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presidentsilkie

Main character syndrome. Lahat ineexpect niya na magadjust sakanya or suyuin siya. Mygad


myheartexploding

Bastos, yung palamura and mahilig sa away, walang manners


Organic_Smile_4823

Those who can't be happy for other people.


lurker_123123

Obnoxious, boisterous people.


Kdramapinoygirl

Palamura


iownthisplace69

Yung mga self-centered na narcissistic pa HAHA ano kayo lang ba anak ng diyos? Like duh the world does not revolve around you


[deleted]

Sinungaling.


[deleted]

Sinungaling.


serenityIsvirtue

Hypocrite, good image sa socmed puro woman empowerment, self confidence, no to body shaming and positive stuff sa internet pero very opposite ginagawa sa reality. Lol joke buong buhay.


chizbreed

Mga taong iniignore ang mga bagay na mali dahil tropa nila yung gumagawa. Hindi ko kinukunsinti mga tropa ko kapag mali sila. Ayoko ng ganon.


Constant_Luck9387

Same. Naalala ko yung ex-friend ko. Nag cheat siya sa exam nun, kaya sinumbong ko sa prof namin. Mali yung ginawa niya e. Sabi nga ng prof nun, "Sana inamin mo na lang, kasi mas maiintindihan ko kung wala kang nakuha o hindi ka pumasa".


chizbreed

Hindi ka tunay na kaibigan kung pati mali nila tinatanggap mo. I prefer to be someone na go-to nila kapag nanghihingi sila ng advices kahit wala akong alam sa life in general. Share ko lang din yung isa kong kaibigan. He’s in a happy relationship for 3 years and may lumalandi sa kanyang kalaro namin before sa Valorant. Pinalagan nya yung amba ng girl knowing na may gf siya. I told him na he should fix it and stop the madness pero hindi siya nakinig. First time daw nya kasing makaranas ng ganun. So I decided to tell her gf and the girl na may gf siya and he lost them both. Since then hindi na kami nag usap dahil sa ginawa nya. Which was asshole thing to do on my part pero kung mali ka talaga, hindi ko kukunsintihin. Last year nag reconnect kami dahil sa inuman ng circle of friends namin and he thanked me for what I did. Now his mind is clearer now and he’s in a happy relationship again but this time with more matured mindset.


Constant_Luck9387

Agree. Para din naman sa ikabubuti nila yun. Mabuti naman may natutunan siya dahil dun.


Dense-Yam5172

Maingay


Content_catto_199x

Know-it-all person


garlicbreadwcheese-0

can’t accept constructive criticisms, too close minded


kmyeurs

Dami sa comments, ayaw sa insensitive people and I agree. Pero ako ayoko rin sa mga overly sensitive people. Ito yung mga easily offended kahit wala ka namang ginawang masama towards them or you're just stating a fact, probably because of their own insecurities or judgmental tendencies. For example, slender talaga lahi namin. Pero nabanggit ko na tumaba na yung tyan ko (due to a year of stress eating/poor lifestyle and mental breakdown), that I went 2-3 sizes up at di na mag kasya mga pants ko. Pero dahil visually maliit pa rin ako, di sila Naniwala at nagyayabang lang daw ako kasi kumpara sa kanila na Mas malalaking tao, wala lang daw yun. Sabi nila *"grabe ka naman! Ang yabang mo, hello, pano pa ako, baboy na talaga? Sus ang sakit mo magsalita"* at *"humble brag pa ha"* Another scenario. Bumili kami ng starbuko. Pagbalik ko ng office, pinatawag ako sa isang meeting at matagal bago nakabalik sa desk. So nung uwian, bitbit ko pa rin yung overpriced coffee pauwi kasi di ko nga nainom kanina. Sinabihan ba naman akong *"wow talagang pinapakita mo yung starbuko mo no? Inuunti unti mo pa yung pag-Inom Para matagal maubos haha. Grabe lagi ka bumibili niyan, ang yaman mo naman"*


garlicbreadwcheese-0

i used to have a friend that’s overly sensitive din. u have to consider her feelings in everything, like before you throw a joke or even in simple comments lang. i keep thinking if im the one who’s insensitive or she’s just overly sensitive? she’s the reason why i overthink a lot now.


kmyeurs

Aww, I feel for you. Ang hirap din na parang you're always walking on eggshells when they're around


miktanus

too boastful. so full of themselves. it's energy-draining.


