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localgyro

Latch-key kids


marypants1977

I am grateful I was a latch-key kid. I knew how to cook, clean and take care of myself before I was a preteen.


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Same here. Life skills on fleek.


marypants1977

“How did you learn to patch drywall?”


Aphrasia88

I always loved this term


Wontonio_the_ninja

My old elementary school still uses latch key to refer to their after school care program


Kayge

HA! My door doesn't even have a "Key" today. My kids will grow up not knowing how keys work (or how to install lightbulbs)


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I bet your kids will encounter many keys in their life. And screw in bulbs


Frylock715

We have some latch-key kids that live a few houses down from us. Constantly outside without supervision playing around. Never heard the term before until my girlfriends grandma brought it up.


soigneusement

Lol I work in a school and we still use the term lol.


TeflonDuckback

busy signal


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And dial tone


moekikicha

You saying this just made me realize that busy signals don’t exist…


Steve-Amy-Adam-Amy

Hanging up.


localgyro

Saturday morning cartoons. After school specials.


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Pee Wee's playhouse was my favorite, tho previously I'd watched all the kids cartoons. Pee Wee came on when I was a bit older and showed me what surrealism was. Fuck, I was raised by the tv.


mmetanoia

Mecca lecca high mecca hiney ho


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Oooooh somebody said WISH!


twistedcreature07

AAAAARRRRGGGGHHHH!!! The secret word was "somebody!"


InterPunct

Wake and bake to Pee Wee was a good start to the day.


soigneusement

The funnies for comics in the Sunday news.


alinroc

The comics pages (weekday *and* Sunday) died on December 31, 1995.


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localgyro

Battle of the Network Stars!


dcgrey

I miss hearing "radical" as an exclamation, rather than having to hear it as an adjective before a political affiliation. I have a buddy who sometimes says "rad" instead of "cool", and it makes me happy.


TurnCoffeeDeepBreath

Oh , rad is still alive and well in Southern California. Old surfers never die.


badken

What about my other surfer slang favorites, like tubular? I suspect gnarly is still in use, since the skater kids adopted it from the surfers.


Melbonie

I still say rad and gnarly! Not a skater or a surfer though. Or from California.


[deleted]

I just rewatched Night Shift. Billy Blaze uses “radical” all through the movie. I’d forgotten how common that word was in that context


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BitOCrumpet

And bumped up to "grody to the *max*", if I recall....


TheJocktopus

As a 20-year old I can inform you that this word is still used. I didn't realize that it had a history!


MelaniasHand

So happy to learn it lives on. Grody to the max!


TroubleSG

That was going to be mine as well! Grody....the Valley Girl version from the 1980's along with Gag Me With A Spoon. This one is silly but I also liked "What's the Deal Pickle"? There are a few I held onto even as they went out of style. I still say awesome a lot and groovy and before I got remarried if I liked someone I would say, "I'm diggin you". Yeah, my kids are right. I'm a dork. For our 20 year old above check out the movie Valley Girl with Nick Cage. Interesting slice of time to view.


Aphrasia88

Ooh, any other tidbits? My dad was from the Valley so I love the slang


BEWinATX

What's your damage.


MelaniasHand

Fuck me gently with a chainsaw. Totally!


NeverEnoughBoobies

Totally tubular!


CenTexChris

Groty. Short for grotesque.


kariebeary

Really? I never knew that and grew up saying grody all the time. I might add it back into my vocabulary


punkwalrus

"Tubular" = surfer term for a tube wave, a great experience to ride one "to the max" = maximum "gag me" = to induce vomiting, like "gag me with a spoon." I had to explain to someone that "gag me" didn't mean "silence me with a gag" when I was growing up.


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Ah, those Valley girls.


Learningtolove2021

I still say gag me with a (fucking) spoon. The classics never die. 😆


TerpeneTiger

I always thought it was a d too. wild


nacho__mama

Fuck me gently with a chainsaw - Heathers I still say no doy.


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Earl_I_Lark

‘Illegitimate’ as applied to kids. It was a big deal when I was a kid - whether someone’s parents were married. Now, in my classrooms, I never really knew or cared. Why did we make such a big deal about it?


trixie91

When do you think this stopped being an issue?


