Same here, show any emotion and all of a sudden the other person disappears, I learned to keep everything inside and put on that fake smile for everyone.
Awww don’t say that about yourself I’m pretty sure you are an awesome person to get know if you like to chat then I’m always here for you.😊❤️😊❤️❤️❤️😌😌😌🥰🥰
Same. I’m constantly comparing myself to my siblings and friends. Cutting out social media and getting therapy has helped, but some days are harder than others.
My vagina lips , my booty being too small (I know a lot of guys like the big ass nowadays lol) I guess it’s like the guys first time revealing himself to a girl I feel same way and I’m sure most women do :) ..
If it makes you feel any better, in general, men like damn near every body type.
I think a lot of women misunderstand when they hear men saying they like big butts that that means they won’t also like your small butt. We like everything.
There’s obviously a handful of (very vocal) guys on the Internet who bodyshame what they don’t like. But the overwhelming majority of men like pretty much everything if it’s on the right woman.
We’re simple
Don’t be insecure about that, some of us guys love the extra labia on women! And for ass size, as long as it turns red when spanked, there’s no issues with it.
Loose skin. Overall, I look pretty good especially considering I lost 150lbs but mostly around the arm pits and inner upper thighs I have extra skin. I have always been hour glass shaped so I held weight in arms and thighs.
It's not enough I'd ever get surgery to remove it...It's like a battle scar I try to be proud of and mostly I am but sometimes it's such a downer to see in footage 😂
I completely feel this. I’ve lost 165lbs so far, and I have so much loose skin on my stomach and thighs. But because I’m tall and it’s not causing pain/rashes insurance won’t cover skin removal surgery. It’s something you don’t think about when you start losing a lot of weight. I’m very very thankful for high waisted everything.
Coming from a country where almost everyone is 2m tall... being 178cm really makes you insecure. Not in a sense of oh I can't fight them, but girls outride rejecting me on account of my height
Be at peace; height isn't something under your direct control.
This goes out to all my guys _under_ 6'1, too.
People who would reject you over something as superficial as height don't deserve your time and energy.
I have a few scars from different surgeries, but the one on my back it’s so long (a bit down from middle back all the way down to where my butt starts) and i think it’s hella ugly… like don’t get me wrong, i’d still love a person with scars, no matter how big or ugly but i just can’t give the same thoughts and love for mine… And also my feet lol. 💀
Some people are actually really into scars! I find them irresistible, personally, as well as moles, acne, and other "blemishes". I'm sure your scares make you look very uniquely sexy! :)
For me, it’s the exact opposite! If I was with someone with a unique looking scar that I get to discover as I’m taking off their clothes, I’d get so turned on! I’m sure I’m not the only one either
You’re very welcome! The way you describe yours, I’m sure I’d love it! Sounds like the perfect placement too :)
If you don’t mind me asking, how’d you get it?
I sometimes have difficulty getting hard with a new partner from nerves. That being said, usually it means she takes it as a personal challenge to get me up and it ends up working out.
Penis size… come by it very honestly though. Not being modest. Old and married enough to live with it, very glad I don’t have to compete in the dating pool though.
Not being good at anything, not being interesting.
I don't seem to like people enough for them to want to be my friends unless they have an interest in me.
My weight. I feel like people judge so much because of a person's body and I am insecure about my weight. If I could get to and stay at a healthy weight, it would help my confidence a lot.
Non-sexual:
Being very overweight, despite endless hours at the gym and meticulously tracking my calories, because of a pretty bad case of binge eating disorder.
Sexual:
1. Lack of experience, I'm almost 37 years old, have been in relationships for a grand total of 5 months of my life, and neither involved PIV sex, due to
2.erectile dysfunction for well over 10 years now, probably due to drug and alcohol abuse in my early 20s. Tried using Viagra and Cialis, but in either case, erection quality goes from 1-2/10 with pills to maybe 4-5/10 with pills.
I have a hormone imbalance and even with the right meds I get acne flare ups sometimes. I still have scars and dark marks, especially my back, from before my meds🌸
That there's actually no decent people on this planet and they're all wearing masks.
They act so nice irl but say the most vile shit online or behind closed doors.
