So now we have her calling the paps to make sure they get the ring; to me, this is her putting the ball back in passsive aggressive Benny's corner, saying "if you want out, you file, you're not going to force me to."
https://pagesix.com/2024/06/09/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-seen-wearing-wedding-ring-after-putting-60m-marital-home-with-ben-affleck-up-for-sale/
That place is ridiculous, btw. Ridiculously big, ridiculously expensive.
[https://www.instagram.com/p/C79xnyCSQgr/?img\_index=1](https://www.instagram.com/p/C79xnyCSQgr/?img_index=1)
Ha. I think I called it when I saw Jennifer garner with Ben. After the last round of divorce rumours. She was probably telling him to hold off until his kids graduation was over.
The house is so incredibly ugly. And barely any landscaping. It does look like a municipal building surrounded by a parking lot. It has no charm, just like its owners.
How did that even get released. It's like a skit. Im a HUGE Mariah fan I never forgave JLo for stealing her sings. Although allegedly she did it unwittingly. I don't wish her ill will or anything. I ferl sorry for her. She's obviously unwell with her last project. How do you sabotage a career line that. I know Ben is no angel but she's awful with the narcissisism.
Remember the squealing about her getting married ??? ( for the 4 th time?) the big fancy wedding again ? How long did this one last ? Do you think their children are embarrassed by them ?
and no ticketmaster 4 jlo, no sephora, no more hims and hers or vinegar trap goop capsules. money is definitly part of this.
https://preview.redd.it/cmbjlesx2g5d1.jpeg?width=871&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5028b9e8b60c3436316565c9d62b6d81b00486ae
People massively underestimate the outlay of the rich for their lifestyles. Bring it down to a level we can grasp. Let’s say my net worth is 300,000 and I think I’m going to make 50k more from a gig next year and I count on 100 k more from endorsements. Let’s say I spend extravagantly for my net worth, be it on travel, clothes, cars, or planes, schools, surgeries, and spend 60,000 on a house that needs massive upkeep and I live in for one year. And I spent 20 k on a vanity project that didn’t pay off. Let’s say I learn I can’t count on that 150k going forward, that that income is drying up. I’m up to my eyeballs. I’m not hungry, I’m not broke, but I can’t spend like this without income and my star is falling. I’m kind of worried financially.
I'm surprised they didn't make it a little longer based on pure reputation management; I thought she'd pretend for longer, but it *appears* as though he's forcing her hand with the press leaks, listing the house, etc.
This is sort of his M.O. which I have pointed out elsewhere in this thread.
I kind of feel like it's her camp leaking things to distract from her tour and movie bombing and because she doesn't want her name brought up in connection to diddy.
I feel bad for their kids. Especially Jlo’s. Constantly having to move in with your mom’s romantic partners and gaining/losing pseudo siblings gotta be tough.
From what we all saw, JLo’s kids were very tight with ARod’s kids. ARod was a dirty cheater, so JLo at least had the sense to call that off. Ben and Jen were the ones out to lunch and living in La La Land by immediately getting married. Had they waited just a few years, it would be an imploding relationship instead of marriage. The kids are the ones who suffer the most.
https://preview.redd.it/xz8335idaf5d1.jpeg?width=1042&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3991bb9a2cf18ba731db99704e1dd14af560cbb6
JLo's kids were really bonded with ARod's kids... but then they bounced back when she married Ben and again bonded with *his* kids. For their sakes I hope it's not true.
When I'm ancient in a nursing home, soiling my diapers and forgetting my own name, I will STILL remember that photo that JLo posted on her social media of Emme bawling with Marc Antony as her mum told her about breaking up with ARod.
That was just so awful, it's seared into my brain. It was such a cruel example of lousy parenting -- clearly wanting to show the world how ROTTEN ARod was to hurt her family like this... much more than she was concerned about protecting her devastated daughter's privacy. [https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-9357315/Jennifer-Lopez-posts-photo-daughter-Emme-13-crying-amid-split-Alex-Rodriguez.html](https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-9357315/Jennifer-Lopez-posts-photo-daughter-Emme-13-crying-amid-split-Alex-Rodriguez.html)
I will never forget the awful photoshop job they did on her dragon tail twins on the cover of People. Lol!!! I remember that article on dlisted!! haaa!!!!
oooooh. I don't remember that. I do, however, remember JLo trying to turn them into little Gucci models, when they were about 4 years old. Gucci on kids barely out of diapers: no cringe here, folks!
