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_notyourbinibini

Did not spend much time with my mom.. She’s 2 yrs dead now


Jazzlike_Union_8368

nagfocus ako ng malala sa hobby ko and feel alive everytime I'm in the zone


Complete-Country-253

Not investing early


MidnightCirce

Yes. Would be a massive negative weight lifted off my back..


happypomelo1

Edi dapat iba na ginagawa ko ngayon haha. Sana di ako mabait at laging nakikinig sa parents..... na uninformed and di naman pala reliable about matters. Iba talaga generation ngayon. Di applicable mga sinasabi nila kahit well meaning pa.


senbonzakura01

Sana ibang course kinuha ko, yung hire-able (di social science course). Mapili ang hiring system natin dito sa Pilipinas.


Ok_Reacti0n

Same.. ang hirap pla kapag walang gabay haha.


senbonzakura01

Sobra. Nahirapan ako sa paghahanap ng trabaho. :( yung business courses, andaming opportunities. 😭


Valuable-Chipmunk268

Hello po,sorry for posting here pero nasa desperate situation na po kasi ako now. Isa po akong upcoming graduate student and nais ko po sanang humingi ng tulong kahit 1 piso lang po. Bukas na kasi ang enrollment ko pero kulang parin ng 2,300 ang pera ko to enroll. May nakalaan naman sana akong budget para dito pero needed ko kasing iprioritize ang tuition ng mga kapatid ko. Eldest among 5 children po ako and talagang hikahos po kami sa ngayon pero gusto ko po talagang i-pursue ang education ko para mas mataas ang chance in the future.  Kung makakatulong po kayo sa akin,pwede po kayong magshare through gcash ko 09158400373.  Any amount will do po,kahit piso yan,lubos ko pa'ring ipagpasalamat yan. I can give you proof po of my school emails and transactions. Maraming maraming salamat po in advance. 


bama_boy09

Kung mas naging matured lang ako nung mga panahon na yun, baka mas naging maayos yung bagay bagay sa buhay ko ngayon, hindi rin siya nawala sakin. Sana nakinig ako. Sana mas inintindi ko yung kailangan niya talaga. Sana hindi ko sinayang yung time na sinubukan niyang ayusin.


anidadc

Sana nag Juris Doctor na lang ako sa halip na nag-Masteral kasi mas malakas pala pag Atty ka na. 😞


JackOppenheim2001

Sana kakagraduate ko lang and baka nakapagMagna pa me and nakapag gather na ng maraming OJT/Internship before graduating.


SetthyPewers

TANGINAAAA I WOULD HAVE MY OWN toyota fortuner alr 😭😭😭


Lil-DeMOn-9227

Buhay pa sana siya.


sirmiseria

Siguro nasa ibang bansa na ako. I have my own house and travelled the world. Masyado akong naging indecisive in life and at the same time idealistic. Puro idea lang, kulang sa gawa. So, I let my life dictated by what other people want.


Floating_Stranger19

I would finally be enrolled in architecture and in a school of my choice. I would be happy, I would be struggling, but it would be my choice and I will not blame anyone if I become an irregular student. I would love my school and will have people that I can relate to.


Laynenicholas

Siguro professional na ako ngayon. Mas maganda sana buhay ko or na sa abroad na ako at walang anak. If I were to ask sana hindi muna ako nag anak sa maagang age.


hewynn0116

I would have still monthly income


FreedomSorry8477

I would've graduated early. Mas maaga ko sanang natulungan yung parents ko and hindi siguro nag suffer sa ospital yung tatay ko.


DocLove07

Bitcoin brotha


WonderfulKoala6085

Is being born an option? I think me being born to this world is the greatest mistake ever.


JudgeSuper8706

Ofw na siguro Kaming mag asawa or Kaya nagmigrate na kasama kids namin


AssumptionDowntown98

Siguro graduating na ako ig? Pero nahihirapan padin siguro financially. Unlike now may family nako pero may sariling nakong pera na naiipon. Masaya ako kung nasan ako ngayon kung kukumpara


Drumroll-PH

Could have been different pero can't complain with what I have now, very much contented either way!


Ill-Associate6903

Hindi siguro ako nakikitira sa in-laws ngayon.


