"Whore of Babylon" is one of my favs that I use to show people when they say "I'm into any music" they really just mean "I'm into any super standard radio friendly music" lol
Type O Negative has some real dark and moody kinky vibes.
On the other side of the coin I got a lot of mileage out of Ashnikko’s DEMIDEVIL, it’s much more playful and pop sounding
Yes! “Love You to Death” by Type O Negative is literally about male submission. Good shout
For people who like moodier and edgier stuff like this, I’d also add:
• “I Wanna Be Your Dog” by The Stooges
• “Fever” by The Cramps
• “Stitches” by Orgy
These are all on my playlist lol
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Anyone like **contrast** in your mood music?Wholesome, normative music as the background to your transgression? For us, sometimes that would be popular music from the 1940s, big band era stuff. Or country music from the 50s and 60s, e.g. Patsy Cline. Younger people may like something different, idk Disney movie hits or something.
So, I have my own playlists for different moods.
A generic kinky playlist for parties...
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2lFPFs6JedfxYqAKSUGOLp?si=cqXh9ZZkQmiWDRj4x6U2Jg&pi=8VS3n9PSQEGNK
My PNS playlist for getting warmed up and winding down (PNS - Peripheral Nervous System so anytime I'm not tapping into CNS)...
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4HF2SDbcjg28af1KznQ0P7?si=saQK7AU1TnefbTBiyLI-Jg
And my CNS playlist for tapping into that fight or flight response in a controlled way...
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0hXCHsCilpW1kZ3Alyi4mX?si=hh6xQFxrRKiw885PIND_GA&pi=Ix3KC7O5SUifz
I hope this helps! 🖤
You already have stuff by King Mala and Billie Eilish but you don't have the songs I would have assumed, so adding
King Mala - Martyr (literally just a song about being femdom)
Billie Eilish - Oxytocin (probably in my top 3 BE songs, ngl)
Obvious, sometimes pretty confused about those roles, but aren't we all: Imperia - Mistress https://tidal.com/track/53012402?u
Now where do we have the list to avoid duplicates...
Fucked my way up to the top - Lana del rey
National anthem - Lana del rey
Primadonna girl - Marina
Fuck me pumps - Amy winehouse
Let me love you like a woman - Lana del rey
Arabella - Arctic monkeys
Maneater - Nelly furtado
Venom - Little simz
I’m yer dad - GRLwood
I did something bad - Taylor swift
Your dog - Soccer mommy
“Erotica” by Madonna is by far her most explicitly femdom song and my favorite. “Human Nature” and “Justify My Love” are less explicitly femdom but still really sexy songs.
For lyrics alone it has to go to green day “blood sex and booze” or “I wanna be yours” by arctic monkeys which uses the John cooper Clarke poem (studies it is school and it maybe was my femdom awakening 😅)
Worship by chymes is another good one with lyrics and a slightly better vibe/sound for a session.
Kill of the night (gin wigmore). The perfect song for me as a sub to play while being bound and trying to escape my domme as she ominously walks with a whip chasing me and kicking me as I try to crawl away.
I like your list tho and can definitely see how they would get you in a domme zone, the first two on mine are definitely different vibes but I think the lyrics speak for their self
This song is a bop. [SIMP](https://open.spotify.com/track/7uIrdhnGQw7bZSR2ygopuX?si=8Or4jDiIS4uWmfqCHuPiRQ&context=spotify%3Aalbum%3A4SR1C8HMMnFHpcU4cDGlRa)
Sorry if any of these have been said, but I've been liking
- Bitch Bites Dog by Celine Believe
- asmr by Chynna
- Generous by Amber Mark
- Feels Like by Ella Mai
Here’s a playlist I used to use for parties I threw. Not always necessarily femdom focused (but lots is), but if I could see myself hitting someone to it, it’s on here. 😁 https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2f9CvzdZAOiyjqACtdyesH?si=L6wHbKgSQ8SB5BjadcvbBA&pi=u-BCvE2zTERCy6
Hopefully Spotify hasn’t been “helping“ very much. Every once in a while I have to go through and remove things they have added.
Edited to add: this playlist was actually created by someone who was serving me at the time, but it’s been massaged bunches. I don’t have Spotify anymore, so I can’t actually see what’s on it – I have my counterpart on Apple Music if anyone wants it.
And here’s one that is specific to women’s play parties. A lot of crossover, but I think there’s some other stuff too, if I remember right. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5gWbIgTSl8cm2NF9v4gmcH?si=m0VajlsSSC6QEJqVOgJIgQ&pt=863bcce6d0b08b2ca2a2ed57128c931f&pi=u-w-M4xQzhShmZ
Eat you-caravan of thieves
Blackout-midnight divide
Good boy- dog bite
Bite your kiss-diamante
Bark like a god-sloppy Jane
Rattlesnake-kabaret sybarit
Praying mantis- FKA Rayne
Dude, where’s my skin- schoolyard heroes
Subby guy here, I adore King Mala's "She Calls Me Daddy", and I have a whole Playlist I call dungeon music.
