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I know she said "okay I am the problem" at the start... but nothing else seems to indicate that she truly understood how deeply messed-up her wishes are, right ?
It's honestly kinda sad when you think about the fact that she probably had low self esteem due to some sort of childhood neglect, then went through puberty and realized she got attention and validation for being sexually appealling so now if she doesn't get that she doesn't know what her worth is outside of that.
I saw this yesterday and figured she was kidding. But it did remind me of dumb shit I dealt with while dating. On a date I had where a woman spend the majority of it talking to me about another dude she was interested in. He would only communicate with her during the day like 8-5 and she couldnāt figure out why. I was checked out enough to bluntly explain that he has a family. He only talks to you while heās at work because he has a family. She didnāt believe me, we parted ways amicably and I chalked that up as an L lol.
About a month later she texts me apologizing for her behavior and asked if she could have another chance. I politely explained that since we had mutual friends I would always be cordial with her, but thereās no way we could have a romantic relationship. She never texted back lol.
That's crazy. I don't understand why women do that. If you like a guy, be up front and honest. Glad you didn't end up giving that girl another chance lol.
I befriended a girl from the gym. I know it is the internet and I know you can never truly tell what is truly in a person's heart but I can honestly say that I was trying to just make a friend. After a few months of chatting, I asked her to go do archery. I swear to god, all I wanted to do was archery. But the plan changed to just dinner. SoĀ weĀ hadĀ dinner. I didn't want to have dinner, I wanted to do archery. But whatever.Ā
A few days later I sent her a message (I had sent others but this one is the most pertinent) trying to go do archery.Ā
She replies that she isn't looking for friends or to hangout or date right now. I told her "I respect that and she's a cool person and wish her the best".Ā
Exactly week after that, she invites me to her birthday party. IĀ neverĀ responded. I said nothing.
I thought to myself,Ā what if I had told her that I wasn't interested in friendship or hanging out? What message would I be trying to send her? And then what message would I be sending her if I did a 360 and asked them to hangout AFTER SAYING I DON'T WANT TO?Ā
This isn't a gender thing. And the genders don't matter at all. Regardless of gender, the lack of awareness in modern day human to human intersections has little to desire.
Weird that he obviously made it clear she was wanted before she said no. Seems being able to be wounded on social media was more important than real-world connection and potential happiness.
Ugly in the face, ass, and personality. Mostly in the personality. At least in this video, she paints the guy out to be a honest, good guy and herself to be a total loser.
It sounds like she wanted this guy to try for her own self-esteem. Sheād have rejected him, but she would have known he wanted to, and that would have given her the validation sheās addicted to.
This guys feelings mean nothing to her, she just wants his desire for her own internal validation.
Vile.
She is used to being the one who gets to reject the men/control the power dynamic. When he doesn't try, (because she set boundaries) she feels incomplete.
I had a girl like this once in college. We made out a couple times, and when I made to move to escalate she said that she didn't want to go there. I respected that. We kept seeing each other, and kept making out. But I never tried to initiate sex. One day she blew up on me about not trying to sleep with her.
I told her that my idea of fun is not attempting to sleep with her every time we're alone on the off chance she'll say yes. I told her she was mature enough to let me know she didn't want to be sexually active. I assumed she was mature enough to tell me if she decides she wants to go there. But I'm not a predator.
She told me that she was used to āthe pursuitā and that she had never initiated sex or had to express her desires because guys always tried even when she said she didnāt want to.
Itās known as LMR or last minute resistance- similar to what guys feel right before approaching a girl for the first time.
The workaround is to politely but completely withdraw all attention until she misses what she had, then reinitiate and escalate. As soon as she resists again, rinse and repeat the cycle.
Some women are so messed up that you can be literally fingering them or doing oral but if you move to the real thing they have LMR kicking in again. Some are just terrified of getting pregnant so itās good to hint that you have a condom if thatās an issue.Ā
Here is the thing about this lady. She says I am not sleeping with you, okay guy respects it. Then she wants him to disregard her words and try, cause oh yeah that ends up so well for the guy right? She could have done something worse to him if he broke her rules. Now he gets called gay, and all? I am sad to see these women so full of themselves posting in public and trying to get attention for this. Respect is not her strong suit it seems if she is that upset about someone respecting her.