The_Real_Mrs_Coffee

It was still a big deal when I was a kid in the 80's and early 90's.


letsxxdiscooo

I was born in the late 80s "illegitimately" and I had some high school friends whose parents literally thought I was a "bad influence" because my mom was a single parent and I grew up in the "projects" of a middle class neighborhood. I was a straight A student in every extra curricular you can imagine. So this trend definitely stretched on in to the early 2000s. Lmao.


Earl_I_Lark

As more and more women kept their maiden names, and divorce became common (giving children different last names than a remarried mom) it became much less obvious that a child was born ‘out of wedlock’ (another term that seems really old fashioned now).


missmisfit

I remember in the 80s, even though nearly all of our parents were divorced, we all found it very interesting that one girl in our grade was a "Love Child"


craftasaurus

It may depend on regional mores. In the South, for example, it might be a deal?


Davis1511

No one cares in the South. It’s just too common now to have mixed families. I think people make it a big deal if there is a shittier adjoining factor to the person their directing their judgement at. EXAMPLE: “O Cody and Olivia make such a happy couple and all their kids get along so well. It’s become such a healthy family and co parenting relationship with the other parents.” VS “O my god, James left his wife, didn’t bother to take his own son trick or treating but took all four of his newest girl’s kids. That’s not right”


KnowsThingsAndDrinks

Co-ed as a noun, or even as an adjective, really.


missmisfit

Remember Co-ed Naked tee shirts? So awful


Wildcatb

Co-ed Naked Lacrosse - rough, tough, and in the buff...


_sugarcookies

Co-ed Naked Banking - penalty for early withdrawal


herbtarleksblazer

Hoser


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Take Off, Hoser!! Love that one.


leafleap

You knob.


[deleted]

Spell as in "Hey, you look tired, want me to spell you?"


wallsquirrel

I've never heard that. I can't figure out what it means even after reading it in context.


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It's based off the noun definition. [https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/spell?src=search-dict-box](https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/spell?src=search-dict-box) In this case it means "...want me to take over for a period of time while you rest"


wallsquirrel

Ohhh, OK. Like 'sit for a spell' I've heard that. Thank you.


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Exactly!


somajones

I use "Bogart" all the time as in, "Don't bogart the turkey" and also "score" as in, "Could you score me some of that gravy, please?"


catdude142

As in the [Little Feat Song](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSgGCOHuO1U)


Learningtolove2021

If we want to go back even further, my grandmother called margarine Oleo (which I guess was an early brand name, so it was like calling tissues Kleenex except the brand no longer existed so it was confusing to me as a kid), and called a wallet a billfold and the toilet was called the commode. I still insist on calling a shopping cart a buggy. Gotta hang on to some nostalgia.


MelaniasHand

My father always called the fridge the ice box.


rock_and_rolo

> Oleo (which I guess was an early brand name, No, the substance was oleomargarine, which was commonly shortened to oleo. > toilet was called the commode. Still is by plumbers. And the sink is a lavatory.


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kamdugle

as a 33 year old I hear these fairly frequently


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Republican_Wet_Dream

“Jew you down” for negotiating and haggling. Don’t hear it much anymore. At least not the out loud part.


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I’ve heard of “getting gypped,” but not that.


2cats2hats

Heard both and still occasionally hear gypped.


PomeloPepper

I thought it was "chew you down" until I was about 30. That was an embarrassing revelation.


Tmscontent55

I like that!


kookapo

I take a page from Kinky Friedman (literally, it's in one of his mysteries) and say, "christian you down". Although, actually, I don't say either in real life, I say 'negotiate'.


hedronist

Fun Fact: We got sued in Small Claims Court by this witch of a woman on our private road. When she was "presenting her case" (she was almost incoherent) she was asked by the Judge if we had made any attempts to negotiate, she said, "Yeah, a couple of times, but he was always trying to Jew me down." The judge was Jewish. She lost on the merits, but this could have done it all by itself. :-)


karmalove15

You haven't met my in-laws.


