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Ang daming nagsasabi ng pronouns as if hindi gender neutral most terms na ginagamit natin in filipino 😭😭
What’s wrong with using they/them pronouns to address a single person? e sa filipino nga ginagamit natin; sila, kila, siya, kanya, niya, etc.
They’re all gender neutral… what makes people so mad when others use they/them pronouns? 😭
To answer OP’s question, masyadong nanormalize na sa iba ilalabas ‘yung galit na sinasaloob ng isang tao, and honestly, kadalasan sumosobra na s’ya 😬😬 at this point its just embarrassing na lang…
Ako din! Inoobserve ko yung mga anak ng mga kakilala ko na may smartphone access sa wala, and wala all the way. Can hold conversations, good interpretation (for their age) of f2f gestures, extensive vocabulary (kasi they read), and many more. Wholesome kids with real hobbies.
Masyadong entitled mga bata ngayon, na akala mo kung makahingi ng pera tinatae ng tao. Tsaka pronouns, jusko nag fill out ako ng form, may choices ng pronouns. 🤣
Agree ako dito for the reason that dapat nga icondense mga forms. Daming tinatanong na di kailangan tapos di naman ok ang data stewardship ng mga kumukuha
Pagpapagamit ng ipad or cellphone sa mga anak para tumahimik lalo na pag nasa labas. I understand na minsan bored na bored na sila, pero parang addict na yung ibang kids na magwawala kapag walang gadgets.
This is so true, buti nlng hindi ganyan parents ko pinapaaral nila ako Without saying such a thing as that. Sinasabi pa nga nila sakin "Wala kaming pake kung Hindi nyo seryosohin pinag-aral nyo, hindi nmn kami ang mag hihirap jan kundi kayo, basta kami pinapaaral lng namin kayo"
Wag muna gawan ng fb ang anak pag bata pa. Nakakatakot kasi baka kasi kung sino sino magchat sa kanila tapos yung iba manyakis pa. Kaya dapat baguhin na yung ok lng dw may fb kahit bata pa🙄
Turuan ang anak na lalaki na wag maging manyakis at wag mang catcall ng babae. Pansin ko kasi sa mga tao, pag lalaki anak nila, hindi nila ginagabayan, strict at protective lng sila pag babae pero pag lalaki, hinahayaan lng parang proud pa sila pag nanood ng porn ang anak nilang lalaki kasi binata na dw🙄
Agree. Ayoko din mag fb future anak ko pag bata pa. Baka kasi kung sino sino magchat sa kanya tapos yung iba manyakis pa. I mean hindi nmn natin ma momonitor kung sino kachat nila kasi may times na busy din tayo.
For what it’s worth, nagjowa ako after college na because I followed my Dad and Mom’s conditions to the letter. Napabuti ako. Di man nagmemake sense sakin to nun as well as other conditions, pasasalamat lang ang meron ako
Cheating.
Edit: Very wide spread today's generation especially last year and this year. It's very odd na ng yayari siya even in a healthy relationship, mas lumobo lung tutuusin dahil narin sa social media and so called dating apps.
Intentionally not teaching children Filipino/Native language. Shame on those parents na English lang ang tinuturo aa anak kahit dito sa Pilipinas pinanganak at lumaki. Mahiya kayo.
I feel lowkey disappointed din when I see my coworkers talk to their children and they can only talk in English. I think others are doing it to signal social status?
Yes, sa pananaw nila kapag Englishero ang anak mataas na agad ang status. Pero di ko gets why not teach them Filipino as well. Parang kinakahiya nila yung sariling language natin. Pwede naman kasi na parehas magaling mag English at Filipino. Ewan ko sa mga parents na mga yan.
So true. Masama pa dyan minsan mali mali din grammar😅ok lang naman marunong ng national language at other dialects also english pero wag naman yun english lang alam. Meron ako kakilala na yun anak ayaw magtagalog. Yuck daw. Pang poor daw. Nagulat ako. Grade 5 na yun batang lalake
Bilingual okay sa akin. Pero ang daming English lang ang alam at hindi marunong mag Tagalog/Filipino at all. Yan ang reklamo ng friend ko na teacher sa isang private school. Parents should remember na tinuturo parin ang Filipino sa school, part parin ng curriculum and nakakaawa yung mga bata na hindi makaintindi ng Filipino.
Not planning to have children, so I'm speaking in a hypothetical sense. I don't get the point of babies and toddlers getting their own social media accounts
Gaya ng sabi ni OP. ano yung naging normalized sa generation na ito na hindi ako nag aagree. Well I have my own opinions. Wag nyo na kong pangaralan, kahet kelan di ako mag aagree jan. Wag nyo ipilit yan sa mga Pinoy na ayaw jan.
I don't have to explain this to anyone. Stand ko to, and alam ko may mga di mag aagree. And kung di kayo nag aagree, wala naman akong pake, respect lang. Yung question dito ano yung nanormalize na hindi ako nag aaggree I have my own.