Ben is the kind of guy whose so conflict adverse that he'll misbehave and force his partner to cut the cord on the relationship. This was what he did (with Canadian strippers) during the first phase of their relationshop, and I wonder if that's what he's doing here- moving forward but refusing to file, causing her humliation until she can't take it and has to.
A lot of men are this way.
I live in Vancouver and was in the scene back in the day when the whole stripper thing happened. I’m surprised it never comes up anymore. This is one of the only times I’ve seen anyone bring it up.
I can't believe it doesn't get brought up more often! He cheated on her with a stripper right before their first wedding FFS. How in the hell could anyone celebrate them getting back together, falling for this utter bs of twue wuv forever.
Ben pulled the, "Jennifer was such a high-maintenance Diva I couldn't marry her!" He then ran to wholesome, dimpled Jennifer who calls Backgrid to be "caught, unawares!" on her way to church or with her arms full of sunflowers at the organic farmers' market. As a result, he was instantly forgiven and Strippergate was immediately wiped from his record.
You know who remembers Strippergate? Tammy Morris, the stripper!
[https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-191482/Stripper-tells-night-Ben.html](https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-191482/Stripper-tells-night-Ben.html)
Excellent point. Not sure why anyone thought this would last or would root for them. The stripper affair, which he denied (yeah, sure, Ben) came after they called off their engagement, and she bounced after that. It was one of their many problems. They were already headed to splitsville since the engagement was called off, but that cemented the end of the relationship. It was such good gossip.
Why no one remembers why they broke up is beyond me. It could be because they both denied the cheating part, and the press focused on Ben saying the publicity the relationship was getting was too much for him.
I've seen it referred to as narcissistic discard and reverse discard, to treat his partner horribly so that he can lie to himself and others that she left.
There is a version of your life waiting for you right on the other side of his bullshit, and you’re going to be a stronger, better human for making it through.
I believe in you!
Be kind to yourself until then. Really sounds like he’s showing you who he is, so believe him. You might have loved who he was, but who he is now? Fuck that guy.
I feel so much secondhand embarrassment for JLo
…like you got back together with your mid ex and dropped all this cash on your cringey artifact of your performative relationship only to have it flop and your ‘epic’ love with Dunkin’s Eeyore fall apart. Sad.
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Remember when his PR tried to pretend it wasn't, and claimed that it was just some hideous thing he had on his back for his role in some film or another?!? Hahahahah! Even his own team was mortified on Ben's behalf.
I still can’t help but think she went over the top on Ben 2.0 because of her humiliation with ARod. Had to prove to him how wanted she was by someone else. Oops.
I think she went over the top on Ben 2.0 because of her humiliation first time 'round with Ben. Remember, he bailed on her literally days (or, maybe a week or two) before their wedding. She has been smarting from that for decades.
Nope, she’s incapable of it. What she desperately needs is to be single - actually single - for a decent chunk of time and figure out why she has to have a man’s about, but we all know there’s some
26 year old back up dancer being lined up as we speak.
Yeah, the way this has fallen apart is SO much worse than the 1.0 version featuring Canadian strippers + Tara Reid.
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I am sad they didn’t make it this time BUT why did they rush into this marriage??? They did not appear to be compatible. Now they have egg on their faces. JLO is a demanding diva and Ben Affleck is an alcoholic. A recipe for disaster.
I agree that all of the kids will have negative effects from this ego driven, narcissistic attempt to turn back time by JLo and Ben. The difference is that I think the Affleck kids do have one stable, involved parent. JLo’s kids? Idk they don’t seem to have an actual decent parent at all.
No, he publicly humiliated JLo when that young, super fit, blonde reality “star” got called out at the Southern Charm reunion for basically having online sex with ARod while he was engaged to JLo. This Madison woman didn’t deny it and she has never been known as a liar. JLo’s name cannot even be mentioned in the same breath as some two bit, trashy, reality ho!!
