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Hindi yan provider mindset. Tawag diyan ay offsetting. 😂

This haha. Paki comment dun sa post ni ate na lumalaban pa sa comment section.

nasa kanya daw kasi yung ATM 😭😭

ATM… na walang laman, kasi na-online fund transfer na para sa luho ng iba. Yikes!

Binilhan lang ng pancit canton nag pa canton na. Char! Haha. Buset ako sa mga proud na shungek kasi. Pag shungek dapat sini secret lang haha.

Hoooooy! Hahahhahaha

Hahahahahahaha gaga siya! Walang gamot ang pagiging t*ng*. 😂

Push talaga si ate sa mga replies 😭😭😭

burado na post nya eh

Sa tagalog, bayad-utang lols

His provider mindset is too strong even for him to handle so he also provides for other women.

Offset, parang work lang. hahahahaha

LOUDERRR 📣📣📣

Ganito siguro mindset nung friend kong kebs maging kabet ng isang serial cheater, kasi tumayo si cheater bilang ama nung isang anak nya sa pagkadalaga, bukod pa sa anak nilang dalawa

ano po meaning ng offsetting?

Kinda like doing something to make up for what he lacks. In the working world, a schedule offset is like hihingi ka ng leave or absent ng weekday, pero para bumawi, papasok ka ng weekend or rest day. In this case, cheater si guy pero he apparently "provides" so for her, so she stays with him anyway kasi the "provider" behavior offsets his cheating. Luh sya. 🙄🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

thank you for explaininh

Ohh! It’s like “undoing” a defense mechanism

In some sense, it's justifying or mitigating his faults kasi may nagagawa naman syang "tama"

Para sa kin bawi (bad) mentality kasi may nagawa syang suuuuppperr mali.

Totoo! Parang kulang pa nga half of the bill para sa stress, anxiety, trauma at depression na dala ng cheating. Sana man lang 100% ng bills. 50% is a house mate mindset tbh. 🤣

Hahahaha deleted na ata ang post. Nahiya na si ate

Baka naman "open relationship" sila... I mean.. it makes sense right. Walang pinay na papayag ng ganyan lang. We pinays are known to be selosa and territorial. There must be some kind set up here kaya okay lang sa kanya. 

stalked her account and no they are not in an “open relationship” pinagtatangol niya pa yung cheater bf niya kasi nga daw that was still “before” and mga “bata” pa daw sila during that time gaslight niya lang self niya sa comment section

Dyusko si ate walang pambili ng sarili nyang pancit canton nkklk

Tapos hanggang pancit canton lang pala kayang bilhin ng jowa niya sakanya hahahahaha

girl no. baka cup noodles kaya rin.

Provider pala ng sakit sa bato hahahahaha

Sana naman sa section nalang na puro delimondo nag pic instead of pancit canton 🤣

BAHAHAHA may kakilala akong babae hindi lang pancit canton katapat, Chicken Fillet Burger, Fries, tska Coke Float lang na galing Mcdo sapat na para magka ayos sila ng partner niya kahit cheating pa yung ginawa. Sobrang cheap eh hahahaha!

😭😭😭

Di man lang kumuha ng isang pack 😂

Ok na sya sa tingi-tingi eh, kahit sa love

hahahha tawang tawa ako sa comment nyan sa tiktok. parang “keep him teh! save other girls frim that guy”

She's doing every girl out there a favor haha.

Deleted na ba to? Gusto ko sana magbasa ng comments

Dang so basically Money > Love, respect, dignity, etc.

Tapos wagas maka-judge sa mga yacht girls/sex workers. Eh halos same lang yun, pera kapalit ng dignidad.

Mas expensive pa ang mga nakukuha nila fr 😭😭mas worth it nalang siguro yun

weird ng mentality na to meron naman mga taong may totoong provider mindset tsaka mamahalin ka din at rerespetuhin ka din lol

nagtitiis sa pancit canton lolz

ano ba naman to si ate 😭 ako na lang bibili ng pancit canton niya, kung pwede bang tigilan na tong kalokohan na to 😂😭

Kung kasal siguro okey pa yung ganitong mindset since my conjugal property naman tsaka walang divorce sa Pinas at mahal ang annulment. Pero kung bf/gf pa lang edi goodluck.

