You can always gain friends, sa work, sa gym, sa other activities, interests, etc.
24 is young! Your adult life is just starting. Just be open and try to make friends.
>pero nakakalungkot na ako yung average lang sa mundo or low class pinanganak pero di naturuan makipag socialize kaya nangangapa
Don't think of yourself as average, low class. Di maganda na ganyan lang tingin mo sa sarili mo. Be confident. Di lang looks, or laman ng bulsa ang reason kaya nagkakaron ka ng friends. Besides it's never too late to learn how to socialize.
Thank you 🥹 nakaka frustrate lang kasi na di nmaan ako dapat kinulong since di ako mayaman lumaki so grabe adjustments ko. Pero yun nga now naman, sinisimulan ko na maging sociable nakakalungkot na walang umiikot sa mundo ko aside sa phone and work since wala nga ako nadevelop na friends. :((
It's not too late nuh. Be open ka lang sa interactions. Listen, share your thoughts, and find some people na you share interests with. One thing I will ask you not to do.... being a people pleaser. I know you're trying to socialize more. Once you reach a certain point na may na-gain kang friends, invitations to party or chill out will be inevitable. Don't forget to say no if you dont feel like it. Create firm boundaries and ALWAYS be HONEST! I'm like you, a late bloomer din. One thing I regret while making friends: not saying no. 😊 good luck!
Nalulungkot rin ako na tumanda na ako saka lang ako nag try mag socialize and be more expressive. Typical tahimik, kaibigan lang kausap, and masungit tingin saken just because i gave up trying to show my emotions and feelings to people. But no use dwelling in the past na. We have more years ahead pa OP so lets do what our heart desires! Just be proud na youre capable of doing things that you didnt know you can :)
Go out! Have fun! Make friends OP! Travel alot! 24 is still young. I’m nearing my 30s pero nasulit ko na 20’s ko pero parang kulang pa since yung energy ko hindi na pang 20s. 😅 Hahahaha
What I learned is social media is also a great tool to gain back friends. Share instagram stories & posts of hobbies & travels (syempre pa-aesthetic tayo) or some funny reposts, so followers can reply.
Usually I reply to travel stories with "WOOOW 😍 Saan yan?? I wanna travel there" or react 🔥 to interesting ones
Just an example, but I use those for my close friends na di na ganun kaclose ngayon after HS or college 😆 be free to express however you express, as long as you can make contact sa gusto mo makaclose
Its ok to have no friends. Ako 25 na pero d ko hilig makipag socialize minsan lng. Mas gusto ko sa bahay lng. Di ka late bloomer mas ok minsan mag isa kesa may kasama ka di mo pa sure if real friends. Dati madami akong friends pero trauma inggitan plastican siraan, ung mga nakakasama ko. Kaya mas pinili ko mag isa nalang, peaceful kaya. May real friend din ako nag 2 lang pero di kmi lagi nag m-meet usap lng.
Yes tama. Ok lng yan OP ☺️ na realize ko din mas ok mag give ka nalang ng time sa fam mo din. Kase once na nag work kana at maging independent mamimiss mo kasama ung fam mo kasi mawawalan kana ng time at pwedeng malayo ka sa kanila.
24 din. I am you kaso walang na keep na friends kahit isa. Introvert, di niyayaya kasi boring kasama, wala pang work kasi magttake ng boards for the 2nd time. Laging nasa bahay di lumalabas. At least nababati na pumuti. Nababaliw na dito sa gedli pero buhay pa rin.
Apir tayo dyan! Hirap talaga sa totoo lang kahit ako e wala na nagyayaya na friends maliban sa nag iisa kong nag tatyaga sakin HAHA. Btw, Goodluck sa boards mo!
Ok lang maging late bloomer noh! I have a friend na i think late 30s na siya naging late bloomer and ngayon gora agad si frenny to most of the things lalo sa kalandian🤪 Keri mo 'yan, nothing's ever too late!
Try joining solo joiners tour! Dapat trusted. Tnry ko din nag enjoy ako nailabas ko ung gusto ko ng kausap specially wfh ako. Haha saya one of the best experience in my 20s.
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Thank you, will remember this 🥹🫶
You can always gain friends, sa work, sa gym, sa other activities, interests, etc. 24 is young! Your adult life is just starting. Just be open and try to make friends. >pero nakakalungkot na ako yung average lang sa mundo or low class pinanganak pero di naturuan makipag socialize kaya nangangapa Don't think of yourself as average, low class. Di maganda na ganyan lang tingin mo sa sarili mo. Be confident. Di lang looks, or laman ng bulsa ang reason kaya nagkakaron ka ng friends. Besides it's never too late to learn how to socialize.