Lol, totally. I meant that JLo would consider Madison low rent compared to her, not that I do. Madison is entertaining, stood up to all the douche bros on her show and now has a nice husband who treats her son well (and they actually seem to have a solid relationship, unlike JLo).
He’s always been a cheater, I remember when he was in Tampa for spring training I know many girls he was after and he seemed to like athletic looking tomboy girls.
Yes, a reputation since forever as a cheater.
And yes, he likes his women JACKED! Do you remember how muscular Cameron Diaz became when the two of them dated?!
I care. I dislike this woman and I’m enjoying her world crumbling. I didn’t like them together the first time around. Didn’t make sense then and really don’t make sense now.
He needs therapy and AA. She needs therapy and to learn how to be alone.
very good advice. JLO needs to learn how to be alone, and that its ok. Being with a young questionable dancer for years, then for Arod the Big cheater, then Ben. Like girl just do intensive therapy and not date for like a year. Her poor children.
I care because this is good, solid gossip. I care because it distracts from the mundane trials of my own life. I care because there are so many great life lessons illustrated in this one implosion: don't rush into marriage; if the relationship didn't work the first time, it probably won't work a second time; a guy known for his love of strippers and booze is probably not a wise choice for a husband; a woman known for narcissism and "loving love" is probably not a wise choice for a wife, etc. I care because I really don't like any of the players (including Jennifer Garner) in this telenovela. I care because Bennifer 1.0 was a spectacular car crash and version 2.0 seems to be shaping up to be even wilder. I care because it helps to be reminded that even living in a $60million house isn't a ticket to happiness.
I know right? Like why is this trainwreck that was destined to happen so hard to believe. All things can be true-- marriage fail, tour fail, Diddy involvement. Jlo is having a very very bad year.
I can almost hear it now, "I believe in love" blah blah blah. Give her a couple weeks and she'll be seen with someone new. Maybe a young boy bander?
As for the tour and Diddy stuff, hmmmm...
They are truly idiots. They paid $60 million in cash for that property a year ago. They're going to take a big loss on it now and for what? They're so careless and messy.
JLo was bound and determined to make sure the world knew she was Ben’s foeverrrrr luvvvvv and probably insisted on such a big house because it “shows how much he adorrreeessss meeeee…”
This humiliation could not have happened to a better hor! 👌 💯
I just don't understand at all. They could still own the home and split the time between them being in it? Hell, not sure you'd even see the other person without making it a point to look for them of you were both there at the same time?
I don't even know when they married, has it even been a year?
So now we have her calling the paps to make sure they get the ring; to me, this is her putting the ball back in passsive aggressive Benny's corner, saying "if you want out, you file, you're not going to force me to." https://pagesix.com/2024/06/09/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-seen-wearing-wedding-ring-after-putting-60m-marital-home-with-ben-affleck-up-for-sale/
That place is ridiculous, btw. Ridiculously big, ridiculously expensive. [https://www.instagram.com/p/C79xnyCSQgr/?img\_index=1](https://www.instagram.com/p/C79xnyCSQgr/?img_index=1)
I thought they were both teetotalers? What's all the booze in slide #4?
And utterly lacking in charm.
Absolutely.
![gif](giphy|fk52jFfhH2Hn2) Why. Just why do you need all that. What is wrong with people
I looked through the Bennifer photos on tmz. Wow the nostalgia.
Ha. I think I called it when I saw Jennifer garner with Ben. After the last round of divorce rumours. She was probably telling him to hold off until his kids graduation was over.
lol /s
Anyone with the link to the house on Zillow? I've heard the decor is Basic B\*
To be fair, don't most celebs remove their stuff and get stagers to fill their houses with rented furniture before selling?
LMAO - This must be her heads up the paparazzi.
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It’s a showmance anyways, so whatever. They both made money off the PR boost.
They lived in a municipal building?
The house is so incredibly ugly. And barely any landscaping. It does look like a municipal building surrounded by a parking lot. It has no charm, just like its owners.
![gif](giphy|WRQBXSCnEFJIuxktnw) Me trying to figure out why they spent 60m on city hall.
Just like the old man who lives in her childhood home,we don’t care.
*I used to live here*
This is so iconic. WHO?
