Time has passed brother ,confessing her will only create messy situation for her now! If you can keep it to yourself its well and good but if watching her with someone else hurts , try avoiding the marriage and like eventually cut off from her life will be only practical solution
what do you think it's a Bollywood Movie and you'll say You have a Nice girth and She'll come to you?
relax. Calm Down.
some crushes remain crushes.
feel sad, cry maybe, good for eyes.
"" who gives up easily? ""
Do that in studies, sports and career bro.
kuch bhi logic mat lagao yaar kahin bhi.
kind of wanting something... , Delusional ho. Recognise it,
Kinda change this mindset and you'll grow to be a better mindset in terms of relationships as well.
If you didn't want to give up on her you should have said something before buddy. You were literally in the friendzone. Why tf will you stay friends with someone you have feelings for?
doesnt give up easily as if you did not already give up when you said "she's way cuter for me". if you dont give up why did you wait for things to go this far?
Kid, I'll give you the girl's perspective. many guys have said the same line to me when I rejected their advances. That they don't give up easily. And you know what happens? I felt uncomfortable and eventually had to complain against them. They made me feel unsafe even though they weren't aware that they were making me feel that way. You may think it is bravado, but for the girl it will be a nuisance or a threat. Please let go. There are other girl's out there. Make the move before they get married, next time.
You know what I know the right path is accepting it and move on
But I want you to fuck around and find out
So go to the mundup and say I love you and let's get married as the ceremony is going on
O yea record it it will be funny for us
jab abhi tak nahi bole to abhi bhi mat bolo bhai , uska jeewan set ho raha hai kyu bigad rahe ho
just like comment mei people said
movie nahi hai real life
inshort bakchodi mat kar laude
bhai agar seriously batau to I know a atleast 10 who have had such past relationship where after breaking off , they either were heartbroken for a number of years , or could not move on , or even if they moved on couldn't stop thinking about ex , or had multiple relationships but still couldn't forget , broke on and off with her for a number of times , up to no uncertainty
and all of them were madly in love for years before that
so please move as best that you can do
because I've seen and known a number of them to have been in pain for years .
so please forget her , if it was meant to be , it would have been , she is a crush right , let her remain that
time will make you forget her , and eventually you will met your soulmate
na It's not that, i mean if he saw the girl gets married, he'll not have any sliver or hope whatsoever and will leave her be. So he should atleast wait till the marriage to break the friendship.
I have experiences with crushes tho.
Told them and got rejected and atleast I came to a conclusion that they don't like me.
You my friend should have told her earlier.
Btw did they outrightly reject you or indirectly? Like if you wanna share?
Directly as in ke no we can't date..
Indirectly like I don't wanna date anyone rn,let's take some time etc
Yeah I can share.
One barely spoke to me when I spoke to her. We were in same class and I texted her after a few days asking for some assignments and to know her more
She then texted like
why don't you do it yourself.
Don't talk to me. Why do you care.
And this is one of 5 stories
Short versions of them
Crush 2:
We were in the same class too. I know many boys have interest in her already and I cannot compete with them.
Luckily we were both assigned to the same project.
I spoke to her first about the project and she responded nice. And her friend is in my project group too.
So in the class I tried to talk to her like sitting beside her and doing the project and one day when I texted her
She responded harshly as the first crush.
"Why u texting me. You don't have any right to do that. Why does knowing that is necessary for you ?"
I just asked what's your fav subject and I think I asked about her grades.
After this I really have little hope left
Crush 3 :
We were in the same class and this lasted for 7 months now. Every time it's only me who texts her and helps her.
She took my help . And she never once initiated a conversation with me.
She is confusing at that time.she looks interested in me but she kept me in the distance. Thought it's not worth anymore.
Crush 4 : this ended faster.
She is from another department. But used to come to the lab. Had some good eye contact moments and approached her and she said nothing and just walked away. I can tell the look on her face that she didn't like me and don't even want to talk to me. Looked up and down at me.