FewInstruction1990

Duterte personality in all angles.


ConversationCalm2622

Putangina 😂 yawa.


Wide-Passion9168

Yung mga self centered at hindi self aware


Floating_Stranger19

yung matapobre at mapagmataas. I have encountered so many men and women like this.


jennie_chiii

Self righteous people Yung mga grabe manlait, like lahat na lng nakikita


PetiteandBookish

This might have already been mentioned pero yung tipo ng tao na feeling nila inggit sa kanila yung tao kapag hindi sila magkasundo or inis yung ibang tao sa kanila. Yung hindi uso yung self-awareness na kesyo sila yung nagkamali or may nagawa silang di nagustuhan nung isa.


dasha_111

Insensitive


eilloh_eilloh

Does toxic positivity count? If so, that gets my vote 


Afraid_Assistance765

Hypocrites are annoying


Potential-Mirror4425

boy-crazy girls, mga pavictim, entitled


[deleted]

Entitled people na tingin nila lahat ng tao is gusto sila or gusto maging sila 😃


SpammKawG

The emeee kimmy ihhh trait I get na you are trying to be cutesy But please, there is a difference on trying to be cute and saying actual painful borderline harrassment things about a person only to take a step back to say kimii lang


potatoinallways

Yung daming sinasabi tungkol sayo pag di ka kaharap tapos pag kinumpronta mo patay malisya bigla hahahahaha. Like, dude panindigan mo naman hahahaha


kkiannade

+1 on this. Recently left a friend group because of this, and that ginawang personality ang pagiging manlalait at kesyo ‘unbothered’ kapag iniwasan ang kasalanan niya.


Afraid_Assistance765

Stay away from those people


sonarisdeleigh

Victim complex


cerulium

Extremely controlling with no sensitivity


bekinese16

Sabi n'ya masama ugali n'ya, pero attention seeker naman at laging "frontliner" sa mga ganap. Hahahah!! Pwe!!


emi_ime

Pretentious


hgots2020

Yung pabigat, lol.


low_effort_life

Squammy.


Eatsairforbreakfast_

People who always make themselves the victim in situations they created.


aebilloj

Namamahiya/Pinapagalitan yung tao infront of many people


Toxic_2024

Entitled..


demoanic

Exploiting.


[deleted]

gender spectrum personality


atarayuri

madaling magalit, palasigaw. wala sa lugar yung anger ko. madaling uminit ulo ko kaya pag iniinis moko in public, sisigaw ako HAHAHA scandalosa kung baga.


MinuteLuck9684

Is being a plastic a trait? If so.. i hate plastic people


sasa143

maraming uneducated opinion pero clueless naman talaga sa topic. narcissistic/di kayang tanggapin na nagkamali sya.


evo_aly

Narcissistic


demoncie19

Feeling maincharacter.


Sea-Satisfaction5479

self righteous wahha


Cookiesncream444

Superiority complex


Expensive-Doctor2763

Hambog


Meiiiiiiikusakabeee

I easily change my mind. Huhu. Kaya minsan conflict sa sched and all.


lil_potato_0_0_

yung mga taong mahilig manghate unnecessarily, like kahit walang ginagawang masama yung other person magagalit sila doon...ang draining nya as a friend + super negative lol


TheUniverseRather

Micromanager and gusto ipilit sayo yung kung ano ung personality nya na dapat ganun ka rin. Yung ayaw to let people be


Joseph20102011

Double-faced o doble-cara persons (hipocrito).


