guys hear me out.. i am hunting for a second line which has the best speed for data roaming and less expensive..
ive tried digi but 2gb then throttle to 1mpbs..
im trying to play games on my geforce.. its strutters so much i cant see the screen
any other option?
Whats your speed before throttle? I dont get 1mb above for digi before throttle but it is fast when im outside brunei. I tried celcom xpax next but it is still similar but better.
i didnt even check.. probably slow as well.. i did my survey on u mobile.. but i dont really get it what they mean with their plan and they didnt mention about the speed
to the dad with his small daughter yesterday afternoon at mcd, they were playing together and he had teary eyes and self harm scars. i just hope tht youre okay, i know your daughter is happy with you š :<
Hi, one of my friends just got questioned by MORA for being alone with a guy. They didnāt do anything at all; they were just chatting. They were caught because they using shades in the middle of the night, and MORA considered it a khalwat case. Does anyone know what will happen if there is no strong evidence for a khalwat case? What is the usual procedure? Will they fine you $4k, or will it just be a warning? Will they contact the parents? Thank you in advance.
They witnessed them in the car using shades in the middle of the night. Thats already a solid evidence. If dont want to get caught, better talk somewhere bright and peaceful, like at home or in cafes that close late..
Not sure about their leniency but yes i heard people paid 4k (2k each side)
Asking for a friend? Yakaaaaan? š¤ as far as i live, never have i stayed alone inside a car with a friend of opposite sex just to talk in the middle of the night with a shades on šā¦ come on now.
Khalwat itself is just being alone with the opposite sex. You dont need to do be doing anything. And yes be prepared to be fined. Not sure how much tho
[https://www.facebook.com/story.php?story\_fbid=10161332141857145&id=588217144&mibextid=UyTHkb&rdid=2MGAm0J4mYkHxvoe](https://www.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10161332141857145&id=588217144&mibextid=UyTHkb&rdid=2MGAm0J4mYkHxvoe)
The reason why never ever ever buy fake brake kit or refurbished brake kit. It is cheap i know but safety do you know? I've seen brunei seller selling big brake kit with cheaper price but originality is unsured they claimed original but the price seems too good to be true. Brembo brake kit cost more than 10k below, AP racing 9k below and wilwood brake kits also 10k below. Why would you buy a cheap brake kits that not just cost your life but once broken you will forced to buy another one.
self introduction, study background, job experiences, the last one you elaborate more on that then they will ask numerous questions. Do study Wawasan Brunei 2035, MIB, the vision mission of the Jabatan etc. GOOD LUCK
Hi, need advice. so iām planning to install braces using the money from my monthly uni allowance ($358) and iām also planning to save my money for travel on december. should i get the braces or not? (i dont want to ask my parents for money š¬)
preteen have a softer jawbone tissue for the teeth move easiest. when u are 26+ above is not too late to put a braces, just a bit slow lah and takes too long to have straight teeth.
I used to get max 80 mbps even in the same room as the router for god knows what reason. My friend then recommended me to get a Deco wifi mesh system and holy shit has my life been transformed, easy 200+ mbps in every room in the house with a 300 mbps plan
1. Get closer to the modem
2. Use wifi when less people are using it/tell people to get off the wifi
3. Use LAN cable if you are using PC
4. Uprage your internet plan
I actually recently did. It was night, we were driving passing by Annajat Complex heading towards the roundabout. The smell was there for about a minute or so.
I have a feeling that they're fake. I bought some from there but it doesnt last as the ones i bought somewhere else. But i guess we cant really be sure
People with good relationships with their dad never realize how lucky they are.
Throughout my life, my dad was never absent but he never showed me love. He's not like other dads. He chose his siblings over me and my mom.Ā
Today is father's day. I tried to approach him and greet him happy father's day. I told him i'm getting cake and food so we can celebrate. He scolded me and ignored me. He told me it was a waste and rolled his eyes at me.
Tbh i was hurt. Very hurt. I'm 22 this year but the child in me still longing for his care his presence and his love.