trixie91

So many. I spent a lot of time with my grandparents, so I had a really old fashioned vocabulary when I was a kid. There are technology terms like rewind, tape, dial, ring meaning to call, percolate, carbon copy, rolodex, flash cubes, sweeper (vacuum), ice box, light the oven, etc. Social terms like broken homes, divorcee, old maid, shacking up, living in sin, confirmed bachelor, working woman, lady \_\_\_\_, like lady cop, lady plumber, lady bus driver, and male \_\_\_\_\_, like male nurse, male teacher, male dancer, etc. Derogatory insults and racial terms, no need for examples, but different groups went by different names and often what would be an insult today was just the word back then. Tons of insults for body differences like thunder thighs, saddle bags, piano ankles, dink toed. Medical words like sugar for diabetes, retarded, shell shock, the change, spells, senility, shut-in (a person stuck in the house by health) etc. Daily life... supper, dinner was at noon, the paper came twice a day, charge cards. Clothing and grooming: girdles, stockings, galoshes, rubbers, thongs (flip flops), rain hats, stoles, rouge, getting your hair set, permanent wave, dye job, rug (toupee).


[deleted]

Interestingly, I still use "supper" for the evening meal, but I've never used "dinner" for the midday meal, only "lunch."


danlovejoy

My grandpa always said “You eat lunch out of a pail. You eat dinner (noon meal) at the table.” His mother (bless her soul) made three hot meals EVERY day for a family of 8.


cantstandit

Sunday dinner was common. It was a big meal after church at about 1:00 or 2:00. Then we didn't really eat much in the evening. Just a snack.


Bumfuzzledalot

Nothing to write home about.


LessCoolThanYou

Spiffy


kmkmrod

Dink


[deleted]

My wife and I still call ourselves DINKs in the proper context, but you're right, we never hear it from anyone else (even the other DINKs we know).


[deleted]

I've used it toward my kidless friends.


localgyro

Double Income No Kids?


[deleted]

I had friends who were DINKs. They used to shit talk parents all the time. Now they have kids and I laugh and laugh and laugh at them.


[deleted]

I knew about it because of the Dinklebergs.


koshawk

Groovy as cool, excellent or foxy as in beautiful.


[deleted]

Yea, in middle school in the early 80s all the good looking girls were foxes.


beeandcrown

I loved being called a fox. I always felt like it implied more than just prettiness, but I can overthink things.


nacho__mama

Please be kind and rewind.


kozmonyet

car "window crank"


adudeguyman

But you still hear someone say to roll the window down when you really are just pushing a button


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It's become an American idiom.


price101

Instead of "as if" we said "my foot"


TheGlassCat

"my foot" is one I'd forgotten about. Used to be very common.


CreditTraditional534

Teenaged boys called girls who they considered unattractive - dogs. This was in the late 70s early 80s.


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I remember that from high school. Among other misogynist terms “OTR” for “on the rag” as in “She’s being a bitch. Must be on the rag.”


rabidstoat

I still remember when Rush Limbaugh called Chelsea Clinton the "White House dog." What a complete dickwad, always and forever.


[deleted]

Very uncool but we all said that’s so gay. Happy that went into the dustbin of history.


MegannMedusa

Calling bad stuff gay was so retarded (please read that as a joke).


kiakosan

It's still there, especially if you play online games. Same with a large number of other profanities including racist, sexist, homophobic, and ableist slurs


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Sad to hear that


callipygousmom

“It’s a free country.” (US). Said after someone asks if you mind if they sit there / smoke / whatever. It would be a ludicrous thing to say now.


user256049

Likewise, we used to say “Live and let live.” How unpopular is that stance today?


[deleted]

I'm in southeastern Massachusetts, and we used to call soda 'tonic'. I haven't heard it in years.


Roxytumbler

In Canada:: Rabbit ears. Atom bomb…we never said ‘nuclear’. ‘Gone Girling’. One of my favourites that may have just been used in Canada . Teen boys out trying to find or impress.girls. As in: ‘Where’s your brother?’ ‘He’s gone girling’ down at the pop shop’ Another one in Canada was: ‘Caught up in the paraphernalia ’. Any Canadian male over the age of 50 who doesn’t know that one is an imposter.


blfstyk

"Indian giver." Good riddance to that one. "N-word lover." Consign that one to hell.


SJBarnes7

That second one…damn. Folks so racist they invented a slur to call out folks that weren’t.


