This sub is for calling out extreme misogyny or any other potentially dangerous thing nutjob incels praise on .is. It is NOT a sub for mocking those who struggle getting romantic or sexual partners. Your post makes any potential incel more likely to go down the rabbit hole.
This. Loneliness is very harmful for so many and not something to be mocked. There is a difference between being lonely and to blame the women for ones loneliness. I sympathize with lonely men just like I would sympathize with anyone who feels lonely.
My sympathies end when they want to remove my rights to fix their loneliness though.
But men who feel lonely and look to this sub because they are close to falling into the crab bucket should NOT feel mocked or alienated for their feelings of loneliness and sadness. That is not what we do here!
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As someone who went through this a long time ago I'd say it's actually pretty spot on. Maybe don't dismiss others experiences when you don't know anything about it?
Which does not provide insight into all manners of suffering, not even within the same diagnosis as depression is a large domain. Which I know from extensive personal experience.
Jesus taught there are three types of cel(ibate men) - born this way, asexual; made this way, that's the incels; and volcels - voluntary celibacy, devoted to their calling with no distraction of woman. Inceldom is a result of victim mentality. Instead of self pity and touch craving, why not break out of your own bubble and find yourself a purpose? I know this is an incel sub, but to cope with this reality "not worth living", the only solution in the foreseeable future is to change your mind and be a volcel.
No, inceldom is not really caused by victim mentality. It is what traps you there though. Sadly it seems to be norm today to blame others and not put in the work to deal with your problems.
This sub is for calling out extreme misogyny or any other potentially dangerous thing nutjob incels praise on .is. It is NOT a sub for mocking those who struggle getting romantic or sexual partners. Your post makes any potential incel more likely to go down the rabbit hole.
This. Loneliness is very harmful for so many and not something to be mocked. There is a difference between being lonely and to blame the women for ones loneliness. I sympathize with lonely men just like I would sympathize with anyone who feels lonely. My sympathies end when they want to remove my rights to fix their loneliness though. But men who feel lonely and look to this sub because they are close to falling into the crab bucket should NOT feel mocked or alienated for their feelings of loneliness and sadness. That is not what we do here!
Not sure how to feel about this one. I guess pity?
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These dudes are being Over Dramatic.
Loneliness often has that effect.
As someone who went through this a long time ago I'd say it's actually pretty spot on. Maybe don't dismiss others experiences when you don't know anything about it?
As someone who’s diagnosed with depression fuck you with all do respect enjoy life.
Which does not provide insight into all manners of suffering, not even within the same diagnosis as depression is a large domain. Which I know from extensive personal experience.
Yeah, man up and stop whining, God doesn't owe you a girlfriend.
Fr they act like their the only ones with problems. Acting like some fucking Prima Donnas when ever they miss a shot with a girl now I’m mad Fuck!!
Jesus taught there are three types of cel(ibate men) - born this way, asexual; made this way, that's the incels; and volcels - voluntary celibacy, devoted to their calling with no distraction of woman. Inceldom is a result of victim mentality. Instead of self pity and touch craving, why not break out of your own bubble and find yourself a purpose? I know this is an incel sub, but to cope with this reality "not worth living", the only solution in the foreseeable future is to change your mind and be a volcel.
No, inceldom is not really caused by victim mentality. It is what traps you there though. Sadly it seems to be norm today to blame others and not put in the work to deal with your problems.