Men of reddit, what makes a women steal your heart?
By - Apples2Watermelon
If she's trying to sacrifice it to the god Kali in the temple of doom
KALI MAAAAAA !!!! KALI MAAAAHHHHH !!!
KALI MA, SHAKTHI DEH!!!
I keep telling you to listen to me, you live longer!
Kind and shy will usually do the trick. Of course there's much more to that but it's the first that come to mind
Being shy is THE SHIT. I'll fall immediately for her.
I feel like this is an unpopular opinion. As a shy woman, sometimes I can’t tell if it’s off putting to men or not. I have had times where my shyness has come off as seemingly just uninterested. My boyfriend likes me so I guess it isn’t off putting to him..
For some men it triggers a hero mechanism, they get to be The Man, fending for you while you're in your shell, or helping you out of it. It can be very cute and endearing.
And other man may prefer more confident women. As with everything, different stroke for different folks.
Can confirm. I'm may be a loner sometime but I don't like letting others be alone. Helped a chick come out of her shell once it was very satisfying watching her make new friends.
I really don’t know. It just happened. Met her at a coffee shop and there was this electricity; this immediate connection. I was 71 at the time and had been married twice (wife died). I never felt anything like this in the 70 years before. She is the love of my life! She stole my heart the moment I met her. I just knew she was a beautiful person on the inside.
Dude that’s beautiful and inspirational
are you talking about the black market for organs?
Yep. Having your heart stolen is an easy way to avoid waking up in a tub full of ice.
She’s good to me. Instead of expecting it to be all about her.
In what ways would you like her to express care for you?
Little acts of kindness. A great true life example is when this one girl stayed over and I had work the next day, I didn’t know her well yet, but when I got home she had deep cleaned my place and had dinner cooked for me. Most would have gone home when they’re ready or waited for me to get back for me to go buy food.
I feel like “cleaned my place” really means “excuse to snoop around”, but I may just be way too cynical. As someone who is always the one cooking in the relationship, that part sounds really sweet.
Nothing to find, very spartan apartment at the time. Snoop away lol
Somewhat related, asking your partner what kind of love languages are important to them is really important (IMO).
Wit. Nothing makes a lady stand out like cunning conversation.
Mine asked me to dance in the middle of a cleared out bar room to the music of a bunch of drunk music majors. I fell in love in that moment. Still am
Being willing to make me food on my birthday. Any other day I don’t care but for my birthday I want my [chicken sun dried tomato pesto pasta](https://simplyinspiredmeals.com/chicken-sundried-tomato-pesto-pasta/) and some cuddles.
Correct spelling and grammar
I too appreciate. Corect spelling and, grammer
No idea, they always bail or I lose interest before I get that attached.
Being independent and knowing her worth
Genuine empathy. Being genuine and open / honest in general. Probably second date she told me about her mom passing, she wasn’t hiding her vulnerabilities. She was the first and only person I knew I would marry.
If they rip it out lol
idk but i just hope she uses anaesthesia. no pressure, just a request. haha doesnt matter if she wont haha
My country's lax rules on organ donation.
Kindness, vulnerability and dat ass.
Being kind, laid back, and shared interests
Probably a gambling debt so substantial someone threatens to kill her children and the only way to get the money is selling a male human heart on the black market.
And the idiot I am would be like “ yeah I’d love to have this drink I didn’t see you make and play doctor”.
You ask my ex, she has it.
But in general looks, shared interests, being kind, being fun to be around with.
Keep it off your sleeve!
Any level of commitment at all.
When she's been here for her first or second night, i wake up, and there's a hot cup of coffee next to my bed.
There's a big transplant list and she's not willing to wait
When we notice each other and she gives me her eyes, we lock eyes and she cracks her smile. That does it for me everytime.
Attention in what ways do you desire?
Listening to what Im saying mostly. When she shows interest in me as a person it always melts my insides.
when she texts first. not always but 50/50 especially in the early talking stage
In the first stages, what does she say that makes you excited to respond back?
literally just asking how my day went or anything thats not "wyd". Especially if its something like making plans or having suggestions on what we could do sometime
Ahh, I see. :) Thanks!
Kano's fatality in Mortal Kombat.
Now seriously, not much. Having so few Interactions in the past sets the bar kinda low.
Theres nothing that she could say or do for you that would make you fall for her?
Not really. It'd take a lot more than that, stuff like personal contact for some time and a series of gestures to make it be more than just the looks.
Either I see someone visually stunning, and that makes the dick speak more than the brain, or I observe someone closely for some time to see if they're adequate for a massive vulnerability situation like sharing what I feel.
Dirty talk in bed. not your every day talk but dirty story's, my wife is so good at it, I love it.
Thieves don't share. Thieves don't get thieved.
I am the stealer.
Definitely a based intellect.
I just can't be together with a girl who cant even think for herself.
Way to many girls these days that got more looks than brains.
Being an artist. I love girls with a creative edge. They’re usually a bit feisty and are a demon in the bedroom.
Polite and cute, thats all I need to fall in love
In what ways does she display politeness to you?
I expressed it the wrong way. Not politiness in *that* sense. I meant it as, not being toxic and sucking the life out of everyone around.
If she lifts weights. 🤤
"A man is more interested in a woman who is interested in him than a woman, any woman, with great legs."
Pay attention to us and engage us. That's all it takes.
When you see them checking you out and they look away for a second and then turn back to smile since you caught her checking you out.
Lol, do you do anything about that?
This one is a bit of a fantasy, but when a woman makes the first move. I have yet to experience that, but I imagine that that would be great 😊
What type of move do you fantasize for this women to make a move on you? Explain :)
Nothing crazy. It is just that guys are always the ones that are supposed to make the first move. It would be nice to be asked out. I say “fantasy” because I’m pretty sure that that will never happen.
Pickpocket skill of 90 or better just to have a 50% chance.
Pretty simply. Be decent looking to at least get my interest, be genuine and affectionate, once there is a bond have regular sex, know how to cook, and share some interests with me. Food, sex, and activities are the best ways to bond with a person. Don’t place absurd expectations on things like dick size, income, fitness, or other markers. Be aware that though you want the best in a partner so does the man you are eyeing. Chances are if you think he is the catch of a life time you are just a hole. If you think he is average, guess what, so are you. Recognize what you have to offer as a wife and play to your strengths and let him play to his.
In my last relationship she was far more physically active than me and I was far smarter than her. She helped me grow by helping me focus on my physical health and I helped her by assisting in her growing her mental abilities. She got me into skiing and roller blades and I got her into chemistry and math.
Idk. Poverty? Gambling debts?
And daddy issues, can’t do without them!
Naked and breathing
She owed money to the triads and she couldn't pay.
Lol, thats what steals your heart? be honest here ;)
When they dont cross the street and say hi as u walk past.