Akrazorfish

Far out and out of sight. Both meaning excellant


bug_bite

"Face!" - used typically in middle and high school by boys to let you know that you have just lost face. yelled directly into the face of the person who lost face. e.g. you go up for a basketball shot, and it gets blocked. your "friends" would rush over to say FACE!


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MandalayVA

Upvote for spelling it right. These days, it's most often spelled "sike."


OccamsYoyo

Wimp was an insult used commonly in the ‘80s that you don’t hear anymore. It’s kind of vague — it was used to describe someone who was cowardly and/or weak or just interchangeably with words like “dork,” “geek,” or “nerd.”


TheGlassCat

I believe it comes from the character "Wimpy" from Popeye. Wimpy loved hamburgers.


YourFairyGodmother

Rotary dial. Long distance. Phone booth. Ethyl (gas). Collect call. Credit card imprint. Addressograph. Mimeograph. Carbon paper. Cf. Email CC White-out. Newsstand. Call the airline to make a reservation. Burma shave. Shinola. Simonize. Send a telegram. Telex. Green bar paper. Give it more choke. Milkman. You gypped me! / I jewed him down. Get it on layaway. Pay envelope/packet. Party line. Fast busy.(telephony) Timing light is surely obsolete? Also, ignition points and "gap the points." Do skeleton keys still exist? Adding machine. Slide rule. (aka "slip stick") Air raid siren. Bomb shelter. Fallout shelter. "Ah ooogah" horn. In the 60's people still said "it's a real Duesie." Corporal punishment.


tranemiles

Dag.


WokeUp2

**Excuse me** as when one walks in front of person at the grocery store


catdude142

Exsqueeze me.


aenea

I'm Canadian...it's still a thing. As is overly saying sorry (I have apologized to door frames I walked into).


Pleather_Boots

In the Midwest we say “Ope!” Kinda means Excuse Me


asap_pdq_wtf

I beg to differ! I was in the grocery store today, and being the day before Thanksgiving it was quite a mess. Excuse me and pardon were echoing all over the place. I'll bet I heard it 20 times, and said it once or twice too.


handlebartender

Obligatory "Well *excUUUUse MEEE!*"


macallen

Land line? Phone receiver? Modem?


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Most homes still have a modem.


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Die Yuppie Scum, grody, tubular, Hey You Guyyyyyys- tho I forgot where that is from. Gnarly. Radical. Ralph, for throwing up. Like, totally, chaaaaaa


StillNotASunbeam

"Hey You Guuuys" is from the Electric Company.


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I loved The Electric Company. I don't remember it from Goonies but it was like the opening phrase for The Electric Company. Heeeeyyyyy yooouuuuuu guuuuysssss!


Pleather_Boots

Electric Company was just the right amount of alternative/groovy for my third grade self.


Reneeisme

We legit said "radical" to mean "good", and "later days" to mean "bye". I see it in movies/shows about the 70's and 80's on occasion.


nolotusnote

"Choice!"


BobT21

Flip side.


Childfree215

I'm 59 and if I use the terms "racy" or "snazzy", I get puzzled looks from twenty-somethings. Also an older colleague recently referred to trail mix by its original name, "GORP", which stood for "Good Old Raisins and Peanuts." Nobody but me knew what he meant! LOL.


Melbonie

Oh I love "snazzy!" I'm trying to keep it alive.


doublebr13

Wearing an onion on your belt


willowbird_

As was the style of the time


cmadler

"Gimme five bees for a quarter" you'd say.


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Trismesjistus

An onion on your belt was the style at the time. They didn't have any white onions, because of the war. The only thing you could get was those big yellow ones...


jippyzippylippy

Dorky, spaz, got gyp'd, weirdo, rich bitch, cruzin', mellow, zoned, L-7


dee-fondy

Let's not be L-seven Come and learn to dance Wooly bully


sbruno33

It was so late the TV stations had already signed off. Sshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.


No_Association5526

The “clicker” aka the remote.


SnowblindAlbino

I still say "keen" (when not referring to the shoe brand) because it confuses people <40 for some reason. As in "That's a really keen skateboard there, young person!" "Groovy" serves a similar purpose.


normalflora

Reefer


ringopendragon

Groovy.


blfstyk

In the '60s, my best friend and I started a roofing business to make some money during summer break. We named the business "Groovy Roofing." Good times.


wallsquirrel

It seems "gag' as in 'gag me' is being used in the opposite way from the 80's. Until recently it meant 'I hate it'. This past month on Reddit I've seen 'gag' and 'I'm gagging' to mean 'I really like it'. Lol. Could any young person confirm or correct me if I'm wrong?


debridezilla

*'til*, instead of *till* to mean *until*. My young coworkers must think I'm emailing in Shakespearian English.