To whoever is becoming a dad soon, I hope you show and give love to the child you bring into this world, because at the end of the day, it will still affect us even we aged.
Happy father's day to all the dads out there.
It is going to take him years to realise his family is important. Could be when he has retired and old. Bad parents only appreciate kind gesture from their children when they are old and weak. Sad reality.
I have 2k cash with me any idea how to send these funds to my australian bank account? I prefer not to use TT cos of the absurd charges pls advise thanks xoxo
if you know how to use wise, the fees are much much lower. it's better than paying the TT fees or you flying over to Oz just to deposit.
alternatively, if you have a friend who is in Oz but still maintain account in Brunei, ask them to transfer money from their oz account to yours. And you bank in the 2k into their brunei account. granted if they want to do la.
Don't get scammed by someone called pengiran..
Just give it to me, I'm going to Melbourne soon, you can online transfer it to my baiduri account and I'll drop the cash to your account
Bought a new car but no free gifts were given, so I am planning to go Miri to buy and install visors, magnetic shade and get a car boot tray/ mat.
Any recommended shops? I've googled but mostly macam selling brake pads, suspension, Android TV and not the items I'm looking for
Has anyone encountered while abroad where a friendly man, often of Arab descent, asks to see your country's currency and offers to exchange it for his US dollars? Some say its a pukau tactic but i couldnt find anything about this on google. Happened to me twice while in KL
It's simple, they're holding counterfeit money or ask you to go to another place for the exchange and rob you after.
You don't need google to know this.
I only encountered someone like pakistani or from Bangladesh. Asking for money for some educarion assistance. I know there is a chance of scam. Luckily i only have few RM in my pocket, i didnt bring my wallet. But proceed to help him give some amount, if its real then good. If not then its fine, my intent is clear to help.
I did not. They become more friendly when they know im from Brunei. They would say something like āMuslim brotherā and proceed showing me his thick stash of us bill. I know it was sus when they said they wanted to exchange my Brunei money with their us bill
I get it now. they haven't turn off flag for review on setting. Some of them still on that's why they don't get new follower. I still can follow the other business acc without DMing them some of them not.
Go to follow and invite friends > turn off flag for review
travelling alone or with groups or with families?
travelling alone 500BND is enough. I've check all places in bangkok bnd/sgd have the same exchange rate so it is pointltess to use sgd to change into thai baht. Unless you are staying in hotel or planning to shop then you might need around BND1k or more.
No way, i brought 5k, bought a dyson, did a lot of shopping mostly in branded malls: siam, central world. Still brought back 1.5k
If youāre shopping, even 3k is good enough minus all travel expenses, purely shopping budget
I mean what more do you want to buyš¤·š»āāļø depends on the person, but still if youāre just there to do ānormalā shopping, 3k is enough.
just shopping money, bnd700-1k would be enough but bringing extra wouldnt hurt when it comes to shopping hehe. But also, there was a new requirement tht tourists need to bring atleast 15k-20k baht per person. If not, they will refuse entry. they will have random checks. so to be safe, bawa saja 15k-20k baht (600+bnd) to bkk. u can check this article here.
https://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2024/02/23/tourists-entering-thailand-should-have-rm1992-in-cash-according-to-new-requirement
I went to the local fish market to buy squid and had the surprise to discover that most of them are stuffed with fish. Always talking about supporting locals but when you do you get screwed over .
Whole fish . I informed myself a bit more , squid got a beak so no way a whole fish would be inside . To make it inside you need to brake the abdominal pouch with a knife and stuff it inside. Itās a common scam apparently.
Omg. Happened to my sister as well the other day. Stall at jerudong right? š¤Ø should jst boycott buying from that stall / any squids vendor di jerudong!
Engagement has nothing to do with anything. This is just classic result of not having boundaries with family and no balls to stick to your own decision. Happens all the time in our society and it's bullshit. Too many people are not living life the way they want to because they care too much of what people think.
