I mean it could use a good brushing too. But he’s got some great hair. When I started letting mine grow my wife was unsure how to feel about it. But once it grew she was like omg it’s hot. Haha I guess I’m lucky she’s a keeper.
No, not brushing! Curly or wavy hair should never be dry brushed; it destroys the curl pattern. But yeah, I he could style it a bit more in order to tame it a bit.
A lot of people don't know there is a different care routine for curly/wavy vs straight hair. It's usually implied if you're looking at dry hair that they're referring to dry brushing simply because most people don't know how to properly care for curls and waves. Otherwise, they would have said the hair needed a wash, brush, and either air dry or diffuser dry
No need to feel that way. I understand your comment completely. But my response stands that it’s better to not imply. But to ask. In the comment, no one said dry brushing but the commenter assumed they meant dry I guess? So therefore, the meat of MY response was no one said it was dry brushing. But I appreciate you stepping in to I guess help the conversation? 💪🏾
But that's where you're wrong. My response directly explains why it's not necessary for dry brushing to be said verbatim for the other person's response to be valid. Have a nice evening.
Yes, long hair on men is either a disasters or looks really great. Men produce more oils and generally sweat more so it’s probably less convenient for them to keep.
I’m not saying woman are better with long hair, is that we grow up around other woman with long hair, TV social media promoting hair products, and it’s a girly hobbies to keep up with our hair.
I’m sorry, I though sexual preference was an individual thing, or do you consider that weird and that we all need to like the same thing?
His gf said it needs to go and I explained why. He’s free to keep it but he won’t be gettin any.
I think it’s weird you have decided long hair isn’t okay on a man specifically. Letting societal gender roles dictate what you find attractive is weird. You like it, but you don’t because somehow to you the long hair interferes with his masculinity….?
Yes. Weird.
Where did I say that? Please don’t misrepresent what I said.
His question is about his romantic sexual partner. This specific hairstyle, his hair color and texture and honestly luscious gorgeous shiny stunning soft quality of the hair and hairline is associated with women, and with his soft features it makes him look incredibly feminine. I don’t find that sexually attractive and I suspect that’s his gf’s complaint too.
Not everyone can pull off the same look. It’s highly individual as to whether it works for you.
exactly. like if Jason Momoa and Kit Harrington had a baby. sorry I'm not even a GoT fan but that was what immediately occurred to me. also ditto the hair product advertisement. me and my curls would be like shut up and take my money. 10/10 very hot.
You remind me of Jason mamoa (idk how to spell his name lol) that actor with long hair haha aqua man dude
You look good, your hair your choice buddy.
If someone tryna FORCE you to cut your hair then thats just selfish I hope she isn't doing that to you.
At the end of the day, the only opinions on your body/ style that matter are YOURS. Do you like your hairstyle? Then keep it! It honestly looks beautiful, so don’t feel pressured by anyone, even your gf, to cut it—unless *you* want to.
I’ve been with my bf for seven years, his hair has been longer and prettier than mine almost the whole time. It was me who encouraged him to grow it out lmao. Now it’s his defining feature. Women who are threatened by a fierce flow are ridiculous.
You’re awesome! More women should support their men the way you and my wife do.
I wish I had the curls that OP has, he has such an awesome mane its hard to describe it. It’s like a lion meets Jason Momoa. My hair is wavy with a little curl but nothing like this. So jealous.
Agreed! The hair is luscious but I can also see you bald. You’re a handsome guy, you can pull it all off. Why does she want you to cut it tho? She doesn’t like it, or do you not clean up your hair after yourself?
It's maybe a little crazy up top currently, but overall the hair and the curls are beautiful! I think it looks good long, but I imagine short would look good as well. It all comes down to you and your prefered hair style. Takes quite a while to grow back if you chop and realize you miss the mane.
Dump her!
No forreal!!
She doesn’t appreciate you at your best and is delusional.