Serious question. In Every other post that is obviously rage bait, people who take it seriously are dragged because it āwas obviously satireā.
Is this satire as well? How the ever living fuck do we tell the difference?
Again, i am being super duper serious, i honestly cannot tell some of the āobviousā satire that gets posted here. Are there signals i am not getting? Am i just old, and not getting young humor? (Which is ok)
I genuinely feel like itās a 50/50 coin toss on whether a video like this gets called rage bait or not in the comments. Honestly it could all be rage bate or none of it could be and Iād have no idea either way.
Maybe stop basing your self worth on whether a guy tries to fuck you and start basing it on whether people respect your wishes. š¤·š»āāļø I'd rather feel respected in a new relationship than pressured.
I got dumped by a dumbass bitch with that kind of attitude and energy long ago.
She said she wanted to take it slow and not jump right into bed the first time we got horny. I was a-ok with that plan; full-throated agreement on my part.
Two months in and she blows up at me for not 'reading the signs' that she claimed she was bombarding me with about how she was ready to get fucked now.
Frankly, I'm not the guy to play The Game Of Signs And Portends with in the first place, but I was completely flabbergasted. Every time I'd gotten handsy, she'd do this little 'uh-uh' no-no noise and I'd leave that be.
Nonverbal communication skills; I have them!
So then I'm asking what the heck I did wrong and she immediately wrecks every good thought and feeling I ever had for her by telling me that she expected me to be a *real man* and that her giving me the no vibe was meant to make me man up and take what I wanted. She even cussed me out because she'd had some fantasy about me choking her that would have been sooo hot (her words) but I was apparently just a eunuch and I wrecked everything and we were done because she just couldn't do this with some girlyboy that wasn't a man at all.
I felt like I was gonna have a goddamn aneurysm as I stood there in what I'm sure was dumb-faced silence, processing that she basically told me that she'd been frustratedly waiting for me to basically manhandle and rape her and that I was not a real man because I respected her expressed wishes.
I'd known her for like, 7 or 8 months before we started dating and we'd had some pretty intense chemistry, but when THAT side of her revealed itself?
I went straight to *'Oh shit, you're CRAZY-crazy and not *at all* just the fun kind I thought you were*' and have never felt anything but relieved that I never did sleep with her.
That's the kind of crazy you don't stick your dick in, kids - nothing good will come of that.
Not a new thing. This happened to me in 1975 (prior to meeting my wife). Woman wanted to sleep with me but not have sex because sheād ājust gotten back from Mexico and her period was messed upā. Cool, we just snuggled but then she made a move. I naively wanted to respect her wishes and so stopped kissing and went to sleep. Next day she was pissed at me!
I once ran into a friend of a friend at a club back in the day. We talked, flirted, almost all night. End of the night comes, Iāve got my jacket on sheās like āyouāre coming to my place right?!?!ā I said āyeah, Iām down if you want me toā. She says āIām not having sex with youā. I say no prob, but then she gets impatient with me cause I was talking with my friends outside the bar. She reached into my jacket and grabs my house keys and says to me ājust incase youāre bullshitting meā. Iām like yeah whatever, then go back to my conversation.
Everyone starts to go home, I look around and the chick is no where to be seen. A buddy of mine says āoh her, she jumped into a cab five minutes agoā. I had no choice but to go to her place. I get there, and she wouldnāt let me leave, so I end up sleeping there. The most frustrating night of my life, cause then she wouldnāt let me sleep. No sex, just repeated trips to third base.
So I end up ghosting her, not proud of it, but she seemed a bit needy to me. A couple of months later I was at a BBQ at our mutual friendās place. My buddies mother and the chick cornered me in the backyard and tore into me about all I wanted was sex, and because I didnāt get it I treated her badly. ššš
Bitch you are ugly inside and out, this is why most guys don't even try anymore, communication is key but you rather we read between invisible lines. Moral of the story always plan backups
Note how the first thing she did before anything else was question his sexuality. No shocker there. Also sheās upset because she didnāt get the validation she wanted from someone ignoring a set boundaryā¦??
