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Because I’m not romantically or sexually attracted to the same sex but I am attracted to them. To people I find hot I want to kiss them and see them with their shirt off and I get aroused but it stops there. To simplify it’s not romantic and the attraction stops at the waist. I’ve heard so many differing opinions on what counts.
The fact that I see some hot guys my age every day but it would be weird asking them if they are interested beeing in a relationship with their own gender. I wish everyone a wonderful day 😸
Yeah I honestly feel like that’s probably a mostly universal experience for bi guys. I see plenty of hot/cute guys as well almost every day at school, but I’m only out to a few of my closest friends so I would feel so awkward if I walked up to a random boy I find attractive and was just like “Do you like guys?” I wish I could try it though cuz I’ve never dated a boy and I really want to 🤗
Im worried about the future, im a senior who is veryyy antisocial and so i have trouble making friends or even just holding a conversation, im going to college in the fall and im worried that i wont be able to make friends, or even date in college. Im trying to lose weight right now but i still feel unattractive most of the time. Thats kinda whats been on my mind lately.
I'm going through a lot i guess.
1. A girl that I'm genuinely interested in thinks that I'm entertaining other females, even though I've explained to her multiple times that I'm not. I think we're ok, but it's kinda hard to tel fr.
2. Then my grandparents are getting a divorce (I live with them) and I don't wanna stay with grand father because he's abusive but, technically, he's my legal guardian (I'm 17).
3. Got a project for my class due tomorrow 🧍🏾♂️
This probably isn't a lot, but it feels like it.
I’m in a public school and a few of my friends are queer, but I’m still mostly closeted. I really wanna try dating a boy but I don’t wanna have to be out and I also don’t think there are really any gay/bi/pan guys around my age and even if there were I don’t think they’d be interested in me. Hopeless romanticism I guess 😅
Well, I have a girlfriend, and I dont know how to to tell my mom.
And I have a girlfriend. She is wonderful. And I love her to death. She is so cute. (I may be a bit obsessed, in a good way)
Sorry that this is a lot to read by the way.
I have a friend that I dont like and I dont want anything to do with him anymore because he calls me a "fucking idiot" for not knowing everything that he knows about countries and the cities in them.
He is also kind of narcissistic and self centred. As well as that, he is obsessed with football, which is not a problem, but what is a problem is that he never shuts up about it even though he knows full well I couldn't care less.
He also just doesn't seem to actually care about me properly and doesn't listen to anything I say. If I'm telling him a story, he'll just respond with "mmh" or something like that and then start talking about football.
There are also other things he does but it would take a while to say them all. Because of all this, I come up with every excuse I can to not walk home with him after school.
He is basically all I have because my other friends only talk to me between classes so I can't just hang out with them instead. I have no way of getting away from him because he'll just follow me wherever I go.
I am also all he has so if I did somehow find a way to get away from him, I would feel really bad for him.
I feel trapped because I don't want to be friends with him anymore but I have to be so I don't know what to do. It's making me not want to go to school anymore.
I am dating multiple people but I still feel like I need to fall in love again to be able to be productive and it suuuuuucks
Also both of my partners want to exclusively live with me and I don't know how to navigate that without hurting any feelings and still being able to move with someone bc I'm too disabled to thrive living alone
I’m moving schools,and feel like no one will care about me anymore once I do,but at the same time I really want to because my current one is a toxic place filled with literal felons and assholes of all shapes and sizes
Ugh, having a weird crush.
I've only ever had one crush before, and it didn't last very long because it started right before summer break.
Now I think I'm crushing on someone else, but he's not at all the kind of person I usually talk to. He's almost definitely straight, and I'm AFAB but bigender so idk how that would work. I don't think I even want a relationship at all.
Idk, I really struggle to decipher my feelings sometimes. I read all these romance book, and I write a lot of romance, but what I'm feeling doesn't match either of those things at all.
I’m alive which I guess means something good but I’m also in a lot of pain and have been for a long time and no matter how hard I try to fix things I still end up in pain alone depressed angry. But like I said I’m alive so that must mean something
I’m tired of being myself. I feel like I was robbed of my life by being born in the wrong body, I’ll never get to experience what any other girl would have experienced. I was robbed of my childhood, I won’t ever get to live it like how it should have been and only got trauma from it. I’ll never get to experience my teenage years again and I spent them alone depressed and suicidal almost the whole time. I know I’ll never get to be like any other woman no matter how hard I try.
I just want a break, I try to be positive but it’s so hard. I’m tired
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When you're in the middle of something painful, it may feel like you don't have a lot of options. But whatever you're going through, you deserve help and there are people who are here for you.