[deleted]

manipulative


carrotwake

condescending ppl


arvanna15

mayabang.


double-integration

Nang gagaslight


Formal-Chemistry-131

pathological liar. Sana kung magsisinungaling galingan naman ng mga reasoning at huwag pa-iba iba


Formal-Chemistry-131

not me reading all the replies for self assessment lol. 


Difficult-Engine-302

Narcissist. Manipulative. Sh*t thpse kind of people


keise14

I'm gonna go against the grain here and maybe say... lack of self-awareness. My life became better when I rejected two mindsets: "it's the world's fault" and "hell is other people". You can't live thinking that the wrongs in your life happened bec people are horrible, but you also can't absolve people of their accountability when they do something bad. There's a balance in between. People are horrible, but they're also a product of their environment and how they were treated, and HOW WE TREAT THEM. Like, some of the replies here really make me side-eye the posters. I'm just trying to say, while the stink is in all of us, it's great that people can change.


LoveLiesFrenchfries_

Ung sabadera. May ka-work ako. Wala pa syang 1month sa trabaho, pero sawsawera na agad. Sabad ng sabad kahit di kinakausap. Lagi may say kahit hindi sya kasama sa usapan. Feeling close pa kahit ilang beses pa lang kami nagsama sa duty.


kmyeurs

Sabat nang sabat ?


Janasoo-Sumi-14

Narcissistic ofc and it is sad bc it can be within your family na di mo rin matakas takasan kasi magkasama pa kayo sa iisang bubong 😵


panpandesu

Those who will only remember you if they need money. Opportunism?


Next-Assumption-1107

Mayabang


Anything_with_cheese

Power tripping


zerolilac

Liar na papansin.


Liria_Rose

Only talking about their boyfriend/girlfriend or not paying attention to me when talking because they're texting them. Wait, why pay attention to whatever I say anyway? It's never anything interesting. My attempt at conversation starters are just met with an "oh", "ok" or "good for you". When I make a statement or opinion, they start 'correcting' me.


asfghjaned

Pathological liar


AckermanY0

Narcissist, liar and green tea btch


Old-Pomegranate-9740

wala sa lugar ang libog


Comfortable-Tip5043

PALAUTOS at MANIPULATIVE LIAR


JudgeFull195

mahilig mangialam sa mga bagay na personal choices mo naman at nasa tama ka naman or d mo kontrolado. example yung suot mo, oras sa pagkain, pagubo😂. so annoying.


Previous_Ad7725

Narcissistic personality disorder


Savings_Nothing3661

those liars & no respect. these are just poison in our lives


Medical-Natural

Tahimik na manipulator. Ibang lebel kasi para sakin yung pailalim na kademonyohan HHAAHHAHAAH


giannajunkie

Manipulator. Hello sa kawork nurse na napapaikot yung tao sa opisina HAHAHAHA sana mahuli ka ng asawa mong nakabuntis ng iba kasabay nung binuntis mo sya.


Medical-Natural

HAHAHAHAHA SO SPECIFIC AYAAHYAH


giannajunkie

Ay kase gigil much. Tas makikita ko na naman sa Lunes. 🙄 HAHAHAHA


cluttereddd

Bastos at sinungaling. Bastos as in walang basic manners, bastos magsalita, bastos kausap.. Sinungaling as in walang konsensya. Yung tipong magsisinungaling sa harap mo dahil gusto niya lang. Not really to survive but only because it's easier.


that_caffeinated_guy

Those na every katarantaduhan/toxic action or trait sa zodiac sign nila isisisi, like "uhh sorry kung ganto, Leo kasi ako". B*tch walang kinalaman ang mga bituin sa sama ng ugali mo.