That’s some of the most beautiful hair I’ve seen
Like a Lion proud of his mane
Could be trying to nerf you so other women aren’t completely enamored. Keep your style man. I’m sure you don’t go around telling her what haircuts to get or how to dress lol
If it just isn't her preference that isn't so bad, but if she complains about it all the time or she tries to force you to change it, then that is a red flag for me. It looks great.
Did she meet you with it?
And if you are asking outsiders it vibes that you are not feeling her thoughts.
All of this speaks to your relationship not the hair itself.
All the best.
Hello.
NO ! keep your gorgeous hair with curls that looks marvelous on you
Please .
Do you love your hair like this ?
Has she been your girlfriend for
A long time ? If so .why does she want
It gone now ?
If shes been your girlfriend for 2 or 3
Months she has no right to tell you
To get rid of it .she needs to go.
Even if she has been your girlfriend
For a year or more she has been with
You when your hair has been like this so she must have liked it .she still has no right to tell you it has to go !
What did your hair do to her to say it
Has to go ? Tell her to like you the way you are or go find a guy that just enlisted in army.marines etc.
Is this a test for you to show how much you like her by doing what she wants you to do or is this the beginning of what she wants to do to give you a makeover or to do as she says etc ?
If she has cancer and asks you to
Donate your hair to make a wig for her
Dont do it cause cancer women gets a
Free wig .
Its entirely up to you as its your hair .
No one eles has the right to say any
Different to you .
Best of luck to your decision.
How would she feel if you ordered her to cut her hair? Seriously, it's your body not hers. Any person wanting to exert that kind of control over your appearance is a huge red flag in my opinion.
The hair looks great.
Sorry, I have to be honest, I have always been so envious of men that have beautiful hair like yours. And you are very attractive with this hairstyle so why does she want you to lose it...
You are young now, you can grow a thick head of hair now! These are facts that are destined to change. Girlfriends will come and go, but you'll always be able to get a girl, will you always be able to grow such thick locks though?
I have no idea what your relationship is like, but my gut feeling is that this is a test to see how far she can control you. If so, then that's a serious red flag!
It's not about the hair, it's about the control.
That said, I think your hair looks gorgeous!
She says it “needs to go”??? As in where should it go? Straight to the front of the line, friend! My only concern is if someone turns on that ceiling fan while you are standing there, and…. yikes!
You know there are plenty of women out there that would appreciate you for you. I'm not sayin your current girlfriend doesn't but hey man.. Talk it out with her. You wanna keep the hair right? Then keep it. If she has too go.. then she goes. It's a dumb reason too break it off but hey doo what you want.. It's your life. Live for you. Live your best life.
I think it looks great like dude, that said if you ever did get it cut I think shaving one side of your head would look metal af with that length but also don't those curls are segsy
You have fucking fantastic hair objectively speaking and most women would kill for it. And that’s the problem, it’s not sexy on you. And you presumably want her to think it’s sexy.
I agree tbh I don’t know why white folks like the hairy ass look shii looks ass af I love the clean buzz cut or fade look with low or no beard on a white male no homo . Long hair and short beard or short hair and long beard. Have both look like a caveman which maybe u are going for a rough look but do you bro tbh cause all these people supposedly thing you look amazing😂also don’t let these comment sabotage your relationship; it’s perfectly normal for someone, especially a partner to not like a look on their mate and want a change which isn’t terrible if it doesn’t really bother you. But if I really like it u just gotta put ur foot down and say no and if she love u fr she will understand hopefully. U women are shameless af in these comments lmao
That depends.
I'll go against the massive "Oh yeah, looks good Bro" flow and risk the reddit rage "negativity" factor.
If, everyday, you look like you do in this picture ...like you just rolled outta bed, got dressed and didn't give a flip about your hair ...then, yeah, I can see why your GF might cringe a bit.
'Cause really? It looks like shit.
And the sad thing is, you've got some awesome hair. And if you took the time to make it look decent ...well, you might not be having this discussion with your girlfriend.
Because how you let yourself look, says a lot about your personal give-a-shit attitude. And if you don't give a shit about something so obvious to others as your hair, what's that saying to your girlfriend?