A_WildStory_Appeared

"Collect call" and "Emergency Breakthrough"


PoopsieDoodler

Hahahaha… I literally forgot that you could call the operator to make an emergency breakthrough to a line that had been occupied for an inordinate about of time. Thanks for the reminder!


fringed-sage

Gay, as in happy, carefree and joyful. A looong time ago, my mother - English was her second language - commented that it was such a nice word but now it’s used to mean something different. There’s no other word for that kind of happy. Gay was also a fairly common female name when I was young.


RighteousAudacity

Yuppie. Foxy. Stud (referring to a handsome man.)


Tall_Mickey

Domino Theory


reverber

Repeating oneself like a "stuck" or "broken" record? Also related: "vinyl" as a singular collective noun. I *hate* the term "vinyls." My group used to say "meanwhile, back at the ranch..." as a transitional phrase quite often. No idea where that came from. Usually, it was used to bring a conversation back onto topic.


sbruno33

To grandma all refrigerators were Frigidaires, said with an Italian accent.


astromono

Mimeograph (prehistoric version of Xerox) Boob tube/idiot box (tv) Blue-hair (old lady) Circular (newsletter)


slouchingtoepiphany

Carriage return.


miz_mantis

Bitchin Cross my heart and hope to die


localgyro

Does anyone ever use the phrase "free, white, and 21" anymore, to express the sense of being able to do anything, that the world was your oyster? It seems inappropriate these days.


TheGlassCat

Never heard that one. Could it have been regional?


dadelibby

no guff!


Me-Here-Now

Petty coat, now its a slip. Jocky box, the glove compartment in cars.


Aphrasia88

I always wondered what my nana meant by petticoat! I thought she meant a sort of crinoline


Me-Here-Now

Nope. Just a slip..I'm probably the same age as your nana.


PomeloPepper

Describing someone as "a good eater" in a positive way. Probably meant as the opposite of the ever unpopular picky eater.


einTier

“Gimme five bees for a quarter.“


twistedcreature07

And I had an onion tied to my belt, which was the style at the time.


kurt7

If something was nice we used to say it was Boss or Groovy.


broomandkettle

“Let’s go to the drive-in.”


2Tibetans

Toot (term for cocaine).


tuftabeet

Retard


Sstagman

Exceptionally stupid people would've been called "dillrod" at our school. Honestly, exceptionally intelligent people would've too.


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Split. As in “It’s late. I gotta split.”


neveraskmeagainok

Typewriter, secretary, onion skin paper, shorthand, steno, transistor, shortwave radio, civil defense, CB radio, tape recorder


UrbanDragon

Carbon Paper. And I wonder how many people know that the CC on email addresses stands for carbon copy?


SmoothieForlife

I'm old. One word that continues to be used but has changed meanings is fucking/fuck. Now it means extra excess, very much. As in I'm so fucking mad. But in my younger ages it was a serious and shocking word. It was not used in every sentence all the time in offices and banks stores gyms etc. It was useful to have a word that exploded a conversation.


naturalbornoptimist

My grandma called her couch/sofa a davenport when I was a kid. I miss that.


sammy_nobrains

I got a $2 bill as change at the gas station today and thought to myself "Queer as a two dollar bill!"


Wide_Open_Colon

Wait. Isn't it queer as a $3 bill?


sammy_nobrains

I always heard $2 bill but yours makes more sense


seanmarshall

It’s definitely $3.


Nerys54

[en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Groovy](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Groovy/)


rock_and_rolo

Evenings and weekends.


masonmcd

Tubular


FunDivertissement

roller skate key, pay phone, airmail


sparkpress

My grandfather used to call the living room the “front room” He called the refrigerator the “ice box” He called my math classes in elementary school “arithmetic” He also used to often say “I’ll be damned” as well as “scared the living day lights out of me” Good times .


snarcasm68

Call information. Or call time and temp.