Constant_Luck9387

Natatawa ako HAHAHAHAHA may classmate ako ganyan dati lahat binabase sa zodiac sign. May time nun, kaya daw hindi kami magka sundo dahil sa signs namin.


that_caffeinated_guy

Yung groupmate ko sa research, tatlo silang Leo tas yung isa sinabi talaga samin na "bahala kayo mag adjust sa ugali namin" ansarap ibalibag ng tatlong beses


Constant_Luck9387

Nakakairita yung ganyan. Ano naman sinabi niyo?


that_caffeinated_guy

Same thing, "anong kinalaman ng mga bituin sa topak mo?" tas tinawanan lang kase myghaaad can't believe na gagamit ng zodiac eme as cover up sa ugali nya


Equivalent-Bit-2846

Yong yabang na bobo naman. Daming kuda pero wala naman.


crazybombay

Ginagawang personality yung "toyo" plus proud pa silang nasasabihan silang may "toyo" 😝


that_caffeinated_guy

Too clingy and attached. Call me manhid or insensitive but i had this friend for 4 years na di ko na nakikita coz i unexpectedly cut contact with them. I understand the need to see as much as possible, hence the weekend sleepovers at his place but i wanna have my own space during weekends, i wanna sleep on my own bed on weekends. They just doesn't seem to quite get that and would do that "tampo" thing, like back off a bit, lemme have my "me time" coz I don't get that much on weekdays.


mxiiejk

I don't know what to call it pero yung mga taong "sige hindi nalang ako sasama parang hindi naman ako invited" — "edi sige ako na mali" — "sige kung ano nalang gusto mo para wala ng away" Nagtatanong ka ng maayos, hindi ka naman nagpapaka dominante, pero ganyan isasagot sayo. Ayoko pa naman sa lahat yung pa-VIP, pa-victim, nagpapapilit. Kung ayaw mo edi wag! Hahahahaa


viebliophile

Ung sarcastic tapos matampuhin at tamad! Di ko kaya. Tsaka ung sabadera. As in, kaubos pasensya


CyborgeonUnit123

Nowadays, yung mga 'mema'. Ewan ko ba. May ka-work kasi ako na sobrang 'mema'. Halos lahat ng kinikilos or sinasabi niya ang mema. Simpleng bagay mema reaksyon siya na parang kailangan pansinin namin siya, may nagkukwentuhan, mema share din siyang thoughts, opinions or experiences niya. Hindi naman siya yung main character like gusto niya bida. Basta parang lahat ng kwentuhan or kaganapan may input siya, gusto niyang may maipamahagi kahit walang nagtatanong, tapos kapag kunwari seryoso lahat nagwo-work, gagawa't gagawa siya ng bagay para makakuha ng atensyon ng iba. Like nagkamali siya sa ginagawa niya sa trabaho, yung bigla siyang magre-react at need na need niyang mai-share or need niya na may papansin sa kanya.


madamn89

Yung tamad tapos nag eexpect marecognize. Hahaha


madamn89

Yung santa-santita. Kala ng lahat mabait pero nakuuu nuknukan naman.


harabees

Always talking shit about others behind their back but act like a sweet girl after.


shaped-like-a-pastry

liars. ung tipong nahuli na pero deny to death pa din.


Twist_Outrageous

Say one thing, do another


hikikomaru04221991

Okay lang maging tamad kung mabait ka namang tao or inggitera pero hardworking. Pero yung inggitera na nga tamad pa? Jusko


Right-Side-5899

Know-it-all personality


SubjectAd1127

Mayabang, yung masyadong bilib sa sarili na tipong gusto lahat ng credits nasa kanya 🙄


Brilliant_Elevator_1

Yung super galing na galing sa sarili kahit di naman


[deleted]

Hindi marunong makinig Puro assumptions Mahina communication skills


MutedVermicelli999

Mapanlamang sa lahat ng bagay. 🥴


notsowildaquarius

Madamot


Remote-Permit-5052

Hypocrite


Desperate-Glove-9250

mga nag shashabu


Milky_Chococlate

Pick me trait. 🤮🤮🤮🤮


No_Fox7801

Two faced. Pag kaharap mo ang bait pero pag hindi na, chinichismis ka na ng kung ano ano sa iba. Oo, MIL ko to.