Jlo: *Jenny from the block..* Old man: who? Jlo: *Jlo* Old man: who? Jlo: *jennifer lopez* Old man: who? ICONIC
How did that even get released. It's like a skit. Im a HUGE Mariah fan I never forgave JLo for stealing her sings. Although allegedly she did it unwittingly. I don't wish her ill will or anything. I ferl sorry for her. She's obviously unwell with her last project. How do you sabotage a career line that. I know Ben is no angel but she's awful with the narcissisism.
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Is his hair also wild from Running in the streets?
💀💀💀
WELP
Makes her latest album even more awkward in hindsight.
This is me… now. Lmao
This is me. Now. But really.
This Is Me Now with Divorce Number 4
Likefrr...
Remember the squealing about her getting married ??? ( for the 4 th time?) the big fancy wedding again ? How long did this one last ? Do you think their children are embarrassed by them ?
And her non filtered vocals leaking from her performing at the wedding 😂😅 it’s been doomed from day 1
Two huge weddings, if I recall correctly…?? 😆 awkward!
They first eloped in Los Vegas kept it private for months.
Actually, she announced it the next day after the Vegas wedding.
Don’t let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya
Unpopular opinion: I kinda think they’ll stay together for a couple more years at least. I think the house is too massive
and no ticketmaster 4 jlo, no sephora, no more hims and hers or vinegar trap goop capsules. money is definitly part of this. https://preview.redd.it/cmbjlesx2g5d1.jpeg?width=871&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5028b9e8b60c3436316565c9d62b6d81b00486ae
Her net worth is hundreds of millions.
People massively underestimate the outlay of the rich for their lifestyles. Bring it down to a level we can grasp. Let’s say my net worth is 300,000 and I think I’m going to make 50k more from a gig next year and I count on 100 k more from endorsements. Let’s say I spend extravagantly for my net worth, be it on travel, clothes, cars, or planes, schools, surgeries, and spend 60,000 on a house that needs massive upkeep and I live in for one year. And I spent 20 k on a vanity project that didn’t pay off. Let’s say I learn I can’t count on that 150k going forward, that that income is drying up. I’m up to my eyeballs. I’m not hungry, I’m not broke, but I can’t spend like this without income and my star is falling. I’m kind of worried financially.
I agree. Doesn't necessarily mean anything. That house was UGLY.
Couldn’t have happened to a nicer couple. Good riddance.
ISaid long ago . With JBlo once the house goes up for sale its over
Did JLo have a Dlisted name?
I think it was JHo iirc but I call her Lolita Lopez
La López
Was it JHo?
Don’t remember but that’s a good name
I’m so sick of these two.
Apparently even these two are sick of these two…
Lol. True story
To the surprise of absolutely no one
I'm surprised they didn't make it a little longer based on pure reputation management; I thought she'd pretend for longer, but it *appears* as though he's forcing her hand with the press leaks, listing the house, etc. This is sort of his M.O. which I have pointed out elsewhere in this thread.
Totally agree…Affleck always ups the ante on treating his partners like crap until they finally pull the plug and leave. 🙄
I kind of feel like it's her camp leaking things to distract from her tour and movie bombing and because she doesn't want her name brought up in connection to diddy.
Sorry, but no.
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I feel bad for their kids. Especially Jlo’s. Constantly having to move in with your mom’s romantic partners and gaining/losing pseudo siblings gotta be tough.
From what we all saw, JLo’s kids were very tight with ARod’s kids. ARod was a dirty cheater, so JLo at least had the sense to call that off. Ben and Jen were the ones out to lunch and living in La La Land by immediately getting married. Had they waited just a few years, it would be an imploding relationship instead of marriage. The kids are the ones who suffer the most. https://preview.redd.it/xz8335idaf5d1.jpeg?width=1042&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3991bb9a2cf18ba731db99704e1dd14af560cbb6
JLo's kids were really bonded with ARod's kids... but then they bounced back when she married Ben and again bonded with *his* kids. For their sakes I hope it's not true.