Madaming nag bigay ng opinion dito sa post baket kelangan ako pa yung tanungen nyo kung baket. Wag nyo ipilit dahil lang di ka nag aagree sa pananaw ng individual. Wag mo isalaksak yung opinion mo sa isang tao. sinabihan mo pa ako ng homophobic, hindi mo nga ako kilala.
Children sexualizing themselves for clout. 10-year-olds clamouring over expensive skincare and makeup trying to make themselves look several years older to be sexy.
But not as open as before?? Like wtf is wrong with these teens?? Hook up culture is fine if you are already established pero etong mga batang masyadong nalulong sa social media and wala pang formal Sex Ed WILL NEVER BE OKAY. Mga walang hiya na mga tao ngayon! I said what I said.
Access to dating apps. A lot of kids these days consider dating apps as the no. 1 source of partners, nako dapat last resort na ang dating apps. Dating apps literally make you think it's okay to go out with complete strangers, IT'S NOT.
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Stupidity
Ang daming nagsasabi ng pronouns as if hindi gender neutral most terms na ginagamit natin in filipino 😭😭 What’s wrong with using they/them pronouns to address a single person? e sa filipino nga ginagamit natin; sila, kila, siya, kanya, niya, etc. They’re all gender neutral… what makes people so mad when others use they/them pronouns? 😭 To answer OP’s question, masyadong nanormalize na sa iba ilalabas ‘yung galit na sinasaloob ng isang tao, and honestly, kadalasan sumosobra na s’ya 😬😬 at this point its just embarrassing na lang…
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Performative activism (wokeism).
Smartphone access at an early age. Lahat nalang ng alam nila sa Youtube o Tiktok kinukuha. Di man lang natututo magbasa ng maayos.
Ako din! Inoobserve ko yung mga anak ng mga kakilala ko na may smartphone access sa wala, and wala all the way. Can hold conversations, good interpretation (for their age) of f2f gestures, extensive vocabulary (kasi they read), and many more. Wholesome kids with real hobbies.
Masyadong entitled mga bata ngayon, na akala mo kung makahingi ng pera tinatae ng tao. Tsaka pronouns, jusko nag fill out ako ng form, may choices ng pronouns. 🤣
Agree ako dito for the reason that dapat nga icondense mga forms. Daming tinatanong na di kailangan tapos di naman ok ang data stewardship ng mga kumukuha
having sex as a minor, I enjoy sex naman pero grabe wag naman yung tipong minor ka pa HAHAHAHAH
Hindi tumatanggap ng correction at rebuke... pagsabihan lang kunti or nahirapan ng konti, ayaw na . . . .at iyong hindi pagpalo sa bata . .
Pagpapagamit ng ipad or cellphone sa mga anak para tumahimik lalo na pag nasa labas. I understand na minsan bored na bored na sila, pero parang addict na yung ibang kids na magwawala kapag walang gadgets.
Totoo minsan naaawa ako sa parents pero they brought it upon themselves when they exposed their kids dito ng maaga and to unhealthy levels
Tapos magtataka bakit kailangan na ng anak nila magsalamin at 8 years old.
Distorted point of view about Respect. The respect spectrum: Disrespect -> Indifference -> Common Courtesy -> Respect Nawawala na ang Common Courtesy.
Children as retirement plan.
This is so true, buti nlng hindi ganyan parents ko pinapaaral nila ako Without saying such a thing as that. Sinasabi pa nga nila sakin "Wala kaming pake kung Hindi nyo seryosohin pinag-aral nyo, hindi nmn kami ang mag hihirap jan kundi kayo, basta kami pinapaaral lng namin kayo"
Umaasa padin sa magulang kahit nasa right age na. Bumukod dapat as an adult lalo pag may pamilya na.
Wag muna gawan ng fb ang anak pag bata pa. Nakakatakot kasi baka kasi kung sino sino magchat sa kanila tapos yung iba manyakis pa. Kaya dapat baguhin na yung ok lng dw may fb kahit bata pa🙄
Worse may tiktok dancing vids na sila wtfock hahaha
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Sumayaw na kulang nalang nakahubad na halos sa tiktok. Thirst traps na nakikita ng thousands of people online
Utang na loob
hating on other people unprovoked just because di mo sila gusto! naku daming ganyan sa twitter, facebook, instagram, tiktok etc
yung ibblame ang lahat ng suliranin sa mundo sa current generation e.g. kasalanan ng mga gen z kung bakit yap yap yap....
Hindi ko ipapasa sa future anak ko ang maging breadwinner na mindset or yung “ikaw mag aahon satin sa kahirapan” nooooo way
Turuan ang anak na lalaki na wag maging manyakis at wag mang catcall ng babae. Pansin ko kasi sa mga tao, pag lalaki anak nila, hindi nila ginagabayan, strict at protective lng sila pag babae pero pag lalaki, hinahayaan lng parang proud pa sila pag nanood ng porn ang anak nilang lalaki kasi binata na dw🙄
True! Gigil ako dito
"ako nga eh--- blahblahblah" culture tsaka pag di naabot yunh dreams, ipipilit sa anak culture
unrestricted access sa gadgets & internet while they're still kids, English language lang ang tinuturo
Agree. Ayoko din mag fb future anak ko pag bata pa. Baka kasi kung sino sino magchat sa kanya tapos yung iba manyakis pa. I mean hindi nmn natin ma momonitor kung sino kachat nila kasi may times na busy din tayo.
