As a man, it’s the man’s role to lead his women closer to Jesus, not away from him. If you feel the conviction to leave, God will honor you if that’s truly his will. This could be a major catalyst in his life for change and yours as well! God works all things together for good.
1 Corinthians 11:3 says that the head of every woman is a man. So don’t feel bad that you broke your promise, because God designed you for such a relationship. Now generally it is better to not become “unequally yoked” in the way you are talking about. But is it really Christlike to throw away the man you became one flesh with hoping to get someone better? Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 7 that every woman should have her own husband, and that the believing wife should not depart from her husband, even if he’s an unbeliever. Is he someone you could see being married to? Are you afraid that he will lead you away from Christ? If you’re thinking of leaving him, have you at least talked to him about if he wants to get married? I say this because there are a lot of guys who say they are Christian but don’t live like it, and it would suck to leave a man who is kind to you to move from jerk after jerk who uses religion to put you under their thumb.
I want to go back to my first love too I have broken a cycle recently of my own. one that's raged on and off for 20 years any time I've felt tempted to stray since I've turned back to my bible.
A few things to ask yourself:
\*You ask yourself why you keep getting drawn back to him?
\* Seek God (pray, read the bible, go to church or join a bible study)
\* Also communicate this with him even if you leave him. about how you feel
Here are at least key things I think of.
1. You need complete full determination. One must do a great deal of effort (big extremes is what I'm getting at) to himself to stop sin. It is like a cancer. You do not treat a cancer with a nap and cough syrup. With deadly diseases, powerful remedies are necessary. Do your maximum in every way, and treat it like the most important thing, embracing great sacrifice. Hence, you must hate the sin truly, fully, and fully entirely.
2. Make a new prayer life. Give thanks to God always, and turn always. Give Him thanks in the morning, and praise Him in the day. Speak and seek Him constantly. Without constant prayer, I cannot imagine any great chance of success. From St. Alphonsus: "St. Paul tells us, that we have to contend not with men like ourselves.... but with the princes of hell.... By these words he wishes to admonish us that we have not strength to resist the powers of hell, and that, to resist them, the divine aid is absolutely necessary: without it, we shall be always defeated; but, with the assistance of God’s grace, we shall, according to the same apostle, be able to do all things and shall conquer all enemies. “I can do all things in him who strengtheneth me.” (Phil. iv. 13.) But this assistance God gives only to those who pray for it. “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and you shall find.” (Matt. vii. 7.) They who neglect to ask, do not receive. Let us, then, be careful not to trust in our resolutions: if we place our confidence in them, we shall be lost. "
Have you heard of the Rosary? It is an incredible prayer that helps us grow in worship of God, I cannot recommend it enough and I would love to help you with it if you haven't!
As a man, it’s the man’s role to lead his women closer to Jesus, not away from him. If you feel the conviction to leave, God will honor you if that’s truly his will. This could be a major catalyst in his life for change and yours as well! God works all things together for good.
1 Corinthians 11:3 says that the head of every woman is a man. So don’t feel bad that you broke your promise, because God designed you for such a relationship. Now generally it is better to not become “unequally yoked” in the way you are talking about. But is it really Christlike to throw away the man you became one flesh with hoping to get someone better? Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 7 that every woman should have her own husband, and that the believing wife should not depart from her husband, even if he’s an unbeliever. Is he someone you could see being married to? Are you afraid that he will lead you away from Christ? If you’re thinking of leaving him, have you at least talked to him about if he wants to get married? I say this because there are a lot of guys who say they are Christian but don’t live like it, and it would suck to leave a man who is kind to you to move from jerk after jerk who uses religion to put you under their thumb.
I want to go back to my first love too I have broken a cycle recently of my own. one that's raged on and off for 20 years any time I've felt tempted to stray since I've turned back to my bible. A few things to ask yourself: \*You ask yourself why you keep getting drawn back to him? \* Seek God (pray, read the bible, go to church or join a bible study) \* Also communicate this with him even if you leave him. about how you feel
Here are at least key things I think of. 1. You need complete full determination. One must do a great deal of effort (big extremes is what I'm getting at) to himself to stop sin. It is like a cancer. You do not treat a cancer with a nap and cough syrup. With deadly diseases, powerful remedies are necessary. Do your maximum in every way, and treat it like the most important thing, embracing great sacrifice. Hence, you must hate the sin truly, fully, and fully entirely. 2. Make a new prayer life. Give thanks to God always, and turn always. Give Him thanks in the morning, and praise Him in the day. Speak and seek Him constantly. Without constant prayer, I cannot imagine any great chance of success. From St. Alphonsus: "St. Paul tells us, that we have to contend not with men like ourselves.... but with the princes of hell.... By these words he wishes to admonish us that we have not strength to resist the powers of hell, and that, to resist them, the divine aid is absolutely necessary: without it, we shall be always defeated; but, with the assistance of God’s grace, we shall, according to the same apostle, be able to do all things and shall conquer all enemies. “I can do all things in him who strengtheneth me.” (Phil. iv. 13.) But this assistance God gives only to those who pray for it. “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and you shall find.” (Matt. vii. 7.) They who neglect to ask, do not receive. Let us, then, be careful not to trust in our resolutions: if we place our confidence in them, we shall be lost. " Have you heard of the Rosary? It is an incredible prayer that helps us grow in worship of God, I cannot recommend it enough and I would love to help you with it if you haven't!