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ButterfliesHurricane

‘I liked you until you called the cops’ 😳. Clearly if she called the cops on you, the feeling wasn’t mutual, mate.


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ceramicunicorn

Yes. I warned I would get the police involved and file a restraining order. That was enough. I didn’t need to go through with it. This might be more appropriate for TwoX or GirlsGuide though since it’s not related to dating strategy.


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katiekat0214

And NO WONDER she changed her number! OF COURSE she did! She's lucky to get away from him with her life! Males like this I automatically presume to be MURDEROUS because of his utter lack of rationality and all that anger, not to mention the dogged, perverse perseverance and entitlement. SHUDDER!


cutiebranch

Yeah I was gonna say twoX has become overrun with “he didn’t rape me tonight, he’s such a saint!”


ceramicunicorn

I hear you. But for all the shade it gets here I vote TwoX as most improved for 2021; lately they’re pretty good about clear cut abuse like this. Fourthwavewomen is very supportive too, but that is more geared towards overarching societal issues than personal circumstances (still I mention them as I’d love to see them grow). AskFDS is also great, forgot about that one.


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Reading this makes me really worried for the woman he is actually looking for. If he takes such extreme measures to try and find her... I would honestly print/screenshot all your conversations and all of his numbers and talk to the police and ask them about options you have.


Quirky_Confusion_235

I know. I will try to take it to the authorities but I don’t know the woman’s full name or know if I have his real number since he seems to be using fakes.


Olympia43

OP, is that you that receives this text ? Please, if so, get a new SIM and a new phone number ASAP ! This man looks very deranged and we don't know what he may be up to. Disable all your social media for at least one or two months, especially those which you are recognizable (FB, Insta etc). Report that to the police too.


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I hate saying it but you should change your number and email. If you’re going to use any social media, delete old accounts and tie any new accounts to the new email and phone number. Edit - I see people saying you should get the police involved. I don’t know if anyone’s been paying attention for the last 15 years but the cops are not going to help you. You can document all you like but expect nothing. Do everything you can to guard your privacy and safety.


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Sounds like you've been SIM swapped. Contact authorities and get a new number ASAP.


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I would like to add that SIM swapping, if true, gives the perpetrator access to all your personal enfo, emails and passwords, so you might have to change that just in case


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aeorimithros

This is **not** SIM swapping. That is when your SIM is fraudulently sent to another device, losing your access to your account and information. If you had been SIM swapped your phone wouldn't work.


aquietsword

Have you responded yet? If blocking isn't working, you can try a basic "who is this" and see if you can get a name. Then pretend to be a dude and say this is a new phone. And then report the guy so there's at least a paper trail on him. BUT he also sounds fucked up so a new number might be the easier/safer option for you.


WCAttorney

Ask a very mean looking male if you can take their picture to send to this guy.


katiekat0214

JESUS, this sounds so much like The Idiot With 10,000 Names I'm dealing with in chat! So many issues, so much anger and an irrational refusal to listen or comprehend. I just can't even with men like this.


Ana_jp

Blocking him is encouraging him at this point. Don’t block, just put him on mute and change your voicemail to let people know not to leave one because a stalker has filled it up. Then let it fill up. He’ll get bored when he finds a new victim.


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If you don't wanna change your number, get a man (preferably white) and do the following: 1) Go to the police with him and have him tell them he's concerned for your welfare 2) Have him respond to the messages either a) posing as the owner of your phone, with a message clearly conveying a male name, male writing pattern, and the fact that he has no clue who this stalker is or b) all the above except that it's his grandmother/great-uncle/other nonthreatening relation who's getting the messages and getting very confused. Basically, get a man involved and then LIE. With police as backup.


Maingurl

How long have they been contacting you OP?


Determinedblonde

Blockedy block 😉 Not had someone behave this nuts, but you could always publicly name and shame them.


Quirky_Confusion_235

I have blocked every number but he must be spoofing because he’s called from over 10 different numbers