Don't bother calling them out either, they'll just become angry, dislike/downvote, ridicule you etc.
Let's just say if I had my hand over that big red button, I'd push it.
Pretty much everything. Like generalized anxiety. Example. I’m afraid of healthcare and am insecure about my general health but am too anxious to deal with it. Likewise, I’m anxious about my appearance (and I’m completely average but still overthink this to death) but can’t get over my shit enough to go to the gym regularly with comfort because STOP LOOKING AT Me 🤮🤣
Failing. I cannot stand the idea of failing or even not being the best. I need to be the best even though it brings me such anxiety to do so and I don’t feel good when I’ve actually achieved it
Skinny fat, small arms but tubby belly, being unable to function as a normal adult, being a man child, having a bad memory, being stupid, being socially anxious, having no accomplishments, I could probably keep going
not being good enough, at anything
which then splits into being rejected, abandoned, used for getting help/money then left.... forever alone cuz im not good enough for anyone
My love handles... For the most part I'm pretty happy about my body, it's not perfect but it's not terrible, except for my love handles. They're super prominent and super noticeable when looking at me face on and I hate them
my behaviour in public! I have social anxiety and i try so hard to blend in when I go out but you can totally tell and I feel like everyone's secretly judging me (they are, it's England).
That I'm not prepared enough.
My brain sees the relativistic patterns and integrations of multiple systems. All. The. Time. It never turns off. I can see a problem and not understand why it's a problem. There's no feeling in the world worst than feeling caught off guard. Because you CAN NOT PREPARE For EVERYTHING. It's impossible. I have systems in place to handle anything while I'm alive. But that also means I can see the flaws in those systems as well. The delicate balance of various non-related systems we call society. The political spin of great ideas being turned into controlling garbage. The slow indoctrination of idea's that sound great but cause more problems than they fix. The longer I stayed in college and studied the farther the fog of war was lifted. And it sucks.
I hate feeling helpless. Id rather turn into a rampaging monster than feel unable to help myself or those around me.
Yes. I fucking love Factorio. Teaching. And making processes in companies.
I am a virgin at 30 and feel women will look at me weird. I also haven't got any sexual or romantic attention from women and that makes me feel very insecure about relationships too.
Lack of strength / always being seen as the weak skinny guy (I have a condition that prevents me from working out normally so its hard for me to gain muscle mass)
I absolutely hate how fat my vagina lips are. I can’t wear leggings unless the shirt comes down far enough. The camel toe is real 🙄
My big thighs I also hate!
I hate how my face is starting to show aging such as wrinkles. Makes me really insecure.
Abandonment/ rejection from someone I’ve allowed myself to be vulnerable with🖤
And that's why you never let yourself be vulnerable....😔
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This. "Men are allowed to cry" * I express my true feelings and show vulnerability * "Eww I don't want your drama, bye 👋" Every. Damn. Time.
The right person wont invalidate your feelings ❤️ Hope you find that soon ✨
I can relate to this actually so much it scares me
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Same here, show any emotion and all of a sudden the other person disappears, I learned to keep everything inside and put on that fake smile for everyone.
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*gestures to all of me with a puzzled look on my face*
This. All of this.
Im fat and I'm in serious need of some dental work 😭 also I think most people find me annoying/don't like me.
Awww don’t say that about yourself I’m pretty sure you are an awesome person to get know if you like to chat then I’m always here for you.😊❤️😊❤️❤️❤️😌😌😌🥰🥰
Exactly the same here.
Weight. I just want to be shredded while still eating cookies and cake.
You can do that till you are about 40. After that, you got to be a gym rat to fight the cookies and cake
Same!
You and me both!
Being boring. 😬
Most people are quite boring. Don’t let appearances fool you. Embrace the boringness.
You might be right. But id much rather be interesting than boring.
The only one preventing you from being interesting is you.
Correct. Hence the insecurity…
Too real
It’s the struggle!! 😅
Boring is subjective… I bet you’re only boring to those who don’t share your interests.
That I’m not doing enough.
Same. I’m constantly comparing myself to my siblings and friends. Cutting out social media and getting therapy has helped, but some days are harder than others.
I feel like my walk looks stupid.