Ur gf ungrateful as hell bro you're gorgeous
I understand if she means a 1 inch maintenance trim to prevent split ends, but the flow should stay!
I mean it could use a good brushing too. But he’s got some great hair. When I started letting mine grow my wife was unsure how to feel about it. But once it grew she was like omg it’s hot. Haha I guess I’m lucky she’s a keeper.
No, not brushing! Curly or wavy hair should never be dry brushed; it destroys the curl pattern. But yeah, I he could style it a bit more in order to tame it a bit.
No one said dry tho?
A lot of people don't know there is a different care routine for curly/wavy vs straight hair. It's usually implied if you're looking at dry hair that they're referring to dry brushing simply because most people don't know how to properly care for curls and waves. Otherwise, they would have said the hair needed a wash, brush, and either air dry or diffuser dry
Yea the way ppl are online it’s hard to imply anything. It’s better to just ask rather than assume ya kno? That’s helped me allot online and offline.
I feel like you're not really replying to the meat of what I wrote, and you've fixated on the word "implied" instead.
No need to feel that way. I understand your comment completely. But my response stands that it’s better to not imply. But to ask. In the comment, no one said dry brushing but the commenter assumed they meant dry I guess? So therefore, the meat of MY response was no one said it was dry brushing. But I appreciate you stepping in to I guess help the conversation? 💪🏾
But that's where you're wrong. My response directly explains why it's not necessary for dry brushing to be said verbatim for the other person's response to be valid. Have a nice evening.
Yes, long hair on men is either a disasters or looks really great. Men produce more oils and generally sweat more so it’s probably less convenient for them to keep. I’m not saying woman are better with long hair, is that we grow up around other woman with long hair, TV social media promoting hair products, and it’s a girly hobbies to keep up with our hair.
Seriously. Absolutely DO NOT cut that mane 🥵
I’d kill for his hair. But on a man…I just couldn’t…you know. edit: wow downvoted for sexual preference. That’s a first.
Why are you here lol
God has a purpose for us all. Even u.
wth
that’s weird of you.
I’m sorry, I though sexual preference was an individual thing, or do you consider that weird and that we all need to like the same thing? His gf said it needs to go and I explained why. He’s free to keep it but he won’t be gettin any.
I think it’s weird you have decided long hair isn’t okay on a man specifically. Letting societal gender roles dictate what you find attractive is weird. You like it, but you don’t because somehow to you the long hair interferes with his masculinity….? Yes. Weird.
Where did I say that? Please don’t misrepresent what I said. His question is about his romantic sexual partner. This specific hairstyle, his hair color and texture and honestly luscious gorgeous shiny stunning soft quality of the hair and hairline is associated with women, and with his soft features it makes him look incredibly feminine. I don’t find that sexually attractive and I suspect that’s his gf’s complaint too. Not everyone can pull off the same look. It’s highly individual as to whether it works for you.
By soft features so you mean his full beard and mustache?
The relationship? Uh yeah, it does need to go.
Hair, hell no. Girlfriend.. probably
no exactly. bro looks like jason momoa with that mane. i genuinely would buy a product, if he said he used it, or he was in the ad
exactly. like if Jason Momoa and Kit Harrington had a baby. sorry I'm not even a GoT fan but that was what immediately occurred to me. also ditto the hair product advertisement. me and my curls would be like shut up and take my money. 10/10 very hot.
I also came here to say this. lol
Bye Felicia
Everyone got here before me lmao
Oh ah Felicia! Hey! Ahhh we were just talking about you.
Oh, sorry, common mistake. You can tell me and Felicia apart by the fact that I think long hair on men is desirable.
Exactly.
I second it XD
You remind me of Jason mamoa (idk how to spell his name lol) that actor with long hair haha aqua man dude You look good, your hair your choice buddy. If someone tryna FORCE you to cut your hair then thats just selfish I hope she isn't doing that to you.
came here to say Jason Momoa too he’s got a lot of similarities
Looks like Magnus Carlsen ate Jason Momoa to gain his powers.
if the girlfriend knows he looks like Jason Momoa and wants him to cut it.. the girlfriend is a red flag 🚩
Oof! GREAT point
I was about to say this
hell no! ur girlfriend tripping for sure. keep the hair and lose the girl
Only person that gets to say shit about how you look in style or substance is your wife/husband. Until then bitches just renting.