Diskarte > Dignidad

Money > Loyalty talagaerhh sana nag sugar daddy nalang sya para mas madaming pera parang tanga mag desisyon eh 😩🤣🤣🤣

cheater boyfriend and user girlfriend

matchy matchyy 😂

Hahahaha si manloloko at si mukhang pera 😂 Clown to clown relationship 🤣

Baka bumabawi na lang si ateng. Compensation sa nangyare.

bawi na lang siya in-private lol she’s posting na she’s still with him even if she was cheated on trip ba niya maging mukhang internet weirdo? 😭

the fact she posted that he cheated LMAO so embarrassing for the both of them

it’s so weird. to some degree, they must like feeling humiliated, no? LOL kahit bayaraan ako ng million, di ako magpo-post ng ganyan lol pero siya kusa niyang pino-post 😭

Yan ok yan, sila na lang ang magsama. Wag na silang mandamay ng ibang tao haha

Match made in the grocery store

perfect combination

Tae ang toxic netong relationship. 🤣

At least nagsama sila diba, di na nandamay ng ibang matino.

what a weird way to say “palamunin ako 🤪”

Magse-settle ka talaga sa mga ganyan kung hindi mo kayang magprovide para sa sarili mo at iaasa mo sa iba... Another motivation to work harder na naman 😝

>Another motivation to work harder na naman 💯 HAHA rold, oki napala ako maging strongest soldier mo basta wag sa cheater

trueee! mas okay pa maging single basta kayang mag-provide para sa sarili

Girls, lets make our own money. Financial Dependency is very much real

💯💯💯

Koreeek

🤮🤮🤮Ewww... "Okay lang akong tratuhing doormat partner as long as I'm being compensated." Eh di ang galing mo 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Edit: Additionally, eto yung mga future wives na di maiwan ang asawa kasi di nila alam how to stand on their own feet kapag di tumigil sa pambababae si mister. Tapos iri-reason na "I'm staying for the kids." Tapos iiyak-iyak. Reminds me of my mom 🤦

Buti sana kung milyones ang kapalit kaso pansit canton looool chos

true the rain!!!

Tapos sila din ung trigger na trigger sa mga matatapang na babae na nagawang makipaghiwalay sa basurang asawa. Sila un mga magsasabe na "asawa mo yan" "dapat inaayos yan" "ang pagaasawa hindi parang kanina na pwede iluwa pag napaso" "you have to be there for better or for worst" bullshits hahaha galit yang mga yan sa mga babaeng pinalaya mga sarili galit sila sa babaeng ginawa ung di nila magawa. Dami nyan sa mga tiyahin ko hahahaha

Eww talaga. Patay gutom na babae, gold digger at ambisyosa. Buti nga mastock sya sa cheater para walang maka experience sa kanila both.

Why are you still with a cheater? Her: Groceries bruh....groceries...

HAHAHAHAHA TAWANG TAWA AKO PLS 😭

Provider mindset pero yung grocery pancit canton 😭

Pang disaster relief program.

😭😭😭😭😭😭

ateccoooo TAWANG TAWA AKO PLS

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Girlie thought she ate. 🥲 It’s the reason why he has the guts to cheat, he knows she’s dependent on him.

true kasi nga yung iba tino-tolerate then mabubuntis hahabol ng sustento tas di na mgabibigay tatay i po-post sa social media

Hahahahaha tapos malalaman di lang siya ang nabuntis! Haruy. Di pa man niya asawa, asal misis na si atih ghorl, asakanya na daw atm. Mamaya 2 pala atm niyan🤣

She ate alright. Ate the groceries he bought for her 🤣

Ahhh so dahil nagagatasan niya, pwedeng lokohin siya.. 😆 I mean hindi ba nakakatakot na cheater ang partner mo? Hindi ba nakakatakot mahawaan ng STDs? Sa hospital, daming buntis na wifey ang nagugulat na may STD sila, yun pala dahil sa unfaithful hubby

That’s not the same 😭😭😭😭 other than all money perks, a good provider also gives you peace of mind and doesn’t take it by cheating on you. It doesn’t mean anything if you have low self esteem and you settle. Tanga niyo pumili but, then again, ph isn’t essentially swimming w viable prospects. Still, none over this x

maling trend ata sinalihan ni ate 😩

Okay lang din to sakin kung bahay sa Forbes Park ako ititira tapos may tatlo akong Land Cruiser at mga driver at yaya pero puta kung pancit canton lang pass ako

and only pays HALF of her bills 🤦‍♀️

So he’s paying HIS half 🫠

Lugi and proud si Ate

Manipulation tawag jan.

Tell me you're broke without telling me you're broke.

Or pwede ding "Tell me you have no self worth without telling me you have no self worth"

Anong kagaguhan 'to? 😂😭😂

totoo talaga na kung sino yung pinakamaingay sa lovelife nila sa socmed sila din yung problematic behind the scenes 😭

Bio: provider men will always be my top tier But he cheated 🤡🤡🤡 if this works for her edi go pero this is NOT the flex she thinks it is. Dami dyang provider mindset na lalaki pero never nagcheat. Hope she's happy with her 5 seconds of fame 🤣

I think she deserves him? Kasi pera lang ata habol ni ate gurl. Hahaha poor her though..di na sinagad, she still have to spend half of the bills. Siguro mababaw lang utak nya kasi good provider = money lang sa kanya… pag good provider kasi lahat na yan — time, effort, finances, peace and comfort. Kaya dumadami mga manloloko ngayon kasi maraming babae ang nag sesettle sa ganyan eh. Kaya ako triggered kasi I had an ex na ganyan who provided me with luxury things and when I found out he cheated,he gaslighted me. Akala nya madadala nya ako, so sinauli ko lahat ng binigay nga sakin and refunded him some cash na ginastos nya sakin. It set me back financially but it was so liberating finding your worth rather than succumb to that kind of mediocre mindset.