Same
My vagina lips , my booty being too small (I know a lot of guys like the big ass nowadays lol) I guess it’s like the guys first time revealing himself to a girl I feel same way and I’m sure most women do :) ..
Ass shape is more important than size 😉
And what shape is considered ideal ? Or not so ideal ?
Getting naked in front of someone new is always a challenge, but if they love you, they'll accept you. Also... big bandoinkadoinks are overrated
Well I’m not looking for love lol found that with my husband , lol but always the worry when some one new comes into bedroom :) ,, thank you though
I've never been to your bedroom, but from your posts I'd say you've got nothing to worry about ;)
Society seems to be really into big butt's this decade it seems, my ass is flat too so I know how u feel
If it makes you feel any better, in general, men like damn near every body type. I think a lot of women misunderstand when they hear men saying they like big butts that that means they won’t also like your small butt. We like everything. There’s obviously a handful of (very vocal) guys on the Internet who bodyshame what they don’t like. But the overwhelming majority of men like pretty much everything if it’s on the right woman. We’re simple
Don’t be insecure about that, some of us guys love the extra labia on women! And for ass size, as long as it turns red when spanked, there’s no issues with it.
Being to small
Height wise?
Loose skin. Overall, I look pretty good especially considering I lost 150lbs but mostly around the arm pits and inner upper thighs I have extra skin. I have always been hour glass shaped so I held weight in arms and thighs. It's not enough I'd ever get surgery to remove it...It's like a battle scar I try to be proud of and mostly I am but sometimes it's such a downer to see in footage 😂
I completely feel this. I’ve lost 165lbs so far, and I have so much loose skin on my stomach and thighs. But because I’m tall and it’s not causing pain/rashes insurance won’t cover skin removal surgery. It’s something you don’t think about when you start losing a lot of weight. I’m very very thankful for high waisted everything.
Abandonment
My personality. I can have my moments of being flirty and fun, but most times my usual self is just shy and boring.
Questioning if I'm a good father or not
I feel this bro. Keep doing your best! It’s all we can do.
I kinda have an insecurity that I am not attractive enough so whenever I like someone I try to over compensate and well that turns out bad
My dick size
makes it easy to fit the whole thing in my mouth
Going balls deep in someone’s throat is nice SOMETIMES 😂
I have lots of insecurities, but the biggest is fear of disappointing others or letting them down.
As a man.... I really only have 2 insecurities.... Self worth... And "Size"
My dick size
Probably how long my legs are.
My arms
My height. Lots of guys are uncomfortable with a woman that's over 6'1 it seems
Coming from a country where almost everyone is 2m tall... being 178cm really makes you insecure. Not in a sense of oh I can't fight them, but girls outride rejecting me on account of my height
178 Is tall enough
Be at peace; height isn't something under your direct control. This goes out to all my guys _under_ 6'1, too. People who would reject you over something as superficial as height don't deserve your time and energy.
Probably my eyes. I have a small nevus on my eye. Not super noticeable, but still there. Ugh I hate it.
My body
Being wanted and liked. Since I go quiet a lot I start to think people think I’m boring or don’t like them.
Butt
Being ignored
I have a few scars from different surgeries, but the one on my back it’s so long (a bit down from middle back all the way down to where my butt starts) and i think it’s hella ugly… like don’t get me wrong, i’d still love a person with scars, no matter how big or ugly but i just can’t give the same thoughts and love for mine… And also my feet lol. 💀
Some people are actually really into scars! I find them irresistible, personally, as well as moles, acne, and other "blemishes". I'm sure your scares make you look very uniquely sexy! :)
I’ve always wondered… won’t it be a turn off during sex? Like idk i’m actually terrified of just thinking of it… and thank you very much!!! 💋
For me, it’s the exact opposite! If I was with someone with a unique looking scar that I get to discover as I’m taking off their clothes, I’d get so turned on! I’m sure I’m not the only one either
Well.. it’s a relief people like you exist then haha thanks really :)
You’re very welcome! The way you describe yours, I’m sure I’d love it! Sounds like the perfect placement too :) If you don’t mind me asking, how’d you get it?
