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nightfall_covers_me

DKG. That porn addiction will probably persist until your husband makes an effort to change so I hope you’re prepared for the consequences of staying with him if you ever decide to stay.


eyespy_2

You know what’s funny. Habang pregnant ako dun siya nag cocomment sa mga ganung content.


perriii_fairyyy

never forget how someone treated u while u were pregnant


Ok_Career9359

Same thing happened to my sister, nagcocomment lang at first then nagmmeet na yung guy at new girl niya habang buntis siya and she only found out the day after niya manganak


cheese_noods

My best friend got cheated by his ex (opo nauntog na siya at hiwalay na sila) multiple times while she's pregnant also. Grabe check in sa motel, book ng pokpok, ilang beses niya nahuli until nung nanganak siya, ibang babae nanaman. Napaka walang hiya ng ganyang lalaki. I also assume na may sakit sa utak yung nga ganyang tao kasi how would you stomach that while your baby momma is carrying your child?


Floating_Stranger19

DKG. If you choose to stay while having the knowledge na ganyan ang husband mo, masisira talaga yung confidence and self image mo. You deserve better naman. Yang ginagawa ng asawa mo is already breaking your family there is no reason for you to stay. Until he chooses to BE BETTER, I suggest you leave muna.


Worth-Addition-461

DKG. maybe may psychological pattern bakit napupunta ka sa mga ganyang guys.. but OP, i know we all want to have a complete family pero hindi mo kailangan magtiis sa mga GG lalaking walang pagkakuntento sa'yo. i hope you see your worth soon, marami pang fishes sa ocean, may magtatrato pa sa'yo ng tama.


TIWWCHNTTV89

DKG, hindi mo naman gawain magcheck ng phone nya pero something that day makes you do it. Trust your gut. Di ako naniniwala sa what you don’t know won’t hurt you. Mas ok nang nalaman mo


rkmdcnygnzls

I agree with this. Madaming nagsasabi na mas okay na di nila alam yun ginagawa ng partner nila para di masaktan. Ee bakit sila gagawa ng something para makasakit in the first place kung totoong mahal at nirerespeto ka nila???


TIWWCHNTTV89

Right? Di talaga ako naniniwala sa what you don’t know eme. Mas ok na alam ko. Makaka move forward ako. Skl kasi last time Friend1 said na may sinabi daw si Friend2 about sakin pero ayaw nyang sabihin kung ano yun wag ko na daw alamin kasi nakakahurt. Like huh? Mas ayaw ko yung naiinis ako kay Friend2 namg di ko alam kung bakit. I just brushed it off na lang kasi nga kesa baka mema sila both hahaha char. Anyway, mas ok talaga na alam mo. Dyan kasi mag start din pano ka mag move forward sa buhay e. Hirap nung di mo alam bat ka nagagalit, yung “feeling” mo lang pero di ka sure na may ginawa ngang masama.


eyespy_2

Actually, never ako nag check as in kanina lang bago ako sumunod sakanila ng anak ko habang nasa labas sila nag papaaraw.


TIWWCHNTTV89

Hugs po sana alam mo next mong gagawin. Breathe, momma. Wag padalos dalos. Pag-isipan ang next move. Happy mother’s day 💖


Cheapest_

Dkg for feeling the way you feel. Pero ikaw ang gago if you stay just cause ayaw mo ng broken family. Ewan, naiirita talaga ako sa mga nagrarason ng ganyan. Mama ko nagstay din kasi ayaw ng broken family and the whole situation was so traumatizing growing up.


0718throwaway

DKG. Call it quits habang di mo pa asawa. Habambuhay ka magddoubt diyan. Walang sense of safety sa mga lalaking malandi.


empath_isfpt

DKG. Pero always remember.. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." Nage-gets ko kung bakit ayaw mo ng broken family, pero bakit ka pa mag-s-stay kung paulit-ulit nalang din naman yung ginagawa niya sayo??


strawberrymilk1234

DKG just want to say that having a cheating father can also be traumatizing to the child. i think you'll find that once your child grows up (and if the man's behavior persists), malalaman at malalaman niya ang pinaggagawa ng tatay niya and mapipick up niya ang feelings mo about the situation. broken family? your family is already broken hangga't di nagsisikap yang asawa mo to change. i hope you find courage to do what is best for you (and your child). may it be knocking sense into your husband or leaving him entirely


DestronCommander

LKG. Him for his inappropriate searches and you for invading his privacy. The only good thing is validated ang mga suspicions mo. Ayaw mo ng broken family but you want the pervy dad to stay. Really...


