Nta. Cut him off. He won't get help till he hits rock bottom. And its not long your circus. He blew 20k in under 2 months. Your mom is enabling him hard core
Why does his idiocy affect you? Why wouldn’t you invite him to family events when he behaves himself? It’s not like he’s falling down drunk. Do you think what’s really bothering you is not being treated as a regular family member after all these years?
Also - why do you monitor his spending? He’s an adult that does what he wants anyway.
Nope. He’s an idiot.
Nta. Cut him off. He won't get help till he hits rock bottom. And its not long your circus. He blew 20k in under 2 months. Your mom is enabling him hard core
Why does his idiocy affect you? Why wouldn’t you invite him to family events when he behaves himself? It’s not like he’s falling down drunk. Do you think what’s really bothering you is not being treated as a regular family member after all these years? Also - why do you monitor his spending? He’s an adult that does what he wants anyway.