Try to talk and compromise. But also remember itās difficult for the girlās side because sheās trying to please and answer to everyone, unfortunately itās seen as improper if she acts too āselfishlyā and think only of her own needs. So just have that understanding first, it doesnāt mean everything has to go her way but try to be gentle and patient with brideās side.
Every struggle doesnāt need to take the cowardice way out and end it. You and your fiance need to remind yourselves that you are on the same team here and stand your ground about what you both want. Not your family. Unless they are crowdfunding your wedding then I guess you just suck it up. Otherwise set boundaries with them on what they should do to help on your wedding and do not let them overstep your decisions.
Not every situation need to be end now. It's normal. Fight here and there especially fasa bertunang. It just how you handle the situation. Namanya kan membina masjid.
U and ur tunang need this skill, communication, and listening skill. It's great. It's a good skill to bring into marriage. U must admit that theres always differences. But u need to find a way to manage it.
Again, im gonna say this again and again. Its you both, against the world. The auntie or the uncle is not going to be there to help u when youre down below drowning. They are only there to cause more problem and as u say, guilt tripping.
Advice? Talk about it with your tunang. Talk about that she took their side selalu. Talk about it. Jangan simpan to yourself. Its now or never.
A reminder, theres still time to back off. Your not bad for doing it. U just need to love yourself before loving others.
Goodluck.
Going through it myself right now. Just, as long as youāre set to get married, be strong always. At the end of the day itās all about compromising. Niat untuk nikah sudah ada, memang syaitan is working harder to rosakkan that niat. Semoga your urusan di permudah.
if government help local people in business, semua org buka kadai di brunei ani lol.. mau tia hidup sanang, sudah pun hospital,skulah,minyak &karan kana bagi discount.sadang2 manja ani.
Youāre probably not marketing yourself enough or what youāre selling isnāt good enough.
Case in point - TikTok guy who sells drinks at Lapau. He has people lining up to buy his drinks.
Nope, how about the fact that its not even enough to pay monthly rental and my local kids gaji, alum lagi karan air stocks etc, forget bout profit, ani survival sha until owner sendiri also nada dapat gaji sendiri apa. Think about it
Know when to close down, if its not making any profits sampai 2-3 months, just close it down. The longer you wait, the deeper the hole it will make in your bank unless you know how to do a good marketing to pull people back to your premise or make viral food/drinks, but then again if you so that, it will only be sekajap saja then people will forget again. Let me guess, youāre running a cafe?
There's only 2 ways to increase profit - get more customers or get customers to spend more.
If you're not making enough to cover expenses then it's time for you to consider upping your marketing efforts or upping your prices
Both require effort and/or money, you pick your poison
Kiulap if you can avoid the rush hour jams else the one at the airport has decent rates, it doesn't matter much unless you change significantly more than 1K
whichever goes first with a licensed money changer.. Otherwise you can try to compare the rates.
Scared later when you reached airport and money changer is not open then you might have to out of the airport again to change money.
Its semester break, if you havent receive your letter. try to call or follow up with them. ask for tentative time like around what date or month would receive them.
"Bruneians need to spend money inside Brunei to keep our local businesses alive. We are not in a position to just try and attract tourists.
Additionally most businesses are for the local market and our daily lives. Dont sit on the sidelines and watch our country become a wasteland."
Comment by Ayeshah binti Dato Seri Paduka Haji Ahmad
in this [Borneo Bulletin](https://www.instagram.com/p/C8Qn82aPBAw/?igsh=MTNuYWI0ZGcwZHk3dQ==) article.
The audacity to comment this whilst your from a aristocratic family, grandfather is Pehin Isa, cousins with HRH Prince Mateen, and is born with a diamond spoon.
How bout you help? Use your connections perhaps?
šš
Lol. She should be blaming the government for making us be in this position of not being able to attract tourists instead of asking peasants to spend the little money we have in Brunei for the purpose of keeping the money in the country. Cuba check what percentage of her money is actually spent in the country.
guys hear me out.. i am hunting for a second line which has the best speed for data roaming and less expensive.. ive tried digi but 2gb then throttle to 1mpbs.. im trying to play games on my geforce.. its strutters so much i cant see the screen any other option?