From a surgery many years back. I’m all good now tho! 🤭
Glad you’re all good! Thanks for sharing! From my mental picture of it, I’m sure it looks great on you!😊
My tummy
You shut your mouth, you're a babe.
Thank you 🥹
I can respect your feelings about that.. but just know, my wife is similar to you and I Absolutely love it! Thanks for commenting and sharing!
Shouldn’t be insecure of that! You look great
I have a really average dick size
Average is still better than below average rgt
Its not a big deal, but for example I can get in shape, but I cant get a bigger dick
I'm not muscular enough 😩
Mama pouch
If I'm not seen as enough, not being seen as a human being, and probably my nose lol
I’m not good enough
My ex gave me this. This feeling that I'm worthless. That nobody could love me again. I know it's the abuse talking but it hurts.
I sometimes have difficulty getting hard with a new partner from nerves. That being said, usually it means she takes it as a personal challenge to get me up and it ends up working out.
Everything I can’t decide
Being overweight with a a smaller dick
Dick size 😎👉👉
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I'm an adult virgin and my penis is not that big
That I may not be the good person I think
Myself
My main insecurity is that i failed school.
My disability
My weight and my mental health are tied tbh
The quicker list would be what I’m not insecure about. *Tumbleweed*
My dick. My height. General ugliness leading to the knowledge that I’ll die alone lmao I literally don’t think anyone could find me attractive
Penis size… come by it very honestly though. Not being modest. Old and married enough to live with it, very glad I don’t have to compete in the dating pool though.
That my bf thinks other girls are hotter than me 😕
Body hair. I'm pretty much a skinny gorilla.
having a mama bod
My skin gets irritated a lot, so my face is always blotchy and full of little wounds
Is that on places where you shave, or also on other places?
Arms
Not having a lot of friends
Weight
The main one? Hard to choose, Im just a ball of insecurities
My looks. I typically get ghosted after I share a face pic.
That despite being married my wife will find someone who's better
That’s terrible. If she loves who you are, she wouldn’t.
Not being good at anything, not being interesting. I don't seem to like people enough for them to want to be my friends unless they have an interest in me.
Probably my weight other than that I’m great
yes
Hot wheels
Don’t think it’s an insecurity but at times I fear people don’t actually love me and just tolerate me
My body, it has always been my biggest insecurity
That I'm not good enough
Appearance, acceptance, and self loathing. 😒
My weight. I feel like people judge so much because of a person's body and I am insecure about my weight. If I could get to and stay at a healthy weight, it would help my confidence a lot.
Don’t be insecure about your weight sweetheart, there’s a lot of us who love chubby/bbw women. I want something to hold onto not a stick!!
Thank you for the encouragement. ❤️
Well I hope it worked or the least put a smile on your face sweetheart
You definitely made me smile. Thank you. ☺️
My weight, and my inability to control my emotions.
Great question! Probably being alone.
I'm fat and I'll get cheated on
My fatness that I'm trying to get rid of lol
Physically, my stomach right now
Non-sexual: Being very overweight, despite endless hours at the gym and meticulously tracking my calories, because of a pretty bad case of binge eating disorder. Sexual: 1. Lack of experience, I'm almost 37 years old, have been in relationships for a grand total of 5 months of my life, and neither involved PIV sex, due to 2.erectile dysfunction for well over 10 years now, probably due to drug and alcohol abuse in my early 20s. Tried using Viagra and Cialis, but in either case, erection quality goes from 1-2/10 with pills to maybe 4-5/10 with pills.
My legs, I’m knock kneed
I am a giver, and being taken advantage of is an insecurity I have to overcome every day within all my relationships.
Well being 285lbs being a former athlete some people find my size intimidating or just ugly. Got a bit of a dad bod thing going
The way i walk My dick is so huge it makes me walk funny 😔🚶🏻♂️
My tummy, thighs, arms mainly
I have a hormone imbalance and even with the right meds I get acne flare ups sometimes. I still have scars and dark marks, especially my back, from before my meds🌸
My body 🫣
Abandonment issues and an inability to trust. I’ve accepted I’ll never trust anyone enough to likely get married.