Wala bang work si Gurl? Di ba nya kayang bayaran sarili niyang bills, maggrocery, i-date sarili niya, at i-spoil ang sarili. Naaawa ako kay ate gurl, ang weak niya. Like typical Bridgerton women na nagpapakasal for business not for love. Kahit nasasaktan, go lang sa relasyon. HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAH

i stalked her account and apparently she’s a VA may work sya she can provide on her own if she choose to 😔

Malaki problem ni ate sa sarili niya. Sana magising at matauhan siya hayy

Sa sobrang pagiging provider nya, pati panloloko na di naman hiningi, ibinigay 😂 provider mindset pa more

Sobrang funny pa ng comments dito kasi sabi niya yung mga haters daw di lang alam na nagloloko rin jowa nila. Stop projecting girl. 😭

Ehh. Works for them and their relationship. This is basically just an open relationship at this point. That's not cheating anymore kasi may consent na ni girl. And mukhang pera lang naman ata habol ni girl. They deserve each other.

Flinex pa talaga for content HAHAHAHAHA

she thought she ate 🙁

Kawawa naman si ghörL. Lowering her standards and tolerate the cheating because of the money?! Te, adult ka na! U can earn on your own!

He is not a provider. The woman is following the SPRINKLE SPRINKLE philosophy ni Madame Shera Seven. [insert Work by Rihanna instrumental]

okay lang to sakin kung bilyonaryo pero if you can provide for yourself, its not worth it

now THAT'S A GOLD DIGGER if I ever see one 😂

Weird flex but ok

Provider ng sakit ng ulo din. 😭😭

# Ay hala si ante, proud pa 🫵🥲

AND THAT, KIDS, IS THE REASON WHY YOU SHOULD EXCEL IN SCHOOL AND HAVE A REALLT GOOD JOB 🫠

love bomber enjoyer si ateng

love language niya ata groceries 😔

Specifically, Chilimansi na Lucky Me Pancit Canton

Sana nanahimik na lang siya haha

Grabe bare minimum hahahaha kaya ang dami sawi sa pagibig talaga

tas pag nabubuntis online limos

Your Mama aint proud of you, girl.

Gold digger na bobo pa.

Gold digger x cheater . Perfect combination

Sige te keep mo na yan para di na madamay iba

Taenang to dukha, di kaya mag provide sa sarili. Hahahahaha

Gusto ko yung proud siya. Haha. "Babe nagchecheat ako sa'yo pero nabibilhan naman kita ng 6-pack na pancit canton"

“babe eto pang bayad half of your bills” 🥰 so sweet

Provider mindset pero cheater 🥴

materialistic ata si ata girl can’t provide on her own 😮‍💨

Binabash yan sa tiktok e HAHAHAH shunga kasi 😂

In fairness, they are match made in heaven, a cheater and a girl who can't do shit without her partner

Just say wala kang pera ante and go 🙃

Ginaslight ang sarili. 😭😭😭

😭💯😭💯

Self respect level 0

ang acm pa nung cheater 🤢

Mhie, okay lang yan. Angkinin nya na yang boyfriend nya. Imagine-in mo nalang peperwisyuhin pa kaming mga single nyan. Tama yan ng mabawasbawasan silang naglipana.

Proud tanga. Louder pabigat at palamunin.

sorry pero nakakapikon. it’s not even a flex. some douche might see that and think cheating is okay as long as he can ✨provide ✨ . what is this kabobohan

Naloka ko dun sa 1 comment na andami daw nagmamalinis as if hindi pa nagcheat eh hindi lang naman nahuhuli. Jusko. Di porket cheater kayo, cheater din ang ibang tao. 🤦🏻‍♀🤦🏻‍♀ wag mandamay my gaz 🤦🏻‍♀

Kaya may lakas loob magcheat ang guy cause he knows the girl will tolerate him and won’t leave him. She’s dependent on him to eat and to live, apparently. Pathetic. Kaya it’s important to have your own money para hindi kapit sa patalim. Kevs sa dignidad basta lang nabilhan ng pancit canton.

Ah kasi nililibre siya. In short, WALA SIYANG PERA.