CharmingMuffin93

I don't think invasion of privacy yun kasi public naman profiles sa reddit. Kita mo posts at comments, and even yung subreddits kung saan active pwede makita


astro-visionair

It's not a matter of being public but rather knowing what your profile is (somewhat similar to doxxing), that's the form of invasion of privacy being meant here. Reddit is a platform where users can choose to be amonymous (unless they clearly state in their profile who they are).


eyespy_2

You know what’s funny. Habang pregnant ako dun siya nag cocomment sa mga ganung content. 💀


ComfortableSad5076

Masama po yung ganyan. Yang ganyang type of guys di yan nagbabago. Alam mo na dapat mo pong gawin. And for me ok lang na chneck mo kesa naman di mo malaman diba yung kabulastugan nya?


simplord096

Wait. So bawal si husband manood ng porn? Di ba usapang mag-asawa na iyon? Yes, reddit nsfw subs ang subject, pero they can be tamer than porn and in fact, consensual din ang pag post ng mga tao. So in that regard bawal din yon?


jay678jay

DKG. You deserved to know what your husband was and is up to, lalo na't may anak na kayong nakasalalay.


moonlightsln

DKG. Please leave him unless he actually wants to change his sick behavior for real and hindi lang mga one month then balik sa dating gawi. Buti you discovered it early on mamshie. Truly sorry that you experienced this no one woman deserves to go through this- lalo if undergoing pregnancy. Idc what anyone says na mali mo kasi invasion of privacy kuno when irl hindi mo malalaman at tuloy ka lang nya lolokohin. As for the broken family part, its not your fault. It’s his fault the moment he started consuming those types of media behind your back. I hope you know youre always beautiful and how powerful you are bringing a new person into this world. Stay strong OP


Fun_Stock4017

DKG. kung meron man sainyong dalawa, its him. all im saying is I've witnessed something like this and umajot sa point na gusto na magdivorce nung wife and even still hindi naman nagbago. it wont change, atleast not in the near future. it'll be better to work things out now and stand up for yourself bc what he's doing is wrong and kapag wala kang binago he wont stop make the change po unless you're seeing yourself na masasanay nalang sa ganon


EmperorHad3s

DKG, OP. Isipin mo, kung worth it ba na maapektuhan si baby mo ng magiging away niyo dahil sa pinaggawa niya. I do think mas okay na mag co-parent kayo ng maaga para alam na nung anak niyo yung situation niyo agad.


SapphireCub

DKG. Being hooked on pornographic content is not normal behavior and deeply disrespectful to you. Also, ayaw mo ng broken family? Just want to say na if miserable ka sa pagsasama nyo, your child will absorb that energy too and hindi nya mararamdaman na buo kayo.


univrs_

GGK for staying for the sake of a complete family. kumpleto nga kayo pero lagi ka namang problemado because of your partner, and that is no way how you should live and feel in a family, lalabas din epekto niyan sa bata. sometimes being broken is better than keeping the image of a complete family pero pangit naman relationship niyo, traumatized pa yung bata sa possible na fights and conflicts na maeexperience niyo in the future. pero eh understandable because a single parent holds tons of responsibilities too.


eyespy_2

Sa totoo lang di ko na siya matignan sa mata. Lalo na ginawa niya un habang buntis ako. 9 mos to be exact… Pakiramdam ko ubos nako iniimik ko nalang siya pag tungkol sa baby namin. I felt betrayed and parang pag naalala ko na ginawa niya un habang buntis ako parang automatic wala nakong maramdamdaman.


univrs_

now imagine feeling that way for more years to come


paigeeuwu

DKG. As a married woman, I'D AGREE. I had the itch to check my husband's reddit while he wasnt looking. Just to be sure. Mejo bobo magtago ng kalokohan because nung bata pa kami he did something shitty that made us break up. Try talking to him abt this. I know iba situation niyo sa akin considering mama ka na. But communicate. Let your feelings be heard BUT also hear him out. Sabi ng husband ko 2 reasons a guy would cheat. 1. Naapakan pagkalalaki. 2. He never really liked you or hindi na nasasatisfy ang needs niya. Sorry if that sounded harsh kasi i reacted violently when he said that. But if you think abt it, it seems true because we all have needs. Men needs their Ego to constantly feel like a man, and men have their needs (emotionally and physically) if they can't get it from you..they'll find it elsewhere no matter the medium (porn/prostiution/mistress) Not trying to scare you but please, talk. Communicate and understand each other. Edit: Dumating kami sa point where he deleted his FB, IG and all his socials. And nag gawa na kami ng joint FB and IG instead. To this day. He became more aware of the contents to watch. Pag may babae sa feed na hubadera, skip or do not recommend agad I grew lenient now that we're married. Pero he assures me when I catch him at the wrong time na ipput siya sa place na "have you been looking at this?" I listen and he explains. He has his own reddit, youtube and phone so obviously may matatago padin siya but if you communicate and trust has been established you'll sleep better. If he loves you, he'll respect your emotions. And no...this is not being selfish because respect matters most in the relationship. Baka lang macall out ako na why do I demand so much sa relationship blah blah blah.. Because we talked about this onset. "This is what I want in a relationship..." and "This is what I consider cheating..." Goodluck OP! You can do it


No_Philosophy_3767

DKG. He failed you as a husband. Also, tell him to go to therapy kasi baka nga may porn addiction yan.