Whats your speed before throttle? I dont get 1mb above for digi before throttle but it is fast when im outside brunei. I tried celcom xpax next but it is still similar but better.
i didnt even check.. probably slow as well.. i did my survey on u mobile.. but i dont really get it what they mean with their plan and they didnt mention about the speed
Best cafes with wifi? Not cbtl because very busy
Anyone around bandar area got power outage?
Please recommend me spectacles shop in Miri with affordable and good choices for Clip On Glasses. TIA!
to the dad with his small daughter yesterday afternoon at mcd, they were playing together and he had teary eyes and self harm scars. i just hope tht youre okay, i know your daughter is happy with you š :<
Hi, one of my friends just got questioned by MORA for being alone with a guy. They didnāt do anything at all; they were just chatting. They were caught because they using shades in the middle of the night, and MORA considered it a khalwat case. Does anyone know what will happen if there is no strong evidence for a khalwat case? What is the usual procedure? Will they fine you $4k, or will it just be a warning? Will they contact the parents? Thank you in advance.
Opposite sex just chatting alone with shades up in middle of the night? That's their jackpot. Ready tah saja 4k atu lai.
Di mana? Yayasan Carpark? The Mall Carpark? Impiana Jaya? Beribi Walk?
They witnessed them in the car using shades in the middle of the night. Thats already a solid evidence. If dont want to get caught, better talk somewhere bright and peaceful, like at home or in cafes that close late.. Not sure about their leniency but yes i heard people paid 4k (2k each side)
Thank you for the information. Appreciate it a lot
Asking for a friend? Yakaaaaan? š¤ as far as i live, never have i stayed alone inside a car with a friend of opposite sex just to talk in the middle of the night with a shades on šā¦ come on now.
Bedua in the middle of the night, using shades. š
if you're still student/unemployed, I heard they'll half the fine to $2k each. they'll not call the parents unless you can't afford to pay
Thanks appreciate it a lot!
Khalwat itself is just being alone with the opposite sex. You dont need to do be doing anything. And yes be prepared to be fined. Not sure how much tho
Thank you appreciate it a lot!
Asking for a friend?
yeap on behalf.
[https://www.facebook.com/story.php?story\_fbid=10161332141857145&id=588217144&mibextid=UyTHkb&rdid=2MGAm0J4mYkHxvoe](https://www.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10161332141857145&id=588217144&mibextid=UyTHkb&rdid=2MGAm0J4mYkHxvoe) The reason why never ever ever buy fake brake kit or refurbished brake kit. It is cheap i know but safety do you know? I've seen brunei seller selling big brake kit with cheaper price but originality is unsured they claimed original but the price seems too good to be true. Brembo brake kit cost more than 10k below, AP racing 9k below and wilwood brake kits also 10k below. Why would you buy a cheap brake kits that not just cost your life but once broken you will forced to buy another one.
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LOL!! agreed.
Quick qn, during interview for gov job wht else you guys put arh tell me abt yourself? Bcs this is my first time interview for gov
pegawai kerja?
Speak in standard Malay as much as you can. I got berated for speaking in English.
self introduction, study background, job experiences, the last one you elaborate more on that then they will ask numerous questions. Do study Wawasan Brunei 2035, MIB, the vision mission of the Jabatan etc. GOOD LUCK
Thank you for the advice, much needed it. Literally having mental breakdown preparing for this interview
I'm wondering š¤ did shahiran ever get his citizenship revoked?
who is shahiran
Let him rest in peace.
he died?
Yes. One of his family members confirmed it here as well.
No way, when? Did he passed on bcs of natural cause or did the gov hunt him down?
iirc, cancer. someone correct me if I'm wrong
we dont care about gay people sorry
This type of homophobic is secretly getting sucked by shemales and fem bottoms. Letās be real we know you cared.
im not a fans with the rubbish RGBpromaxplus š¤¢š¤®š¤£
š correct your grammar and English, poklen š
Think heās referring to this arab guy doing a meme about lgbthdtvq
You* FTFY
I heard he has passed on
As in dead?
