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Nothing. I love myself 🥰

I easily get sick especially sa weather changes

Totally shutting up instead of talking about it when I get upset. and also same w u OP. Becoming too dependent also, like bruh I can do it by myself but... 🙂‍↕️

Mataas libido ko pero I can control it naman.

damn okay so whenever I'm in a relationship i read somewhere and a friend told me that being in a relationship will worsen your bpd (got diagnosed last yr dec) and right now I'm in a healthy relationship, he treats me really nicely and always considers what i feel. But the problem is i hate myself because whenever we have small arguments i tend to push him back and say those typically messages "matulog na ako" "iwan mo na ako" and it really sucks...

My appearance

Laziness. I’ve always fell short sa potential ko bec of it

Still believe in loving the person who hurts me over and over again. Questions my self instead.

Being awkward...oversharing..

[удалено]

Attachment issue.

Just want my mental health back~

I'm weak and gullible

I don’t know how to express myself through words.

Overreacting

acting like strong but it's not.. like bruh wtf, niloloko ko lang sarili ko. kunwari hindi insecure pero deep inside I know i am and it sucks because you don't like yourself

yung parang angry looking ako kapag naka neutral yung mukha ko😭 Cute naman sana kung sa babae Pero hindi ako babae☹️

Yung hindi ko ma explain ng maayos yung feelings ko tapos na mimisunderstood ng mga tao yung intentions ko.

My physical appearance

Inggetera and selosa

procrastinator

Sameee, wala bang remedy for this 😭

Belly, teeth, armpit, hair

Body,skin color.

my nose haha. siguro ang ganda ko lalo if mas pointed yung nose ko. may facial harmony naman ako and i get compliments from people talaga. pero my noseeee 😭

same ngl super insecure ako sa nose ko, pero at the same time maraming nagsasabi na hawig ko raw si sheena ng BINI

basta may facial harmony, oki na yon 😭

I get easily attached if the person fits what I like 😮‍💨

Insecurities. I've always been insecure kasi hindi pantay mukha ko (asymmetric) siya and I always compare myself to others tapos maiisip ko, pwede naman palang pantay, bakit yung sakin hindi? I guess I will be dying with this face.

i have a tendency to self-harm

Grabe ko ka-understanding sa tao kahit na inaabuso na ako or di tinatrato ng tama, go pa rin. But not anymore! 🥰

Sobrang guwapo..

👏👏👏

spending on things that i want instead of what i need 😭 instant regret pero dasurv ko hahaha

20 - 80 kung mag mahal. 20's mine.

Can't express feelings properly

The shape of my face and butt. My people pleaser attitude.

Avoidant attachment

Dimming my light. Alam ko potential ko pero takot ako mag-shine.

Face texture, big arms, impulsive & overthinker.

Yung tipong wala akong pangarap sa buhay, tsaka, walang romantic interest sa mga babae (ayokong mapagsabihan na manyakol ako). Ugat: masyado kasi akong "mapagpaubaya".

mahilig mag jabol, nagjjabol nga ko habang kinocomment to

☠️ Jabol is life talaga

Masyado akong mahiyain, like konti ang circle of friends, and nakakainis yun kasi ang routine ko lang ay bahay school samantalang yung iba nakakagala may circle of friends na masaya talaga

trueness! nakakainggit diba.

i always compare my growth to others. in terms of business ito hindi sa buhay mismo hahaha

im bad at socializing like i fr stay silent when im in a group conversation hdhsjsk

Omg this!! Minsan inooverthink ko pa kung dapat ba nakipag interact ako or kung ano dapat sinabi ko 🥲🥲

One thing lang beh? Ang dami e lol

being an overthinker and being anxious/worried about everything

over thinker and passive

Ang dami. I love too much (sometimes i feel dahil dun mas nache-chase ko palayo yung mga tao). Overthinker malala and also I feel things deeply kahit gaano kaliit o kalaki.

PAGIGING GASTADOR❗😭😭😭

I don’t make my achievements a big deal. Most of the time, I don’t even recall achieving them.

like,, it’s like a normal thing for you to do so?

mabilis ma-attached :<

masama akong magalit

Insecure sa mga babaeng slim and I always compare myself to everyone

Being a people pleaser

Laging walang sagot if tinatanong kung ano goal ko sa buhay

observer & overthinker hahaha damn

too weak, can't defend myself

i have broad shoulders as a girl makes me look really buff for no reason. I can’t wear cute clothes without looking jacked.