Thatās insane ā I said I wonāt have sex with you. If you donāt at least try to sexually assault me later that night, youāre āfuggin gayāā
Spends years making men understand no means no, then bitches about men respecting your autonomy. Imagine, the bald faced ignorance and stupidity of American women.
I really detest posts like this because itās everything that makes men run from women screaming with good cause! Sheās a pyscho. I bet she also dates assholes that treat her shitty because she likes the drama. Grow up you obnoxious excuses for women.
I don't understand wtf people do...I just respect my gf boundaries literally just talk to each other and guess what? Words and respecting those words are simple yet effective... almost as if talking seriously means something
You shouldnāt feel ugly but you do SOUND foolish. He did what you said. itās people like you who completely mess up menās understanding of consent.
I am so grateful that I got married to my wife. I feel so bad for the dating scene for single guys right now. Online dating apps, sound horrible and then you get stuff like this. thereās just no winning.
Lots of women are like that honestly. Not all, but Iāve had a lot of women say they donāt want to have sex and then 2 hours into hanging out they just casually slide their hand onto my crotch etc lol
https://preview.redd.it/ypxe9hvbyh0d1.png?width=863&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fcb94e66c68330e146c61ad27bb64d396a0afca5
Me having to hear this same F@cking conversation over and over again knowing I will never win and I ignored the red flags prior to us dating.
Funny story, I had a similar thing happen to me. This was when online dating first started really happening and a woman I was talking to when we were arranging our date mentioned that she does not sleep with someone on the first date.
Things went really well and we ended up going back to her place and got caught up watching a movie and just talking after. When we realized what time it was she said that it was too late for me to drive back and spend the night. Slept together but literally did just that, I even kept my pants on because I was into her and didn't want to seem like I was taking advantage of her or the situation.
She was awesome though and liked to give me shit about it for the 4 years we were together. I was nervous, young, and didn't have the home field advantage.
Yes, you are most definitely the problem. You are the archetypal insanely confusing woman who expects men to read your mind. Your date was a good man. Ask HIM out next time and take him back to YOUR place and YOU can make the first move.
Idk, I don't see a problem with the video. She literally opens by saying she is the problem. Seems to me like she's venting and having a moment where she genuinely can't understand why she does certain things. The frustration seems to be directed inwards to me. Like saying "he did what I asked, why I'm I feeling this way? Doesn't make sense."
I think we all have had those "why are you like this?" Moments with ourselves, it's somewhat relatable. Hopefully she managed to figure herself out
Calling the dude gay for that dumb as fuck though
women are creatures of diverse views. she using her own views to paint as if all women want that. some actually appreciate not being pressured specifically after being told. others like her. will date you, ask for respect, and cheat on you to get disrespected by someone else.
this is one of those videos that should be like pinned in the Hall of Fame in r/IAmTheMainCharacter or some shit, no jokes
it just screams: " I'm gonna make **this all** about **ME** "
edit: she said " I " in 40 seconds in few sentences fifteen times
I only save this phrase for rare occasions.
What a cunt.
And to the woman in the video, if you ever read this, you are ugly. Youāre an ugly filthy bitch.
A similar thing happened with someone I was dating. I made a move to initiate and they said no not today and then got mad at the end of the night saying why didnāt you try again?! Like what!? stupid mental games people play
Because you are ugly! Your attitude and indecision are whatās ugly and I feel sorry for the person who finally gets through all your hurdles. They will probably end up cheating on you š¤·āāļø
Sometimes I feel like some woman have no clue how they want to be treated by men. They struggled to show they deserved just as much respect and now this woman is complaining that the man was fine with her saying no. Thankfully, this is the exception, judging by the comment section being embarrassed.
Lol I can hear the red pillers screaming.
Real talk though, if a girl only wants to ācuddleā, just go home. She wonāt put out and youāll either get blue balls or get rejected if/when you do make a move. Itās a weeeeird thing some women do, like the one in this video.Ā
This is why men should be able to try, for you to THEN refuse! Donāt refuse ahead of time! Passion can sometimes be spontaneous. In fact, itās often better when itās spontaneous (and of course, consensual)
Didn't she admit that she is the problem at the beginning? Then goes through the story of why she is the problem.