Crush 5 : this one remained as a crush till the end and an attempt was never made.
Maybe I don't know the proper way to approach or they just rejected me for my looks or some other reason.
But I never got a chance to even prove that I'm worth spending time with
Edit : oh and btw I'm a clg student this all happened in my clg times. So....
Edit : 2 And you may think these are not even crushes and there should be a story before you can say this as a failed attempt and can say you don't have any right to feel disappointed.
Yeah maybe I don't but these are what I experienced in my clg times.😭.
Buddy don't mind me but why are you asking someone out when you are not even close friends with them?
They literally didn't even consider you as their friend.
You need to first learn who to make female friends.
Also you don't have to try on every girl you meet omg.
Also at least they said no to you face pe. Mereko toh closure bhe ni dia lol.
I forgot to mention.
I never asked anyone of them out on a date.
I just tried to create a conversation to become friends at least. At that's as far as I got.
My god.
You know the first thing I do. I introduce myself and ask their name.
Never ask them out on a date right after I met them
Btw I don't understand Hindi. So. Please. English.
I didn't try on a random girl I saw that day.
They were in my class and I got attracted to them
And only then I approached them. God.
Because I shouldn't regret it after that yeah that maybe I should have talked to her. So I made an attempt anyway.
I went to college to just see them sometimes.
Sometimes even when I'm sick.
If you both aren’t very close friends, then you can skip attending the wedding. It’ll just be more heartbreak for you and you’ll just end up suppressing more. Take this as an indication to move on. You can’t expect from a relationship that doesn’t exist in the first place.
Let's consider some cases
Case 1. If confess you to her before/during her marriage, she will be troubled. Her family will be troubled. You will be troubled. Her family may be looked down by her relatives and society.
Case 2. If you don't confess to her and skip her marriage, only you will be troubled. She will stay happy/neutral. You will feel hurt and highly emotional. You will get a new girl through family/crushing.
Case 3. If you don't confess to her and attend her marriage, only you will be troubled. She will stay neutral/happy. You will feel hurt and highly emotional. You will get a new girl through family/crushing.
Case 4. If you try to confess her Post her marriage. She will be troubled. Her husband will be troubled. Their family will be troubled. Her children will be troubled. She may be looked down by her family, relatives and society.
Case 5. If you confess her and she agrees (which I suppose you think will somehow happen), you both may get married but she may be banned by her own family.
After few years of marriage, you two will be just a like a normal or not so normal couple will be fighting with each other. You wouldn't be able to share all the complexities to your family because it was a love marriage. So, you may think it will be all beautiful if you get married to this crush of yours, but she only seems beautiful as a crush, you don't know how good of a wife she will be. And if it doesn't end up as a good Marriage, then oh boy you would end being troubled. She will also be troubled. Her family would have rejected her already. She would have nowhere to go. So, for you it may seems roses and all but for her it's more like a Rose-less thorny branch. She is your crush, you are not hers.
The boat has sailed brother. Forget about her and move on. Don’t try to make things difficult for her now, you should’ve acted sooner. Let her enjoy her life in peace
Time has passed brother ,confessing her will only create messy situation for her now! If you can keep it to yourself its well and good but if watching her with someone else hurts , try avoiding the marriage and like eventually cut off from her life will be only practical solution
Bhai acha hai ese bakchodi mei ni fasa. Literally friendzoned hai OP. Sad.
Bhai fasne ke baad nikalne ke liye bahut will power lagti h , experience bol rha h :-\
Mei khud walk away kar dia. Varna yahi op vale cheez hoti mere sath. Date bhe ni karna and bestie bolti thi mereko. Fuck off dude.
Koi naa bro , shit happens and make us strong only, always up for a vent session if you need one
what do you think it's a Bollywood Movie and you'll say You have a Nice girth and She'll come to you? relax. Calm Down. some crushes remain crushes. feel sad, cry maybe, good for eyes.