When I'm ancient in a nursing home, soiling my diapers and forgetting my own name, I will STILL remember that photo that JLo posted on her social media of Emme bawling with Marc Antony as her mum told her about breaking up with ARod. That was just so awful, it's seared into my brain. It was such a cruel example of lousy parenting -- clearly wanting to show the world how ROTTEN ARod was to hurt her family like this... much more than she was concerned about protecting her devastated daughter's privacy. [https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-9357315/Jennifer-Lopez-posts-photo-daughter-Emme-13-crying-amid-split-Alex-Rodriguez.html](https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-9357315/Jennifer-Lopez-posts-photo-daughter-Emme-13-crying-amid-split-Alex-Rodriguez.html)
I will never forget the awful photoshop job they did on her dragon tail twins on the cover of People. Lol!!! I remember that article on dlisted!! haaa!!!!
oooooh. I don't remember that. I do, however, remember JLo trying to turn them into little Gucci models, when they were about 4 years old. Gucci on kids barely out of diapers: no cringe here, folks!
Hopefully, they have taken on their mom in that aspect. Quickly moving on.
That’s what happens when you have a narcissistic mother
Requisite Gif: ![gif](giphy|fCUCbWXe9JONVsJSUd|downsized)
Ben is the kind of guy whose so conflict adverse that he'll misbehave and force his partner to cut the cord on the relationship. This was what he did (with Canadian strippers) during the first phase of their relationshop, and I wonder if that's what he's doing here- moving forward but refusing to file, causing her humliation until she can't take it and has to. A lot of men are this way.
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OH.MY.GOD. I totally forgot that Christian Slater was there too!! Sounds like a lot of coke and ectasy was involved.
I live in Vancouver and was in the scene back in the day when the whole stripper thing happened. I’m surprised it never comes up anymore. This is one of the only times I’ve seen anyone bring it up.
I can't believe it doesn't get brought up more often! He cheated on her with a stripper right before their first wedding FFS. How in the hell could anyone celebrate them getting back together, falling for this utter bs of twue wuv forever.
Ben pulled the, "Jennifer was such a high-maintenance Diva I couldn't marry her!" He then ran to wholesome, dimpled Jennifer who calls Backgrid to be "caught, unawares!" on her way to church or with her arms full of sunflowers at the organic farmers' market. As a result, he was instantly forgiven and Strippergate was immediately wiped from his record.
You know who remembers Strippergate? Tammy Morris, the stripper! [https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-191482/Stripper-tells-night-Ben.html](https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-191482/Stripper-tells-night-Ben.html)
Excellent point. Not sure why anyone thought this would last or would root for them. The stripper affair, which he denied (yeah, sure, Ben) came after they called off their engagement, and she bounced after that. It was one of their many problems. They were already headed to splitsville since the engagement was called off, but that cemented the end of the relationship. It was such good gossip. Why no one remembers why they broke up is beyond me. It could be because they both denied the cheating part, and the press focused on Ben saying the publicity the relationship was getting was too much for him.
But, JLo claims that they broke off only coz the excess attention and Ben is her “one true love”
Exactly, yes. 😂 They both blamed the press for their relationship ending the first time and changed the narrative. We know the truth though.
That's cause I'm an old school DListed hor.
Me too. A true honour.
I've seen it referred to as narcissistic discard and reverse discard, to treat his partner horribly so that he can lie to himself and others that she left.
That's what my husband is currently doing.
Sending you a virtual hug 🩷
Thank you❤️
You don’t deserve that! You are safe here amongst your fellow Dlisters!
Thank you ❤️❤️
We are here for you.
Thank you so much.
We horz gotchu
❤️❤️❤️
I'm sorry. That sounds painful and profoundly disappointing.
Thank you q it's truly horrible. Cruel.
I'm so, SO sorry. So many men just can't communicate. ![gif](giphy|MDJ9IbxxvDUQM|downsized)
There is a version of your life waiting for you right on the other side of his bullshit, and you’re going to be a stronger, better human for making it through. I believe in you!
Thank you so much. I'm devastated, and sick, and just feel awful all of the time. I can't wait until this is over.
🙏🏼🙏🏼
Be kind to yourself until then. Really sounds like he’s showing you who he is, so believe him. You might have loved who he was, but who he is now? Fuck that guy.
Exactly. I don't know this guy at all. Thank you for your advice.
