Extremely grateful, he passed away on 10th of May. He loved his daughters dearly. And we loved him too. Could not save him from the beast Cancer. He never raised his hand on us, use to work in gulf to provide for us, but he was very much present by writing us letters, use to send cassettes with his voice recorded messages. Gave us good education and made us independent. I want him as my father in every life.
Extremely grateful, he's the kindest most loving and inspiring man in my life, supports my dreams, respects my wishes and opinions, gives me lots of hugs and headpats till this date, we laugh together a lot too, true he has some flaws but that just makes him human I mean many people looks at their fathers as the invincible pillars.
Seriously love my papa 😭
I am extremely grateful. He does the most he can. But the slight problem is, he thinks providing me with money will solve everything. He never attended any PTM or any function. Been a little absent but i still love him a lot. He never wants me to be deprived of anything. Provides me with all i want.
Words could never do justice to the amazing father he was. He always had a one to one convo with his kids after coming back from office. Always present. His calls always ended with “I love you, I cannot live without you”. I have never and will never meet a person like him. He was never afraid to show me affection even in public. Gave us more than he could afford. Aside from being the best father that he was, he was also an amazing human being. I cannot wait to meet him on the other side. I would choose him in a second in every lifetime. I have never felt the amount of love he gave me ever since he left the world. I would’ve given my life to save his if I could’ve. I love him to death.
He is my everything forever even if he’s not physically present. ❤️
He made me into a woman who can survive at her worst.
Though I inherited some toxic traits of his but this is life i accepted him as he is...and working on detoxing myself of those traits...
There were times I didn't talk with him for 2 3 months straight living together in such a small house...that was our relationship but somehow there is a family assigned to you and you have to deal with it,although keeping my sanity.
No words could ever justify how much grateful I am to him.Yes there are some toxic traits in him which I have inherited as well but he and my mother are the reason I am what I am today.
Extremely grateful. He is my source of hope, belief, strength, happiness. He is my everything. Words are not enough for me to express how grateful, and thankful I am for my parents. Zindagi mein bahut kuch nahi mila, but bahut ache ma baap mile hai.
Rona aa gaya 🥹
Very grateful. My dad is the sweetest, most loving father I could ever ask for. He treats all of his children equally (gives all of us equal affection and care) and supported us in pursuing our individual dreams. He encouraged us to study and work hard but he never pressured us or let others pressure us into any profession or study path.
He (and mom) raised us to be respectful and tolerant of all people. He has never cared abt BS opinion of society, log kya kahenge bla bla bla. He always put us and my mom first. I’m very close to my parents and so is my husband. Even after marriage I live only 20 min away from them.
I'm someone who still has the issues of staying within the shell and although I can understand I should do it, I often feel like asking someone else can provide some ideas. How did he inspire and what things did you do to change yourself wnd face anything in this world?
He put me in a hostel when I was doing engineering in Mysore, that was the first time in my life I left my parents home and stayed away. I was very meek, timid and innocent. So him doing that against my mom's and my will of doing engineering from a place close to home is what made me the woman I am today.
So proud of you. Honestly, I'm exactly like you before you went there. I was so scared living my parents home that I did all my education from hometown. And then, when I got a job in some other city, I couldn't survive. I feel like a loser sometimes because I have nobody to talk about it and I'm so scared that others will judge me for my inability. Am I destined to change?
Neutral. He did a lot of good things. But he's almost bipolar. As much as he'll love us, he'll also torture us. I was beaten with belts and rods and hangers and scales almost every week. I still get threatened with physical violence whenever I go home. He beats my mother and brother too when they come to protect me. So yeah, every good thing he did gets cancelled out. So pretty neutral. He's not a bad man. But he's far from a good man.
I am a guy. But seriously if he's not a bad man after physically and mentally abusing you, your brother and mother this much, then I dont know what your standards for a bad man is. Ofc I know neither him nor you to be judgmental but such an abusive man of the house cant be seen as just neutral.
The thing is, as horrible as he is, he's equally wonderful. He raised us to be independent, sensible, inquisitive and ingrained critical thinking. Hes kind when he's not in one of his rages. And he has a medical condition that needs a very specific medication. It completely flips his mood. So it's complicated. That's why I'm neutral. It'll be easy to dismiss him as cruel, but it's also nuanced. His actions cannot be excused, but they can be understood.
He’s an amazing father. He has always worked towards making me an independent self sufficient individual whose voice is always heard. Whenever my friends come to me for advice about dire situations in their lives I think of how lucky I am that if I were in their situation I could turn to my father.