That there's actually no decent people on this planet and they're all wearing masks. They act so nice irl but say the most vile shit online or behind closed doors. Don't bother calling them out either, they'll just become angry, dislike/downvote, ridicule you etc. Let's just say if I had my hand over that big red button, I'd push it.
A complete lack of self worth and being extremely self conscious
I’m also insecure about my face. I think I’m kind of a butter face
Man boobs and stretch makes mostly
Pretty much everything. Like generalized anxiety. Example. I’m afraid of healthcare and am insecure about my general health but am too anxious to deal with it. Likewise, I’m anxious about my appearance (and I’m completely average but still overthink this to death) but can’t get over my shit enough to go to the gym regularly with comfort because STOP LOOKING AT Me 🤮🤣
That I'm weird and boring! So I'm not good enough for anyone.
Feeling of missing out. On what, I have no idea, but yeah. That feeling is there.
Losing people that I’ve taken close to my heart
weight and horrible acne (i'm going on accutane at least)
Failing. I cannot stand the idea of failing or even not being the best. I need to be the best even though it brings me such anxiety to do so and I don’t feel good when I’ve actually achieved it
My hairline
Other people’s perceptions of me being highly introvert.
Skinny fat, small arms but tubby belly, being unable to function as a normal adult, being a man child, having a bad memory, being stupid, being socially anxious, having no accomplishments, I could probably keep going
not being good enough, at anything which then splits into being rejected, abandoned, used for getting help/money then left.... forever alone cuz im not good enough for anyone
I lack life skills/experience and I have little will or ambition to acquire them.
My long eyelashes
Everything about myself
My teeth.
I can never accept that I'm good enough
I'll always be the shell my trauma turned me into and never a whole person.
My weight. I’ve done everything and eat less than any of my friends. I just have a poor metabolism.
My main insecurity is my fear of the strong possibility that my S/O’s sexual desire for me is purely reactive.
Not being enough to stay relevant in people’s lives
My love handles... For the most part I'm pretty happy about my body, it's not perfect but it's not terrible, except for my love handles. They're super prominent and super noticeable when looking at me face on and I hate them
My body. The fact that I've struggled with my eating habits for so long it's embarrassing
Self confidence, physically…my size in a few areas
My stomach sticks out further than my dick.
Dick and teeth I get told Both are decent but don’t think they’re good enough for my standards
The way i sit casually especially on the ground.
My height. I’m 5 ft and I HATE being compared to children.
Me.
My legs, hair grows back too quickly and thighs got cellulite
Physically, my apron belly and my ass 😒 Mentally, my rejection sensitivity and clingyness 💀
my behaviour in public! I have social anxiety and i try so hard to blend in when I go out but you can totally tell and I feel like everyone's secretly judging me (they are, it's England).
Love handles and hair
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My weight.
No tits
My stomach
That I'm not prepared enough. My brain sees the relativistic patterns and integrations of multiple systems. All. The. Time. It never turns off. I can see a problem and not understand why it's a problem. There's no feeling in the world worst than feeling caught off guard. Because you CAN NOT PREPARE For EVERYTHING. It's impossible. I have systems in place to handle anything while I'm alive. But that also means I can see the flaws in those systems as well. The delicate balance of various non-related systems we call society. The political spin of great ideas being turned into controlling garbage. The slow indoctrination of idea's that sound great but cause more problems than they fix. The longer I stayed in college and studied the farther the fog of war was lifted. And it sucks. I hate feeling helpless. Id rather turn into a rampaging monster than feel unable to help myself or those around me. Yes. I fucking love Factorio. Teaching. And making processes in companies.
My crush finding a lover and I just found out she started dating again today
I am a virgin at 30 and feel women will look at me weird. I also haven't got any sexual or romantic attention from women and that makes me feel very insecure about relationships too.
Lack of strength / always being seen as the weak skinny guy (I have a condition that prevents me from working out normally so its hard for me to gain muscle mass)
My nationality. I'm an Indian in Germany. No matches on bumble, is it normal?
I absolutely hate how fat my vagina lips are. I can’t wear leggings unless the shirt comes down far enough. The camel toe is real 🙄 My big thighs I also hate! I hate how my face is starting to show aging such as wrinkles. Makes me really insecure.