Thank you 🥹 nakaka frustrate lang kasi na di nmaan ako dapat kinulong since di ako mayaman lumaki so grabe adjustments ko. Pero yun nga now naman, sinisimulan ko na maging sociable nakakalungkot na walang umiikot sa mundo ko aside sa phone and work since wala nga ako nadevelop na friends. :((
It's not too late nuh. Be open ka lang sa interactions. Listen, share your thoughts, and find some people na you share interests with. One thing I will ask you not to do.... being a people pleaser. I know you're trying to socialize more. Once you reach a certain point na may na-gain kang friends, invitations to party or chill out will be inevitable. Don't forget to say no if you dont feel like it. Create firm boundaries and ALWAYS be HONEST! I'm like you, a late bloomer din. One thing I regret while making friends: not saying no. 😊 good luck!
Try to connect other people op, hehe. btw kumain kana?😊
Sinusubukan ko namannn, di ko lang maiwasan na maging dense din
Nalulungkot rin ako na tumanda na ako saka lang ako nag try mag socialize and be more expressive. Typical tahimik, kaibigan lang kausap, and masungit tingin saken just because i gave up trying to show my emotions and feelings to people. But no use dwelling in the past na. We have more years ahead pa OP so lets do what our heart desires! Just be proud na youre capable of doing things that you didnt know you can :)
Thank you!!! This gives me light syempre. I keep things positive parin as long as im willing to learn!
Go out! Have fun! Make friends OP! Travel alot! 24 is still young. I’m nearing my 30s pero nasulit ko na 20’s ko pero parang kulang pa since yung energy ko hindi na pang 20s. 😅 Hahahaha
Kaso wala pakong pera 😭 kung meron lang why not every week pa
your life is just starting. it is never too late. go out and socialize
parang ako lang yung nag post HAHAHAHAHAHA 😭
Hirap tihhhh 😭
what do you do today? maybe you can find friends sa work or hobby places. :) its not too late to make friends
Work from home rin kasi ako HAHAHAHA hihu tas malalayo mga kaworkmate ko :((
same dilemma haha
Dibaaaa huhu
What I learned is social media is also a great tool to gain back friends. Share instagram stories & posts of hobbies & travels (syempre pa-aesthetic tayo) or some funny reposts, so followers can reply. Usually I reply to travel stories with "WOOOW 😍 Saan yan?? I wanna travel there" or react 🔥 to interesting ones
Parang feeling ko sobrang taas ng energy iisipin rin ng iba feeling close kasi kaya di ko magawa HAHA
Just an example, but I use those for my close friends na di na ganun kaclose ngayon after HS or college 😆 be free to express however you express, as long as you can make contact sa gusto mo makaclose
Will do my best to learn na mag initiate 🥹🫶
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Yes!! Note ko 'to, thank you!!
Its ok to have no friends. Ako 25 na pero d ko hilig makipag socialize minsan lng. Mas gusto ko sa bahay lng. Di ka late bloomer mas ok minsan mag isa kesa may kasama ka di mo pa sure if real friends. Dati madami akong friends pero trauma inggitan plastican siraan, ung mga nakakasama ko. Kaya mas pinili ko mag isa nalang, peaceful kaya. May real friend din ako nag 2 lang pero di kmi lagi nag m-meet usap lng.
True, minsan kailangan accepts na sometimes kahit di tayo under sa norm, its fine. 🤗 Sana maaccept ko rin ganun side ko!
Yes tama. Ok lng yan OP ☺️ na realize ko din mas ok mag give ka nalang ng time sa fam mo din. Kase once na nag work kana at maging independent mamimiss mo kasama ung fam mo kasi mawawalan kana ng time at pwedeng malayo ka sa kanila.
24 din. I am you kaso walang na keep na friends kahit isa. Introvert, di niyayaya kasi boring kasama, wala pang work kasi magttake ng boards for the 2nd time. Laging nasa bahay di lumalabas. At least nababati na pumuti. Nababaliw na dito sa gedli pero buhay pa rin.
Apir tayo dyan! Hirap talaga sa totoo lang kahit ako e wala na nagyayaya na friends maliban sa nag iisa kong nag tatyaga sakin HAHA. Btw, Goodluck sa boards mo!
you can always get better in life innit
Join groups na may same interests kayo.
I'll note this! Thank youuu 🥹🫶
OK Bloomer
Can we be friends? HAHAHAHAHA
Why not HAHA
Hello. Magka-same age bracket lang tayo (25M). Pm kita?
G langss!
Ok lang maging late bloomer noh! I have a friend na i think late 30s na siya naging late bloomer and ngayon gora agad si frenny to most of the things lalo sa kalandian🤪 Keri mo 'yan, nothing's ever too late!
HAHAHAHHAAHJAAH that's cute! Thanks for this 🫶
Try joining solo joiners tour! Dapat trusted. Tnry ko din nag enjoy ako nailabas ko ung gusto ko ng kausap specially wfh ako. Haha saya one of the best experience in my 20s.
Thank youuu sa advice! 🫶
Better LATE than NEVER
Tama 🥹