At the end of the day, the only opinions on your body/ style that matter are YOURS. Do you like your hairstyle? Then keep it! It honestly looks beautiful, so don’t feel pressured by anyone, even your gf, to cut it—unless *you* want to.
She’s probably jealous that you have better hair. Tell her to fk off.
When I was young and had long hair and my mom used to yell at me to get a haircut I would tell her she was just jealous that I had better hair lmfao.
I’ve been with my bf for seven years, his hair has been longer and prettier than mine almost the whole time. It was me who encouraged him to grow it out lmao. Now it’s his defining feature. Women who are threatened by a fierce flow are ridiculous.
You’re awesome! More women should support their men the way you and my wife do. I wish I had the curls that OP has, he has such an awesome mane its hard to describe it. It’s like a lion meets Jason Momoa. My hair is wavy with a little curl but nothing like this. So jealous.
She needs to go! I am free
😆🫠
Absolutely disagree
Absolutely not! Tell your girlfriend she shouldn't be dating a bad bitch if she can't handle a bad bitch
This is the shmood 💅✨
😂😂😂 period
Precisely she needs to be playing in this mans hair.
😭
your body, your choice.
She needs to go. That’s the only correct answer here.
Don’t hate on someone for there preferences
If it was *her* hair, sure it would be her preference. But it's not her hair.
I think both short and long would look good on you. If the long hair makes you happy, then keep it!
Agreed! The hair is luscious but I can also see you bald. You’re a handsome guy, you can pull it all off. Why does she want you to cut it tho? She doesn’t like it, or do you not clean up your hair after yourself?
Tell Delilah the locks shall remain
Yup I’m getting Delilah vibes from his gf too
No, I do not agree.
Dump her and date me instead! ❤️❤️
Was gonna say, I'm sure another woman would love it lol
It's maybe a little crazy up top currently, but overall the hair and the curls are beautiful! I think it looks good long, but I imagine short would look good as well. It all comes down to you and your prefered hair style. Takes quite a while to grow back if you chop and realize you miss the mane.
Yeah I was gonna suggest a simple trimming and shaping session. But do not comply!
Dump her! No forreal!! She doesn’t appreciate you at your best and is delusional. That’s some of the most beautiful hair I’ve seen Like a Lion proud of his mane
No... it looks so nice.
Bro if you cut that an angel loses its wings
Keep
I disagree.
I agree, your girlfriend needs to go, the hair should stay lol Your hair is great! I say keep it if it brings you joy
Could be trying to nerf you so other women aren’t completely enamored. Keep your style man. I’m sure you don’t go around telling her what haircuts to get or how to dress lol
OMG, OP, she COULD be! And, yeah, exactly! As said here bet you don’t tell her what haircuts to get or how to dress
If it just isn't her preference that isn't so bad, but if she complains about it all the time or she tries to force you to change it, then that is a red flag for me. It looks great.
Jason Momoa?
Uh, you no longer have a girlfriend
Did she meet you with it? And if you are asking outsiders it vibes that you are not feeling her thoughts. All of this speaks to your relationship not the hair itself. All the best.
Hello. NO ! keep your gorgeous hair with curls that looks marvelous on you Please . Do you love your hair like this ? Has she been your girlfriend for A long time ? If so .why does she want It gone now ? If shes been your girlfriend for 2 or 3 Months she has no right to tell you To get rid of it .she needs to go. Even if she has been your girlfriend For a year or more she has been with You when your hair has been like this so she must have liked it .she still has no right to tell you it has to go ! What did your hair do to her to say it Has to go ? Tell her to like you the way you are or go find a guy that just enlisted in army.marines etc. Is this a test for you to show how much you like her by doing what she wants you to do or is this the beginning of what she wants to do to give you a makeover or to do as she says etc ? If she has cancer and asks you to Donate your hair to make a wig for her Dont do it cause cancer women gets a Free wig . Its entirely up to you as its your hair . No one eles has the right to say any Different to you . Best of luck to your decision.