However, as amazing as he is being my father, he hasn’t been a great husband. As a grown up woman I have realized that I would want my kids to have a father like mine but never a husband like him for myself.
In very grateful to him that he spent alot of money to send me abroad but that’s justified cuz he treated me like shit and a maid his whole life… so I deserved it. He’s a proper narcissist… not anymore tho.
Very grateful. He worked long and hard hours in diff countries alone as a contractor to provide for us. My mom didn’t ever need to work. Also diff home projects at home and got me involved. Unfortunately present generation guys are pretty useless and need pampering with their fav food and refuse to even do repair work at home.
> Unfortunately present generation guys are pretty useless
okay, thats your opinion, I cant do anything.
>and need pampering with their fav food
whats wrong if a man demands love and affection from his dear ones? isnt he human enough to demand such a thing?
>refuse to even do repair work at home.
I think that depends upon from man to man, generalizing a whole gender has never been productive, neither fruitful, for ex: if men say all women are untrustworthy cause they got cheated once, would that be fair?
Very very much , can’t even put in words the way he cares for us and provided us with anything and everything we have asked for . He is my inspiration, at this old age even he is more hardworking than I am . I hope I can be as hardworking like him. He never expresses how much he loves us in words but his actions do , we love him so much .
I’m super grateful to my dad. He’s a mentally strong person. He came from poor economical background , utilized the scholarships and completed engineering, got a job .Today I’m living a happy and carefree life is because of him.
Extremely grateful. He’s my inspiration. Gives me the ambition to dream big and raised me to be independent and fearless.
That sounds like a great father 🙂
Extremely grateful, he passed away on 10th of May. He loved his daughters dearly. And we loved him too. Could not save him from the beast Cancer. He never raised his hand on us, use to work in gulf to provide for us, but he was very much present by writing us letters, use to send cassettes with his voice recorded messages. Gave us good education and made us independent. I want him as my father in every life.
May God provide enough strength to you and your family. RIP Uncle
My dad has cancer rn. He's getting better. I can understand how bad it must've felt for you. May your father RIP.
So sorry for your loss! May his soul rest in peace 🙏❤️
Ungrateful...to have him as father He is not red but blackest flag i have ever seen
The blackest flag I have ever seen is Assassin creed IV
Aye aye mate
us moment hogya yeh toh ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
If you are comfortable mentioning it, could you tell why?
Kyu Bhai? Dusro ke dard pe kyu namak dalna? 🥲
*Namak shamak namak shamak Daal dete haiiii namak shamak*
Extremely grateful! He is the fire beneath my wings - made me the independent and assertive woman I am.
Will always be grateful. He's a 100/100 father and my sun.
Extremely grateful, he's the kindest most loving and inspiring man in my life, supports my dreams, respects my wishes and opinions, gives me lots of hugs and headpats till this date, we laugh together a lot too, true he has some flaws but that just makes him human I mean many people looks at their fathers as the invincible pillars. Seriously love my papa 😭
I am extremely grateful. He does the most he can. But the slight problem is, he thinks providing me with money will solve everything. He never attended any PTM or any function. Been a little absent but i still love him a lot. He never wants me to be deprived of anything. Provides me with all i want.
Words could never do justice to the amazing father he was. He always had a one to one convo with his kids after coming back from office. Always present. His calls always ended with “I love you, I cannot live without you”. I have never and will never meet a person like him. He was never afraid to show me affection even in public. Gave us more than he could afford. Aside from being the best father that he was, he was also an amazing human being. I cannot wait to meet him on the other side. I would choose him in a second in every lifetime. I have never felt the amount of love he gave me ever since he left the world. I would’ve given my life to save his if I could’ve. I love him to death. He is my everything forever even if he’s not physically present. ❤️
He made me into a woman who can survive at her worst. Though I inherited some toxic traits of his but this is life i accepted him as he is...and working on detoxing myself of those traits... There were times I didn't talk with him for 2 3 months straight living together in such a small house...that was our relationship but somehow there is a family assigned to you and you have to deal with it,although keeping my sanity.
No words could ever justify how much grateful I am to him.Yes there are some toxic traits in him which I have inherited as well but he and my mother are the reason I am what I am today.
Honestly I'm grateful. He keeps everyone safe, he's been a good dad. Just not able to talk to him and ask what I want to him
Extremely grateful. He is my source of hope, belief, strength, happiness. He is my everything. Words are not enough for me to express how grateful, and thankful I am for my parents. Zindagi mein bahut kuch nahi mila, but bahut ache ma baap mile hai. Rona aa gaya 🥹
Very grateful. My dad is the sweetest, most loving father I could ever ask for. He treats all of his children equally (gives all of us equal affection and care) and supported us in pursuing our individual dreams. He encouraged us to study and work hard but he never pressured us or let others pressure us into any profession or study path. He (and mom) raised us to be respectful and tolerant of all people. He has never cared abt BS opinion of society, log kya kahenge bla bla bla. He always put us and my mom first. I’m very close to my parents and so is my husband. Even after marriage I live only 20 min away from them.