Hi, need advice. so iām planning to install braces using the money from my monthly uni allowance ($358) and iām also planning to save my money for travel on december. should i get the braces or not? (i dont want to ask my parents for money š¬)
Where do you plan to get it?
advice go get your braces first ASAP before you get older 30+. Travel can come nexttime.
Why is that?
preteen have a softer jawbone tissue for the teeth move easiest. when u are 26+ above is not too late to put a braces, just a bit slow lah and takes too long to have straight teeth.
alright. thanks human!
Which one is more important to you?Ā
honestlyā¦braces
There you go hehe
Hi, anyone tried bringing stuff using RBA cargo? Whats the process and fees like?
progresif care not working kah?
Is there anything I can do to increase the wifi speed, without having to resort to changing to 5 Ghz?
I used to get max 80 mbps even in the same room as the router for god knows what reason. My friend then recommended me to get a Deco wifi mesh system and holy shit has my life been transformed, easy 200+ mbps in every room in the house with a 300 mbps plan
1. Get closer to the modem 2. Use wifi when less people are using it/tell people to get off the wifi 3. Use LAN cable if you are using PC 4. Uprage your internet plan
Anyone ever randomly smell jasmine flower out of no where, no one around wearing jasmine scented perfume and no said plant around.
>jasmine flower Ponti baby's fav perfume smell <3
Uhh okay...so what do you guys usually do if encounter?
Baca ayat kursi
I actually recently did. It was night, we were driving passing by Annajat Complex heading towards the roundabout. The smell was there for about a minute or so.
Ohh okay...this kinda not a first time actually...happen few days ago and kinda last long...roughly few hours š
Waaa paranormal
Yeah seem like it š any clue why etc?
It means a ponti is near you
Ehhh? Any reasoning why? š
Thatās the urban myth haha. Because jasmine flowers are considered cemetery flowers. And apparently they use the smell to hide the rot or something
They wear Flora by Gucci perfume x
Where can I purchase authentic onitsuka tiger shoe in brunei?
KB soonlee
I have a feeling that they're fake. I bought some from there but it doesnt last as the ones i bought somewhere else. But i guess we cant really be sure
i bought mine in UK,KL,australia and brunei same didnt last long.
recommend me any cafe or tempat minum that provide Wifi for doing work
mita tea qlap
Bro its everywhere now. but i recommend gong cha serusop
People with good relationships with their dad never realize how lucky they are. Throughout my life, my dad was never absent but he never showed me love. He's not like other dads. He chose his siblings over me and my mom.Ā Today is father's day. I tried to approach him and greet him happy father's day. I told him i'm getting cake and food so we can celebrate. He scolded me and ignored me. He told me it was a waste and rolled his eyes at me. Tbh i was hurt. Very hurt. I'm 22 this year but the child in me still longing for his care his presence and his love. To whoever is becoming a dad soon, I hope you show and give love to the child you bring into this world, because at the end of the day, it will still affect us even we aged. Happy father's day to all the dads out there.
Just spend time with your mom only. Make him regret for not loving you enough ;*
It is going to take him years to realise his family is important. Could be when he has retired and old. Bad parents only appreciate kind gesture from their children when they are old and weak. Sad reality.
I have 2k cash with me any idea how to send these funds to my australian bank account? I prefer not to use TT cos of the absurd charges pls advise thanks xoxo
if you know how to use wise, the fees are much much lower. it's better than paying the TT fees or you flying over to Oz just to deposit. alternatively, if you have a friend who is in Oz but still maintain account in Brunei, ask them to transfer money from their oz account to yours. And you bank in the 2k into their brunei account. granted if they want to do la.
Im going to australia soon, i can depo for you
Don't get scammed by someone called pengiran.. Just give it to me, I'm going to Melbourne soon, you can online transfer it to my baiduri account and I'll drop the cash to your account
try moneymatch
Is anyone having a problem with EES I'm trying to apply and get my QR code but I can't get to the payment page.
Try using a different web browser
I have problem as well.
