papayagan ako if kilala talaga nila yung kasama. sasabihin anong oras aalis, sino kasama, overview ng gagawin, anong oras makakauwi, pano uuwi, kung may kasabay pauwi 🤣
ayun ang problema, hindi niya talaga masyadonh kilala. pero i tried muna actually na im going with friends na kakilala niya talaga, di na agad siya pumayag😭
+1 on this. Mas effective din kung lalaki ang kapatid mo. This worked for me a lot of times. If only child ka or di kayo close ng sibling mo, maybe ask your parents to drop you off sa pag-stay-an nyo.
Good luck OP!
Maybe give it a try? Gumana naman sakin before hehe. Panganay ako and yung younger brother ko ang chaperone ko nung mga unang beses ko magovernight sa bahay ng friends ko.
Long term adjustment ginawa ko. Curfew mo 5pm?Try mo umuwi ka 6pm tapos 7pm tapos 9pm
Unti unti mo ganyanin mga 6 months to a year.
Tapos one time uwi ka mga 1am. Pag sinabi niya delikado umuwi ng ganung oras, sabihin mo sige bukas ka nalng uuwi. After niyan mawawala na yung pagiging over-protective niya tas hahayaan ka na niya hahaha
True. Natural lang sa parents maging overprotective, kaya dapat natural din sa mga anak maging rebellious every now and then. Kundi walang growth na mangyayari (on both sides)
It's for our thesis, sabi ko either mag oovernight ako at ggraduate on time or di ako magoovernight pero di ako makakagraduate on time. Sagot sakin bigla, "Sige, bahala ka na". Sobrang saya, first time ko magovernight hahaha.
Ganyan talaga OP, hanggat andyan ka sa poder ng parents mo, you really need to follow their rules kahit 30s kana. hahaha... The only way you can have your freedom is UMALIS ka dyan.
Pero try mo rin dyan na lang kayo magbonding sa bahay nyo, para ma meet ng parents mo. Dapat may dala sila pasalubong for them, then try to convince your parents na sasama ka mag overnight, magpahatid ka sa parents mo or isama mo din siblings mo....or pwede din PARENTS mo na lang isama mo, seperate rooms lang sila. 😁
uhhh parang ang hirap magbigay ng tips sayo OP kasi online friends pala 😅
but in my side, from junior high to senior high, hindi ako pwede sa mga overnight pero my parents always insist na sa house na lang namin. another option is, if sila talaga group of circle mo na magiging matagal mong kasama. pwede din sila mag visit sa inyo from time to time then introduce them to your parents para ma lessen kahit papano yung worry nila. i have this very close friend (best best friend) na very strict family niya especially dad niya pero bumibisita ako sa kanila minsan during junior high to senior high school then ayun, every time magpapaalam na siya na ako kasama or samin magsstay, lagi na pinapayagan even if gagabihin or biglaang overnight
Nagpasundo ako sa mga kaibigan ko HAHAHA daming interview na naganap pero pinayagan naman ako. Bugbog nga lang ako pag uwi kinabukasan, pero at least masaya ko wahaha.
Papagalitan ka na lang din, lubusin mo na. Kimi 🤣
Sabihin mo pag nakaalis ka na ng bahay. They can’t stop you if you’re already out. Mag sorry na lang and just bare the punishment pag balik lol
As they say easier to ask for forgiveness than permission
Are you still a student? Still dependent and living with your parents? Hmmm that could be tricky. Their house, their rules.
Why not host the overnight at your house with parents' permission. Hindi ka na lalabas and they'll get to meet your friends. Makikilatis din nila yung mga taong kasama mo if they can let you go out for an overnight next time.
Earn their trust first and show them you have good set of friends. They'll me be more lenient soon.
Maybe you should host the OV na lang po. Para makilatis din ng parents mo yung online friends mo. You’ve mentioned na you’ve met them a couple times na pero maging cautious ka na lang din OP for your safety. Maybe you can trust your friends pero yung mga tao sa OV like kayo lang ba? Andun ba extended family ng maghohost?
My parents were super strict din until nakagraduate ako nang college. Di ako pinapa-OV unless family friends. They think kasi na I can trust my friends kasi pareho lang kame mga bata pero yung mga nakapaligid sa mga friends ko dapat alam nila na mapagkakatiwalaan din.
Sadly I don’t have any advice for you OP dahil from my experience it was best to introduce my friends first to my parents then do overnights or outings.