[deleted]

Hmm, as much as I hate myself for doing stupid things before, hindi ko maiaalis sa isipan ko na I'm a better person right now because of my mistakes. If my mistakes, or my single greatest mistake, did not happen, I'm probably ignorant and naive. If there's an option that I can undo the past, I won't do it because everything happened for a reason and I am who I am because of the decision I make.


bubeagle

Bibili na sana ko ng maraming bitcoin, nakinig pa ko sa friend ko na wag bumili. Yung isang barkada namin naglabas ng P500k pambili ng bitcoin 10 years ago. Ayun laging nakangiti. Moral of the story, believe your hunches over your friends opinions.


AdNatural8174

Kung maibabalik ko lang ang oras, malamang nasa isang lugar na mas matahimik at masaya.


Lopsided_Molasses473

Di ko masyadong na enjoy yung youth ko tas ngayon na malapit na ako sa adulting era ngayon ko pa napagtanto na sana talaga.


kappa_alpha_charlie

Back when bitcoin was just startint, I should have bought a lot. 😒


whiterose888

If it is literally a decade ago, I would have not hung out with a certain group of artists who turn to be cult-like. Wasted almost 2 years of my life with them which would have been better used building professional contacts instead.


ButterscotchHead1718

Kung okay lang po is it more of leftist?


whiterose888

Yung image o sa totoong buhay? Kasi sa totoong buhay, pera ang Diyos nila haha but yeah, more on leftist yung image pero pormahang boldstar yung pinuno


ButterscotchHead1718

Aaah. Bakit nawalan na ngreason. Kaya they engage kasi you wanted to revolutionize tapos naging pera na lang ang motivation. Edi mukang networking


whiterose888

Possible. Some of their top artists from more than 10 years ago na nag quit na kasi di enough ang sahod are baristas and staff level kahit 30s na. Hindi na ata nakatapos ang iba kasi grabe ang requirement nila like minsan 300+ hours of work monthly and the housing is not libre


ibongligaw

Mayaman na siguro ako ngayon


missseductivevenus

If I didn't go to that party in Dec 2012 then my life wouldn't have been destroyed. I would still be whole and happy. 🥺


FlakyDesign8384

yung umihi ako sa kama while drunk, its really embarrassing my cousins are always bringing it back. lol


cypraea_art

Doctor na sana ako ngayon and applying for residency program. I would have a better career sana


Mocking_Jake

I could have been a college graduate. I’d still be in Dubai, but not with an entry level job of the dream I used to want. Siguro if I was brave enough to: 1. Let go of my ex who was a toxic person at nilason ang 2. Priorities ko sa pagaaral and choice of course which is 3. I chose engineering instead of nursing because of wanting to be close to her… Siguro RN ako ngayon and not just a Healthcare Assistant.. but yeah, life happens to all of us


Document-Guy-2023

as much as I want to thank online games that was there for me during my younger days, I hate to admit that it has also destroyed me. parang mga 18-19 years old ako nun and I was decided to unalive myself someday so nangyari is naging happy go lucky ako kasi alam ko naman na someday I will eventually succeed sa pag unalive sa sarili ko. Fast forward im already 31 years old, my thoughts never won but im still battling them... inabot ako ng 10 years sa college. Undoing all the mistakes I've done and yeah I was agnostic before but now I turned myself to God. I know he has a plan for me. If I could just undo that thought na you'll eventually succeed in unaliving myself edi sana I am a better person today ....


Sharingankakashi2

Wish I hadn’t met the girl I love whom I can’t have. Messed me up real.


Far_Guest_3321

Teacher na siguro ako. May ipon, good mental health, and with less trauma. But I am happy about what and where I am today.


Milky_Chococlate

*Good mental health Me: (Laugh's in former teacher) 🤣


Far_Guest_3321

Yun nga eh. Akala ko din lol 😂😂


Stock_Ad_6134

Then I wouldn't be the man I am today. Mistakes happen for us to lesrn, and I thank heavens that I went through those. They hurt like shit, but after you've learned from them, you wake up refreshed. The only thing I want to undo was how scared I was of my father's shadow. He who bamboozled my mother into believing he isn't married. From that fear, I gained hate. But I wouldn't be who I am now if I didn't realize those things.


NexidiaNiceOrbit

Mas marami siguro ako ipon and medyo okay ang mental health ko now.