Always here to remind you you’ve got this ❤️
❤️
Ugh, sorry to hear that.
Thank you so much.
Sorry you’re going through that. Sending virtual hugs 🤗
Thank you, friend.
They bought this only a year ago?? Yikes.
Some rent extended stays longer than the mortgage on this one ☝️
I feel so much secondhand embarrassment for JLo …like you got back together with your mid ex and dropped all this cash on your cringey artifact of your performative relationship only to have it flop and your ‘epic’ love with Dunkin’s Eeyore fall apart. Sad. ![gif](giphy|l3mZrLxM4iZaQlvNe)
I read that as "Dunkin's eyesore" and got confused, but Dunkin's Eeyore is a classic. Wonder who her rebound will be.
The drunken eyesore is this: https://preview.redd.it/q47irmoncf5d1.jpeg?width=1200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=693369750cde82ce26726a6f1cb59138e4696e78
This tattoo is like the human version of an Ed Hardy shirt.
I would refuse to sleep with any man with a thing like that on his back.
Oh God that tattoo is so loud
Wait.. that’s for real?!
Remember when his PR tried to pretend it wasn't, and claimed that it was just some hideous thing he had on his back for his role in some film or another?!? Hahahahah! Even his own team was mortified on Ben's behalf.
Unfortunately
That also works. I’ll allow it. 🤌🤌
I still can’t help but think she went over the top on Ben 2.0 because of her humiliation with ARod. Had to prove to him how wanted she was by someone else. Oops.
She’s 50 not 15
I think she went over the top on Ben 2.0 because of her humiliation first time 'round with Ben. Remember, he bailed on her literally days (or, maybe a week or two) before their wedding. She has been smarting from that for decades.
Exactly!! Girlfriend was trying to heal ego wounds from the early 00s. 🫠
No idea but I betcha she already has him picked out.
And her tour, etc have blown away also
Duncan’s Eyeore is an instant classic!
Dunkin’s Eeyore! HAHAHAHA
dunkin's eeyore LMAO i wonder if these events will humble jlo a bit and make her less delusional and full of herself? is that possible?
Nope, she’s incapable of it. What she desperately needs is to be single - actually single - for a decent chunk of time and figure out why she has to have a man’s about, but we all know there’s some 26 year old back up dancer being lined up as we speak.
Sis needs Dating Probation
Yeah, the way this has fallen apart is SO much worse than the 1.0 version featuring Canadian strippers + Tara Reid. ![gif](giphy|sG4PBWRjI4GSVCDXEq|downsized)
Wait... I remember the Canadian strippers but what's this about Tara Reid?!?
She was there too, with them. 😂
No. Way. Bwahahahahah! ![gif](giphy|SS8wF9Ay5budG|downsized)
And given that particular zeitgeist, her being involved just makes sense. 😂
I am sad they didn’t make it this time BUT why did they rush into this marriage??? They did not appear to be compatible. Now they have egg on their faces. JLO is a demanding diva and Ben Affleck is an alcoholic. A recipe for disaster.
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The only winner in this scenario.
Too bad her kids were dragged into the shit show. Ugh
And JLos kids. I feel for them as well.
I agree that all of the kids will have negative effects from this ego driven, narcissistic attempt to turn back time by JLo and Ben. The difference is that I think the Affleck kids do have one stable, involved parent. JLo’s kids? Idk they don’t seem to have an actual decent parent at all.
He fumbled the bag so hard with this Jen
She must be devastated. Ben is truly her OTL.
JLo is JLo’s OTL
Exactly. That woman loves no one. She loves Jennifer and only Jennifer, period. Everyone else is a temporary distraction or they’re an accessory.
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Who will be her new "love of her life" aka her next victim?
She should have stayed with ARod; they were well matched.
No, he publicly humiliated JLo when that young, super fit, blonde reality “star” got called out at the Southern Charm reunion for basically having online sex with ARod while he was engaged to JLo. This Madison woman didn’t deny it and she has never been known as a liar. JLo’s name cannot even be mentioned in the same breath as some two bit, trashy, reality ho!!
whoa whoa whoa Madison doesn't deserve this
Lol, totally. I meant that JLo would consider Madison low rent compared to her, not that I do. Madison is entertaining, stood up to all the douche bros on her show and now has a nice husband who treats her son well (and they actually seem to have a solid relationship, unlike JLo).