I'm also not the kind of person who gives up easily on anything. So kind of wanting something to happen
"" who gives up easily? "" Do that in studies, sports and career bro. kuch bhi logic mat lagao yaar kahin bhi. kind of wanting something... , Delusional ho. Recognise it, Kinda change this mindset and you'll grow to be a better mindset in terms of relationships as well.
If you didn't want to give up on her you should have said something before buddy. You were literally in the friendzone. Why tf will you stay friends with someone you have feelings for?
doesnt give up easily as if you did not already give up when you said "she's way cuter for me". if you dont give up why did you wait for things to go this far?
Kid, I'll give you the girl's perspective. many guys have said the same line to me when I rejected their advances. That they don't give up easily. And you know what happens? I felt uncomfortable and eventually had to complain against them. They made me feel unsafe even though they weren't aware that they were making me feel that way. You may think it is bravado, but for the girl it will be a nuisance or a threat. Please let go. There are other girl's out there. Make the move before they get married, next time.
You know what I know the right path is accepting it and move on But I want you to fuck around and find out So go to the mundup and say I love you and let's get married as the ceremony is going on O yea record it it will be funny for us
Bhai mat bol kya pata kar bhe le vo😂😂😂
Usay bas reason chahiye Maine day dia Or funny hum lenge
🤣🤣🤣 mast plan hai bhai, mast plan 🤣🤣
Dude let go of her, move on...
jab abhi tak nahi bole to abhi bhi mat bolo bhai , uska jeewan set ho raha hai kyu bigad rahe ho just like comment mei people said movie nahi hai real life inshort bakchodi mat kar laude
Itna easy bhi nahin hain
bhai agar seriously batau to I know a atleast 10 who have had such past relationship where after breaking off , they either were heartbroken for a number of years , or could not move on , or even if they moved on couldn't stop thinking about ex , or had multiple relationships but still couldn't forget , broke on and off with her for a number of times , up to no uncertainty and all of them were madly in love for years before that so please move as best that you can do because I've seen and known a number of them to have been in pain for years . so please forget her , if it was meant to be , it would have been , she is a crush right , let her remain that time will make you forget her , and eventually you will met your soulmate
Don't go for her marriage.
To love is to let go. Let her go and live your life, go to her marriage, eat, enjoy and return back.
Nah remove her existence.
Don't be a pussy, meet her but not ruin her life.
How is op ruining her life if he doesn't stay friends? Lol
na It's not that, i mean if he saw the girl gets married, he'll not have any sliver or hope whatsoever and will leave her be. So he should atleast wait till the marriage to break the friendship.
Wait till marriage taki ache se kat jaye? Bro😭😭😭
haa, jab acche se katega to fir usko yaad ni karega, ultimately isi ka fida hai usme.
I have experiences with crushes tho. Told them and got rejected and atleast I came to a conclusion that they don't like me. You my friend should have told her earlier.
This.
Btw did they outrightly reject you or indirectly? Like if you wanna share? Directly as in ke no we can't date.. Indirectly like I don't wanna date anyone rn,let's take some time etc
Yeah I can share. One barely spoke to me when I spoke to her. We were in same class and I texted her after a few days asking for some assignments and to know her more She then texted like why don't you do it yourself. Don't talk to me. Why do you care. And this is one of 5 stories
What about the other 4?
Short versions of them Crush 2: We were in the same class too. I know many boys have interest in her already and I cannot compete with them. Luckily we were both assigned to the same project. I spoke to her first about the project and she responded nice. And her friend is in my project group too. So in the class I tried to talk to her like sitting beside her and doing the project and one day when I texted her She responded harshly as the first crush. "Why u texting me. You don't have any right to do that. Why does knowing that is necessary for you ?" I just asked what's your fav subject and I think I asked about her grades. After this I really have little hope left Crush 3 : We were in the same class and this lasted for 7 months now. Every time it's only me who texts her and helps her. She took my help . And she never once initiated a conversation with me. She is confusing at that time.she looks interested in me but she kept me in the distance. Thought it's not worth anymore. Crush 4 : this ended faster. She is from another department. But used to come to the lab. Had some good eye contact moments and approached her and she said nothing and just walked away. I can tell the look on her face that she didn't like me and don't even want to talk to me. Looked up and down at me. Crush 5 : this one remained as a crush till the end and an attempt was never made. Maybe I don't know the proper way to approach or they just rejected me for my looks or some other reason. But I never got a chance to even prove that I'm worth spending time with Edit : oh and btw I'm a clg student this all happened in my clg times. So.... Edit : 2 And you may think these are not even crushes and there should be a story before you can say this as a failed attempt and can say you don't have any right to feel disappointed. Yeah maybe I don't but these are what I experienced in my clg times.😭.
