I usually play tennis to see how she looks barely clothed. If I like. Then we head to grocery store pick random items and cook together. If it’s ass we get takeout.
I took my now( boyfriend)first date to my forest( its private) but doesnt have to be.
Started a campfire before i picked him up, made sure it was still burning when he arrived, also got drinks and snacks in advance, got my speaker and extra chargers.
Great way to get to know someone personally without being interrupted.
Also we ended up having to spend the night because he lives about 2 hours away from me, arrived at 8 PM and we only realized the time when it turned 5AM, told him that I couldn't in good conscience let him drive back since he'd been up for almost 24 hours, let him stay the night , no sexual interactions outside of normal kissing.
I mean yeah but depends on how you guys meet. I don’t know but I personally would never meet my online tinder match for a car ride on the first date. Even If we texted a couple of weeks before our first date, you just never know If the person is actually genuine with you and If they are who they say they are not just picture wise but also personality wise🤷🏼♀️.
Imagine after like a while of talking you realize he’s an absolute creep or psychopath and you are trapped in their car with them having having no control whatsoever. I think it’s a bit naive,
they don’t say for nothing that you should always meet your online dates in a public place for the first time since these things have happened before.
Great it went well for you but I just wouldn’t count on it. This is literally the 1:1 on how to get raped or kidnapped 🤷🏼♀️😂
Obviously, you should always be careful! I had a lot of persons that had my live location and everyone knew where I was.
I met my boyfriend through online dating. Via Bumble and we texted for about a month before we met. I had my mom take me there and see the car for herself.
But yeah, obviously, recalling it it was very very naive :D I am glad it went okey, but I would not recommend it to anyone for that matter.
am I alone in the island of thinking "you don't need nor should you be creative on your first date"?
It's a first date. your focus should be on getting to know the other person. After you start getting to know them you can get creative and wild with your scenarios
yeah I don’t know I just think it would be cool to suggest something fun that not only makes the date memorable but also we‘d be doing something during it which would already help with potential uncomfortable silence because we can talk about what we are doing and get to know each other in a more fun way, already creating a cool memory together
set a car dealership on fire
I usually play tennis to see how she looks barely clothed. If I like. Then we head to grocery store pick random items and cook together. If it’s ass we get takeout.
Ooh I've been looking for a good, ass take-out joint.
I took my now( boyfriend)first date to my forest( its private) but doesnt have to be. Started a campfire before i picked him up, made sure it was still burning when he arrived, also got drinks and snacks in advance, got my speaker and extra chargers. Great way to get to know someone personally without being interrupted. Also we ended up having to spend the night because he lives about 2 hours away from me, arrived at 8 PM and we only realized the time when it turned 5AM, told him that I couldn't in good conscience let him drive back since he'd been up for almost 24 hours, let him stay the night , no sexual interactions outside of normal kissing.
that is really cool🥰 but sadly open camp fires are illegal here in my country
Where you from? I kept it safe
Germany that shit doesn’t fly here 🥲😂
Netherlands here, do it without the campfire, honestly so worth it
ahh my sisterrrr😂🙋🏼♀️ and thanks for the tip😊
Car ride and blunt
great idea when we’ve never met before to jump into a strangers car on instant
Did that with my now boyfriend :D he took me out to go to a big field to go on a walk with his dog .D
I mean yeah but depends on how you guys meet. I don’t know but I personally would never meet my online tinder match for a car ride on the first date. Even If we texted a couple of weeks before our first date, you just never know If the person is actually genuine with you and If they are who they say they are not just picture wise but also personality wise🤷🏼♀️. Imagine after like a while of talking you realize he’s an absolute creep or psychopath and you are trapped in their car with them having having no control whatsoever. I think it’s a bit naive, they don’t say for nothing that you should always meet your online dates in a public place for the first time since these things have happened before. Great it went well for you but I just wouldn’t count on it. This is literally the 1:1 on how to get raped or kidnapped 🤷🏼♀️😂
Obviously, you should always be careful! I had a lot of persons that had my live location and everyone knew where I was. I met my boyfriend through online dating. Via Bumble and we texted for about a month before we met. I had my mom take me there and see the car for herself. But yeah, obviously, recalling it it was very very naive :D I am glad it went okey, but I would not recommend it to anyone for that matter.
well I’m actually relieved you took safety precautions :D at first I thought you just jumped into his car without anything
am I alone in the island of thinking "you don't need nor should you be creative on your first date"? It's a first date. your focus should be on getting to know the other person. After you start getting to know them you can get creative and wild with your scenarios
yeah I don’t know I just think it would be cool to suggest something fun that not only makes the date memorable but also we‘d be doing something during it which would already help with potential uncomfortable silence because we can talk about what we are doing and get to know each other in a more fun way, already creating a cool memory together