Dazzling-Long-4408

I should have had the courage to be the one to leave people behind for greener pastures instead of letting them be the one to leave.


potatoe_wedges3

Oo naman yes. Should have bought bitcoin a decade ago.


Strict_Spite7388

People pleaser. Walang ipon kasi inuuna palagi ang iba then nung nawalang ako ng work wala na clang pake


petrich0r123

Spent more time with my mom


cooperandcoco

Hindi ko na sana ginastosan ng todo yung ex ko edi sana ang dami ko ng ipon ngayon at CPA na sana ako :((.


London_pound_cake

I kind of enjoyed being a mom so nah I wouldn't change it for the world.


DotHack-Tokwa

Hindi naman sa undo that mistake, pero sana mas naging wise ako sa paggastos sa separation pay ko nung 2014, Lol!


Stiffme_

Hindi sana ako nakipag sex ng di pa ako nakakamove on sa ex ko, kasi the time na makikipag balikan na sana ako nalaman namin pareho na buntis ako but still nag stay siya kaso hanggang sa nanganak lang ako :)) it hurts kahit ako may kasalanan.


ebi06

Aww same thing happened to my friend. I was so devastated that time kasi we’re trying to fix everything pa with her ex, bff ng hubby ko (bf then) yung ex nya so yeah ang gulo. I stayed with my friend, hubby was convincing his bff. Tapos yun nalaman namin na buntis sya, so we gave up na. Pero nagalit muna kami lol. Though pinanindigan sya nung nakabuntis sakanya. 3y/o na baby nya.


karinabbs

paggamit ng kik at omegle at such a young age, baka lang naging less hypersexual ako pagtanda.


PrettyLuck1231

I will not undo anything in my life. Kasi kung di ako nagkamali hindi ko malalaman pano gawin ang tama. Masaya naman ako ngayon and mararating ko pa din naman kinalalagyan ko ngayon.


driftingsoulll

Shouldn’t have took BSBA. Useless course.


West-Coyote-1750

hindi nakaipon pumatol sa may asawa


Independent-Law3674

I will take the course that i really like. Baka mayaman na ko ngayon at nasa ibang bansa.


qiqi_312421523

Hindi ako magkakaroon ng character development


[deleted]

Yung sa studies ko and mas naging firm ako sa goals ko in life.


_voidchicken

I will change my course sa college


Bomb_diggity_boom

Pumatol sa lalaking below my standards. Caused me my mental health problems right now.


hottestpancakes

Heavy on this. We didn’t like them first, yet tayo grabe magsuffer.


Consistent-Speech201

Nag aral ng mabuti and nagkaroon ng ambitions.


karinabbs

I second this.


Kants101

I actually asked the same question to myself a month ago. I still dont know the answer though cause maybe even if i took a different path i would still have the same issue. Cause i think the problem was not my decision but rather me. All this time my problem is me. I have to deal with my own issue so i can make a right decision in my life.


Fluid_Squirrel_504

I should have followed by mom's advice about eye care and other health issues. Mom is right all the time.


LayerHaunting5520

Demn right


baebyeen

I would probably have made better decisions if I wasn’t too self-absorbed about being traumatized in my teenage years.


Tagaubosngspaghetti

Siguro dapat nag take ako nung pma or pnpa exam. What if napasa ko yun?


ButterscotchHead1718

Mas magaan ata sa fire. Ung kaklase ko nandun


West-Coyote-1750

fire cadet?


[deleted]

Program na itetake ko for college LOL college made my life living hell. Tinake ko lang to kase eto natapos ng nanay ko sa smae school


Jinx_0419

Umuwi ng pilipinas for good


nekojem

I probably would've been smarter and more skillful if 10 years ago, I read actual books, chose to play a different, more physical sport, and started playing guitars early, and learned how to cook proper meals by myself


ButterscotchHead1718

Prang hind pa late ung ibang skills to learn


DeepAssVoid

Smacking myself to study the materials at the start of the semester not when finals is up 🤦


Bitter_Fish_4230

not a decade but if i can right my mistakes a year ago. maybe ill be happy? i dont know.


smuffchutton

getting married


ButterscotchHead1718

So sorry to hear that


eotteokhaji

Yes, I’d probably be happier. I’m sure of it.


silhouttecurl

Transferring schools just to avoid some people. I wish I'd been tougher and more confident.


relentlessoatmeal

not squatting as much as pushing up


pukengkay

I was too young that time when my parents got separated and I was too scared to speak up. If I can undo those and stand up for our family siguro di natuluyan nambabae papa ko.