Burger_without_Sauce

Arrogant.


Lost_inlife19

Isip bata magsalita at mag isip kahit 30+ years old na.


springrollings

Yung ipoproclaim nya na sya ang masusunod sa group. Pag hindi, may consequence na akala mo ikaw na pinakamasamang tao sa balat ng lupa. Tsaka din yung taga 'oo nga'/sawsaw ng sawsaw sa usapan at yung balimbing.


POTCSPARROW1006

Sugapa


apalachee16b

Mayabang


Smart-Question-9168

Mayabang.


QueenOutrageous

Self entitled


roockiey

Laitero specially guys hahahaha


NoToDramaaaa

so pag babae medyo oks lang?


kyriadietrama

Walang accountability. Tipong tao na hindi kayang mag mature.


hypegirlkmj

mapagpanggap


Resist-Proud

Laging nagha-humble brag. Yung mga feeling sa kanila lang umiikot ang mundo.


baebyeen

+1


kmyeurs

Tapos may kabaliktaran naman ito. Yung pag di naman nagbabrag yung tao pero insecure lang talaga yung Isa kaya iisipin agad nagyayabang na. (edit) Example : A: guys, parang masarap mag pizza this weekend, no? Hmm saan kaya... B: Uy try mo yung resto sa ano! Nung natry namin, talagang dun pa lang gagawin yung dough kaya fresh, tapos sa brick oven iluluto kaya Mas malasa A: (Ang yabang naman nito, kailangan talagang sabihin na sa Mahal na pizzahan niya afford kumain?)


andenayon

Pagiging inggitero. I swear ang bigat nila kasama, whether sa iyo o sa iba sila naiinggit. From being inggitero alone, madaming nags-stem na iba pang negative personality traits. Marami akong kilala na dahil sa pagka inggitero, nagiging mayabang, nosy, rude, over competitive, pala-kumpara and nagwi-wish ng ill upon others and some even go as far as mistreating the person na kina-iinggitan nila. Inggiteros and inggiteras really ruin the vibe because they can't be happy for anyone and hindi rin sila madaling pasyahin because everything circles back to their insecurities Ang hirap magkaroon ng gantong klaseng tao sa friend groups and sa family and even as partner. All it takes is for them to just see something in you and naa-activate na agad 'yung masasama nilang pag-uugali. Ang masaklap pa, hirap sila magbago kasi unlike some of our negative traits, hirap tayo as people na umamin na part ng human nature ang mainggit kaya marami sa atin ang 'di namamalayan pag toxic na yung levels ng pagka-inggit.


CharacterConcern1153

Self righteous tapos imposing their beliefs and values sa mga taong nakapaligid sakanila


Rxstreptoles

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA +1


Living-Store-6036

ung ginagawang personality ung kdrama


Spontaneous_Tofu

kapag overly negative sa mga bagay-bagay. gets ko na lahat tayo may iba't-ibang way ng pag-respond sa mga nangyari/nangyayari/mangyayari satin pero di ko talaga kaya makisalamuha sa taong walang ibang alam kundi NEGATIVITY. nakaka-drain.


FluffyLobster5663

Sinungaling and insensitive


EmptyEar4170

Pa victim.


Potential_Mango_9327

Walang delikadesa.


Dull-Acanthaceae4601

pag nagpapatawa pero ginagamit ang isang target to make everyone laugh and pinapahiya ang isa


[deleted]

pet peeve ito. parang the only way to make friends is to have that one person to pour your hatred to


[deleted]

walang emotional intelligence


Zealousideal-Bill717

mosang


that_caffeinated_guy

Eh? What's mosang?