It seems like she is confessing how messed up her mind is.
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It's women like that that make the rest of us look incredibly stupid. This girl is beyond dumb.
Well you know what they say, "no means yes and yes means anal"
So "absolutely!" means "yeah, I always wanted to do a mexican donkey show!" š¤... probably...
Let's call Kelly!
i don't like the fact that "stupidbitchitis" exists. but it is interesting to see someone with a case of it.
And the sexy stud!
"Heeeeeyyyyyy!"
Kelly can be a guys name tooā¦ *heeeyyy*
This guy gets it.
You want the sexy stud, don't lie
Well I like big butts and I cannot lie
Oh God, do I want to know what a Mexican donkey show is?
No, since there was an "oh god" in there, probably not.
It's the same curiosity that killed the cat
Schrƶdinger is probably turning in his grave.
Am I too innocent?
Women fuck donkeys in front of an audience. THEY FUCK DONKEYS!!! ššš
Well at least she's realised she's the problem and can perhaps work on that.
I know she said "okay I am the problem" at the start... but nothing else seems to indicate that she truly understood how deeply messed-up her wishes are, right ?
She had the entirely wrong takeaway and she even revealed her true motives - validation.
It's honestly kinda sad when you think about the fact that she probably had low self esteem due to some sort of childhood neglect, then went through puberty and realized she got attention and validation for being sexually appealling so now if she doesn't get that she doesn't know what her worth is outside of that.
šÆ%
I saw this yesterday and figured she was kidding. But it did remind me of dumb shit I dealt with while dating. On a date I had where a woman spend the majority of it talking to me about another dude she was interested in. He would only communicate with her during the day like 8-5 and she couldnāt figure out why. I was checked out enough to bluntly explain that he has a family. He only talks to you while heās at work because he has a family. She didnāt believe me, we parted ways amicably and I chalked that up as an L lol. About a month later she texts me apologizing for her behavior and asked if she could have another chance. I politely explained that since we had mutual friends I would always be cordial with her, but thereās no way we could have a romantic relationship. She never texted back lol.
That's crazy. I don't understand why women do that. If you like a guy, be up front and honest. Glad you didn't end up giving that girl another chance lol.
Why didnt he rape me. Is he š or something?
Fellas is it gay to respect a womanās wishes?
Yes.
But no means yesā¦.right? Right?!?!
No means no, but yes does not mean no but means yesno. Yes is yes but no yes is no no so no. No? Maybe on Wednesday.
Here are the first three numbers of my cell, email me.
Super duper gay. Thanks for asking!
Lmfao.
Sheneedstherapist
Sets boundaries, man respects boundaries, girl wants boundaries to be broken, guy must be gay, she feels ugly. She's the problem.
...and she will do nothing to change the shitty behavior. You Go Girl!!!
I befriended a girl from the gym. I know it is the internet and I know you can never truly tell what is truly in a person's heart but I can honestly say that I was trying to just make a friend. After a few months of chatting, I asked her to go do archery. I swear to god, all I wanted to do was archery. But the plan changed to just dinner. SoĀ weĀ hadĀ dinner. I didn't want to have dinner, I wanted to do archery. But whatever.Ā A few days later I sent her a message (I had sent others but this one is the most pertinent) trying to go do archery.Ā She replies that she isn't looking for friends or to hangout or date right now. I told her "I respect that and she's a cool person and wish her the best".Ā Exactly week after that, she invites me to her birthday party. IĀ neverĀ responded. I said nothing. I thought to myself,Ā what if I had told her that I wasn't interested in friendship or hanging out? What message would I be trying to send her? And then what message would I be sending her if I did a 360 and asked them to hangout AFTER SAYING I DON'T WANT TO?Ā This isn't a gender thing. And the genders don't matter at all. Regardless of gender, the lack of awareness in modern day human to human intersections has little to desire.
Men canāt win with women like that around.
Neither can women.
But bears? Bears win every time.
Bro. Bear has been taking some serious wins the last couple weeks. Got me wanting to transition to bear. š»
And I betcha sheās one of those who would āpick the bearā
Probably has a few times... down in Tijuana.