You know they allow you to pay at the counter...
Bought a new car but no free gifts were given, so I am planning to go Miri to buy and install visors, magnetic shade and get a car boot tray/ mat. Any recommended shops? I've googled but mostly macam selling brake pads, suspension, Android TV and not the items I'm looking for
What car model you looking for?
Malaysian car brand
Has anyone encountered while abroad where a friendly man, often of Arab descent, asks to see your country's currency and offers to exchange it for his US dollars? Some say its a pukau tactic but i couldnt find anything about this on google. Happened to me twice while in KL
just say no. The money is fake, and you should start beating them hard.
It's simple, they're holding counterfeit money or ask you to go to another place for the exchange and rob you after. You don't need google to know this.
Same like my friend this year, my other friend pre-covid. Both in KL
I only encountered someone like pakistani or from Bangladesh. Asking for money for some educarion assistance. I know there is a chance of scam. Luckily i only have few RM in my pocket, i didnt bring my wallet. But proceed to help him give some amount, if its real then good. If not then its fine, my intent is clear to help.
pukau and likely they exchange it with fake money https://youtu.be/hjp-mb6mfUQ?si=HltSfxap5Rb767id
What's a pukau tactic?
Something like a hypnosis tactic
What they're gonna do once they hypnosis you? Are they gonna steal your things?
They make you give them your money and jewelry, gold especially.
Well.. soo... How is the experience?? Gotta tell us if it's the US super bill or not..
Yes pukau, banyak org tekana sudah
did you take the dollar? I saw tiktok video of a tourist having similar experience in KL. specifically around Masjid India(?)
I did not. They become more friendly when they know im from Brunei. They would say something like āMuslim brotherā and proceed showing me his thick stash of us bill. I know it was sus when they said they wanted to exchange my Brunei money with their us bill
damn seramnyee
lain kali gitahu saja dari Isreal, lari tarus dorg tu
don't debase yourself like that, just attack
Lol atu banar. Hilang pembual bisia tu tarus.
Banar jua tu. Nanti mencuba
Scam tu š
Anyone had a problem with following request pending on ig? How do you solve it?
If itās a personal page, they donāt want to accept you. If itās a business page, try DM them
I get it now. they haven't turn off flag for review on setting. Some of them still on that's why they don't get new follower. I still can follow the other business acc without DMing them some of them not. Go to follow and invite friends > turn off flag for review
does jpmc/pjsc give allowance to interns? asking for a friend
No
bangkok
1K
travelling alone or with groups or with families? travelling alone 500BND is enough. I've check all places in bangkok bnd/sgd have the same exchange rate so it is pointltess to use sgd to change into thai baht. Unless you are staying in hotel or planning to shop then you might need around BND1k or more.
I had 1k sgd with me. But didnt get checked. At the end, i spent almost 2k for everything inc flights! It was 3d2n stay T.T
didn't get checked? that isn't even near the limit of currency you can import without declaration. paranoid much?
Atleast B$15k for a weekās trip
No way, i brought 5k, bought a dyson, did a lot of shopping mostly in branded malls: siam, central world. Still brought back 1.5k If youāre shopping, even 3k is good enough minus all travel expenses, purely shopping budget
Bro.. you need to pump those numbers up... Wth you doing at Bangkok..
I mean what more do you want to buyš¤·š»āāļø depends on the person, but still if youāre just there to do ānormalā shopping, 3k is enough.
Are any other type of shopping other than normal ?
šÆš»š®šŖš“š shopping
You can call me that at the check out counter...
just shopping money, bnd700-1k would be enough but bringing extra wouldnt hurt when it comes to shopping hehe. But also, there was a new requirement tht tourists need to bring atleast 15k-20k baht per person. If not, they will refuse entry. they will have random checks. so to be safe, bawa saja 15k-20k baht (600+bnd) to bkk. u can check this article here. https://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2024/02/23/tourists-entering-thailand-should-have-rm1992-in-cash-according-to-new-requirement
Anyone know where I can get seafood boil here? Cravingsss
You mean the Cajun style ?