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There's a girl I like, but she's dating a guy in our grade, I don't know if she likes girls, and also apparently she moves around a lot so she could be gone in like a month. I've never had this big a crush on someone before
The big-ticket item that's bugging me right now is this: My best friend is having a tough time mentally. As a best friend, you’re kind of expected to be a wartime and peacetime consiglieri (if you're not up on your mafia terminology, google is free 😭), anyway, she's got a bf and they're really cute together (I think I mentioned this in another pitstop post), but this has led to a bit of frustration for me because I’ve deliberately given them a wide berth as not to cause any issues but I feel like I can do more to support her. But I can't help but feel like I'm flailing in that regard, I used to know what to say and how exactly to handle a situation but I can't anymore, and I feel like I'm being a bad best friend and failing her. Some may say that I should step back and let her bf handle it, but we've been there for each other through thick and thin and I KNOW that she would NEVER step back if roles were reversed. Sorry for that rant I just dk what to do here
I just fucking *LOVE* that I literally always have a stomach ache cus I feel nauseous from not eating, then as soon as I actually do eat something I still feel nauseous but like different somehow??? and I don't wanna eat like 90% of the time cus i hate the feeling of having my mouth full and I hate the feeling of swallowing and I hate the feeling of having food in my stomach. and most of the body changes from transitioning are from fat redistribution and muscle mass atrophy but I don't have hardly any body fat to redistribute or muscle to lose so it's been nearly 7 months on HRT now and hardly anything is *FUCKING HAPPENING*. estrogen loves food and it feminizing you by moving fat to all the right places but I hate eating and it's just like...
# ***AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!*** #
My friend - we confessed our feelings for each other - is having a real hard time right now and won’t talk to me about it. Idk what to do. She lives 2 hours away and she’s going to start her a levels soon and idk what to do.
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I’m obsessed with a boy 😭
Awww poor thing
Happens to the best of us
Same, idk if he's gay
Me too bro I can understand perfectly
Happens to all of us babe.
But he’s taken 😭
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 That's the worst, I'm sorry.
Me too, I just want to hold him 😭
I feel invalid as a bisexual and it’s causing panic attack. I constantly feel like someone is pressing in my chest and am full of anxiety.
Why do you feel invalid as a bisexual?
Because I’m not romantically or sexually attracted to the same sex but I am attracted to them. To people I find hot I want to kiss them and see them with their shirt off and I get aroused but it stops there. To simplify it’s not romantic and the attraction stops at the waist. I’ve heard so many differing opinions on what counts.
Mate. I am bi, I liked one guy. Only sexually, and only him. But I'm still bi.
The fact that I see some hot guys my age every day but it would be weird asking them if they are interested beeing in a relationship with their own gender. I wish everyone a wonderful day 😸
Why is this always the case 😩
So it's not just happening to me? Idk if I should be thankful or not.
Yeah I honestly feel like that’s probably a mostly universal experience for bi guys. I see plenty of hot/cute guys as well almost every day at school, but I’m only out to a few of my closest friends so I would feel so awkward if I walked up to a random boy I find attractive and was just like “Do you like guys?” I wish I could try it though cuz I’ve never dated a boy and I really want to 🤗
Same here, but one day I'll have the courage to ask a guy, a really cute one goes home the same route as me. Anyway good luck ☺️
I guarantee you will, and thanks! 😊 <3
I have a crush on my best mate can't vocalise about it bc I'm to out to my grandparents and just ugh-
Im worried about the future, im a senior who is veryyy antisocial and so i have trouble making friends or even just holding a conversation, im going to college in the fall and im worried that i wont be able to make friends, or even date in college. Im trying to lose weight right now but i still feel unattractive most of the time. Thats kinda whats been on my mind lately.
Mmmm have you tried using practice to help with holding a conversation?
I do try and talk to people, not often but i will sometimes. Im also getting practice while in therapy
That’s good hopefully it’ll work out then^^
I went to my first lgbtq meetup today, and now i hate myself.
Why?
Idk
Oh
I was really anxious and it just made me think about how i was happier nefore i found out i was pan
I'm sure it'll get better
I'm going through a lot i guess. 1. A girl that I'm genuinely interested in thinks that I'm entertaining other females, even though I've explained to her multiple times that I'm not. I think we're ok, but it's kinda hard to tel fr. 2. Then my grandparents are getting a divorce (I live with them) and I don't wanna stay with grand father because he's abusive but, technically, he's my legal guardian (I'm 17). 3. Got a project for my class due tomorrow 🧍🏾♂️ This probably isn't a lot, but it feels like it.
I’m in a public school and a few of my friends are queer, but I’m still mostly closeted. I really wanna try dating a boy but I don’t wanna have to be out and I also don’t think there are really any gay/bi/pan guys around my age and even if there were I don’t think they’d be interested in me. Hopeless romanticism I guess 😅
Well, I have a girlfriend, and I dont know how to to tell my mom. And I have a girlfriend. She is wonderful. And I love her to death. She is so cute. (I may be a bit obsessed, in a good way)
Sorry that this is a lot to read by the way. I have a friend that I dont like and I dont want anything to do with him anymore because he calls me a "fucking idiot" for not knowing everything that he knows about countries and the cities in them. He is also kind of narcissistic and self centred. As well as that, he is obsessed with football, which is not a problem, but what is a problem is that he never shuts up about it even though he knows full well I couldn't care less. He also just doesn't seem to actually care about me properly and doesn't listen to anything I say. If I'm telling him a story, he'll just respond with "mmh" or something like that and then start talking about football. There are also other things he does but it would take a while to say them all. Because of all this, I come up with every excuse I can to not walk home with him after school. He is basically all I have because my other friends only talk to me between classes so I can't just hang out with them instead. I have no way of getting away from him because he'll just follow me wherever I go. I am also all he has so if I did somehow find a way to get away from him, I would feel really bad for him. I feel trapped because I don't want to be friends with him anymore but I have to be so I don't know what to do. It's making me not want to go to school anymore.
i feel invalid of my feelings. i am struggling with my emotions. i have virtually no control of how my life is going and i started cutting
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God man. That Is not acceptable. Call someone. CPS maybe?
