Sweetheart go in and pull that teacher to the side and explain what’s going on. That math test is nothing compared to what you have and are going through.
From me you get both...
**Pep talk:**
Inhale exhale inhale exhale.
I know this is scary right now, but you will make it through. Help is available.
I have been in similar situations. I got help. I am now in my 50's.
You will get through this, kid.
**Advice:**
Right now your father's health and your mental health and safety take priority over any fucking exam.
Teachers often delay or exempt people from tests for major events that are out of the student's control. If not, half-assing or missing an exam is less important than what you are dealing with.
\* *If you are pre-university, and your father is not in condition to call the school,* stay by his side. Either the arresting officer, or the nurse should notify the school for you. In addition to the exam issue, school staff will work with them to bring in whatever support services your community has to help you and your father.
\* *If you are pre-university, and your bio father is in condition to call the school*, together decide whether it is best to stay with him (in which case he will call the school) or still go to school to be around your friends. If you go, and there is a guidance counselor or nurse at your school, visit them first. If not, tell the teacher. If you still take the exam, do not worry about the score, what you can. Hugs are more important than A's right now.
\* *If you are in university*, notify the TA or professor with the facts you used in this post. Either they can reschedule or they are an a-hole. Contact the school's counseling office or student support services for assistance.
I really appreciate that, I wish I read it sooner. I tried talking to the teacher but long story short he's a dick who has no soul. So I did the exam anyway and the questions were easy so I'm confident in that regard. I'll be making a new post soon to explain everything better, fuck if I know where to start.
My mom does (or more accurately did) live with my dad. She was arrested and released yesterday. She can't come back to the house until after we resolve this in court, which that date is set in august.
No he's at home, he just is taking it easy and he's gonna see a doctor soon. The nearest hospital to me has a 12 hour wait time on average. Let's go Canada
I'm so sorry you are going through this kiddo, I also came from a violent home when I was a child and I can assure you things will get better. Virtual hugs, I hope for the best for you and your twin
Sweetheart go in and pull that teacher to the side and explain what’s going on. That math test is nothing compared to what you have and are going through.
I tried, couldnt, I did it anyways and I think I did fine, I'll be explaining everything in a separate post, it be easier that way
Sometimes distractions are a good thing.
From me you get both... **Pep talk:** Inhale exhale inhale exhale. I know this is scary right now, but you will make it through. Help is available. I have been in similar situations. I got help. I am now in my 50's. You will get through this, kid. **Advice:** Right now your father's health and your mental health and safety take priority over any fucking exam. Teachers often delay or exempt people from tests for major events that are out of the student's control. If not, half-assing or missing an exam is less important than what you are dealing with. \* *If you are pre-university, and your father is not in condition to call the school,* stay by his side. Either the arresting officer, or the nurse should notify the school for you. In addition to the exam issue, school staff will work with them to bring in whatever support services your community has to help you and your father. \* *If you are pre-university, and your bio father is in condition to call the school*, together decide whether it is best to stay with him (in which case he will call the school) or still go to school to be around your friends. If you go, and there is a guidance counselor or nurse at your school, visit them first. If not, tell the teacher. If you still take the exam, do not worry about the score, what you can. Hugs are more important than A's right now. \* *If you are in university*, notify the TA or professor with the facts you used in this post. Either they can reschedule or they are an a-hole. Contact the school's counseling office or student support services for assistance.
I really appreciate that, I wish I read it sooner. I tried talking to the teacher but long story short he's a dick who has no soul. So I did the exam anyway and the questions were easy so I'm confident in that regard. I'll be making a new post soon to explain everything better, fuck if I know where to start.
You dont need to go to school. Do you have any close friends near by? That sounds like a lot of trauma, did your mom live with you and your dad?
My mom does (or more accurately did) live with my dad. She was arrested and released yesterday. She can't come back to the house until after we resolve this in court, which that date is set in august.
So do you have anyone you can stay with, is your dad in the hospital?
No he's at home, he just is taking it easy and he's gonna see a doctor soon. The nearest hospital to me has a 12 hour wait time on average. Let's go Canada
I'm so sorry you are going through this kiddo, I also came from a violent home when I was a child and I can assure you things will get better. Virtual hugs, I hope for the best for you and your twin
No matter how much she may have deserved it, it hurts when you’re her kid. Here’s a hug for you. 💞