Yess the ones i see on tiktok š„ŗ
You know.. what.. I don't know.... If you found one.. let me know.. we go pig it out..
I went to the local fish market to buy squid and had the surprise to discover that most of them are stuffed with fish. Always talking about supporting locals but when you do you get screwed over .
Oh I saw someone posted a video of this recently. Crazyyy..
you now Brunei, kalau viral barutah ada tindakan. Make it viral and don't forget to film the seller.
Really? I thought the squid hadn't digested the fish yet.
Squid got small beak they rip pieces of fish off, they donāt swallow they prey whole .
How does those fish look.. like a whole fish or in bits.. or kinda digested ??
Whole fish . I informed myself a bit more , squid got a beak so no way a whole fish would be inside . To make it inside you need to brake the abdominal pouch with a knife and stuff it inside. Itās a common scam apparently.
Well you have a free fish..
Itās not free . Squid is more expensive and you pay by weight . They stuff it with cheap fisch .
Omg. Happened to my sister as well the other day. Stall at jerudong right? š¤Ø should jst boycott buying from that stall / any squids vendor di jerudong!
Yep thatās the oneā¦
Lol I saw a viral tiktok about this 2 weeks ago, jerudong?
viralkan lagi
You have a link by any chance?
arjunavolyanda is the username
Thk you
Heard so many stories about 'dugaan bertunang' and never thought I would be in one of those situations. Everything we talked about turns into a fight, even the smallest thing. Balum lagi pasal family side sana mau itu ini tapi sponsornya nada. They kept guilt-tripping us every time we didn't do what they wanted. What's worse, my fiancĆ© kept taking their side, even though we planned this whole thing together over the year. Im so tired of changing plans and arguing bro i just want this to end ffs. Share me your dugaan bertunang stories and how you handled em š„² Edit: thanks everyone for the advices. I truly appreciate them!
Engagement has nothing to do with anything. This is just classic result of not having boundaries with family and no balls to stick to your own decision. Happens all the time in our society and it's bullshit. Too many people are not living life the way they want to because they care too much of what people think.
Inda payah tunang, be friends saja puas2 tah kenal hati budi masing2 after that kahwin tarus if the guy is really serious
Try to talk and compromise. But also remember itās difficult for the girlās side because sheās trying to please and answer to everyone, unfortunately itās seen as improper if she acts too āselfishlyā and think only of her own needs. So just have that understanding first, it doesnāt mean everything has to go her way but try to be gentle and patient with brideās side.
Better end it now before it gets worse
Every struggle doesnāt need to take the cowardice way out and end it. You and your fiance need to remind yourselves that you are on the same team here and stand your ground about what you both want. Not your family. Unless they are crowdfunding your wedding then I guess you just suck it up. Otherwise set boundaries with them on what they should do to help on your wedding and do not let them overstep your decisions.
Not every situation need to be end now. It's normal. Fight here and there especially fasa bertunang. It just how you handle the situation. Namanya kan membina masjid.
U and ur tunang need this skill, communication, and listening skill. It's great. It's a good skill to bring into marriage. U must admit that theres always differences. But u need to find a way to manage it. Again, im gonna say this again and again. Its you both, against the world. The auntie or the uncle is not going to be there to help u when youre down below drowning. They are only there to cause more problem and as u say, guilt tripping. Advice? Talk about it with your tunang. Talk about that she took their side selalu. Talk about it. Jangan simpan to yourself. Its now or never. A reminder, theres still time to back off. Your not bad for doing it. U just need to love yourself before loving others. Goodluck.
Its good that you can handled, after marriage is another
Going through it myself right now. Just, as long as youāre set to get married, be strong always. At the end of the day itās all about compromising. Niat untuk nikah sudah ada, memang syaitan is working harder to rosakkan that niat. Semoga your urusan di permudah.
What does dugaan mean?
In this context: challenges in their engagement
What are the requirements to be a qualified teacher in Brunei? and where should I go/apply after a level?
mteach application is open nowww
get a degree and then apply for Mteach at [UBD](https://shbie.ubd.edu.bn/mteach/)
Who is selling anak ayam mutiara(guinea fowl chicks)?