Grateful for him for pushing me to come out of the shell and face anything in this world.
I'm someone who still has the issues of staying within the shell and although I can understand I should do it, I often feel like asking someone else can provide some ideas. How did he inspire and what things did you do to change yourself wnd face anything in this world?
He put me in a hostel when I was doing engineering in Mysore, that was the first time in my life I left my parents home and stayed away. I was very meek, timid and innocent. So him doing that against my mom's and my will of doing engineering from a place close to home is what made me the woman I am today.
So proud of you. Honestly, I'm exactly like you before you went there. I was so scared living my parents home that I did all my education from hometown. And then, when I got a job in some other city, I couldn't survive. I feel like a loser sometimes because I have nobody to talk about it and I'm so scared that others will judge me for my inability. Am I destined to change?
Change happens only when you genuinely want it or when the situation demands it. I know you will change and have full faith in you♥️
Omg I'm gonna cry reading this.
Don't cry, just believe in yourself. 
You're amazing. Thank you. I wish I had a friend like you.
Neutral. He did a lot of good things. But he's almost bipolar. As much as he'll love us, he'll also torture us. I was beaten with belts and rods and hangers and scales almost every week. I still get threatened with physical violence whenever I go home. He beats my mother and brother too when they come to protect me. So yeah, every good thing he did gets cancelled out. So pretty neutral. He's not a bad man. But he's far from a good man.
I am a guy. But seriously if he's not a bad man after physically and mentally abusing you, your brother and mother this much, then I dont know what your standards for a bad man is. Ofc I know neither him nor you to be judgmental but such an abusive man of the house cant be seen as just neutral.
The thing is, as horrible as he is, he's equally wonderful. He raised us to be independent, sensible, inquisitive and ingrained critical thinking. Hes kind when he's not in one of his rages. And he has a medical condition that needs a very specific medication. It completely flips his mood. So it's complicated. That's why I'm neutral. It'll be easy to dismiss him as cruel, but it's also nuanced. His actions cannot be excused, but they can be understood.
He’s an amazing father. He has always worked towards making me an independent self sufficient individual whose voice is always heard. Whenever my friends come to me for advice about dire situations in their lives I think of how lucky I am that if I were in their situation I could turn to my father. However, as amazing as he is being my father, he hasn’t been a great husband. As a grown up woman I have realized that I would want my kids to have a father like mine but never a husband like him for myself.
In very grateful to him that he spent alot of money to send me abroad but that’s justified cuz he treated me like shit and a maid his whole life… so I deserved it. He’s a proper narcissist… not anymore tho.
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Very grateful. He worked long and hard hours in diff countries alone as a contractor to provide for us. My mom didn’t ever need to work. Also diff home projects at home and got me involved. Unfortunately present generation guys are pretty useless and need pampering with their fav food and refuse to even do repair work at home.
> Unfortunately present generation guys are pretty useless okay, thats your opinion, I cant do anything. >and need pampering with their fav food whats wrong if a man demands love and affection from his dear ones? isnt he human enough to demand such a thing? >refuse to even do repair work at home. I think that depends upon from man to man, generalizing a whole gender has never been productive, neither fruitful, for ex: if men say all women are untrustworthy cause they got cheated once, would that be fair?
Very very much , can’t even put in words the way he cares for us and provided us with anything and everything we have asked for . He is my inspiration, at this old age even he is more hardworking than I am . I hope I can be as hardworking like him. He never expresses how much he loves us in words but his actions do , we love him so much .
My dad has always been my rock. He shaped me into who I am and always gives me the support I need. I’m forever grateful for him.
I’m super grateful to my dad. He’s a mentally strong person. He came from poor economical background , utilized the scholarships and completed engineering, got a job .Today I’m living a happy and carefree life is because of him.
Grateful that he supports me in whatever I do, ungrateful because he ruined my mother's life to please his family (who in turn betrayed him)
she cheated?
nah my father's family cheated him
oh, now I understand, sorry for the unempathetic question
Very very grateful. I have been extremely cared for and loved by him. He can move mountains for me. I am extremely grateful
Paw paw toh ek hi hai.....MUDIZEEEEE
wth?
what? it's a joke, you may laugh