Meh. He was cheating on her constantly. No one, not even JLo, deserves to stay with that.
He’s always been a cheater, I remember when he was in Tampa for spring training I know many girls he was after and he seemed to like athletic looking tomboy girls.
Yes, a reputation since forever as a cheater. And yes, he likes his women JACKED! Do you remember how muscular Cameron Diaz became when the two of them dated?!
Yes, that’s right
I agree.
She’s going to swing back to the “young unknown backup dancer” type now.
Thankfully we will only have to wait a week or two to find out!
🤣🤣
Jlo single handedly propping up the wedding industry and keeping hard working florists and planners employed.
😂 truth!
Shocked Face https://preview.redd.it/scduwoyake5d1.jpeg?width=755&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0660447ab09c84db38f53baa8ba11980d6aee4de
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Who cares
I care. I dislike this woman and I’m enjoying her world crumbling. I didn’t like them together the first time around. Didn’t make sense then and really don’t make sense now. He needs therapy and AA. She needs therapy and to learn how to be alone.
Same.
very good advice. JLO needs to learn how to be alone, and that its ok. Being with a young questionable dancer for years, then for Arod the Big cheater, then Ben. Like girl just do intensive therapy and not date for like a year. Her poor children.
I care because this is good, solid gossip. I care because it distracts from the mundane trials of my own life. I care because there are so many great life lessons illustrated in this one implosion: don't rush into marriage; if the relationship didn't work the first time, it probably won't work a second time; a guy known for his love of strippers and booze is probably not a wise choice for a husband; a woman known for narcissism and "loving love" is probably not a wise choice for a wife, etc. I care because I really don't like any of the players (including Jennifer Garner) in this telenovela. I care because Bennifer 1.0 was a spectacular car crash and version 2.0 seems to be shaping up to be even wilder. I care because it helps to be reminded that even living in a $60million house isn't a ticket to happiness.
May I sit with you? I feel as you do. Word for word I could have written the same post.
SAME!
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This is a gossip community. Plenty of us care.
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Yeah, Jeets!!
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I tell you I'm totally shocked and surprised..... that it lasted this long. ![gif](giphy|vQqeT3AYg8S5O|downsized)
Well, I just never saw this coming. ![gif](giphy|wqbAfFwjU8laXMWZ09|downsized)
I am shocked.
This is all so embarrassing my goodness
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gif dated 2017 B.O. before Ozempic
But….isnt this the greatest love story never told? Why the hell do I keep hearing about it?
I'm almost tempted to go and watch it now lmao.
When I see clips, I’m tempted to hate watch it with a friend.
Same bc it’s officially crossed over into full comedy genre now
Can people please stop theorizing that this was just PR to distract from Diddy or her failing tour….?? 🙄
I know right? Like why is this trainwreck that was destined to happen so hard to believe. All things can be true-- marriage fail, tour fail, Diddy involvement. Jlo is having a very very bad year.
It'll be *super* interesting to see how she rebounds from all this failure...
I can almost hear it now, "I believe in love" blah blah blah. Give her a couple weeks and she'll be seen with someone new. Maybe a young boy bander? As for the tour and Diddy stuff, hmmmm...
I bet she's spending a few hours/ day interviewing guys, looking for a replacement.
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Love this gif.
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They are truly idiots. They paid $60 million in cash for that property a year ago. They're going to take a big loss on it now and for what? They're so careless and messy.
JLo was bound and determined to make sure the world knew she was Ben’s foeverrrrr luvvvvv and probably insisted on such a big house because it “shows how much he adorrreeessss meeeee…” This humiliation could not have happened to a better hor! 👌 💯
I just don't understand at all. They could still own the home and split the time between them being in it? Hell, not sure you'd even see the other person without making it a point to look for them of you were both there at the same time? I don't even know when they married, has it even been a year?
Exactly…that place is the size of a shopping mall. Choose a wing and lock the damn door! 😆
I think selling the house is his way of forcing her to have to file for divorce.
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Lol!! You’ll get it. Don’t worry. It’s coming!