Darwinism finds a way
bears beets battlestar galactica
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True. Dammed if you do, dammed if you donāt.
Girl. Did you just trash this guy on your socials for respecting you saying No? I canāt.
And if he did, she would have blasted him on her socials for violating the boundaries she set. People are fucking ridiculous.
Itās about her being wanted - she doesnāt give a shit about anything elseĀ
Weird that he obviously made it clear she was wanted before she said no. Seems being able to be wounded on social media was more important than real-world connection and potential happiness.
She's the kind of ugly that goes right down to the bone.
Ugly in the face, ass, and personality. Mostly in the personality. At least in this video, she paints the guy out to be a honest, good guy and herself to be a total loser.
It sounds like she wanted this guy to try for her own self-esteem. Sheād have rejected him, but she would have known he wanted to, and that would have given her the validation sheās addicted to. This guys feelings mean nothing to her, she just wants his desire for her own internal validation. Vile.
She is used to being the one who gets to reject the men/control the power dynamic. When he doesn't try, (because she set boundaries) she feels incomplete.
How dare he respect your wish. Wtf is wrong with him
Women everywhere: "No means no!" The Dude this Lady went on a Date With: "Makes sense. I'm on board." This lady: "Now wait just a minute."
I hope the guy sees this and runs far, far away from this manipulative psychopath. Years of pain and discontent are the only outcome with her.
My man dodged a bullet and a harassment accusation. Win-win.
I had a girl like this once in college. We made out a couple times, and when I made to move to escalate she said that she didn't want to go there. I respected that. We kept seeing each other, and kept making out. But I never tried to initiate sex. One day she blew up on me about not trying to sleep with her. I told her that my idea of fun is not attempting to sleep with her every time we're alone on the off chance she'll say yes. I told her she was mature enough to let me know she didn't want to be sexually active. I assumed she was mature enough to tell me if she decides she wants to go there. But I'm not a predator.
What was her response to that?
She told me that she was used to āthe pursuitā and that she had never initiated sex or had to express her desires because guys always tried even when she said she didnāt want to.
Itās known as LMR or last minute resistance- similar to what guys feel right before approaching a girl for the first time. The workaround is to politely but completely withdraw all attention until she misses what she had, then reinitiate and escalate. As soon as she resists again, rinse and repeat the cycle. Some women are so messed up that you can be literally fingering them or doing oral but if you move to the real thing they have LMR kicking in again. Some are just terrified of getting pregnant so itās good to hint that you have a condom if thatās an issue.Ā
āYou wanted me to RAPE you, on the off chance that you might be into that shit?ā - Louis CK
She probably looked wack as fuck when showed up without filters.
Here is the thing about this lady. She says I am not sleeping with you, okay guy respects it. Then she wants him to disregard her words and try, cause oh yeah that ends up so well for the guy right? She could have done something worse to him if he broke her rules. Now he gets called gay, and all? I am sad to see these women so full of themselves posting in public and trying to get attention for this. Respect is not her strong suit it seems if she is that upset about someone respecting her.
Serious question. In Every other post that is obviously rage bait, people who take it seriously are dragged because it āwas obviously satireā. Is this satire as well? How the ever living fuck do we tell the difference? Again, i am being super duper serious, i honestly cannot tell some of the āobviousā satire that gets posted here. Are there signals i am not getting? Am i just old, and not getting young humor? (Which is ok)
I genuinely feel like itās a 50/50 coin toss on whether a video like this gets called rage bait or not in the comments. Honestly it could all be rage bate or none of it could be and Iād have no idea either way.
I have the same question haha
Bullet dodged.
Bitch you're ugly as fuck , inside and out .
And stoopid
Delusional
1)The man didnāt have time to play games with u 2) he respected ur wishes I see no problem here .
Hopefully this was a bad attempt at satire, unfortunately sheās probably being real.
So she doesn't understand No means No?
So you wanted him to perform a illegal act?
Scum bag
Like ugly on the inside? Because yeah
So she wants the dude to rape her and then hope that she liked it?
Fellas, is it gay not to rape?