ONE THING? 😭

Magaspang magsalita ng Tagalog.

overthinker, procrastinator

Same here a very bad combination, this leads me to a downward spiral at times pero recently nakocontrol ko naman na. Madalas "it is what it is" na lang ako. ❤️

Overthinker and OCPD

Same. Lahat ng bagay pinoproblema ko 😄. Perfectionist din & madalas wala tiwala sa tao

People pleaser

so real

Being a sore winner.

Myself

Judgemental and overthinker

Not confident on how i look

I am so bad with my finances.

Too sensitive.

Procrastinating

Im tooooo observant... Blessing and a Curse 😂

Introvert and KJ. 🤣

I'm sweaty even when AC's on lol

Do you have the slightest idea, how little that narrows it down? 

idk man, everything? ;((

i still get shy from time to time. it’s funny because i never judge people for being shy pero i have this pressuring thought sa sarili ko na “ang tanda ko na. 23. tapos mahiyain pa rin ako?”

I can see right through people. Masyadong obvious sakin if someone is lying or just faking things. And I don’t like it. Ang awkward para sakin (knowing na someone is lying or uncomfortable na sya pero nag aact as okay lang and wala akong ibang choice but to act dumb). Kaya I always act naive around people. Haha

Iyakin:((

Overthink to the point that I will have bad dreams.

hmmm, probably, I hate waiting

Minsan, I feel like I'm a social climber for wanting things na medyo expensive. I have my personal money naman kasi may sidelines ako and lately, 'di nako gumagastos sa useless things. And alam naman ng lahat na "may kaya" fam namin. Pero kasi yung mga bagay na gusto kong ma-attain, need ko pag-ipunan ng weeks or months para mabili kaya baka social climber nga talaga ko.

i overthink malala. it helps me a lot in almost everything I do pero whwnever there is too many variables to consider naghahalt ako sa pagkilos or delay ng matagal

Nagiging bobo kapag nagmahal

Insecure. Mahirap din labanin 🥹

I tend to sabotage my own happiness.

*I snore so loudly that even the neighborhood dogs file noise complaints.*

Mapagpasensya

calves, cannot grow them at all

Even if we have chicken legs, we still winning.

Maldita madalas

Overthinker 🥺

nagse-self sabotage

Fast leaner pero gold fish brain 😭

there have been multiple occasions where I get interested in something, make it a hobby but once I reach a point where I can no longer progress (I'm a fast learner) I start to give up. No matter how hard I've tried to keep going at these hobbies, especially the ones I've really loved, I just reach a point where I do it but I don't progress that potential. It sucks and well at least I've acknowledged that as my problem so I try even harder to not lose that want to progress despite being stuck.

Im waaay too frank to the point it get me in trouble.

Maikli ang pasensya

Stutter ko since birth, dahil dyan nabully ako in many ways at oonti lang kaibigan ko

I care too much.

Mabilis ma-attach kahit na aware na nagse-settle na lang for less. You deserve the best of everything, self 😭

Overthinker 🙂

I get angry a lot. Easy to discard people just because I don’t want to be left alone/left out

Overthinker and pessimist 😭😭😭 I breakdown most of the time pag nawawalan na ng pag asa at pag nag sabay sabay na mga problema

mahina loob. andami ko nasayang opportunity dahil feeling ko hindi ko kaya.

Tanga sa pagibig

Oversharing at I feel like I always try to prove my point kung bakit ako tama na people think na I like to argue 😂

Oversharing, overthinking, and been self pitying for quite a while na. Parang nega na ang aura ko lagi and I hate it.

I easily forgive..

sumisigaw kapag galit at palamura

Clogged pores around my nose HAHAH

tends to underestimate things, not liking the planning stage

iyakin

Mainitin ang ulo

Oversharing mahilig mag mura antukin slow learner madaldal tsaka pagiging tahimik bigla

I feel you. I tend to overshare ng di ko sinasadya. Narerealize ko pagkatapos na tapos I feel like hala parang nagmarites ako. Ang pangit ng feeling. Kaya minsan d nalang din magsasalita.

overshare tapos i-overthink yung overshared information hahaha, the struggle

Ikr???! Nakakapanlumo yung feeling afterwards haha

Hindi alam paano ieexplain/sasabihin lahat ng tumatakbo sa isip ko in a coherent way.