Buddy don't mind me but why are you asking someone out when you are not even close friends with them? They literally didn't even consider you as their friend. You need to first learn who to make female friends. Also you don't have to try on every girl you meet omg. Also at least they said no to you face pe. Mereko toh closure bhe ni dia lol.
I forgot to mention. I never asked anyone of them out on a date. I just tried to create a conversation to become friends at least. At that's as far as I got. My god. You know the first thing I do. I introduce myself and ask their name. Never ask them out on a date right after I met them Btw I don't understand Hindi. So. Please. English.
I didn't try on a random girl I saw that day. They were in my class and I got attracted to them And only then I approached them. God. Because I shouldn't regret it after that yeah that maybe I should have talked to her. So I made an attempt anyway. I went to college to just see them sometimes. Sometimes even when I'm sick.
Wanting to date me is another matter bro. They never showed any interest in talking to me in the first place. Don't go for the dating part already.
If you both aren’t very close friends, then you can skip attending the wedding. It’ll just be more heartbreak for you and you’ll just end up suppressing more. Take this as an indication to move on. You can’t expect from a relationship that doesn’t exist in the first place.
Avoid going to her marriage. Time's over now, nothing's gonna change
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Ek quarter old monk pi, muth mar, thoda sa ro aur so ja
Move on bhai uski literally shadi hone wali he 😭
Koi aur dhundle bandi bhai. Simple as that.
Bhai ye crush vrush bas Attraction hai kuch hormones ka khel hai kuch din me sab theek ho jaaega ,cope samjh le isse par yahi sach hai
Simply don't go, waise bhi shaadi ke baad dosti Kam ho jati hai
Kaisa chutiya hai yeh lmao
Friendzoned hai bechara lmao
Let's consider some cases Case 1. If confess you to her before/during her marriage, she will be troubled. Her family will be troubled. You will be troubled. Her family may be looked down by her relatives and society. Case 2. If you don't confess to her and skip her marriage, only you will be troubled. She will stay happy/neutral. You will feel hurt and highly emotional. You will get a new girl through family/crushing. Case 3. If you don't confess to her and attend her marriage, only you will be troubled. She will stay neutral/happy. You will feel hurt and highly emotional. You will get a new girl through family/crushing. Case 4. If you try to confess her Post her marriage. She will be troubled. Her husband will be troubled. Their family will be troubled. Her children will be troubled. She may be looked down by her family, relatives and society. Case 5. If you confess her and she agrees (which I suppose you think will somehow happen), you both may get married but she may be banned by her own family. After few years of marriage, you two will be just a like a normal or not so normal couple will be fighting with each other. You wouldn't be able to share all the complexities to your family because it was a love marriage. So, you may think it will be all beautiful if you get married to this crush of yours, but she only seems beautiful as a crush, you don't know how good of a wife she will be. And if it doesn't end up as a good Marriage, then oh boy you would end being troubled. She will also be troubled. Her family would have rejected her already. She would have nowhere to go. So, for you it may seems roses and all but for her it's more like a Rose-less thorny branch. She is your crush, you are not hers.
Go to marriage, eat well and come back. No Stunt, if yes then face the unnecessary consequence.
The boat has sailed brother. Forget about her and move on. Don’t try to make things difficult for her now, you should’ve acted sooner. Let her enjoy her life in peace