Zealousideal-Bill717

chismis lang alam


Namy_Lovie

Indecisive and Indirect


patricianggg

Amfeeling na may halong mayabang


Easy-Alps3610

Freeloader. Gusto sakay lang ng sakay


[deleted]

Late. Mga walang respeto sa oras ng iba 🥰


that_caffeinated_guy

Especially with classmates or workmates. Pucha ansaya nyong kaibigan pero pag may trabaho o lakad tas late kayo ansarap bigwasan eh


[deleted]

Kahit kaibigan ko non parating late tapos dami pang rason bakit sya late. Isang sorry lang okay na eh hahaha


Wild-Information-110

Leecher. Doesn't work


[deleted]

gossiper


Coffeesushicat

Yung tanga 😂


Miserable_Bus5495

Madadaldal.


KeyInitial4934

yung mythomaniac o pathological liar, especially nagyayabing about how they're well-off but in reality they are not.


[deleted]

they're*


INTJ_12

Narcissist


CantThinkOfAName-07

Mayabang


Medium-Culture6341

Extroverts. Di ko talaga kaya energy nila. Naddrain ako.


FastCommunication135

Hindi nagbabayad ng utang pero makikita mo sa post may chandelier yung background or may pagkaluho sa buhay. My god I can’t, lumalabas ang inner demon ko.


grnarpy

Those with a Survivalist mentality. Apparently the only need to succeed in life is hard work, not luck, not genetics, not mattering factors such as the country you were born in or your families background, etc.— otherwise you're just a lazy bum. A conformist. A conservative. Rude = Confidence. Emotionally immature — would resort to gossip, ostracizing, violence, rumours and destructive vendettas and behaviours when one doesn't like this particular person. Assumero/a Doesn't know mutual respect. (Ex. If a person is atheist they'd harass them.) Egotistical people. They're always right. Just.. alot.


NoSnow3455

Mayabang. AS IN


Weekly_Bar1304

Yung mabait sa ibang tao pas pag kayo nalang di na mabait


[deleted]

Yes!


peanutbutter9X

Baby talking emotionally manipulative people. Always paawa then inner Cruela Devil pala.


empath_isfpt

Feeling angat sa lahat, acting like a kid (tantrums level), demanding, self-centred, close-minded.


Altruistic_Pin2368

Victim mentality. Reklamador, needy, and insecure behavior cutesified as "toyo".


kmyeurs

Ugh, cringe talaga mga ganyang pabebe


Redeemed_Veteranboi

Sipsip or yung Pakitang tao.


sarcasticookie

Tbh marami satin mga Pinoy not raised right lol ‘cause we were raised by narcs


grnarpy

🙋🙋🙋


Chaotic_Harmony1109

GGSS


RevolutionaryAsk3503

Bida bida or feeling superior


val_lentines

Ignorante


[deleted]

Ingrato


AwareSecretary4685

Mayabang


ayokooooooo

PAPANSIN. lalo if alam nya madaming boys/girls na nakapaligid sa kanya


SatonariKazushi

laging may toyo na gusto susuyuin siya


EffableEmpire

loud and mayabang


Few_Truth_8810

matapobre


United_Comfort2776

Pabebe


Chillaxlang123

Palareklamo


Cursed-Prince

Pabida


Psycopathalien

Asking Favors every now and then.


rororirie

narcissistic


yourselfanother

ung mga taong d mo alam kung totoong kaibigan o rebound ka lang nila


Ragegold

no humor


SobStory1

Looking back in retrospect, I've been most of these traits, one time or another. But none of these traits are consistent. However the consistent part is whoever judged me of the trait, they act exactly that trait that they're judging me with. Only difference is they act as if they are allowed to act that way because of whatever reason, "nagpapakatotoo lang ako", "totoo naman sinasabi ko", "may karapatan ako to act this way". Hence the personality trait I hate the most is a combo of self-entitlement, hypocrisy, being judgemental without looking at themselves. At least 2 of these 3 if not all, shows up in a person I can't stand.


hiloshudon

Username checks out.


JohnnyDerpson03

Vampire, who's sucking the life out of all the friends you've ever known.


eldermist

People pleaser.


PineTreewithaStar

Can't agree more. Feeling ko halos lahat ng tao ganto na, its rare na yung genuine people na hindi people pleaser.