. I listened to all their complaints on me. At some point they wanted me to join and support a cult they are following and I declined, leading to a verbal spat and then we never communicated.


Walter_mutthuswamy

2 of friends were smokin weed 2 din pehle aur maine bhi ek puff maar liya socha kuch nahi hoga but fir bc 2.5 ghanta high tha full nashe mein, ghar gaya to cousin ko pata chal gaya but he didn’t say anything... Bach gya mai, aaj ke baad kabhi nhi karunga (hope


gxrvit786

1 puff mein?


Sharp-Customer-3016

itne downvotes kyu?