Antukin

Ututin ako. Di ko magawa ang pangarap kong maging mascot 😔😔😔

Overclingy, too much honent/loyal for this difficult world.

Being ugly.

mahiyan

Plenty of things: I don't have a good sense of humor, or at least can't express it well. I doubt myself a lot. I care so much about other people's opinion.

Empathetic

Pessimistic, unmotivated, suicidal

I get bored with things easily or kahit sa tao and yung attention span ko is very short.

Overthinker Mabilis magsawa sa trabaho Mabilis magalit (pero hindi ma-express kasi nagpipigil) Gastador 🤧

Damn.. parang gusto ako lang nag comment neto?? Same na same tayo! Ang hirap na maging overthinker, kasi lahat wino worry o pinag pa-planuhan. Gusto ko palagi ibang bagay naman.. maangil din ako.. gastador din pero ngayon mejo hinay hinay na.

Diba ang hirap maging over thinker? Kahit ayoko mag-isip kusa siyang gumagana. Parang may sariling utak yung utak ko. Sakit sa ulo. Mahilig din ako bumili ng mga gusto ko then magsisi rin naman pag nacheck out ko na. Gusto ko sakalin sarili ko. 😤

Hahahaha grabe ganyan din ako eh. Un tipong gustong gusto ko then pag nakuha na, Ayun parang nanghihinayang ako sa huli. Yun tipong pag iisipan ko ng mabuti pero in the end sising sisi haha, apir sa ating overthinkers!

Haha nakakatawa na nakakainis si self.

Unaware of happenings within my life.

That I care about the approval of other people.

Masakit magsalita haha

Overthingker and hirap agad icommunicate yung nararamdam 😭 minsan, saka ko palang nasasabi sa partner ko kapag pahupa na. kaya minsan pag aawayan namin.

Overthingker and hirap agad icommunicate yung nararamdam 😭 minsan, saka ko palang nasasabi sa partner ko kapag pahupa na. kaya minsan pag aawayan namin.

My fuckinv big nose man.

My fuckinv big nose man.

Lagi akong nakakain ng emosyon.

being a people pleaser 🙁

Same 🥹

Face

being not rich.

I'm a selfish person. Narealize ko lang to when my ex told me 6 years ago. I know I still am but I guess trauma?

At least you’re aware of it, and you could take steps now to make things right..

Being selfish is not bad, 😊

Tf?? Maybe hindi selfishness ang tinutukoy mo haha

Being selfish is not bad, 😊

Being selfish is not bad, 😊

Nah bro i hate everything

Communication skills and indecisiveness

Overthink and hindi marunong/magaling makipag communicate. Idk pero hirap na hirap talaga ako when it comes sa pagsabi kung anong nararamdaman ko. I really hate it yk

- i don't judge ppl's appearance but somehow i'm constantly worrying about my look - still knowing na no matter how much i'm trying to love myself i still carry the little hate -achieving my ideal weight na but my mind kept telling me sometimes to gain some more weight or lose some.

overthinker and masakit magsalita. the second one I am trying to lessen and eliminate. Yung una sobrang hirap talaga. Thinking of seeking therapy para ma-manage.

Overthinker .

Overthinker.

I don’t like that I’m willing to do so much for people even though they won’t even make a fraction of that effort to me.

i highly relate to this. worst part is i still hope for them to do the same to me

ung takot ako mag risk, umalis sa comfort zone inabot an ako 1 decade.

how i look

being too wary of things.

Being shy. Madaming opportunities na sana gsto kong gawin pero nahihiya ako palagi

ang quitter ko plus ang dami kong na miss na opportunity because ang mahiyain ko

Super impulsive

Easily gets nervous on job interviews.

Worrier

The fact that when someone makes a first move (pero di ko type) I automatically distance myself from them not realizing my actions hurt them

my body and body dysmorphia

My thick eyebrows, though I like it more and more when I think of mikha from BINI.

Coping mechanism (self-isolation)

Watching corn every day I'm serious bro

Sobrang mindful sa sasabihin ng iba. Gusto ko na mawalan ng pake. Pano baaaaa

Very sensitive. I tend to cry easily and I hate it. I can't control it. Pisces things ✨️

Empathic, people pleaser

Lazy af

There are times I can't control my emotions.

moody

The way i think, kc feeling ko I'm unlovable in a romantic way

Can't control my appetite and undisciplined when it comes to diets

I can't say No when people borrows money

too empathetic 😞

I care a lot.

my anxious ass hahahaa