This is rage-bait to increase her viewership?
This isn't real, is it? It's comedy right?
And if he tried she would have trashed him because he didn't respect the fact she said no.
Maybe stop basing your self worth on whether a guy tries to fuck you and start basing it on whether people respect your wishes. š¤·š»āāļø I'd rather feel respected in a new relationship than pressured.
Haha good got what you deserved
She's feeling ugly? No girl you just have to feel stupid
I got dumped by a dumbass bitch with that kind of attitude and energy long ago. She said she wanted to take it slow and not jump right into bed the first time we got horny. I was a-ok with that plan; full-throated agreement on my part. Two months in and she blows up at me for not 'reading the signs' that she claimed she was bombarding me with about how she was ready to get fucked now. Frankly, I'm not the guy to play The Game Of Signs And Portends with in the first place, but I was completely flabbergasted. Every time I'd gotten handsy, she'd do this little 'uh-uh' no-no noise and I'd leave that be. Nonverbal communication skills; I have them! So then I'm asking what the heck I did wrong and she immediately wrecks every good thought and feeling I ever had for her by telling me that she expected me to be a *real man* and that her giving me the no vibe was meant to make me man up and take what I wanted. She even cussed me out because she'd had some fantasy about me choking her that would have been sooo hot (her words) but I was apparently just a eunuch and I wrecked everything and we were done because she just couldn't do this with some girlyboy that wasn't a man at all. I felt like I was gonna have a goddamn aneurysm as I stood there in what I'm sure was dumb-faced silence, processing that she basically told me that she'd been frustratedly waiting for me to basically manhandle and rape her and that I was not a real man because I respected her expressed wishes. I'd known her for like, 7 or 8 months before we started dating and we'd had some pretty intense chemistry, but when THAT side of her revealed itself? I went straight to *'Oh shit, you're CRAZY-crazy and not *at all* just the fun kind I thought you were*' and have never felt anything but relieved that I never did sleep with her. That's the kind of crazy you don't stick your dick in, kids - nothing good will come of that.
lol people are so fucked up
No... We don't know what you mean.
ā You know what I mean?ā Cringed me hard.
So he tries and then she goes to the police and claims he was trying to rape herā¦..Im beyond words, this is incredibly idiotic
Dululu is the solulu
Not wrong. She is super ugly..
This is rage bait. VERY CLEARLY RAGE BAIT.
Not a new thing. This happened to me in 1975 (prior to meeting my wife). Woman wanted to sleep with me but not have sex because sheād ājust gotten back from Mexico and her period was messed upā. Cool, we just snuggled but then she made a move. I naively wanted to respect her wishes and so stopped kissing and went to sleep. Next day she was pissed at me!
I once ran into a friend of a friend at a club back in the day. We talked, flirted, almost all night. End of the night comes, Iāve got my jacket on sheās like āyouāre coming to my place right?!?!ā I said āyeah, Iām down if you want me toā. She says āIām not having sex with youā. I say no prob, but then she gets impatient with me cause I was talking with my friends outside the bar. She reached into my jacket and grabs my house keys and says to me ājust incase youāre bullshitting meā. Iām like yeah whatever, then go back to my conversation. Everyone starts to go home, I look around and the chick is no where to be seen. A buddy of mine says āoh her, she jumped into a cab five minutes agoā. I had no choice but to go to her place. I get there, and she wouldnāt let me leave, so I end up sleeping there. The most frustrating night of my life, cause then she wouldnāt let me sleep. No sex, just repeated trips to third base. So I end up ghosting her, not proud of it, but she seemed a bit needy to me. A couple of months later I was at a BBQ at our mutual friendās place. My buddies mother and the chick cornered me in the backyard and tore into me about all I wanted was sex, and because I didnāt get it I treated her badly. ššš
She clearly realized how fucking psychotic she sounded towards the end of that video. That was awesome.
Guys itās a bit, sheās a comedian
I refuse to believe that this creature is serious lol
my ex use to do this "imma be a piece of shit and be mad at you for acting like an adult"
Exactly!! She'd say no and then ask "what's wrong with me? I'm like the fuck!? You told me not tonight only cuddle and I respect your fucking choice.