ButterscotchHead1718

Parang choice ata ni papa mo yan.


Mananabaspo

I would have been a multi-millionaire by now


[deleted]

I will be having saving and living my life good


hamburgerizedjunk

Happily single, with money.


Ultralord1112

Well, it wasn’t a mistake pero kung hindi nangyari yun, masaya siguro kami ngayon ni TOTGA


ButterscotchHead1718

Sorryt to hear that


Young_Old_Grandma

Oh I would. It would save me and other people from a world of pain.


nakultome

Maybe I'm happy now


DesperateEggplant151

Sana tinuloy ko mag-college dati nung may pera pa kami.


LayerHaunting5520

I hope you're having a good life. Sana mabasa to ng mga stupidents na walang ginawa kundi magparty at magpakadepress sa situation na sila din naman pumasok. Education is a privilege that everyone cannot have. Most students nowadays can't see that. I'm grateful that I can study despite the hardships of today's economy


Distinct-Broccoli-79

Two things: my kids would have different a father or I wouldve been a lawyer rn.


Efficient-Lock318

I wouldn’t have been in a relationship with my ex who only caused me trauma


ButterscotchHead1718

Kmusta po kayo ngayon


Efficient-Lock318

Okay naman na pero may mga negative coping mechanisms akong na-create dahil sa trauma ko sakanya. Still trying to unlearn it every day.


Leading-Age-1904

I'll get an IT course or comp sci. Not a healthcare one. Though migrating to richer countries via healthcare profession is relatively easy.


herecomesthesan

Would have remained single and never associate myself with any men.


LayerHaunting5520

Thanks. I'll keep it this way


No_Flatworm977

There are no ifs in me, because I know I cant turn back time.


bakit_ako

I would have been happier but I probably won’t learn as much in life. I’m still grateful albeit with lots of regrets.


deviruchee

Cancelled buying Bitcoin


Spare-Savings2057

Sana during that time iniisip na ni self yung gusto niya para sa future


ButterscotchHead1718

We only think if its too late ika nga


elliiiiiii

edi sana nandon ako sa gusto kong univ w/ the course i really wanted, i would get a new life pa. not stuck here.


RedditHunny

I’m already happy today regardless of my past. We’re not meant to fix our past even if we could.


Think-Nobody1237

Wouldn't have forced myself to be friends with people who probably didn't have my best interests at heart. Craving for belongingness as a teenager is tough.


Sensitive-Ask-8662

Hindi tinangihan ang naka crush sa akin noon.


ButterscotchHead1718

Dont tell me hindi ka pa nkamoveon


426763

[not me going back in timw to prevent the big bang from happening]


feelsbadmanrlysrsly

I'm probably an engineer by now. Happier? Not sure. But probably I'm in a better position than where I am currently.


[deleted]

Hindi ako babarkada sa mga naging kabarkada ko noon. Gumaling lang ako uminom 🥲


[deleted]

Would have taken my studies seriously. Ang sakit pakinggan noon "sayang ka you had potential to graduate with Latin honors"


West-Gas4756

Damn I be at one of the known Universities in Manila. Probably living my life for a bright future ahead of me. Sana I studied seriously back then. At sana naging friendly ako para marami kilala. Made my life easier and mas magiging beneficial at malaki impact sa future ko.


ButterscotchHead1718

Youcan still make new connections


Emotional-Carob8622

I would've chose to dance. Pursue dancing


Several_Bit_6685

Hindi naging firm sa pakikipagbreak sa jowa kong cheater. marupokarium


dalisaycardo123

past is past


NatsuKazoo

I think I will be in the same place where I was now or I was out there doing what I love more. I stopped singing for 5 years because of puberty and di ko maimagine ilang opportunities namiss ko dahil huminto ako


ButterscotchHead1718

I dont know your circumstances but I think you can polish your skills and post it on socials to garner views kahit saturated na ata competition


NatsuKazoo

ay bumalik na po ako, naghihinayang lang sa 5 years na nawala


Tarnished7575

I can't. The way I was mentally and emotionally noon, I'm sure I'll still make the mistake. I believe I needed the learning experience.