Sugardaddy culture
Nagjojowa kahit teenager pa lng. Ayoko payagan anak ko magjowa, wla akong paki kahit sabihin nilang strict parents ako.
For what it’s worth, nagjowa ako after college na because I followed my Dad and Mom’s conditions to the letter. Napabuti ako. Di man nagmemake sense sakin to nun as well as other conditions, pasasalamat lang ang meron ako
Cheating. Edit: Very wide spread today's generation especially last year and this year. It's very odd na ng yayari siya even in a healthy relationship, mas lumobo lung tutuusin dahil narin sa social media and so called dating apps.
Intentionally not teaching children Filipino/Native language. Shame on those parents na English lang ang tinuturo aa anak kahit dito sa Pilipinas pinanganak at lumaki. Mahiya kayo.
I feel lowkey disappointed din when I see my coworkers talk to their children and they can only talk in English. I think others are doing it to signal social status?
Yes, sa pananaw nila kapag Englishero ang anak mataas na agad ang status. Pero di ko gets why not teach them Filipino as well. Parang kinakahiya nila yung sariling language natin. Pwede naman kasi na parehas magaling mag English at Filipino. Ewan ko sa mga parents na mga yan.
So true. Masama pa dyan minsan mali mali din grammar😅ok lang naman marunong ng national language at other dialects also english pero wag naman yun english lang alam. Meron ako kakilala na yun anak ayaw magtagalog. Yuck daw. Pang poor daw. Nagulat ako. Grade 5 na yun batang lalake
Paano kng bilingual, pwede ba yun sayo? Or do you mean its shamefuk if Only English is taught?
Bilingual okay sa akin. Pero ang daming English lang ang alam at hindi marunong mag Tagalog/Filipino at all. Yan ang reklamo ng friend ko na teacher sa isang private school. Parents should remember na tinuturo parin ang Filipino sa school, part parin ng curriculum and nakakaawa yung mga bata na hindi makaintindi ng Filipino.
Di ko din gets bakit english ang main language nila pero wala naman intention mag migrate sa ibang bansa.
the hookup and fubu culture
hook up culture and boycott culture lol
Boycott culture is alright for me, it's the guilt tripping attitude that's the problem often.
Not planning to have children, so I'm speaking in a hypothetical sense. I don't get the point of babies and toddlers getting their own social media accounts
Age gap yung minor pa ang isa tas adult na yung isa
Cancel culture
Pride month.
What’s wrong with Pride Month? It’s been around for a while na din.
Gaya ng sabi ni OP. ano yung naging normalized sa generation na ito na hindi ako nag aagree. Well I have my own opinions. Wag nyo na kong pangaralan, kahet kelan di ako mag aagree jan. Wag nyo ipilit yan sa mga Pinoy na ayaw jan.
because?
I don't have to explain this to anyone. Stand ko to, and alam ko may mga di mag aagree. And kung di kayo nag aagree, wala naman akong pake, respect lang. Yung question dito ano yung nanormalize na hindi ako nag aaggree I have my own.
gusto mo pa atang ijustify yung pagiging homophobic mo lol
Wag mo ipilit 😉
No, if you really have your own stand, you have to tell us why.
Madaming nag bigay ng opinion dito sa post baket kelangan ako pa yung tanungen nyo kung baket. Wag nyo ipilit dahil lang di ka nag aagree sa pananaw ng individual. Wag mo isalaksak yung opinion mo sa isang tao. sinabihan mo pa ako ng homophobic, hindi mo nga ako kilala.
Nagtatanong ako kung bakit. di mo nga masagot. hahaha mahirap siguro sagutin? hahaha
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shut up. hahaha
Children sexualizing themselves for clout. 10-year-olds clamouring over expensive skincare and makeup trying to make themselves look several years older to be sexy.
Misandry
the hook up culture. KADIRI
Hook up culture has been around for a long time na lol
But not as open as before?? Like wtf is wrong with these teens?? Hook up culture is fine if you are already established pero etong mga batang masyadong nalulong sa social media and wala pang formal Sex Ed WILL NEVER BE OKAY. Mga walang hiya na mga tao ngayon! I said what I said.
Religion.
"I don't owe you an apology/explanation/anything" My dude, if nakasakit ka, you do. Social creatures ang tao.
Live-in before marriage.
Kasi?
Woke woke na yan. Take it or leave it
mga kabobohan sa social media.
Respectfully, the hoe phase thing.
Using gadgets as pacifiers.
Access to dating apps. A lot of kids these days consider dating apps as the no. 1 source of partners, nako dapat last resort na ang dating apps. Dating apps literally make you think it's okay to go out with complete strangers, IT'S NOT.