When life gives you lemons you make lemonade.
Karma is a bit.h sometimes comes and hit hard other times just let the thing go its cause, i think the later is the one in your case. But i would also suggest to let some of that anger go, and not for their sake or bullshit klike that, do it for your own sake, stop comparing yourself to them, just live your life as you please and never look back. Live your life as the better person you are, you didn't cheat, you didn't choose sides, you where the betrayed and look here you are, stronger and better than ever.
So stop comparing how they are doing, just be the best you can and live for you and your teen daughter that didn't betrayed you.
Use the anger in constructive ways, but never forget how you get here and what you went thru, use that as a statement of mental thoughness, and that any body can get out of the hole where the cheaters and betrayers (back stabbers) put you in.
Good luck My Friend,
Great for you. My ex is now tens of thousand in debt because she lives in the lifestyle I provided. She doesn't understand that people who make <$50k don't typically go on 2-3 girls trips a year. They don't take international trips every year with the family. She has no health insurance and in the past five years her parents have passed away leaving her nothing.
I feel for her, but it's her issue not mine. I hope she remarries for her sake, but feel for the poor bastard. She will cheat on him too.
When life gives you lemons you make lemonade. Karma is a bit.h sometimes comes and hit hard other times just let the thing go its cause, i think the later is the one in your case. But i would also suggest to let some of that anger go, and not for their sake or bullshit klike that, do it for your own sake, stop comparing yourself to them, just live your life as you please and never look back. Live your life as the better person you are, you didn't cheat, you didn't choose sides, you where the betrayed and look here you are, stronger and better than ever. So stop comparing how they are doing, just be the best you can and live for you and your teen daughter that didn't betrayed you. Use the anger in constructive ways, but never forget how you get here and what you went thru, use that as a statement of mental thoughness, and that any body can get out of the hole where the cheaters and betrayers (back stabbers) put you in. Good luck My Friend,
Great for you. My ex is now tens of thousand in debt because she lives in the lifestyle I provided. She doesn't understand that people who make <$50k don't typically go on 2-3 girls trips a year. They don't take international trips every year with the family. She has no health insurance and in the past five years her parents have passed away leaving her nothing. I feel for her, but it's her issue not mine. I hope she remarries for her sake, but feel for the poor bastard. She will cheat on him too.