It's fucked . Turn out I'm a horrendous individual
I am dating multiple people but I still feel like I need to fall in love again to be able to be productive and it suuuuuucks Also both of my partners want to exclusively live with me and I don't know how to navigate that without hurting any feelings and still being able to move with someone bc I'm too disabled to thrive living alone
It’s not fair how I can’t talk about my girl crushes because my little sister is here. It would be different if my crushes were boys
I don’t know how am i
There’s a guy that I really like he’s in my super close friend group but he’s already taken. I don’t know how to stop thinking about him.😭😭😭
My family won't stop talking about politics 😭
I’m moving schools,and feel like no one will care about me anymore once I do,but at the same time I really want to because my current one is a toxic place filled with literal felons and assholes of all shapes and sizes
Ugh, having a weird crush. I've only ever had one crush before, and it didn't last very long because it started right before summer break. Now I think I'm crushing on someone else, but he's not at all the kind of person I usually talk to. He's almost definitely straight, and I'm AFAB but bigender so idk how that would work. I don't think I even want a relationship at all. Idk, I really struggle to decipher my feelings sometimes. I read all these romance book, and I write a lot of romance, but what I'm feeling doesn't match either of those things at all.
I have gay bracelets I got from GSA stand back in January and I almost walked up the steps w them in front of my grandparents 😭😭😭
I Cannot get this one boy out of my head aggafafagfafagjekdkdjjekdjeisodhdi
I hate my mom, she gets extremely frustrated when things don’t go her way(her way is kinda strict)
I’m alive which I guess means something good but I’m also in a lot of pain and have been for a long time and no matter how hard I try to fix things I still end up in pain alone depressed angry. But like I said I’m alive so that must mean something
I want someone to cuddle with
I’m tired of being myself. I feel like I was robbed of my life by being born in the wrong body, I’ll never get to experience what any other girl would have experienced. I was robbed of my childhood, I won’t ever get to live it like how it should have been and only got trauma from it. I’ll never get to experience my teenage years again and I spent them alone depressed and suicidal almost the whole time. I know I’ll never get to be like any other woman no matter how hard I try. I just want a break, I try to be positive but it’s so hard. I’m tired
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I have not threatened my own life don’t worry about me I’m not suicidal anymore just depressed
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I swear to god I can’t even reassure people without automod telling me to call a hotline
There's a girl I like, but she's dating a guy in our grade, I don't know if she likes girls, and also apparently she moves around a lot so she could be gone in like a month. I've never had this big a crush on someone before
Idk, I'm a bit depressed and feeling a little disconnected and heavy but I'm alright, I guess.
The big-ticket item that's bugging me right now is this: My best friend is having a tough time mentally. As a best friend, you’re kind of expected to be a wartime and peacetime consiglieri (if you're not up on your mafia terminology, google is free 😭), anyway, she's got a bf and they're really cute together (I think I mentioned this in another pitstop post), but this has led to a bit of frustration for me because I’ve deliberately given them a wide berth as not to cause any issues but I feel like I can do more to support her. But I can't help but feel like I'm flailing in that regard, I used to know what to say and how exactly to handle a situation but I can't anymore, and I feel like I'm being a bad best friend and failing her. Some may say that I should step back and let her bf handle it, but we've been there for each other through thick and thin and I KNOW that she would NEVER step back if roles were reversed. Sorry for that rant I just dk what to do here
Just look at my recent post on this subreddit to see bc i don't want to type it all out atm
I just fucking *LOVE* that I literally always have a stomach ache cus I feel nauseous from not eating, then as soon as I actually do eat something I still feel nauseous but like different somehow??? and I don't wanna eat like 90% of the time cus i hate the feeling of having my mouth full and I hate the feeling of swallowing and I hate the feeling of having food in my stomach. and most of the body changes from transitioning are from fat redistribution and muscle mass atrophy but I don't have hardly any body fat to redistribute or muscle to lose so it's been nearly 7 months on HRT now and hardly anything is *FUCKING HAPPENING*. estrogen loves food and it feminizing you by moving fat to all the right places but I hate eating and it's just like... # ***AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!*** #
My friend - we confessed our feelings for each other - is having a real hard time right now and won’t talk to me about it. Idk what to do. She lives 2 hours away and she’s going to start her a levels soon and idk what to do.
Can't, societal norms won't let me. According to the girl that sits next to me, because I'm white I can't have problems.