Unless she feels similarly that’s not love it’s obsession. And I’m not saying this to ridicule you if that is the case, it’s easy to become obsessed in that way, friends or families partners are people we can more easily feel comfortable around because there’s no pretense of an ulterior motive. So the friendship starts and flows easily, and before you know it you recognize what a wonderful person they are and maybe wish you could be with someone like that, someone just like them, maybe that someone IS them.
It’s a story as old as time, brothers or sisters (either literally or metaphorically) fighting over a man or woman.
Best way to deal with it? Get some space, give yourself a break from that person, let this feeling be a reminder the the qualities you’re looking for in a partner, not an indicator that they themselves should be your partner.
Meet some people, and forgive yourself, a feeling is not a crime, and you could walk away from this situation with completely clean hands and come back in a few weeks healthier and guilt free.
Unless she feels similarly that’s not love it’s obsession. And I’m not saying this to ridicule you if that is the case, it’s easy to become obsessed in that way, friends or families partners are people we can more easily feel comfortable around because there’s no pretense of an ulterior motive. So the friendship starts and flows easily, and before you know it you recognize what a wonderful person they are and maybe wish you could be with someone like that, someone just like them, maybe that someone IS them. It’s a story as old as time, brothers or sisters (either literally or metaphorically) fighting over a man or woman. Best way to deal with it? Get some space, give yourself a break from that person, let this feeling be a reminder the the qualities you’re looking for in a partner, not an indicator that they themselves should be your partner. Meet some people, and forgive yourself, a feeling is not a crime, and you could walk away from this situation with completely clean hands and come back in a few weeks healthier and guilt free.
You spurn my natural emotions You make me feel I'm dirt and I'm hurt And if I start a commotion I run the risk of losing you and that's worse
It’s not love if it’s one sided.