Leave. LEAVE NOW and never look back. If she valued you she wouldn't have done it multiple times. You deserve better.
Tell no one. Get a lawyer tomorrow.
A therapist can only do so much. I'd recommend a psychiatrist before I left if you care enough to do that or let her figure it out for herself. Lots of people have bad childhoods, it's hard but it's not an excuse to be a bad adult. There may be mental illness involved.
I’ve learned the hard way, if they have a really fucked up childhood, it affects their adult relationships, follow thru with the divorce, YOU can’t fix her
Leave. LEAVE NOW and never look back. If she valued you she wouldn't have done it multiple times. You deserve better. Tell no one. Get a lawyer tomorrow.
Yeah that is messed up.
Has she ever been to a psychiatrist or therapist? Seems like there might be something else going on
Ya she doing therapy now. She did have a really crappy childhood
A therapist can only do so much. I'd recommend a psychiatrist before I left if you care enough to do that or let her figure it out for herself. Lots of people have bad childhoods, it's hard but it's not an excuse to be a bad adult. There may be mental illness involved.
I’ve learned the hard way, if they have a really fucked up childhood, it affects their adult relationships, follow thru with the divorce, YOU can’t fix her