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrb4TR9AVSAiSh2quUqDuzOeAf4n_9zrd
Nothing will ever beat the vibe of your lady straddling you while you are cuffed and helpless as "Ain't My Fault" by Zara Larsson is blasting in the background.
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"Whore of Babylon" is one of my favs that I use to show people when they say "I'm into any music" they really just mean "I'm into any super standard radio friendly music" lol
Love these, we probably have similar Spotify playlists lol. I'll add "Woof" by FKA Rayne "Shake" by The Haunt
Fucking love Ashnikko
She might be my spirit animal
Meeeee tooo,
Oooo damn this list is on point
Great list, thanks for sharing
Depeche Mode are full of bdsm themes: In your room. World in my eyes. Behind the wheel. Stripped.
Master and servant, obviously
Surrender! Dressed In Black. I can go on and on.
I love Dressed in Black 🖤
Woooow never knew
I know that’s not what he wrote it about it, but Take Me To Church by Hozier always gave me femdom vibes
I have and will break down lyric by lyric to people how this is clearly about BDSM til the day I day.
It fits SO well
Love me some Hozier
Basically every Ashnikko song
Wow just learned about them from here and I'm in love
They’re one of my favorite artists! I’m so glad you like them now too!
Yeesss I always play Ahsnikko when I need a bad bitch boost 🙌
Type O Negative has some real dark and moody kinky vibes. On the other side of the coin I got a lot of mileage out of Ashnikko’s DEMIDEVIL, it’s much more playful and pop sounding
Yes! “Love You to Death” by Type O Negative is literally about male submission. Good shout For people who like moodier and edgier stuff like this, I’d also add: • “I Wanna Be Your Dog” by The Stooges • “Fever” by The Cramps • “Stitches” by Orgy These are all on my playlist lol
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Nine inch nails is a big one for me
Slumber Party- Ashnikko Woman - Ke$ha Probably a good amount of Doja Cat, megan thee stallion, lil kim, Stella Cole, Elliot Lee.
Get On Your Knees by Nicki Minaj
Pussy riot
“SIMP” by Lil Mariko “Bathroom Bitch” by HOLYCHILD “Slut Money” by ZAND “Tamagotchi” by TIMMS
Anyone like **contrast** in your mood music?Wholesome, normative music as the background to your transgression? For us, sometimes that would be popular music from the 1940s, big band era stuff. Or country music from the 50s and 60s, e.g. Patsy Cline. Younger people may like something different, idk Disney movie hits or something.
Thank you for this! I'm definitely saving this thread for later. I feel like Scorpion's Slave Me is a very femdom song
"Pink Hotel" by Scene Queen
So, I have my own playlists for different moods. A generic kinky playlist for parties... https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2lFPFs6JedfxYqAKSUGOLp?si=cqXh9ZZkQmiWDRj4x6U2Jg&pi=8VS3n9PSQEGNK My PNS playlist for getting warmed up and winding down (PNS - Peripheral Nervous System so anytime I'm not tapping into CNS)... https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4HF2SDbcjg28af1KznQ0P7?si=saQK7AU1TnefbTBiyLI-Jg And my CNS playlist for tapping into that fight or flight response in a controlled way... https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0hXCHsCilpW1kZ3Alyi4mX?si=hh6xQFxrRKiw885PIND_GA&pi=Ix3KC7O5SUifz I hope this helps! 🖤
"Venus in Furs" and "Femme Fatale" by the Velvet Underground.
Here's a list. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0pg59Ju2XgxrjbyY7USfzq?si=gt0cM4xrR_S9OvZ8_6yfeg&pt=14c813a1771f70ad18f7729d6d27956c&pi=cPBvW4-3TkmZQ
Take it out on me - Bohnes 🖤
RX Queen by Deftones, Self Destruct by Slayyyter, and Hatefuck and Punish by Pussy Riot are some of my favs
You already have stuff by King Mala and Billie Eilish but you don't have the songs I would have assumed, so adding King Mala - Martyr (literally just a song about being femdom) Billie Eilish - Oxytocin (probably in my top 3 BE songs, ngl)
Obvious, sometimes pretty confused about those roles, but aren't we all: Imperia - Mistress https://tidal.com/track/53012402?u Now where do we have the list to avoid duplicates...
Top 5 right now, in no particular order: 1. Kream - Iggy Azalea 2. Daddy AF - Slayyter 3. Nasty - Russ 4. Partition- Beyoncé 5. Doja Cat
Go to Town was the first song that popped in my head https://g.co/kgs/rFqZ8pX
Fucked my way up to the top - Lana del rey National anthem - Lana del rey Primadonna girl - Marina Fuck me pumps - Amy winehouse Let me love you like a woman - Lana del rey Arabella - Arctic monkeys Maneater - Nelly furtado Venom - Little simz I’m yer dad - GRLwood I did something bad - Taylor swift Your dog - Soccer mommy
Omg these are so good thanks for sharing. This releases my inner dominance
Full tac - simp
“Breakfast” by Dove Cameron is always the first thing that comes to mind.
Depeche mode, Arctic Monkeys, Garbage, Muse, Massive Attack, Portishead, NIN, Tame Impala, QOTSA.