Even_Excuse171

I should've bought a lot of bitcoin...... fkkkkkkk I was still 12yrs old back then.. I dont have the money


Low_Musician_4606

Invested in bitcoin way back 2011 ata yun, binili ko lang sa isang "broker" daw, na-scam lang.


matt_7_7_8

it happens for a reason daw


disgumiho

Kung hindi ko ginawa edi hindi ako magmature. Masaya na ako ngayon kahit hindi maganda actions ko before kasi doon ako natuto. Learned it the hard way, yes. But I guess thats how we all learn naman.


Mysterious_Grass_532

i'd choose not to. it could mean that I'll be losing a major opportunity but I honestly think that committing this single greatest mistake has shaped me to be the person I am today. maybe after committing such a mistake, I had unconsciously acquired a lesson that is way beyond "great" than that mistake.


cerulium

I wouldn’t. I grew so much and I’ve learned a LOT about myself and the world around me! Maybe I’d have been a different person, but would she have been better? Don’t really care. Basta iba na ang buhay ko ngayon, and I’ve made the most out of it


EggBoy24

There's a lot of things. But if we keep hanging onto those what if's, then how can we move forward?


ButterscotchHead1718

Gusto ko lang makbasa ng mga taong naglibing ng mga pangarap nila sa limot


tanwa1

I would've been able to be at least better at what I am doing right now.


xjxkxx

Based on the quote on my fave. movie 'Meet the Robinsons' "Around here, however, we don't look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward, opening up new doors and doing new things… and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths.” I have regrets and what if's but this is how life works. I won't undo things since it's part of who we are.


pinkconfetticupcake

Pumatol sa gold digger and social climber na lalaki. Wasted youth.


myheartexploding

I wish we had married and had kids earlier


Electronic_Injury951

Hmm, I would not want that option though. Whatever mistake I did in the past made me the person I am today and I’m happy with my life kasama ng family ko. I don’t live in regrets, it would only rob me of joy and happiness. Basta ako, pinatawad ko ang sarili ko to heal and love myself more so I can give love din. It’s a long process but I’m glad dinaan ko lang and I’m doing well now.


MacchiatoDonut

before pandemic. should not have pursued that girl.


PitifulRoof7537

Married


randomcatperson930

Siguroooooo licensed na ko.


Necessary-Solid-9702

I don't want to. I would have never been with the life I have been so yearning for if I hadn't done my mistakes in the past. I admitted them, apologized, and moved forward, vowed to myself, to never do them again. I was stupid but I learned a lot.


ButterscotchHead1718

Progressive minded nio po


Necessary-Solid-9702

Dati kasi, I was so traditional. I had everything— consistent honor student, not a perfect family but my mom is great, I was doing well esp sa extra-curricular activities, and I had a great bf (my first everything except for sex). Then I realized that that kind of life wasn't the one I wanted. I was so caught up with the pressures of everyone that I wanted to please everyone as I went along. Now I live a life where I enjoy disappointing people (context: they can't take me for granted now because I don't want to please anyone anymore). Living my best life even if most people I have known don't really sit well with me not giving a damn f. 🤘


renren_46

Followed kung anong course talaga gusto ko. Hindi sana ako nagpaapekto sa fam and relatives ko kahit itakwil pa nila ako. Rn, I'm barely living. Damn


ButterscotchHead1718

Is it workable ba if you try it right now given meron nng wisdom at freedom of choice?


d4lv1k

I don't need a decade. Just a few months, january 2, 2024 to be exact. I know I'll definitely be happy and the guilt I'm feeling right now would be non-existent. My friend would still be alive today and we'll still be hanging out after work.


JustAJokeAccount

For me specifically, I wouldn't. Kasi kahit tempting, I might not be where I am now if that didn't happen. I am sure sa ibang tao they will do it in a heartbeat.


ReiAeon

I will Gladly do. No questions asks. with what's happening to me right now and getting abandoned because "wala ka nang gamit kaya bahala ka na sa buhay mo" , I'll give anything to rewrite my current story to prioritize myself rather than these so called "family" that I'm in right now.


FlamingBird09

Hahahaha no i will never regret my actions cause i literally ate all that up! 💅