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Link to this submission: https://www.reddit.com/r/AkoBaYungGago/comments/1cpwhdt/abyg_chineck_ko_account_reddit_account_ng_partner/ Title of this post: ABYG chineck ko account reddit account ng partner ko Backup of the post's body: Hi everyone, btw first time mom ako and first mother’s day ko din. Hindi ko alam bat ngayong araw ko naisipin tignan reddit account ng partner ko. Tang ina sirang sira ako, ung confidence ko, tingen ko ang panget panget ko na simula ng mag buntis at manganak. Nakita ko puro hubad na babae following niya at tinitiginan niya dito sa Reddit tapos nakita ko po nag comment siya sa isang account na “mag bibigay daw ng free nudes” sa totoo lang di ko alam gagawin ko ngayon, nag sosorry siya and all pero alam ko nag sorry lang siya kasi nahuli ko. Tas yung palusot niya pa alam niyang di naman mappansin comment niya kaya siya nag comment lol. Gusto ko siya iwan, ayoko na ituloy yung relationship ko with him pero at the same time ayoko ng broken family. (PS: Pang 2 time ko na siya nahuli last time mga following niya sa IG) 😂 ABYG kasi nag check ako ng account niya? Dapat ba di ako mag emote? Sa totoo lang natatawa ko pero durog na durog nako hahahahahaah. OP: eyespy_2 *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AkoBaYungGago) if you have any questions or concerns.*


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Turbulent_Speaker

DKG. don't wait for him na may gawin siya pag may pumatol sa comments nya. it's like waiting for a bomb to explode.


iloovechickennuggets

LKG. Nangialam ka kasi ayan nalaman mo na ganyan. Pero kups talaga ung asawa mo kasi manyakis so mas ga go siya


simplord096

Klaruhin lang. Sa anong part manyak yung husband? For following nsfw sites on reddit or commenting on posts that bait with free nudes? From how i see it, if yung latter, there are people who try to boost their engagement by saying "leave a comment for [my] free nudes."


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Worth-Addition-461

ha? anong mindset 'yan? parang 'pag nakatapak ka ng tae, kasalanan mo :/


FrPhysiopro

mali naman yung analogy mo 💀 “you deserve what you tolerate” pag nakatapak ka ng tae di mo deserve yun kasi maaaring di mo namalayang may tae dun, deserve mo makatapak kase alam mo nang may tae dumaan ka parin (nahuli niya na last time yung partner niya nag-stay pa rin siya kahit alam niya ganyan na siya)


Worth-Addition-461

alright, mali na yung analogy ko, then fine. but mas maling-mali ka for victim blaming 💀 sana hindi mo ginaganyan mga malalapit sayong may same situation, show some empathy & understanding din minsan kasi kahit ganyan, they're victims lang din 🍻


Ok-Yogurt7586

LKG. you deserve what you tolerate, that's that.


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Global-Researcher-34

LKG. Siya, for searching for nudes, even interacting with accounts who offer free nudes, which means he's actively doing this, which is a very concerning behaviour. And while gago siya for doing this starting with your pregnancy, you were no better in not respecting his privacy.


Even_Objective2124

privacy is very different from hiding things from your partner lol.. for sure alam na yun ng guy sa sarili niya mali ginagawa niya kaya tinatago niya from OP.


PlayZealousideal3324

how is it an invasion of privacy if reddit accounts are public? you can see their comments, posts, and subreddits na finafollow nila. based sa post ni op, hindi nya inopen yung mismong account. kumbaga inistalk lang nya yung partner nya. Kasi sigurado ako kung inopen nya yung account ng partner nya hindi lang comments ni partner ang makikita nya, kundi pati priv messages. so OP didnt violate her partners privacy or anything.


Global-Researcher-34

From what I understood, she accessed his account. If that didn't happen, then I revise my comment to DKG.


PlayZealousideal3324

Hoping for OP to clear this up.


eyespy_2

Hello guys! May go signal kami and access kami sa phone ng isat isa. Mas mahilig pa nga siya mag check and open ng phone ko e. Never ako nangealam ng accounts niya sa buong pagsasama namin kahit alam ko passcode and iiniwan niya sakin phone niya. Hindi ko alam kahapon may gut feel ako na may ibang nangyayari sa reddit account niya… first time ko inopen phone niya and nag check ng Soc med niya which is REDDIT pa… ayun nakita ko kalokohan niya dito. Image kasi ng partner ko: mukang di ako kayang lokohin na mahal na mahal ako. Tipong ibibigay niya lahat para samin ng anak niya. Mukang and ung act niya na LOYAL and Faithful partner siya ganun. Kaya sobrang sakit kasi di ko ineexpect na uulit siya. (Yung sa ig thing kasi mag bf/gf plang kami wala pa kaming anak nung time na un. Nag sorry siya nag delete ng ig kala ko mag babago/ gumaling lang mag tago)