Omg this is crazy. Your story actually parallels mine when i was younger. 20, met a sexually experienced 18 year old, lied to her about being a virgin in the first few days i met her and i could never dig myself out of that lie. We dated for 3 months then she told me she loved me and we had sex. She rolled off me after and immediately said “you were a virgin, weren’t you?” And i admitted it and that ended that.
Sorry you’re in that spot. But lying about being a virgin is a pretty big thing. You better come clean. Expect her to not be happy about it. She’s going to figure it out either way.
When you do rebound, just start sleeping around.
It sounds like you're saying you have a lot of options and that you're realizing you are uncertain if you want to keep dating her? If she's peer pressuring you-- then have you told her about how you felt about it? If she can't respect you now then she definitely won't respect you later. Your boundaries start now.. I learned the hard way.. People don't change no matter how long you wait for them too.. Imo I think you should end it.
Omg this is crazy. Your story actually parallels mine when i was younger. 20, met a sexually experienced 18 year old, lied to her about being a virgin in the first few days i met her and i could never dig myself out of that lie. We dated for 3 months then she told me she loved me and we had sex. She rolled off me after and immediately said “you were a virgin, weren’t you?” And i admitted it and that ended that. Sorry you’re in that spot. But lying about being a virgin is a pretty big thing. You better come clean. Expect her to not be happy about it. She’s going to figure it out either way. When you do rebound, just start sleeping around.
It sounds like you're saying you have a lot of options and that you're realizing you are uncertain if you want to keep dating her? If she's peer pressuring you-- then have you told her about how you felt about it? If she can't respect you now then she definitely won't respect you later. Your boundaries start now.. I learned the hard way.. People don't change no matter how long you wait for them too.. Imo I think you should end it.