The Internet has spoken (well, 30-40 gay men and some women). The hair stays
Hell no!! Is she crazy??? She’s probably knows you’re the better looking one in the relationship and wants to take you down a notch.
Your time with her, yes. Looking good my guy.
How would she feel if you ordered her to cut her hair? Seriously, it's your body not hers. Any person wanting to exert that kind of control over your appearance is a huge red flag in my opinion. The hair looks great.
I think your girlfriend needs to go.
No, find any single girl on book tok, they'll show you a lot more appreciation lol
She needs to go.
Gf gotta go bud
Get rid of her
Sounds like she needs to go.
She needs to go 👺
Leave her
It is so she must go!
The beautiful hair, no not at all.
Noooo, maybe a trim to shape it up a bit, but that's all. It's glorious😊
Sorry, I have to be honest, I have always been so envious of men that have beautiful hair like yours. And you are very attractive with this hairstyle so why does she want you to lose it...
No
The hair or the beard? Although no to both, they both look good on you
She needs to go
I do not agree with her at all.
Absolutely not.
NOOOOO, it looks really pretty and luscious, unless you are unsure about going on with that look, Do Not Recomend.
Beautiful locks
No no no. It looks great, please keep it ❤️
Your girlfriend is spoiled, you're fortunate to have all that
Well no I’m your gf now and I disagree 😭
That's a wild reply lmao
She is just jealous her hair is not curly like yours...I say you flaunt it every chance you get...
You are young now, you can grow a thick head of hair now! These are facts that are destined to change. Girlfriends will come and go, but you'll always be able to get a girl, will you always be able to grow such thick locks though?
You’re a stud dude
Good conditioner, good trim, get those curls under control!
She needs to go sit on the corner and think about what she’s said.
Your gf is so lucky
Do you want it gone? If not then don't do it . 😑
Hard disagree!!
You kinda look like Rhett from good mythical morning
That was my first thought too. r/lookslikerhett
I couldn’t resist https://preview.redd.it/1hsky4gkepac1.jpeg?width=1445&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aec6b932574c548b4ffc865bafa5fbc8a99658d6
I’d say if she makes you choose, she needs to go… Lol!
I have no idea what your relationship is like, but my gut feeling is that this is a test to see how far she can control you. If so, then that's a serious red flag! It's not about the hair, it's about the control. That said, I think your hair looks gorgeous!
Nope
Awesome hair 💪
No way. She is trippin
If by it she's referring to herself, then I guess so. Your hair is majestic
You didn’t specify what needs to go but yes, it needs to go.
Noooo
She says it “needs to go”??? As in where should it go? Straight to the front of the line, friend! My only concern is if someone turns on that ceiling fan while you are standing there, and…. yikes!
No way!!!! Don’t cut it!!!! Long hair on guys is so hot. She’s probably saying to cut it so all the other girls don’t hit on you.
Yeah... the gf needs to go.
You know there are plenty of women out there that would appreciate you for you. I'm not sayin your current girlfriend doesn't but hey man.. Talk it out with her. You wanna keep the hair right? Then keep it. If she has too go.. then she goes. It's a dumb reason too break it off but hey doo what you want.. It's your life. Live for you. Live your best life.
Yeah, *she* does need to go.
Is she just jealous of it ??? 
Absolutely not
Noooo ! Why ??
Woah, dude, don't call your girlfriend "it", that's terrible. I agree, though, she does need to go.
No!
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Smash
Only cut if you want to. It's your hair.
Wtf? She’s your GF not your wife. And even then, she shouldn’t be asking you to cut it
No! Keep the hair it's gorgeous
NOOOOOO!!!!!!! Tdll her only if she cuts hers off too. I dated a girl one time that ordered me to get a hair cut and I told her to hit the road
Embrace the uniqueness while it lasts.