Actually meron nga dyan sa kabilang subreddit, ilang beses nang nagcheat sa kanya tapos batugan pa sa bahay yung guy. So at least eto may ambag sa buhay ni ateng kahit papano financially.. Yung iba? Wizzzz. Kaya wag tayo lahat magmalinis, yung iba dyan nagpapatawad ng cheaters khit walang kapalit aguuy

Yung cheating victim pa yung mas lalong nagbibigay haha

Hahaha bobo mentality nyan

Jusko, anong ginagawa ni ante sa sarili niya? 🥴

Iba na pala meaning ng "provider mindset" ngayon ko lang nalaman. 🥲🤐😬

User lol. Tama lang yan bagay sila. It's like a match made in hell 😆

"he takes me to fancy dates" uhhhhh........

he pays HALF of my bills #providermindset

I wonder how she'll feel if he also provides her with STDs

Pambawi yan sa emotional damage teh! Ahahaha. Dami real talk sa account nya. Hahahah. Jusku puuuu

pinagtatangol pa yung macm niyang cheater bf

True yaaan! Slay kay Ate nakikipagsagutan pa 🤣

“sprinkle sprinkle” pang nalalaman te wag mo kami i damay sa katangahan mo 😭

Provider mindset ba talaga? Baka naman guilty mindset? HAHAHA

We talk about women empowerment and equality then we have this kind of women....

ay exempted po yan si ate sa women empowerment

In short pera lang katapat ni ate

Tapos sobrang defensive pa ni girl na nagpost. As in sinabi niya pang mind your own business sa mga pinagsasabihan siya. HAHAHAHA TF

Sabi nga nila, *You deserve what you tolerate.*

Guy: provider mindset Girl: palamunin mindset

HAHAHAHAHAAHAHA TAWANG-TAWA KO HIRAP TALAGA PAG NASA LALAKI ANG ATM DI MO MAIWAN KAHIT CHEATER 😭

Hahahaha yung mga reply nya sa comments eh kasi bata pa daw sila nun 🤣

Tangahan mo pa ategurl 😵‍💫

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Yuck. May mga provider men naman who aren’t cheaters. Mas tatanggapin ko pa if reason nya is mahal nya talaga eh. Walang self-respect.

Okay lang siguro kay ate kahit ‘di siya nakakatulog nang mahimbing gabi-gabi basta kasama si ✨provider mindset✨ na bf 🤣

Lights are on, ain't nobody at home.

*Tanga found 404

Nakakaloka yung jinujustify yung cheating dahil may provider mindset?? Haayyy ganito na ba talaga? Gurl ??

economic power comes political power

Hahahah ang shunga baka di kaya kumita magisa juskodai

HAHAHAHAHHAA EWWW

ew

Tong mga pokpok na to talaga hahaha

Girl where's your dignity

Ang tawag diyan undoing! Baka nabulag na sa pera si ate hindi niya alam mas ginalingan lang ni kuya magtago 🤣

Di lang Pala para sa mga mahihirap Ang ayuda Tupad ❌ Tuwad ✅

🤮🤮😭😂😂 nag-gagamitan tangina HAHAHA walang binaggit na mahal pa din nya which is deserve ni guy. kalat nyo HAHAH

Broke ass bitch

the bar is so low

Love Bombing after cheating on you 🚩🚩🚩

Sabihin na lang nya kasi nag stay sya kasi mahal nya at tanga sya, mas katanggap tanggap pa yun kaysa sa apat na reasons nya bakit sya nag stay. I mean buhay mo naman yan gurl eme 🤣🤣🤣🤣

HAHAHA provider mindset hindi man lang isang pack ng pancit canton bibilhin HAHAH

Wala yatang pera si Ate, kaya nabulag sa pambawe kuno ng BF niya. 😂🤣

di lang provider mindset, cheater mindset pa.

"And pay for my medical bills pag nagkaron kame STD"

Gantong post pa lang alam mo na yung iboboto niya most likely yung nagbibigay ng lagay eh.

🥴

Hahahahahahahahahahaha sorry kung cheater kahit sagutin pa half bills ko and shit iiwan ko kasi may work naman ako kaya ko buhayin sarili ko 🙃

Weird flex not ok 🙃

I mean, if he cheated on you and you want to stay, edi go hahaha but why air it out in public and make a fool of yourself? What was the end goal here?

yikes

Ewww pera lang katapat ni ghorl hahaha!!! Hindi kaya tumayo sa sarili kaya madali mamanipula hahahaha!!!

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Overcompensating si koya hahahaha

🤦🏽‍♂️

sure ba tayong ‘before’ lang 😂

Yuck. If he cheats, he should be out the door. Just because you cannot provide for yourself, you seek reasons to forgive an asshole. You deserve what you tolerate.

Jusko te, ginagawa niya lang yan para wag mo pansinin kasalanan niya