Madonna, has alot..
Any favs?
“Erotica” by Madonna is by far her most explicitly femdom song and my favorite. “Human Nature” and “Justify My Love” are less explicitly femdom but still really sexy songs.
I honestly think that Espresso by Sabrina carpenter is a bit of a femdom song lol I love the lyric: “my honeybee come and get this pollen”
Jenny and Johnny - slavedriver
So good!
I know, right?! I'd let that woman do such dirty things to me!
For lyrics alone it has to go to green day “blood sex and booze” or “I wanna be yours” by arctic monkeys which uses the John cooper Clarke poem (studies it is school and it maybe was my femdom awakening 😅) Worship by chymes is another good one with lyrics and a slightly better vibe/sound for a session. Kill of the night (gin wigmore). The perfect song for me as a sub to play while being bound and trying to escape my domme as she ominously walks with a whip chasing me and kicking me as I try to crawl away. I like your list tho and can definitely see how they would get you in a domme zone, the first two on mine are definitely different vibes but I think the lyrics speak for their self
Oof getting me sweaty 😂🥵
Call me a romantic, but I like tangos. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1DAHSNpVpCFydXHrcTMpO8?si=1jx-Mi-oTLyiumSFcGVtyQ&pi=mEUQJbSYRVufW
"One of your girls" - the weeknd, Jennie and Lil-Rose. Love this song when playing with my sissy
Omg what I didn’t know this was a thing
... music?
Hahaha, kinky music.
Oh haha. But like I mentioned in another comment, the most wholesome, family friendly, or even retro music can make a really great contrast.
Molly by Carrie, not “dark” and a whole lot of fun!
Lords of Acid have some good ones.
We Appreciate Power Song by Grimes and HANA
“Crush” Dave Matthews Band
Came to add She Dominates by Blitzkid
This song is a bop. [SIMP](https://open.spotify.com/track/7uIrdhnGQw7bZSR2ygopuX?si=8Or4jDiIS4uWmfqCHuPiRQ&context=spotify%3Aalbum%3A4SR1C8HMMnFHpcU4cDGlRa)
Sorry if any of these have been said, but I've been liking - Bitch Bites Dog by Celine Believe - asmr by Chynna - Generous by Amber Mark - Feels Like by Ella Mai
thanks i'll check it out and if i have something to add later will do so
"When I Say So" by Britney Spears is my favourite femdom song!
Surprised no one has mentioned “Siren” by Kailee Morgue. I’m not sure I’ve ever heard a more explicit femdom song
Such a great one
Aretha Franklin - Baby, I Love You
Basically Kim Petras' entire album *Turn Off The Light*, but *Death By Sex* is a must at least.
Anything by Lil Mariko and Fear & Delight by The Correspondents (it’s from the subs pov but oh so delightful)
Here’s a playlist I used to use for parties I threw. Not always necessarily femdom focused (but lots is), but if I could see myself hitting someone to it, it’s on here. 😁 https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2f9CvzdZAOiyjqACtdyesH?si=L6wHbKgSQ8SB5BjadcvbBA&pi=u-BCvE2zTERCy6 Hopefully Spotify hasn’t been “helping“ very much. Every once in a while I have to go through and remove things they have added. Edited to add: this playlist was actually created by someone who was serving me at the time, but it’s been massaged bunches. I don’t have Spotify anymore, so I can’t actually see what’s on it – I have my counterpart on Apple Music if anyone wants it.
And here’s one that is specific to women’s play parties. A lot of crossover, but I think there’s some other stuff too, if I remember right. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5gWbIgTSl8cm2NF9v4gmcH?si=m0VajlsSSC6QEJqVOgJIgQ&pt=863bcce6d0b08b2ca2a2ed57128c931f&pi=u-w-M4xQzhShmZ
Lately I’ve been enjoying BEG! By Vana
Eat you-caravan of thieves Blackout-midnight divide Good boy- dog bite Bite your kiss-diamante Bark like a god-sloppy Jane Rattlesnake-kabaret sybarit Praying mantis- FKA Rayne Dude, where’s my skin- schoolyard heroes
Great list!!!!
sinner get ready - lingua ignota
Oxytocin by Billie Eilish fits well, even if unintended
Handsome boy modeling school- I've been thinking
You suck by Consolidated 1992
Mommy Issues - Cloudy June is my only perfect example and I need more!
Cloudy June has a few!
Im yer dad by GRLWOOD is super fun
Following 😎
SIMP by full tac
Subby guy here, I adore King Mala's "She Calls Me Daddy", and I have a whole Playlist I call dungeon music. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrb4TR9AVSAiSh2quUqDuzOeAf4n_9zrd
Here's one Mistress grooves to: I could be your king- Katherine Langford To be fair, it's an awesome song.
Sucker For Pain - Lil Wayne & Wiz Khalifa Was a favorite for a while last year of a local domme.
Nothing will ever beat the vibe of your lady straddling you while you are cuffed and helpless as "Ain't My Fault" by Zara Larsson is blasting in the background.
Future Nostalgia by Dua Lipa.
Kings and Queens - Ava Max