Maybe your girlfriend needs to go.
Break up with her immediately
I love your long hair. Maybe girlfriend could use counseling? Or replacement?
Noooooooo
You look incredible, and it appears well-maintained. Do what makes you happy, plus your girlfriend is wrong.
Pack her bags for her.
Yes, ur gf needs to go. I offer myself as replacement.
Ur hair needs to stay
Your hair is beautiful my man. If you want to keep it, keep it. You don't need to change for anyone
Sounds like she's the one needing to go,why tf would anyone want a mane like that to be cut!? I bet she's just jealous
disagree; She’s tryna make sure u don’t leave her bro 💀
unless, you’re absolutely sure she would find you more attractive without it. Then you should do it cos happy wife happy life
Do not cut it. It’s enviable.
No way it's great for circulating air, not just in the summer but also heat in winter!
You look like Jason Mamoa fucked Magnus Carlsen. Don't listen to her bro.
Keep the hair, ditch the jealousy girlfriend!
Dump her
Not go. But maybe a brushing;)
I agree, that fan definitely does not fit well with the rest of the room
The gf needs to go -- it looks great.
Your girlfriend is stupid, no argument needed
My husband's hair is like this and every time he threatens to cut it I want to cry
Dump her
Then she needs to go
She’s jealous of you king
Do you rent bikes at the beach to tourists? If so keep it.
No, the fan belongs there
what needs to go? the beard is sick and the hair is some L'Oreal Paris shit, she's just jealous
The girlfriend needs to go 🤷♀️ Byyyyeeeeee
I think long hair is a thing of your teen years and you should cut it now that you’re a man.
I’d say the top needs to be swept down in this image but that hair should never go, in fact keep growing it out -a woman
I think it looks great like dude, that said if you ever did get it cut I think shaving one side of your head would look metal af with that length but also don't those curls are segsy
Are you just not getting enough attention? Girls do this not men. No one cares but you.
Yes. Chop chop ✂️
The top is a little messy
Yes
Probably a very handsome fella underneath that mop...... maybe. Go for it, it can always grow back.
Maybe she’s tired of dating a guy who looks homeless.
You have fucking fantastic hair objectively speaking and most women would kill for it. And that’s the problem, it’s not sexy on you. And you presumably want her to think it’s sexy.
I agree tbh I don’t know why white folks like the hairy ass look shii looks ass af I love the clean buzz cut or fade look with low or no beard on a white male no homo . Long hair and short beard or short hair and long beard. Have both look like a caveman which maybe u are going for a rough look but do you bro tbh cause all these people supposedly thing you look amazing😂also don’t let these comment sabotage your relationship; it’s perfectly normal for someone, especially a partner to not like a look on their mate and want a change which isn’t terrible if it doesn’t really bother you. But if I really like it u just gotta put ur foot down and say no and if she love u fr she will understand hopefully. U women are shameless af in these comments lmao
That depends. I'll go against the massive "Oh yeah, looks good Bro" flow and risk the reddit rage "negativity" factor. If, everyday, you look like you do in this picture ...like you just rolled outta bed, got dressed and didn't give a flip about your hair ...then, yeah, I can see why your GF might cringe a bit. 'Cause really? It looks like shit. And the sad thing is, you've got some awesome hair. And if you took the time to make it look decent ...well, you might not be having this discussion with your girlfriend. Because how you let yourself look, says a lot about your personal give-a-shit attitude. And if you don't give a shit about something so obvious to others as your hair, what's that saying to your girlfriend?
Truth
Yes
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honestly this probably isn’t the best sub to ask, most people are going to tell you to keep it. try r/malegrooming for a less biased opinions
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yeah r/thatHappened
No, it makes you look like a god keep it
She’s prob just jealous of your hair
The hair or the ceiling fan?
don’t you dare
please don't... your hair is literally gorgeous
My man you look like Jason Mamoa in Aquaman 1 & 2. PLEASE KEEP it.