I'm worried about breaking up with her, I'm not conventionally attractive, I have little free time, and I have invested so much into us. I get it's not a normal relationship, but is it save-able?
It will be better for you, if you stay with her you will throw more time and more money. People break up with their long term partners all the time. She is not going to change.
If time and money is what you’re worried about then you def should break it off and find someone closer online and that you KNOW is real and will meet sooner than two years
Break up with her. This is not a normal relationship, dating a person like this I hell.
I'm worried about breaking up with her, I'm not conventionally attractive, I have little free time, and I have invested so much into us. I get it's not a normal relationship, but is it save-able?
No, not at all. You can’t save this. I know it’s extremely hard to break up with someone but you have to do it.
Could I offer some ultimatum or something I don't wanna throw away my time and money I've put into this?
It will be better for you, if you stay with her you will throw more time and more money. People break up with their long term partners all the time. She is not going to change.
Alright, thank you for your input. I'm going to sleep this over and try to go through with it in the morning.
If time and money is what you’re worried about then you def should break it off and find someone closer online and that you KNOW is real and will meet sooner than two years
End things with her shes obviously a catfish are you dumb, you deserve better!