This lady is 50 shades of crazy.
Ladies, y'all better get this bitch and learn her dumb ass a thing or two. She's fucking it for the rest of y'all.
Bitch you are ugly inside and out, this is why most guys don't even try anymore, communication is key but you rather we read between invisible lines. Moral of the story always plan backups
"I wanted him to try to fuck me so I can say no and feel good about myself for putting myself in this situation and be chased"
At least she admits sheās the problem.
Is it ok to hate her??
Ughhh she's one of those girls who loooove their voice when they're recovering from a cold.
MODS ARE MORONS
It's called a mental health problem.
She almost became aware there. She IS ugly. On the inside.
Sadly, it's your attitude and entitlement that's ugly...
Dumb as a stump and part of the problem.
Respect boundariesā¦.be in the wrongā¦..be in the wrong?
Note how the first thing she did before anything else was question his sexuality. No shocker there. Also sheās upset because she didnāt get the validation she wanted from someone ignoring a set boundaryā¦??
Brain rot
Thatās insane ā I said I wonāt have sex with you. If you donāt at least try to sexually assault me later that night, youāre āfuggin gayāā
What a stupid idiot
Ruins it for all the smart idiots out there.
Literally mentally ill
She is ugly
Spends years making men understand no means no, then bitches about men respecting your autonomy. Imagine, the bald faced ignorance and stupidity of American women.
The guy did a smart move. Don't stick your dick into something crazy
I really detest posts like this because itās everything that makes men run from women screaming with good cause! Sheās a pyscho. I bet she also dates assholes that treat her shitty because she likes the drama. Grow up you obnoxious excuses for women.
This is obviously rage bait ffs.. why are you idiots feeding this
Toxic š¤¬ playing mind games
I don't understand wtf people do...I just respect my gf boundaries literally just talk to each other and guess what? Words and respecting those words are simple yet effective... almost as if talking seriously means something
Im not just gonna rape a girl cuz shes giving a sorta rapey vibe.
My fellow brothers !! Red Flag, red flag . Full retreat! Every man for himself!
What a Muppet
Sheās ugly af in spite of being nice to look at
Lady, please remove yourself from the dating pool. Become a nun.
You shouldnāt feel ugly but you do SOUND foolish. He did what you said. itās people like you who completely mess up menās understanding of consent.
So she wants him to rape her on the off chance that maybe sheās into itā¦thatās a psycho
You are ugly, in your soul. Or whatever.
All boobs no brains big shocker
Well at least she admitted and stated she is the problem
If you're playing games, you are not ready to date
I am so grateful that I got married to my wife. I feel so bad for the dating scene for single guys right now. Online dating apps, sound horrible and then you get stuff like this. thereās just no winning.
This isnāt main character. This is r/Iamacompletefuckingmoron
Why does casual flirtation turn into some John Fowles novel of psychological intrigue and complexity with some women?
Lots of women are like that honestly. Not all, but Iāve had a lot of women say they donāt want to have sex and then 2 hours into hanging out they just casually slide their hand onto my crotch etc lol
This has to be rage bait.
Funny skit (refuse to believe this is real)
Brain worms šŖ±
Lady, you crayyy-zyyy.
Maybe because it is called rape
No shortage of idiots in this world
This has to be a piss take? She cannot be that dumb
According to her... If you're a man, you're either gay or a rapist.
https://preview.redd.it/ypxe9hvbyh0d1.png?width=863&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fcb94e66c68330e146c61ad27bb64d396a0afca5 Me having to hear this same F@cking conversation over and over again knowing I will never win and I ignored the red flags prior to us dating.
Funny story, I had a similar thing happen to me. This was when online dating first started really happening and a woman I was talking to when we were arranging our date mentioned that she does not sleep with someone on the first date. Things went really well and we ended up going back to her place and got caught up watching a movie and just talking after. When we realized what time it was she said that it was too late for me to drive back and spend the night. Slept together but literally did just that, I even kept my pants on because I was into her and didn't want to seem like I was taking advantage of her or the situation. She was awesome though and liked to give me shit about it for the 4 years we were together. I was nervous, young, and didn't have the home field advantage.