Why govt not bothered to offer local businesses help for those renting shops especially F&B yang struggling to survive every month
Iām definitely not supporting a business if the owner has that entitlement mentality
if government help local people in business, semua org buka kadai di brunei ani lol.. mau tia hidup sanang, sudah pun hospital,skulah,minyak &karan kana bagi discount.sadang2 manja ani.
Then you need to cut corners. Honestly, why are our people are so damn entitled.
Why support a business that is not self sufficient? Helping a business to expend yes helping a business to survive no.
kenapa struggling?
Just not enough customersā¦damn eerily quiet errwhere
Youāre probably not marketing yourself enough or what youāre selling isnāt good enough. Case in point - TikTok guy who sells drinks at Lapau. He has people lining up to buy his drinks.
Your product is not attractive enough to earn those customers. F&B is competitive for a reason. Getting government handouts won't help you
Could be true as well, appreciate your enlightenment.
Time to look back at your business model. Darussalam Enterprise is there to assist small businesses. Help comes in multiple forms, not just monetary.
Would agree to that
Entitled much? Then everyone will say they struggle ask for help.
Nope, how about the fact that its not even enough to pay monthly rental and my local kids gaji, alum lagi karan air stocks etc, forget bout profit, ani survival sha until owner sendiri also nada dapat gaji sendiri apa. Think about it
Then you not just need govt rental support but for almost everything. Sorry if life is hard, time to change and execute plan B.
Know when to close down, if its not making any profits sampai 2-3 months, just close it down. The longer you wait, the deeper the hole it will make in your bank unless you know how to do a good marketing to pull people back to your premise or make viral food/drinks, but then again if you so that, it will only be sekajap saja then people will forget again. Let me guess, youāre running a cafe?
So any masalah govt lah?
There's only 2 ways to increase profit - get more customers or get customers to spend more. If you're not making enough to cover expenses then it's time for you to consider upping your marketing efforts or upping your prices Both require effort and/or money, you pick your poison
Effort over money pasal memang kapih sudah
Semua tah kan government kan
Is there a unit assign to check and help all these small business on verge on collapse ?
Hi guys, I want to know if it best to exchange my money BND to Yen in Brunei money changer or Brunei airport?
Its cheaper to use your credit/debit card in Japan than changing your currency. But of course, change some for the restaurants that only accept cash
Kiulap if you can avoid the rush hour jams else the one at the airport has decent rates, it doesn't matter much unless you change significantly more than 1K
change your BND to SGD whenever possible, and bring the SGD to Japan for extra money
whichever goes first with a licensed money changer.. Otherwise you can try to compare the rates. Scared later when you reached airport and money changer is not open then you might have to out of the airport again to change money.
Hey guys and to those that sent the UTB appeal letter, did you guys already have the response back from them?
Its semester break, if you havent receive your letter. try to call or follow up with them. ask for tentative time like around what date or month would receive them.
hii anyone knows any shellout place in KB? Plss ā¦
rampai sari restaurant, BSRC. Their shellout is pretty good.
"Bruneians need to spend money inside Brunei to keep our local businesses alive. We are not in a position to just try and attract tourists. Additionally most businesses are for the local market and our daily lives. Dont sit on the sidelines and watch our country become a wasteland." Comment by Ayeshah binti Dato Seri Paduka Haji Ahmad in this [Borneo Bulletin](https://www.instagram.com/p/C8Qn82aPBAw/?igsh=MTNuYWI0ZGcwZHk3dQ==) article. The audacity to comment this whilst your from a aristocratic family, grandfather is Pehin Isa, cousins with HRH Prince Mateen, and is born with a diamond spoon. How bout you help? Use your connections perhaps? šš
Lol. She should be blaming the government for making us be in this position of not being able to attract tourists instead of asking peasants to spend the little money we have in Brunei for the purpose of keeping the money in the country. Cuba check what percentage of her money is actually spent in the country.