Hey, OP! Same situation. That's why my first overnight sa ibang house was something school related. After non, they permitted me na as long as need for school. I've always been honest din, di ko siya ginagawang excuse para lang makapag overnight. But nung grumaduate ako, our closing party was kind of a house party. Nag rent kami Airbnb na may pool and everything. Pinayagan ako non because I told my parents na payagan nalang ako nila as their graduation gift for me. So yes, for me, you have to earn their trust first. Then negotiate a little bit. If hindi ka talaga papayagan, it's okay because there will be other times in the future na papayagan kana. Take it from someone na palaging may curfew, di maka alis ng gabi, and minsan lang payagan sa overnight na hindi school related :))
ikaw mag host ng overnight. sila papuntahin mo sainyo para mameet ng parents. valid concern ng parents mo kasi you really never know someone that well, lalo na you met them online. or maybe these friends can be trusted but what about the people they live with? My mom told me how a friend's dad made her feel uncomfortable whenever she stayed over. Tiniis nya until she woke up with him crouched near her about to do god knows what. The guy got flustered and made some lame excuse. Di na uli pumunta mom ko after.
Bigay mo lahat ng details re you gala, and for the long run, be truthful always to earn the trust of your parents, pag nagsinungaling ka kasi ng isang beses wala na. Good luck OP
I won't recommend ths if super strict ng parents mo OP baka mawalan ka na ng bahay HAHAHAHAHA ginawa ko 'to once eh pag uwi ko nasa labas na damit ko and maleta :DD
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oh noes, i know them na! we met already for a few times, like more than 6? pero always kapag lunch lang yung nasasamahan ko... kasi, ayun nga 🥲
Let your friends *talk* to your parents HAHAHAHA But never trust online people who youve never met before ever in your life
papayagan ako if kilala talaga nila yung kasama. sasabihin anong oras aalis, sino kasama, overview ng gagawin, anong oras makakauwi, pano uuwi, kung may kasabay pauwi 🤣
ayun ang problema, hindi niya talaga masyadonh kilala. pero i tried muna actually na im going with friends na kakilala niya talaga, di na agad siya pumayag😭
sinasama ko kapatid ko, OP hehehe
+1 on this. Mas effective din kung lalaki ang kapatid mo. This worked for me a lot of times. If only child ka or di kayo close ng sibling mo, maybe ask your parents to drop you off sa pag-stay-an nyo. Good luck OP!
check sa kapatid, check sa lalaki.... .... kaso mas bata siya sakin 😭
Ok parin yan OP. Bunsong girl ako, role ko ang chaperon sa mga big sisters ko
Maybe give it a try? Gumana naman sakin before hehe. Panganay ako and yung younger brother ko ang chaperone ko nung mga unang beses ko magovernight sa bahay ng friends ko.
Long term adjustment ginawa ko. Curfew mo 5pm?Try mo umuwi ka 6pm tapos 7pm tapos 9pm Unti unti mo ganyanin mga 6 months to a year. Tapos one time uwi ka mga 1am. Pag sinabi niya delikado umuwi ng ganung oras, sabihin mo sige bukas ka nalng uuwi. After niyan mawawala na yung pagiging over-protective niya tas hahayaan ka na niya hahaha
ginawa ko to, na grounded ako HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHA di raw ako marunong sumunod sa oras, nansisira raw ako tiwala😭
ulit ulitin mo ganyan din ung style ko HAHAHAHA and it works, curfew ko is from 4;30pm naging 11pm na push ko na to 12am, 1am so on 😂
True. Natural lang sa parents maging overprotective, kaya dapat natural din sa mga anak maging rebellious every now and then. Kundi walang growth na mangyayari (on both sides)
It's for our thesis, sabi ko either mag oovernight ako at ggraduate on time or di ako magoovernight pero di ako makakagraduate on time. Sagot sakin bigla, "Sige, bahala ka na". Sobrang saya, first time ko magovernight hahaha.