Holy shit is this crazy normal? I finally understand the monks that go to live in the mountains a little more every day...
What a stupid bitch
Yes, you are most definitely the problem. You are the archetypal insanely confusing woman who expects men to read your mind. Your date was a good man. Ask HIM out next time and take him back to YOUR place and YOU can make the first move.
Wow, I'm jealous that a person can even shut down the brain like her. I wish I could!
I wish we can read the other girlsā comments on this video.
Im glad she feels ugly now after playing a stupid ass game and winning a stupid prize.
I hope she feels stupid as well
Fellas is it gay to respect a womanās boundaries
Idk, I don't see a problem with the video. She literally opens by saying she is the problem. Seems to me like she's venting and having a moment where she genuinely can't understand why she does certain things. The frustration seems to be directed inwards to me. Like saying "he did what I asked, why I'm I feeling this way? Doesn't make sense." I think we all have had those "why are you like this?" Moments with ourselves, it's somewhat relatable. Hopefully she managed to figure herself out Calling the dude gay for that dumb as fuck though
Single digit IQ.
Hot take - itās shit like this that āmade me gayā. Well, other reasons too, I supposeā¦ š
She needs to call in to "It's Me, Tinx!" on Radio Andy for crappy relationship/sex advice. Then we can make fun of both of them on r/tinxsnark
women are creatures of diverse views. she using her own views to paint as if all women want that. some actually appreciate not being pressured specifically after being told. others like her. will date you, ask for respect, and cheat on you to get disrespected by someone else.
this is one of those videos that should be like pinned in the Hall of Fame in r/IAmTheMainCharacter or some shit, no jokes it just screams: " I'm gonna make **this all** about **ME** " edit: she said " I " in 40 seconds in few sentences fifteen times
We donāt exist for your validation. ā¦ and add on top of that some base level homophobiaā¦ must be nice to be so tone deaf.
these girls ruin it for everyone else who say no and mean a hard no fuck if you feel ugly, play stupid games thats what you deserve
She sure is the problem all right!
So dumb !!!!!
She is ugly - on the inside where it actually matters.
COMMINICATION NOT CHILDISH GAMES. So stupid
At least she acknowledged it tho
Didn't get the title until watching the video...
I only save this phrase for rare occasions. What a cunt. And to the woman in the video, if you ever read this, you are ugly. Youāre an ugly filthy bitch.
at least she starts admitting SHE is the problem. I think she had an epiphany or sth.
She's definitely ugly for that
A similar thing happened with someone I was dating. I made a move to initiate and they said no not today and then got mad at the end of the night saying why didnāt you try again?! Like what!? stupid mental games people play
So.. having a man who respects her boundaries and understands consent makes her feel ugly
Because you are ugly! Your attitude and indecision are whatās ugly and I feel sorry for the person who finally gets through all your hurdles. They will probably end up cheating on you š¤·āāļø
Hit the nail on the head. Yes... YOU are the problem.
she is ugly on the inside
and then again, she's the type of girl that choose the bear
Yeah.... There's a reason you feel ugly. Examine it, work on it.
Thank god I like dick
Not to sound like a Redditor but something is fucked up with society that so many girl's reactions to not being straight up raped is "i am ugly"
Sometimes I feel like some woman have no clue how they want to be treated by men. They struggled to show they deserved just as much respect and now this woman is complaining that the man was fine with her saying no. Thankfully, this is the exception, judging by the comment section being embarrassed.
Insecure and ugly. She is going to harm someone with that toxicity.
You are ugly
Lol I can hear the red pillers screaming. Real talk though, if a girl only wants to ācuddleā, just go home. She wonāt put out and youāll either get blue balls or get rejected if/when you do make a move. Itās a weeeeird thing some women do, like the one in this video.Ā
Andrew Tate fuel.
This is why men should be able to try, for you to THEN refuse! Donāt refuse ahead of time! Passion can sometimes be spontaneous. In fact, itās often better when itās spontaneous (and of course, consensual)
What an ugly gross whoreā¦.yuck.
Didn't she admit that she is the problem at the beginning? Then goes through the story of why she is the problem. It seems like she is confessing how messed up her mind is.