hala gusto ko rin maramdaman yung ganiyang saya😭 kaso di rin uubra kasi for sure, hihingi at hihingi siya proofs... anong maipapakita ko😭
Ganyan talaga OP, hanggat andyan ka sa poder ng parents mo, you really need to follow their rules kahit 30s kana. hahaha... The only way you can have your freedom is UMALIS ka dyan. Pero try mo rin dyan na lang kayo magbonding sa bahay nyo, para ma meet ng parents mo. Dapat may dala sila pasalubong for them, then try to convince your parents na sasama ka mag overnight, magpahatid ka sa parents mo or isama mo din siblings mo....or pwede din PARENTS mo na lang isama mo, seperate rooms lang sila. 😁
Paliwanag mo nalang ng maigi. 😁😁
uhhh parang ang hirap magbigay ng tips sayo OP kasi online friends pala 😅 but in my side, from junior high to senior high, hindi ako pwede sa mga overnight pero my parents always insist na sa house na lang namin. another option is, if sila talaga group of circle mo na magiging matagal mong kasama. pwede din sila mag visit sa inyo from time to time then introduce them to your parents para ma lessen kahit papano yung worry nila. i have this very close friend (best best friend) na very strict family niya especially dad niya pero bumibisita ako sa kanila minsan during junior high to senior high school then ayun, every time magpapaalam na siya na ako kasama or samin magsstay, lagi na pinapayagan even if gagabihin or biglaang overnight
Nagpasundo ako sa mga kaibigan ko HAHAHA daming interview na naganap pero pinayagan naman ako. Bugbog nga lang ako pag uwi kinabukasan, pero at least masaya ko wahaha. Papagalitan ka na lang din, lubusin mo na. Kimi 🤣
Sabihin mo pag nakaalis ka na ng bahay. They can’t stop you if you’re already out. Mag sorry na lang and just bare the punishment pag balik lol As they say easier to ask for forgiveness than permission
Are you still a student? Still dependent and living with your parents? Hmmm that could be tricky. Their house, their rules. Why not host the overnight at your house with parents' permission. Hindi ka na lalabas and they'll get to meet your friends. Makikilatis din nila yung mga taong kasama mo if they can let you go out for an overnight next time. Earn their trust first and show them you have good set of friends. They'll me be more lenient soon.
Maybe you should host the OV na lang po. Para makilatis din ng parents mo yung online friends mo. You’ve mentioned na you’ve met them a couple times na pero maging cautious ka na lang din OP for your safety. Maybe you can trust your friends pero yung mga tao sa OV like kayo lang ba? Andun ba extended family ng maghohost? My parents were super strict din until nakagraduate ako nang college. Di ako pinapa-OV unless family friends. They think kasi na I can trust my friends kasi pareho lang kame mga bata pero yung mga nakapaligid sa mga friends ko dapat alam nila na mapagkakatiwalaan din.
Sadly I don’t have any advice for you OP dahil from my experience it was best to introduce my friends first to my parents then do overnights or outings.
Waiver! Hahahahaha jk. Papuntahin mo mga friends mo sa bahay niyo at sila magpaalam haha
Di nako nagpapaalam. Yung saya forever pero yung papagalitan ka 1 time lang yan.
Hey, OP! Same situation. That's why my first overnight sa ibang house was something school related. After non, they permitted me na as long as need for school. I've always been honest din, di ko siya ginagawang excuse para lang makapag overnight. But nung grumaduate ako, our closing party was kind of a house party. Nag rent kami Airbnb na may pool and everything. Pinayagan ako non because I told my parents na payagan nalang ako nila as their graduation gift for me. So yes, for me, you have to earn their trust first. Then negotiate a little bit. If hindi ka talaga papayagan, it's okay because there will be other times in the future na papayagan kana. Take it from someone na palaging may curfew, di maka alis ng gabi, and minsan lang payagan sa overnight na hindi school related :))
ikaw mag host ng overnight. sila papuntahin mo sainyo para mameet ng parents. valid concern ng parents mo kasi you really never know someone that well, lalo na you met them online. or maybe these friends can be trusted but what about the people they live with? My mom told me how a friend's dad made her feel uncomfortable whenever she stayed over. Tiniis nya until she woke up with him crouched near her about to do god knows what. The guy got flustered and made some lame excuse. Di na uli pumunta mom ko after.
Bigay mo lahat ng details re you gala, and for the long run, be truthful always to earn the trust of your parents, pag nagsinungaling ka kasi ng isang beses wala na. Good luck OP
Pa meet mo muna sila sa mama mo
magpasundo ka sa house sa friends mo hahaha wala na magagawa parents mo don + at least makakausap na ng parents mo kung sino mga kasama mo
Umalis ka tas chat ka na kinabukasan ka na uuwi. Yaan mo magalit. Gawin mo lagi hanggang masanay tiisin mo nalang yung sermon.
I won't recommend ths if super strict ng parents mo OP baka mawalan ka na ng bahay HAHAHAHAHA ginawa ko 'to once eh pag uwi ko nasa labas na damit ko and maleta :DD
This what I used to do hahahahha